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Romance / Re: Let's Talk About Rape by IamPlato(m): 8:27pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
BOSSkesh:I will still talk about those ladies |
Romance / Re: Let's Talk About Rape by BOSSkesh(m): 7:41pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
It’s not something peculiar to just women alone For men the stigma and trauma is worse because you could open up to your friend or close buddy and the reply you’ll get is “sharp guy” “senior man” “swear say you no enjoy am” making him bottle everything up inside of him My own pressing question is what happens to the ladies who cry out false rape accusations knowing full well that they’ll destroy your image? as is the case of Benjamin mendy and mason greenwood 1 Like |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by larride(m): 4:47pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
seankafor: Just like this Mendy case. Babe that was caught on video having consensual sex accuse him of rape. It was the first case the court throw out. How many people who they accuse of rape have video evidence to exonerate themselves? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by raumdeuter: 4:38pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
seankafor: Like Fatoyinbo wey use scope nack Busola multiple times and she wan turn am to rape Busola probably had a crush on him but after many years the guy no leave his wife for Busola, she turned it into rape |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by seankafor(m): 4:27pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
larride:what of the pastors that do gets countless of these rape accusations? You'd see a girl that has slept with a man for up to 5 times non stop.. when shit goes out of hand , shed start coming out with false rape accusations and everyone will be towing on same lane like zombies |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Emaprince: 4:22pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
larride: Like I said...the women claiming to be feminists today, check them all. They have a behavioral pattern. Very bitter. The movement now is geared towards taking power away from men..and emasculate them They want a world where a wife will get humped by another man, and the hubby will understand her reasons for doing that and tries to make it work. Like you said : It's easy to trivialize these false accusations until it hits home. 5 Likes 1 Share |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by donjazzet: 3:50pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
larride: Your last statement is indeed true but like I said earlier, the prevalence of both issues are very wide in disparity. One offense does not cancel out the other. The percentage of women who "falsely accuse" men of rape is farrr less than the percentage of men who actually do rape and then physically assault women.. And furthermore, this issue of "false rape accusation" is a bye product of laws that were made to indeed protect women who were factually being disadvantaged in the society. I would then point out that these laws are not even a thing in the vast majority of countries. So women are still heavily disadvantaged. They're still on the short end of the stick. What we should do is call for stronger rules that both protects women and then punish the few who misuse that privilege. 3 Likes |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by larride(m): 3:40pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Anyone who was on Twitter during 2020/2021 known the extent this toxic Naija feminist can go to ruin someone live with false rape accusation. Almost everyday, there were different rape allegations against men on Twitter then (majority of the accusations were false), you must believe the victim irrespective of how ridiculous the story was or you will be tagged a rape apologist. They even created a list like that where they kept adding names of men they term rape apologist. It wasn't until a particular guy committed suicide from the false accusation because nobody was even ready to listen to him that men like Odanz, Jack and the likes started pushing back. Dr Olufunmilayo that was the chief male feminists apologist and always the first to shout rapist whenever any story broke was then sensationally accused of rape, he spent almost a year trying to clear his name even taking his accuser to court. He has left Twitter for more than a year now. When they accused the brother of one of the feminist of rape, we started seeing a lot of defense from the feminist for her brother and bla bla bla. rape is a serious offense and anybody that rape should have his manhood castrated and rot in jail but let's not downplay the fact that lady has been ruining alot of guys life with false accusation of rape because they will always get away with it. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by ChristineC: 9:19pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Ballzproblem2:people just like to appear all woke and spotless because it has become fashionable. this hypocritical toga must have been cut from some fine linen off the coast of Belgium. nobody really cares about detail, court proceedings or even judgements but cancel, cancel, cancel. I guess it makes people feel like superior beings. the same group will not care if this young man hangs or picks up. for them, another one bites the dust. I pity women throwing accusations the most because it's looking like power play or flex. meeting someone famous or rich shouldn't be a trigger to show off witchcraft. people don't understand some ladies do this out of trivial things like jealousy, and it's happening among married people too. In the end, it will benefit nobody. people might have a real case and it could be dismissed or sneered at based on a precedent. some women seem to forget they can have grown up sons someday. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 8:47pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
MJBOLT: Look at his cheeks. He has obviously put on a lot of weight as a result of inactivity. It will take him a whole lot to get back to full fitness. I wish him the best. It won't be easy but he can still do it. Women don't know that these false accusations will do them more harm than good. Their evil will boomerang and it will go wild on them. A time will come when people will hiss and look away when they read/hear stories of rape and the women will only have themselves to blame. It's happening already. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Sports / Opportunists Vs Benjamin Mendy by Efilse: 7:00pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
The situation involving Benjamin Mendy is undoubtedly distressing. It has had a significant negative impact on his career, impeding his progress and causing setbacks that may be difficult to recover from. The implications go beyond mere malice; they are truly detrimental and could be described as calamitous. The four years lost cannot be regained, and the lost endorsement deals only exacerbate the damage. Even a single year out of an athlete's career can have long-term effects. Given these circumstances, it seems reasonable to suggest that false rape accusations should carry penalties commensurate with the severity of the crime falsely accused. This is not meant to diminish the seriousness of actual rape accusations or the importance of supporting and protecting victims. Rather, it is an attempt to address the potential for opportunistic behavior, which, if left unchecked, can lead to the destruction of careers and lives. Offering a simple, insincere apology from the perpetrator is insufficient when they have perpetrated such a grievous act. It is essential to approach this topic with sensitivity and consider the complexities surrounding false accusations. false accusations can harm genuine victims and undermine efforts to address sexual assault. Any changes to the legal system should be carefully considered, ensuring that they strike the right balance between protecting victims and preventing the misuse of accusations. |
Sports / Re: Ex-Man City footballer Benjamin Mendy Found Not Guilty of Rape by Viridis(m): 5:47pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Newnas:That argument is not even valid at all. If it's like that I can accuse anyone of anything, take them to court and cause them damages then go free after they are found innocent. rape is not confusing everyone knows the meaning. So there is no excuse for accusing someone wrongly |
Sports / Re: Ex-Man City footballer Benjamin Mendy Found Not Guilty of Rape by Newnas(m): 4:32pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
bennybuhari:Nothing will happen to them. According to their laws, such women shouldn't be punished because punishing them will prevent others from speaking up. This argument looks valid until you look at the flip side; false rape accusations will be in abundance. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Of Rape?? by labake1(f): 8:19pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
ExudeLoveToAll: #saynotorape #saynotofornication |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Of Rape?? by ExudeLoveToAll: 7:47pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
labake1: Facts abound of false rape accusations, people with this kind of mindset is the reason some go about accusing others falsely because there are plethora of people with your mindset ready to accept hook line and sinker her false accusations. |
Romance / Have You Ever Been Accused Of Rape?? by timiade446(m): 3:49pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
false accusations of rape can cause a person to experience public shame and humiliation even if they are not convicted of a crime in a court of law. Have you ever been accused? How did you prove your innocence Share your story |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Japan Raises Age Of Consent From 13 To 16 by 1Sharon(f): 2:22pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
blaise26abj: How naive you are. There are women that are taken advantage of while being unconscious. There are women that are threatened to co-operate with a weapon. She resists and she looses her life. Watch documentaries, read |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Japan Raises Age Of Consent From 13 To 16 by blaise26abj(m): 1:41pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
I just knew that somewhere LGBTQRST people must feature 😁😁😁. rape is wrong . Personally I think sex without sexual consent must be classified as rape for under 21 . But from 21 , there must be some form of evidence that there was suppression and resistance from the victim . There are a lot of false accusations that lead to innocent men getting incarcerated for crimes they didn’t commit . Or make it an equal term if found that the victim lied . Okay |
Family / Re: Help! I'm A Virgin But She Falsely Accused Me Of Rape by bukatyne(f): 10:40pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
Is it that guys of these days are not trained on being assertive and future leaders or what? A scantily dressed lady comes to your room by 9pm and tries to seduce you. You claim you are not interested and instead of sending her away immediately, you begin to entertain her shenanigans. Do you lack the skills to find a girlfriend for yourself that a girl pushes you to 'state' she is your girlfriend and immediately starts billing you? Are you daft? I feel like putting my hand through my phone and giving you two dirty slaps. A gentleman knows how to remove himself from such positions in a way it sends a message to the girl that he would not tolerate such. It is not even in this age of 'me too' that false rape accusations can ruin your destiny. Others have told you what to do. If you like, sleep on it if your story is true. |
Crime / Re: Mattia Lucarelli, Federico Apolloni Accused In Gang Rape Of American Woman by Angel55555(m): 6:59pm On Jun 05, 2023 |
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Crime / Re: Mattia Lucarelli, Federico Apolloni Accused In Gang Rape Of American Woman by Nobody: 11:42am On Jun 05, 2023 |
Angel55555:how am I a hypocrite? Did I defend false rape accusations? I only pointed at how fast men disprove rape cases if it's a rich man involved. As for victim playing,if a man allegedly rapes you and you cry foul, is that victim game? You men are violent, with uncontrollably sex drive, you hurt women and your fellow men. You know this.fix that first before calling women victim players. But you can chose to ignore because you can't stomach men being called what they are,but it's yourself you are doing not us, you are twice more likely to be a victim of a man violence than myself, so it benefits us all in the long run 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Mattia Lucarelli, Federico Apolloni Accused In Gang Rape Of American Woman by Nobody: 10:58am On Jun 05, 2023 |
advanceDNA:How shameless and depraved can you men be? Tufiakwa! Tell them to stop raping women.is it that hard? Men from all classes of life rape, if they are prosecuted you will not be angry. Your anger is that a man has to pay for his indecency. Do you care about false rape accusations leveled at broke men( because you know no monetary compensation is there). Your morality is fickle 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Mattia Lucarelli, Federico Apolloni Accused In Gang Rape Of American Woman by Pakman: 10:51am On Jun 05, 2023 |
Any woman that falsely accuse me of rape, will never ever bear children and will have very very painful menstruations. The law should also apply to false accusations. If a rapist goes to jail for 10 years, a false accuser should also go to jail for 10 years. 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Rape Accusations by PoliteActivist: 9:43am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Lostchild: The bolded is not true at all. We see the proof everyday. See one below Confessed he has raped 10 children! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mR4XguYo--s |
Crime / Re: Rape Accusations by Lostchild(m): 8:47pm On May 31, 2023 |
Only in Nigeria you will hear, a 37 years old man raped a 4 years old girl. A 50 years old man rape a 7 years old child. All these are false accusations and destructive agenda of the Evil one 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Court Remands Bishop Feyi In Prison For Allegedly Raping 2 Church Members by Mcslize: 7:25am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Monumenterr: Don't always jump into conclusion in cases like these. I sense a big frame up here. Use your head. In this era of false rape accusations, don't be too fast to join the bandwagon to allegedly join others to accuse someone of rape until found guilty. If a man have many enemies, things like these are bound to come up. Framing up and the like just to tarnish the person's image. Common sense is not common. There should be life imprisonment for any false rape accusation for those involve in such wrong accusation, to serve as deterrent to others who may be planning same towards their competitors/rivals, so people will desist from this despicable act. 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Hakimi Achraf Is Not My Hero - Charles Awuzie Says, Slams Reno Omokri by Difrent: 1:29pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
Ashley86400: Could it be because he later found our hiba manipulated him? And used his naivety and young age to try to trap him?...... forget the rape case most such rape against celebrities are false accusations. |
Sports / Re: Achraf Hakimi's Wife Filed For A Divorce, But Found Out He Got No Property by adedayoa2(f): 6:28pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
Billionaire2: Trust Nigerian men who love to kick their wives out without anything happily seeing this as a win. It supports their misogyny. European laws don’t work that way unfortunately, even if it was true as a housewife who put her career aside into building their home with two kids she is still entitled to something. Anne Heche was ordered to pay her ex-husband a lump sum of $275,000, as well as $3,700 a month in child support. Halle Berry pays $16,000/month which is $200,000/year to her ex husband. Actress Anna Faris paid her husband almost $1m a year in spousal support. Janet Jackson paid her ex $15m Britney Spears pays $20,000/month in spousal support. Roseanne Barr paid her ex $50m Madonna paid her ex $96m. Are they not someone's sisters? Doesn’t fit your narrative does it ? After all only women can be gold diggers. Men are angels sent from Mars. They are never after womens money. When time and time again we are being shown men are the most strategic and manipulative gender when it comes to targeting and taking advantage of women with money. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Sports / Re: Fact Check! Did Achraf Hakimi Register His Properties In His Mother's Name? by dawnomike(m): 4:23pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
ElBenny:You made good and salient points 1 Like |
Sports / Fact Check! Did Achraf Hakimi Register His Properties In His Mother's Name? by ElBenny(m): 3:37pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
ACHRAF HAKIMI’S MATTER I have seen countless reports from blogs and individuals on social media about the issue of PSG’s defender, Achraf Hakimi and his wife who have become separated. The wife is about to seek divorce. The viral report is to the effect that the wife filed divorce and has asked that half of the assets of Hakimi be given to her. The report went further to say the court found out that Hakimi has no money or asset to his name. He has placed all his money and assets in his mother’s name. Trust Nigerians, especially men. They have been singing Hakimi’s praises and called the wife, mother of his two children, a gold digger. Well, let me burst some bubbles. The asset sharing story is completely false. The wife has not even filed a divorce in court yet. WHAT DO WE KNOW? 1) Hakimi met his wife in 2018 while he was earning €84,000 per month as a Real Madrid loanee in Borussia Dortmund. 2) Today, Hakimi earns more than €1 million per month playing for PSG so the gold digging accusations do not sit right. 3) Hakimi has a mother who became popular at the last World Cup when Hakimi went to the stands after a game to kiss her on the forehead. 4) Hakimi has assets and does not appear to hide them or keep them with his mother. 5) Hakimi owns a company known as Sashi Ha Investment SL with a listed capital of €3 million. He recently bought a 2 storey rundown building in Getafe, Spain. Only his name is listed on the company’s papers as HAKIMI MOUH ACHRAF. 6) Hakimi has been officially charged with rape of a woman, hence the decision of his wife to leave the marriage. ************************************ Now let us assume that Hakimi has no money or asset in his name. Does it mean the wife’s mission to get half of his assets, if true, will be defeated? The answer is NO! At the end of this week, Hakimi will receive a salary of €280,000 from PSG as he does every week. Hakimi has image rights and sponsorship deals which are personal to him, the proceeds of which he cannot hide away. So, if he has been “donating” his money and properties to his beloved mother, now that the divorce is about to commence, his future earnings goes into the pot. Through process of interrogatories and discoveries, the court will find out every hidden asset. It’s even a crime to hide assets or keep properties through a proxy for the purpose of evading obligations. I’m not saying a court will grant the wife her wish, if eventually she asks for half or a substantial part of his assets. However, if she did not contribute to why a divorce is an option, European courts are sticklers for the welfare of a wife. Usually, wives cash out big time. Remember the case of Emmanuel Eboue? 2 Likes
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Sports / Re: Achraf Hakimi's Wife Filed For A Divorce, But Found Out He Got No Property by Billionaire2: 1:39pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
adedayoa2: Madam, he didn’t rape …. The accuser refused to file charges.. which ring a bell of false accusations…. Make una try Dey reason nah .. Hakimi na someone brother oo . 1 Like 1 Share |
Crime / Re: "I Lost My Virginity Through Rape" – Foluke Daramola by BRATISLAVA: 6:16am On Apr 08, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1 false rape accusation is a big deal, so as much as we shouldnt generalize, we should also understand people who do not believe in these rape accusations because of the female criminals that falsely accused men of rape. its a double edge sword! "Female criminals", but male rapists don't face as much scrutiny as a woman who says she was raped. In fact, they aren't called criminals. It is the victim that faces the court of public opinion when the case is reported. Like what's going on here. there are no two ways to solve the rape issue in Africa... whether the rapist is a rich famous man or a unknown beggar. all the above reasons you stated are genuine but the ultimate goal should be to stop rapes once and for all...and the only way to do so is to swallow your feelings (aka stigma/backlash etc) and DO WHATS RIGHT! The blame of rape doesn't fall on the victim. You should've mentioned reorienting men to stop raping, to stop feeling so entitled and in particular to stop shaming, stop victim blaming in whatever form especially when disguised as harmless advice or apathy. Men expect everyone who comes across it to believe it's a false accusation without any proof, but once a woman is raped they want to see the sex tape and more. if the above is the case then these women should therefore understand/accept the fact that A) RAPIST WILL NEVER BE BROUGHT TO JUSTICE and subsequently B) rape WILL CONTINUE FPREVER AND EVER rape will continue until men are made responsible. From what one sees on this thread, majority of men are rapists and rape apologists. Not because they've been raped, but it's baseless revenge they appear to be having, because a few guys were accused of rape falsely. And, frankly, that is so sentimental it's a shame to see. 1 Like |
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