Iheanacho as a winger is bizarre. Why play two inverted wingers when you are starting a cross-and-nod striker? Who will feed in the crosses? Probably the wingbacks.
I just tire.
Onuachu, a cross 'n' nod striker? At least if you go tire, know wetin you de talk first. Haba!
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Some of you are so ignorant yet you have the worst bad mouth with which to insult and attack other.
Bode George supporter of which government? Even a child of 6, if she/he can read, should know George is one of Tinubu's worst enemies who has called him unprintable names a gazillion times.
If not that many Nigerians are today like terrorists, who want to intolerantly terrorise and cower others with their views, what is wrong with George asking Nigerians to give Tinubu one more year, two in total, given the rot any intelligent, well-read, fair and progressive Nigerian knows BAT met on ground?
No fan of Bode George but he has my respect as he does what most Nigerians are incapable of. I.e look beyond very personal and toxic hatred of others to see and be guided by the bigger picture which, in this case, is progress for Nigeria.
George shows he loves Nigeria and wants progress for her more than he hates Tinubu which is more than can be said for most of you irredeemable and ignorant haters who think your pretence of wanting good governance hides your toxic and likely ethno-religious hatred of others.
Just open mouth to talk ignorant rubbish always and totally without shame.
Where do you base your point with a government completely inversed to progress and welfare of the citizens, with a clear display of leadership incompetency, and quack policies
I wish you could get better from myopia
And repent from lending morale to a quagmire government
kedeojo: So you mean for ten years now, that guy has been wailing. too bad of him. My problem with many of them is that, they don't accept constrictive criticism. They want you to always support their opinions even if is wrong. I don't see why does who rain causes on Obi as governor, will suddenly support him for higher office. Many of this people are something else. Many of us condemned Wike style of governance back then as governor, because of his bullyish nature and talk to much, but igbos were so happy with him and anytime he attack Buhari and Apc either with truth or lies something, the igbos always feel happy but some of us know that Wike was positioning itself for president. The only anger they have against him now is that he didn't support Obi for president. They don't see any good in him again. The likes of Reno Omokri, Fani kayode use to be their favorite. They hated Obaseki last year when he try to discredit labour party and he even place an order not to allow any vehicle with labour logo or sticker in government house but now they are in love with him, just because they know labour stand no chance in the September election. They keep playing emotional politics.
Imagine for how long and they are many like that on this forum.
How they have been able to maintain their sanity with all these years of nagging and wailing is something I can't just comprehend
You are the person with heavy inferiority complex.
You are being shown the reasons WHY we do not “talk about how senseless we are in the operation of things and learn from those that have got it right..”.
It’s because we don’t really know who we are.
To know who you are, you need to know your African history, from birth.
The Chinese, Japanese, Europeans, Arabs, and to some degree Indians, know and teach their history going back thousands of years.
THEIR LEADERS ESPECIALLY KNOW, and operate based on that knowledge.
In China today, kids are raised from age 3 in Confucianist principles, after the legendary ancient black Chinese philosopher Confucius.
In Japan, they practice Nihonjinron, ie ‘Japanese Values’.
They practice Shintoism in Japan.
Shintoism is a Japanese version of EDO religion, exported there by the ancient Edo people.
They have over 200,000 public SHRINES in Japan, many of them built and maintained by the government.
When a Japanese man buys a new car, he takes it to a shrine for the traditional priest to sprinkle spiritual water on the car.
Europeans love to air movies on, and talk about the Romans and the Greeks and the Vikings.
Africans?
EMPTINESS.
Historical illiterates brainwashed by colonialists to hate and shun their own heritage and history, JUST AS YOU ARE DOING HERE.
What do you know that is unknown to all these other countries who value and evoke their history, and base their present on the past in terms of how they relate to the world?
They are solid because they are not simple minded like you, seeing things only through the prism of the present, but instead on the PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE.
They now have a picture in their minds of WHO THEY ARE on this Earth.
If you do not have that knowledge percolating AT THE VERY LEAST among the leaders of your country, you will always have big problems.
For starters you will be taken advantage of by other powers who know you better than you know yourself.
Because they actually study HISTORY. Theirs and yours, and know your strengths, weaknesses, and propensities.
Plus the deep knowledge of our magnificent African history of leadership and innovation on this earth will curb tendencies like corruption, as leaders begin to feel more psychologically invested in the African Journey.
The oldest adage known to man is “Know Thyself”.
Lol. Same thing with the lady! 😂😂😂
I’ll ask you just one simple question.
Why is all that rich history not reflecting in our societies today? Did all our scholars and inventors die out?
You mentioned some nations with rich history like Japan; you can see the implications of their rich history in thieir society today.
Where is the evidence of our rich history in today’s world?!
loveoris: Is it such a bad idea though? I mean, to actually want separate bedrooms from your husband? Maybe his room bigger, the Master bedroom to accommodate both parties but another smaller separate room for wifey....just saying.
An intending couple got into a heated argument just a few weeks before their wedding when during a conversation the wife stated that she wanted her own bedroom. The man didn't take it to heart at first assuming she was joking, but soon enough realized the pretty lady wasn't joking at all. She meant every word of it. This ensued in a huge argument that dragged on for days. Members of the family and friends even got involved at some point. I remember my dad calling to ask me how I felt about the whole situation, my answer was pretty much simple- Give the young lady what she wants.
Hear me out!!!
Firstly, the space is not an issue, its not like they need to go buy or rent another house to accommodate this arrangement. They own a house of their own that has enough rooms that nobody uses. Secondly, her reasons are very valid, which probably would be my reasons too. We don't always want to talk, be cuddled or argue, sometimes we just need our space to think clearly and enjoy the solitude. She went ahead to say she doesn't like herself during her menstrual phase so she stays away from everyone, doesn't go to work, she is just indoor writhing in pain and consoling herself. She would like to continue with that without having to bother or lash out at her husband simply because she is in pain. She made him understand that he is only fighting it because he has been conditioned traditionally that they must have the same room. However, if he is been truthful to himself he would realize that alone times can't be bought with money, doesn't mean they don't love each other anymore, it just means there is a need for recharge.
Her other reason was she wouldn't want her siblings or very close friends to ever have a reason to step into their matrimonial bedroom, which is the husband's room. Her last reason, very valid too, is that she is quite a clumsy person, she looks for one outfit for the day and the whole place is upside down, her husband however is very neat freak and loves everything exactly how they should be. She said she wants to have her freedom and be able to have her things in a separate room, that way her mess is out of his face.
I personally think its a great idea for a woman to have a separate room that is hers, she can decorate it to her taste, have her me times, like her own closet. Even though most of the night I will be in my husband's room cuddled up, cos what is sleep without my man. But I'd love to know the option is there for me when I need to be alone for whatever reason. Moreso, the room is not going to be out of bound to my husband, he can always come in whenever he wants, the bed will be big enough for two, just incase the HS ministers to us right there....lol
All her reasons are smelling. There is a or some valid reasons she hasn't said. Marriage is simply not meant for her type. If the guy can't condone her type, it's better he calls the relationship a day at that point for his sanity and mental health.
loveoris: Is it such a bad idea though? I mean, to actually want separate bedrooms from your husband? Maybe his room bigger, the Master bedroom to accommodate both parties but another smaller separate room for wifey....just saying.
An intending couple got into a heated argument just a few weeks before their wedding when during a conversation the wife stated that she wanted her own bedroom. The man didn't take it to heart at first assuming she was joking, but soon enough realized the pretty lady wasn't joking at all. She meant every word of it. This ensued in a huge argument that dragged on for days. Members of the family and friends even got involved at some point. I remember my dad calling to ask me how I felt about the whole situation, my answer was pretty much simple- Give the young lady what she wants.
Hear me out!!!
Firstly, the space is not an issue, its not like they need to go buy or rent another house to accommodate this arrangement. They own a house of their own that has enough rooms that nobody uses. Secondly, her reasons are very valid, which probably would be my reasons too. We don't always want to talk, be cuddled or argue, sometimes we just need our space to think clearly and enjoy the solitude. She went ahead to say she doesn't like herself during her menstrual phase so she stays away from everyone, doesn't go to work, she is just indoor writhing in pain and consoling herself. She would like to continue with that without having to bother or lash out at her husband simply because she is in pain. She made him understand that he is only fighting it because he has been conditioned traditionally that they must have the same room. However, if he is been truthful to himself he would realize that alone times can't be bought with money, doesn't mean they don't love each other anymore, it just means there is a need for recharge.
Her other reason was she wouldn't want her siblings or very close friends to ever have a reason to step into their matrimonial bedroom, which is the husband's room. Her last reason, very valid too, is that she is quite a clumsy person, she looks for one outfit for the day and the whole place is upside down, her husband however is very neat freak and loves everything exactly how they should be. She said she wants to have her freedom and be able to have her things in a separate room, that way her mess is out of his face.
I personally think its a great idea for a woman to have a separate room that is hers, she can decorate it to her taste, have her me times, like her own closet. Even though most of the night I will be in my husband's room cuddled up, cos what is sleep without my man. But I'd love to know the option is there for me when I need to be alone for whatever reason. Moreso, the room is not going to be out of bound to my husband, he can always come in whenever he wants, the bed will be big enough for two, just incase the HS ministers to us right there....lol
Spot on my dear. Separate bedrooms is the way to go.
criuze: You didn't give any criteria of your analysis
One thing about people supporting this current administration is that they are sympathetic to emptiness and concluding at saying nothing
Economising the truth and petting a leadership mediocrity
Some of you are so ignorant yet you have the worst bad mouth with which to insult and attack other.
Bode George supporter of which government? Even a child of 6, if she/he can read, should know George is one of Tinubu's worst enemies who has called him unprintable names a gazillion times.
If not that many Nigerians are today like terrorists, who want to intolerantly terrorise and cower others with their views, what is wrong with George asking Nigerians to give Tinubu one more year, two in total, given the rot any intelligent, well-read, fair and progressive Nigerian knows BAT met on ground?
No fan of Bode George but he has my respect as he does what most Nigerians are incapable of. I.e look beyond very personal and toxic hatred of others to see and be guided by the bigger picture which, in this case, is progress for Nigeria.
George shows he loves Nigeria and wants progress for her more than he hates Tinubu which is more than can be said for most of you irredeemable and ignorant haters who think your pretence of wanting good governance hides your toxic and likely ethno-religious hatred of others.
Just open mouth to talk ignorant rubbish always and totally without shame.
I still remember when I first became active on this forum back in 2014, you were amongst those who attacked me for supporting GEJ's government, the attack was even coordinated.
How many years gone down the lane now, yet you are still consumed with that habit of attacking others unnecessarily. That's inside this beautiful life oo
You couldn't even dispute what I wrote but instead attack as usual
Too poor too bad
So you mean for ten years now, that guy has been wailing. too bad of him. My problem with many of them is that, they don't accept constrictive criticism. They want you to always support their opinions even if is wrong. I don't see why does who rain causes on Obi as governor, will suddenly support him for higher office. Many of this people are something else. Many of us condemned Wike style of governance back then as governor, because of his bullyish nature and talk to much, but igbos were so happy with him and anytime he attack Buhari and Apc either with truth or lies something, the igbos always feel happy but some of us know that Wike was positioning itself for president. The only anger they have against him now is that he didn't support Obi for president. They don't see any good in him again. The likes of Reno Omokri, Fani kayode use to be their favorite. They hated Obaseki last year when he try to discredit labour party and he even place an order not to allow any vehicle with labour logo or sticker in government house but now they are in love with him, just because they know labour stand no chance in the September election. They keep playing emotional politics.
A situation where the husband and wife share different rooms weakens the bond btw couples. It can result in cheating, reduction in love making, drifting apart etc.
I've been married for over 12yrs and I stay in same bedroom with my wife from day one.
Understanding is your ability to know when your spouse wanna be silent and both maintain your lane in the same bedroom.
loveoris: Is it such a bad idea though? I mean, to actually want separate bedrooms from your husband? Maybe his room bigger, the Master bedroom to accommodate both parties but another smaller separate room for wifey....just saying.
An intending couple got into a heated argument just a few weeks before their wedding when during a conversation the wife stated that she wanted her own bedroom. The man didn't take it to heart at first assuming she was joking, but soon enough realized the pretty lady wasn't joking at all. She meant every word of it. This ensued in a huge argument that dragged on for days. Members of the family and friends even got involved at some point. I remember my dad calling to ask me how I felt about the whole situation, my answer was pretty much simple- Give the young lady what she wants.
Hear me out!!!
Firstly, the space is not an issue, its not like they need to go buy or rent another house to accommodate this arrangement. They own a house of their own that has enough rooms that nobody uses. Secondly, her reasons are very valid, which probably would be my reasons too. We don't always want to talk, be cuddled or argue, sometimes we just need our space to think clearly and enjoy the solitude. She went ahead to say she doesn't like herself during her menstrual phase so she stays away from everyone, doesn't go to work, she is just indoor writhing in pain and consoling herself. She would like to continue with that without having to bother or lash out at her husband simply because she is in pain. She made him understand that he is only fighting it because he has been conditioned traditionally that they must have the same room. However, if he is been truthful to himself he would realize that alone times can't be bought with money, doesn't mean they don't love each other anymore, it just means there is a need for recharge.
Her other reason was she wouldn't want her siblings or very close friends to ever have a reason to step into their matrimonial bedroom, which is the husband's room. Her last reason, very valid too, is that she is quite a clumsy person, she looks for one outfit for the day and the whole place is upside down, her husband however is very neat freak and loves everything exactly how they should be. She said she wants to have her freedom and be able to have her things in a separate room, that way her mess is out of his face.
I personally think its a great idea for a woman to have a separate room that is hers, she can decorate it to her taste, have her me times, like her own closet. Even though most of the night I will be in my husband's room cuddled up, cos what is sleep without my man. But I'd love to know the option is there for me when I need to be alone for whatever reason. Moreso, the room is not going to be out of bound to my husband, he can always come in whenever he wants, the bed will be big enough for two, just incase the HS ministers to us right there....lol
The guy is giving you reasons WHY we do not “talk about how senseless we are in the operation of things and learn from those that have got it right..”.
He is saying it’s because we don’t really know who we are.
To know you are, you need to know your history, from birth.
The Chinese, Japanese, Europeans, Arabs, and to some degree Indians, know their history going back thousands of years.
THEIR LEADERS ESPECIALLY KNOW.
In China today, kids are raised from age 3 in Confucianist principles, after the legendary ancient black Chinese philosopher Confucius.
In Japan, they practice Nihonjinron, ie ‘Japanese Values’.
They practice Shintoism in Japan.
Shintoism is a Japanese version of EDO religion, exported there by the ancient Edo people.
They have over 200,000 public SHRINES in Japan.
When a Japanese man buys a new car, he takes it to a shrine for the traditional priest to sprinkle spiritual water on the car.
Europeans love to air movies on, and talk about the Romans and the Greeks and the Vikings.
Africans?
EMPTINESS.
Historical illiterates brainwashed by colonialists to hate and shun their own heritage and history, JUST AS YOU ARE DOING HERE.
What do you know that all these other countries who value and evoke their history, and base their present on the past in terms of how they relate to the world?
They are solid because they are not simple minded like you, seeing things only through the prism of the present, but of the PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE.
They now have a picture in their minds of WHO THEY ARE on this Earth.
If you do not have that knowledge percolating AT THE VERY LEAST among the leaders of your country, you will always have big problems.
For starters you will be taken advantage of by other powers who know you better than you know yourself.
Because they actually study HISTORY. Theirs and yours, and know your strengths and weaknesses.
Plus the deep knowledge of our history of leadership and innovation on this earth will curb tendencies like corruption, as leaders begin to feel more psychologically invested in the African Journey.
When a person buys something they don’t need; we would say they are most likely trying to compensate for something.
This your write up is pointless. It only has a point to one that’s trying to convince themselves of something other than what is on ground.
You, within yourself, you look around your society and environments ; then you take the same look to the nation of the whites. You begin to ask yourself why aren’t our societies like theirs, why do we treat ourselves the way we do?!
You know the answer; that answer is what made you write all that to justify why our society is like this. Just like that person that buys what they don’t need to compensate for some flaw; you wrote all that to justify the backwardness of our race. It all just screams inferiority complex!
Folks like you always talk about what our forefathers did and how the whites traveled to come learn from us. That’s great!
The question however is, where is all that knowledge now and why are our societies centuries behind theirs? Is it that our linage of inventors or scholars died out? Or did the white wipe our memories after we taught them?
Rather than talk about how we should sit down and tell ourselves the truth about how senseless we are in the operation of things and learn from those that have got it right; we’ll rather sit down and blame, moan, wail and wait for another to solve the problems we caused for ourselves.
You are the person with heavy inferiority complex.
You are being shown the reasons WHY we do not “talk about how senseless we are in the operation of things and learn from those that have got it right..”.
It’s because we don’t really know who we are.
To know who you are, you need to know your African history, from birth.
The Chinese, Japanese, Europeans, Arabs, and to some degree Indians, know and teach their history going back thousands of years.
THEIR LEADERS ESPECIALLY KNOW, and operate based on that knowledge.
In China today, kids are raised from age 3 in Confucianist principles, after the legendary ancient black Chinese philosopher Confucius.
In Japan, they practice Nihonjinron, ie ‘Japanese Values’.
They practice Shintoism in Japan.
Shintoism is a Japanese version of EDO religion, exported there by the ancient Edo people.
They have over 200,000 public SHRINES in Japan, many of them built and maintained by the government.
When a Japanese man buys a new car, he takes it to a shrine for the traditional priest to sprinkle spiritual water on the car.
Europeans love to air movies on, and talk about the Romans and the Greeks and the Vikings.
Africans?
EMPTINESS.
Historical illiterates brainwashed by colonialists to hate and shun their own heritage and history, JUST AS YOU ARE DOING HERE.
What do you know that is unknown to all these other countries who value and evoke their history, and base their present on the past in terms of how they relate to the world?
They are solid because they are not simple minded like you, seeing things only through the prism of the present, but instead on the PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE.
They now have a picture in their minds of WHO THEY ARE on this Earth.
If you do not have that knowledge percolating AT THE VERY LEAST among the leaders of your country, you will always have big problems.
For starters you will be taken advantage of by other powers who know you better than you know yourself.
Because they actually study HISTORY. Theirs and yours, and know your strengths, weaknesses, and propensities.
Plus the deep knowledge of our magnificent African history of leadership and innovation on this earth will curb tendencies like corruption, as leaders begin to feel more psychologically invested in the African Journey.
Stand up to your oppressors! Leave all this talk. I’m genuinely bored. I had my fun.
Enjoy your life of oppression and in extension; coon festival while I enjoy my whitewashed life.
Lol. Coon festival!! What a joke!
Dude, Stand up to your own oppressors, and heed your own advice, instead of japarring to every country looking for a life your own govt can't offer. stand up to your govt and demand a better life instead of drowning in capsizing of boats searching for a better life elsewhere! You have the second biggest economy in Africa but have the worst of everything...courtesy of your government. This is the definition of oppression
Again, black South Africans don't do coon festivals try another angle
Lol, this one is telling me to stand up to my oppressors, trying to sound all "profound" Why don't you heed your own advice and stand up to your kleptocratic government that's making you leave like paupers despite being an oil Giant? let's start there
And talking about white worship because it's literally what you Nigerians do,, you're the most whitewashed Africans in existence..
Stand up to your oppressors! Leave all this talk. I’m genuinely bored. I had my fun.
Enjoy your life of oppression and in extension; coon festival while I enjoy my whitewashed life.
It always starts with a small portion. And yeah, tell yourself it’s a non issue when there are banners on the streets. It’s fine
And don’t be silly. Independence isn’t given; it’s gained.
I wouldn’t expect one whose nation didn’t have the courage to fight for theirs to understand that basic concept. It’s not given; it’s taken!
Up until how many decades here; apartheid was still a thing in your nation and you talk about white worshipping?!
Stand up to your oppressors then you can join the conversation.
Until then, you can call names and yell coon all over the place.. it changes nothing because you’ll go out and still be treated like a second class citizen in your own nation by your colonizers till this day and even more; celebrate coon festival to relish the apartheid and horrible history
Lol, this one is telling me to stand up to my oppressors, trying to sound all "profound" Why don't you heed your own advice and stand up to your kleptocratic government that's making you leave like paupers despite being an oil Giant? let's start there
And talking about white worship because it's literally what you Nigerians do,, you're the most whitewashed Africans in existence..
loveoris: Is it such a bad idea though? I mean, to actually want separate bedrooms from your husband? Maybe his room bigger, the Master bedroom to accommodate both parties but another smaller separate room for wifey....just saying.
An intending couple got into a heated argument just a few weeks before their wedding when during a conversation the wife stated that she wanted her own bedroom. The man didn't take it to heart at first assuming she was joking, but soon enough realized the pretty lady wasn't joking at all. She meant every word of it. This ensued in a huge argument that dragged on for days. Members of the family and friends even got involved at some point. I remember my dad calling to ask me how I felt about the whole situation, my answer was pretty much simple- Give the young lady what she wants.
Hear me out!!!
Firstly, the space is not an issue, its not like they need to go buy or rent another house to accommodate this arrangement. They own a house of their own that has enough rooms that nobody uses. Secondly, her reasons are very valid, which probably would be my reasons too. We don't always want to talk, be cuddled or argue, sometimes we just need our space to think clearly and enjoy the solitude. She went ahead to say she doesn't like herself during her menstrual phase so she stays away from everyone, doesn't go to work, she is just indoor writhing in pain and consoling herself. She would like to continue with that without having to bother or lash out at her husband simply because she is in pain. She made him understand that he is only fighting it because he has been conditioned traditionally that they must have the same room. However, if he is been truthful to himself he would realize that alone times can't be bought with money, doesn't mean they don't love each other anymore, it just means there is a need for recharge.
Her other reason was she wouldn't want her siblings or very close friends to ever have a reason to step into their matrimonial bedroom, which is the husband's room. Her last reason, very valid too, is that she is quite a clumsy person, she looks for one outfit for the day and the whole place is upside down, her husband however is very neat freak and loves everything exactly how they should be. She said she wants to have her freedom and be able to have her things in a separate room, that way her mess is out of his face.
I personally think its a great idea for a woman to have a separate room that is hers, she can decorate it to her taste, have her me times, like her own closet. Even though most of the night I will be in my husband's room cuddled up, cos what is sleep without my man. But I'd love to know the option is there for me when I need to be alone for whatever reason. Moreso, the room is not going to be out of bound to my husband, he can always come in whenever he wants, the bed will be big enough for two, just incase the HS ministers to us right there....lol
Sincerely, we are almost the same. How I wish you can give me her number and let me marry her. Incase her husband doesn't like her, pls hint me.
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