PeterTinubu:
I don't blame them though.... Put the blame on the SIMPS spoiling these hoes.

An average nigerian woman is an entitled specie....She wants all her need provided 😁

Guys, if you're rich or comfortable please never take a woman serious, they're not worth it....I might sound savage but it's the truth.

Learn to ignore these women....I swear, there's nothing special between the laps of a woman....That hole is overrated....Trust me,sex is sweet but overated.

Make money,get married(optional) and enjoy life.

There's more to enjoy in life than what's in between the thighs of a woman 😅

Well the idea is to enjoy what's in between a woman's thighs without losing your control. Control the pussy, don't let it control you.

VawulenceProMax:
After making so much money, I think it's time to filter the type of pussies I insert my dick into. The type of mouths that lick my balls and suck my dic will also be filtered.
I have made up my mind to only Fuc girls within the age bracket of 19 to 23. If you don't fall in that category, I have nothing doing with you.
Say no to evening news papers.
Any guy wey get correct spec like this to pass to me should let me know

Now is the time for you seek the lord.
Now that you are young.
We really don't have much time.

Devil has so much overated sex.
He is a lier. don't be deceived.

Jesus loves you.

Mrlance15:
I liked her at first, and the relationship was smooth for a while until it's not, I calmly told her on WhatsApp that I don't feel the same anymore that I would like for us to breakup, she acted like she can't read, she kept bringing other issues up and ignoring what I said, but I kept emphasizing, she had an outburst and sent me lots of notes, asking we meet at our favorite place to say goodbyes, I showed up out of the need to be a gentleman, only for her to start saying things and making a scene to guilt trip me into reversing my decision, but I didn't bulge, I told her we broke up, she left me alone for a while and I was so happy only for me to realize she's still stalking me, checking every girl that comments on my post and chatting them up, acting like we're still dating by calling and chatting me up Everytime, visiting me to do wife duties even when I made it clear we're not getting married, I asked her why she's still acting like we're still dating and her reply was "you told me you love me"

Trust me I never use the word love when dating or asking a lady out because I believe I have to feel a certain way about someone to know I love her, and since I was born I haven't fallen in love with any girl so how did I tell her I love her?

I have tried everything in the books, letting her down easy like a gentleman but she's so stubborn it ain't working, and she's chasing other girls away with her freaky possessive and attached behavior, it's like obsession, the type where they decide if I can't have him no one can, and it's scary, comrades I need advice, how do I run away from this lady, I don't have single feelings for her anymore.

Ps. I'm not leaving her Because of sex, girls are fond of saying he used me like it doesn't take two to tango, sex is overated, I'm leaving because I don't want anymore.

Can you private mail me her number, let me tell her something.

Mrlance15:
I created this account for anonymity, I am 26, and I lost my virginity very recently, I stayed a virgin this long because sex wasn't my priority, I was chasing money and education, I had several opportunity but it just doesn't feel right, even when I was in school I do sleep over at my girlfriend's but I never touched her or make a move.

It was alot of pressure then because I was the only Virgin in my clique, when my friends discuss sex I just say stuff I learnt online just to contribute and not feel left out, they all believed i am a pro who have had sex many time, I never told any of them that I am a virgin because they'll mock me, I was so troubled that I vowed to loose my Virginity this year, getting a girl isn't hard for me as I am average looking and doing a little well financially, I have dated girls in the past and I didn't attempt anything sexual with them, one even came to my place one morning, joined me on bed and tempted me till I got an erection but I didn't make a move still, one even left me because I didn't try anything sexual with her, I didn't know it was her reason until she told me five months after we broke up,

Fast forward to when I met the girl I lost my virginity to, we clicked so fast and within a week it became a serious relationship, at first I told her no sex, she pretended like she doesn't want sex too, until one day she came around and we were cuddling and she started touching me, asked me to lay down and she was kissing my nipples and bitting my ear, so I got aroused, lost control, when I tried to take her clothes off she let me, her bra same thing until she was stark naked, so I dived in without protection, it happened so fast and I wasn't even enjoying it, it was way different from what I expected because I have fantasized about sex alot,

After the sex, I became gloomy and filled with regrets and fear, especially when I started having muscle pain the next day with serious tiredness, I thought I have contracted something, so many things going on in my head,

First problem is, why did someone like me who is always careful make such a mistake having sex without protection, I was so scared of STDs but I wasn't thinking when it happened,

Second, she's not a virgin, she is a pro when it comes to sex she was only pretending at first, I felt used, I felt stupid, then I asked her about her period, something I should have done before sex, she said it's fine but I still don't feel relief, I just hurriedly put on my clothes and asked her to leave, she just looked at me with confusion, put on her clothes and left, then she chat me up in the evening, and mentioned the sex, that was when I realized that I suddenly hate her and I hate myself for same reason, I have been avoiding her since then, my only thought so far was, "shey na the sex sex sex people dey hype be this" it's not worth it at all, if you're still a virgin please cherish it and don't loose it until you're married, sex is overated.

Sorry for the long read.

you got to deal with your mindset and free yourself from the beliefs of remaining virgin or hating against sex..

I guess you are a xtain.. feelings like this always happens in most scenario which is not needed all the time.. hating yourself and beating yourself up wishing if you could turn back the hands of time..

you are dealing with anxiety and fear if sex.. you are not forced to do it . But know that the 1st time sex is always like that it truly happened to me , the first time I had sex was when I was 20 years old.. and that day I wasn't able to cum cus it felt strange ..

you might decide not to have sex , but if u do it second and 3rd time that's when you get to know what sex truly is..and it's good sensation

sex is not everything though.. but with the right yansh , pussy, dick and chemistry .. na bomb oh.. you didn't have a chemistry with her and also it was your first time , chillax .

Maybe try letting a gay man fvck your anus. you might enjoy it.

Mrlance15:
I created this account for anonymity, I am 26, and I lost my virginity very recently, I stayed a virgin this long because sex wasn't my priority, I was chasing money and education, I had several opportunity but it just doesn't feel right, even when I was in school I do sleep over at my girlfriend's but I never touched her or make a move.

It was alot of pressure then because I was the only Virgin in my clique, when my friends discuss sex I just say stuff I learnt online just to contribute and not feel left out, they all believed i am a pro who have had sex many time, I never told any of them that I am a virgin because they'll mock me, I was so troubled that I vowed to loose my Virginity this year, getting a girl isn't hard for me as I am average looking and doing a little well financially, I have dated girls in the past and I didn't attempt anything sexual with them, one even came to my place one morning, joined me on bed and tempted me till I got an erection but I didn't make a move still, one even left me because I didn't try anything sexual with her, I didn't know it was her reason until she told me five months after we broke up,

Fast forward to when I met the girl I lost my virginity to, we clicked so fast and within a week it became a serious relationship, at first I told her no sex, she pretended like she doesn't want sex too, until one day she came around and we were cuddling and she started touching me, asked me to lay down and she was kissing my nipples and bitting my ear, so I got aroused, lost control, when I tried to take her clothes off she let me, her bra same thing until she was stark naked, so I dived in without protection, it happened so fast and I wasn't even enjoying it, it was way different from what I expected because I have fantasized about sex alot,

After the sex, I became gloomy and filled with regrets and fear, especially when I started having muscle pain the next day with serious tiredness, I thought I have contracted something, so many things going on in my head,

First problem is, why did someone like me who is always careful make such a mistake having sex without protection, I was so scared of STDs but I wasn't thinking when it happened,

Second, she's not a virgin, she is a pro when it comes to sex she was only pretending at first, I felt used, I felt stupid, then I asked her about her period, something I should have done before sex, she said it's fine but I still don't feel relief, I just hurriedly put on my clothes and asked her to leave, she just looked at me with confusion, put on her clothes and left, then she chat me up in the evening, and mentioned the sex, that was when I realized that I suddenly hate her and I hate myself for same reason, I have been avoiding her since then, my only thought so far was, "shey na the sex sex sex people dey hype be this" it's not worth it at all, if you're still a virgin please cherish it and don't loose it until you're married, sex is overated.

Sorry for the long read.

Mrlance15:
I created this account for anonymity, I am 26, and I lost my virginity very recently, I stayed a virgin this long because sex wasn't my priority, I was chasing money and education, I had several opportunity but it just doesn't feel right, even when I was in school I do sleep over at my girlfriend's but I never touched her or make a move.

It was alot of pressure then because I was the only Virgin in my clique, when my friends discuss sex I just say stuff I learnt online just to contribute and not feel left out, they all believed i am a pro who have had sex many time, I never told any of them that I am a virgin because they'll mock me, I was so troubled that I vowed to loose my Virginity this year, getting a girl isn't hard for me as I am average looking and doing a little well financially, I have dated girls in the past and I didn't attempt anything sexual with them, one even came to my place one morning, joined me on bed and tempted me till I got an erection but I didn't make a move still, one even left me because I didn't try anything sexual with her, I didn't know it was her reason until she told me five months after we broke up,

Fast forward to when I met the girl I lost my virginity to, we clicked so fast and within a week it became a serious relationship, at first I told her no sex, she pretended like she doesn't want sex too, until one day she came around and we were cuddling and she started touching me, asked me to lay down and she was kissing my nipples and bitting my ear, so I got aroused, lost control, when I tried to take her clothes off she let me, her bra same thing until she was stark naked, so I dived in without protection, it happened so fast and I wasn't even enjoying it, it was way different from what I expected because I have fantasized about sex alot,

After the sex, I became gloomy and filled with regrets and fear, especially when I started having muscle pain the next day with serious tiredness, I thought I have contracted something, so many things going on in my head,

First problem is, why did someone like me who is always careful make such a mistake having sex without protection, I was so scared of STDs but I wasn't thinking when it happened,

Second, she's not a virgin, she is a pro when it comes to sex she was only pretending at first, I felt used, I felt stupid, then I asked her about her period, something I should have done before sex, she said it's fine but I still don't feel relief, I just hurriedly put on my clothes and asked her to leave, she just looked at me with confusion, put on her clothes and left, then she chat me up in the evening, and mentioned the sex, that was when I realized that I suddenly hate her and I hate myself for same reason, I have been avoiding her since then, my only thought so far was, "shey na the sex sex sex people dey hype be this" it's not worth it at all, if you're still a virgin please cherish it and don't loose it until you're married, sex is overated.

Sorry for the long read.

egusi is quite delicious.

But it's dependent on the cook.

Obviously with the way you talked, your mindset still need a lot of work before you can start enjoying sex.

I created this account for anonymity, I am 26, and I lost my virginity very recently, I stayed a virgin this long because sex wasn't my priority, I was chasing money and education, I had several opportunity but it just doesn't feel right, even when I was in school I do sleep over at my girlfriend's but I never touched her or make a move.

It was alot of pressure then because I was the only Virgin in my clique, when my friends discuss sex I just say stuff I learnt online just to contribute and not feel left out, they all believed i am a pro who have had sex many time, I never told any of them that I am a virgin because they'll mock me, I was so troubled that I vowed to loose my Virginity this year, getting a girl isn't hard for me as I am average looking and doing a little well financially, I have dated girls in the past and I didn't attempt anything sexual with them, one even came to my place one morning, joined me on bed and tempted me till I got an erection but I didn't make a move still, one even left me because I didn't try anything sexual with her, I didn't know it was her reason until she told me five months after we broke up,

Fast forward to when I met the girl I lost my virginity to, we clicked so fast and within a week it became a serious relationship, at first I told her no sex, she pretended like she doesn't want sex too, until one day she came around and we were cuddling and she started touching me, asked me to lay down and she was kissing my nipples and bitting my ear, so I got aroused, lost control, when I tried to take her clothes off she let me, her bra same thing until she was stark naked, so I dived in without protection, it happened so fast and I wasn't even enjoying it, it was way different from what I expected because I have fantasized about sex alot,

After the sex, I became gloomy and filled with regrets and fear, especially when I started having muscle pain the next day with serious tiredness, I thought I have contracted something, so many things going on in my head,

First problem is, why did someone like me who is always careful make such a mistake having sex without protection, I was so scared of STDs but I wasn't thinking when it happened,

Second, she's not a virgin, she is a pro when it comes to sex she was only pretending at first, I felt used, I felt stupid, then I asked her about her period, something I should have done before sex, she said it's fine but I still don't feel relief, I just hurriedly put on my clothes and asked her to leave, she just looked at me with confusion, put on her clothes and left, then she chat me up in the evening, and mentioned the sex, that was when I realized that I suddenly hate her and I hate myself for same reason, I have been avoiding her since then, my only thought so far was, "shey na the sex sex sex people dey hype be this" it's not worth it at all, if you're still a virgin please cherish it and don't loose it until you're married, sex is overated.

Sorry for the long read.

SuperStriker:


That is what I don't want to do. I don't want to go to another woman but I am suffering...Sometimes I feel like I will tear my shirt and start running round the street when that pressure is too much

LMAO... Kilode gan. Lol
Dude you cracked me up
here. you have to slow down
the sexual tension.

Okay, so always give her good fore.play and read up a good
book on Kamasutra and/or
Tantric sex to maintain balance
and discipline. Tbh, sex on an
elevated scale is overated!

Also relieving her of a bit of the
domestic work like vacuum
cleaning the house, etc, will
make her eagerly want to be
with you.

let's see how it all pans out.

Cheers.

Oyin2212:

Bro let me get this right.

If eventually women become financially independent, then rich men wouldn't be attractive to them anymore and those guys depending on money will have to find something else to attract them which ubunja said is BODY. A good well shaped and exercised body right?

Sure. Having a well sculpted masculine body isn't just a poser for attraction alone, having a good MOUTH PIECE (initiation game) and bed game is equally vital. However, do understand that the body game (though popular with a lot of women) does not apply to 100 percent of women. Depending on her age, social factors, sexual imprint and ovulation cycle, women can alter the type of men (asides the regular tall, bad boy with a great body or the cute pretty face kind of guys) they CHOSE. Some are flexible with range of men they CHOSE. Some are rigid about it. Some women will CHOSE slim dudes, some CHOSE rough looking dudes, some CHOSE men within certain tribes/religion etc. Women's innate lust has no LOGIC. Accept it, understand and work with it. don't expect them to tell you. Women are very smart. you'll have to figure that out as a man learning from those who know better and being on the "field" with women.

Regardless, most men should try to have both money and understanding of the game of sex, even if you have no need for sex (sex is overated). you'll win on both sides.

Oyin2212:

One more thing, most guys don't wait for girls to chose them rather they do the chasing which result to wastage of financial resource without being able to get true desire from the females they chase. That's it right?

Deal with women who show high interest in you but try as much as possible to have a great body/mouth piece appeal to all of them. Also, try to figure out why you are being CHOSEN. Women can be deceptive about mating signals or giving you mixed one. Make sure, you are CHOSEN for exciting her sexual lust.

From experience, when men are younger and broke, equally younger ladies mostly CHOSE based on looks, body game, sexual vibes, status among your peers. As they grow older, they begin to seek for men who give provider vibes or a potential to be a good provider which is where a lot of men miss it. To these women, these men are RETIREMENT plans. A man must constantly strive to earn money to better his own life, improve his status and be in best of sex appeal for women. It's difficult but quite possible.

sapien:
Lol. Your reply cracked me up.

I am a completely loyal guy. While I don't condone cheating, I don't cheat as well in a relationship.

She didn't give me any reason to cheat on her, hence my dedication.

Now, I know better.

And regarding her mother, she was the one who invited me for lunch. Her daughter gave her my number and she called me herself and told me to come over, that she would like to see me. Since then, the woman decided to take interest me. I haven't seen her since then.

What do you mean by "I am a completely loyal guy" when you are searching for a wife? Who told you a male and a female are the same within the context of relationship/marriage?

A male is to search for a female [amidst many] if he is truly in search of a wife and not a sex-partner, while a female is to develop/position herself (attitude-wise and in other good ways) to be found! And in the search, as a male, you shouldn't be assessing just one lady except you were spiritually-led to select her, and that would be if you are that spiritual.

And don't focus on sex because sex is highly overated. If you successfully get a submissive wife among the ladies you searched out, you can always lovingly guide her to do all the sex-styles (sane and healthy ones pls) you might ever want in your marriage. So, for now, focus on the main virtues that would enable you have a sustainable marriage with a lady you are very confident would happily be under your authority, and both of you will enjoy the marriage.

Back to your issue:
you have spent about 4 years with the lady in question and you are emotionally tied to her. That is a fact that does not need to be proved. The only thing that would make her not to reciprocate that emotion (commitment) is if she has been dating someone (certainly better than you) behind you while deeming you unserious or not man enough (financially capable) to be her husband. I can't prove this but this is most certain, and I would conclude it to be so, based on your additional communication.

Meanwhile, don't blame her. We all go for what we want but she should have gotten the decency to have her mum talk you out of the relationship, if she is not courageous enough to do that. For goodness sake, she should be able to have some respect for the couple of years both of you spent together, and let you know that she is no longer interested.

So, for me, I think she is not totally shutting the door on you, so that she can crawl her way back into your heart if things does not eventually go well with the new guy she is dating.

So, what should you do?
Be the Man you should have been all along rather than acting like a drift (permit me to talk to you like you my younger bro).
Go to her house during the day, when you are sure she would be at home. I suggest Saturday morning. On arrival, hail her, and let her know how good looking she is. Tell her that she is looking well taken-care-of. Greet her mum if she is around. Then tell her that you are about leaving, that you were on your way to a very important place (ensure this is true) but she should kindly give you few minutes outside before you leave.

Once both of you get outside, don't let your emotion betray you, and get you to start talking or acting "smee smee" (sheepishly). Go straight to the point but with a smile, without letting your body come in contact with hers. Tell her to tell her new date that her relationship with her former boyfriend (you) is over, so he is free to come see her parents or do any other thing required if he so wish. That would shock her. don't add to that statement and maintain a smiling face. don't also leave immediately. Wait to watch her reaction and patiently listen to whatever she tells you. Record this moment well in your mind because that is what would heal your emotion, so that you can be emotionally stable for another relationship. It might also be what could make her deserve a second chance with you.

If she succeeds in getting a second chance, she would have only succeeded in qualifying for the "A List" of the ladies you can marry. It is ladies in this list or category you can invite a spiritual clergy to prayerfully guide you on making the right choice on who to eventually marry. That is if you cannot prayerfully do that by yourself. Life is spiritual. don't take this aspect for granted. I stayed awake to do some work but you just made me donate a portion of the time to you. I hope it worth it. In all, please be a man.

Nazgul:

Indiscriminate sex otherwise known as sex before marriage is the cause.

When a girl has tasted between 5 to 30 dícks and even above that before getting married, how do you expect her to remain faithful to her husband? It obviously wouldn't be possible cos her trailer load of EXs would keep bugging her for a quickie not minding that she's married.

So cheating will most likely begin less than a week after her wedding. Most especially when they begin to play the generous role by crediting her account unnecessarily.

Look at the issue of honeymoon. The idea was aimed at making first time sex for virgins girls who get married a memorable experience. But today how many girls even marry as virgins?

Many guys don't even bother about honeymoon anymore these days cos most girls vagina has swallowed countless sizes and shapes of dícks, so what's there for the husbands to enjoy on the honeymoon night. He'll just be sweating all night trying to satisfy one over slacked pússy hoe. Believe me it's not worth it.

This is the reason why marriages doesn't last.

If parents and religious leaders can impact morality on children of nowadays, things would change positively in marriages of the next generation. But until then, married in this our present generation is annoyingly overated.

The fact that you ran to a mod to ban me even though you drew the first knife shows you're a damn sissy and a coward. Y'all come here screaming I'm the man, but low key y'all are just sissies. Call them again, I can always create another one. Fvcking chicken.

But that's BTW, let's face the topic. It's Sunday and I'm free today.

you always try to come off as intelligent, but you always end up being dumb. Making baseless and irrelevant points. So according to you, a woman's infidelity is the cause of the high rate of divorce in our society? My dear Nairalanders, it is just January, but we've already gotten the winner of the dumbest poster of the year.

Now let me ask you, in a situation whereby a woman is facing domestic violence in her home, she should stay right? let's not go to the cheating part, even though men are the head cheats in relationships and marriages.

Shall we talk about the suppression, the emotional blackmail, the physical and emotional abuse women face in marriages? let's not go there because this isn't about a particular gender as you've made it to be.

If women decide to write down the list of misery they go through in marriages, you wouldn't post this trash here.

Marriages don't last anymore because the world now is a global village. Though it is mostly women that advocate for divorce, this high rate of divorce y'all have been whining about is only new in Africa, because African Women have awakened up, unlike those days where they didn't have anyone to advocate for them, but now they do. It is no longer business as usual. you don't expect an educated woman to endure all your foolishness just because you're a man. She'll give you those papers and walk out.
Women are now being enlightened on their rights.

I'll advise African men to blend in, accept the fact that women can no longer be oppressed and controlled like the old days. They should stop whining and treat women as humans rather than just mere objects.

blackpanthar:
pls stop posting thread on NL if you are still HIGH from whatever you smoking..

Its so funny that u think its PERFORMANCE that keeps Ladies... unfortunately for you... SATISFY YOUR GIRL SEXUALLY WITH 20000% PERFORMANCE and let me buy her a one way ticket to DUBAI.... she will break up with you with the FAMOUS LINE... :"ITS NOT you, ITS ME" and she will dump u.

sex is overated... its something that only jobless people or those who have spare time RANT about.... when u make hardcore cash.... she will moan like a poorrnstar for you even if na 5minutes you can perform, and she will be loyal to you because.... SEXUAL PERFORMANCE pays no one's bills but MONEY DOES.

Bro, get wealthy and see the difference because one day you may LIVE to see age 70 and more beautiful girls will be around but you won't have the same strength anymore.

I hardly reply these kinds of comments, but I feel I should reset your brain because I'm angry with you. Stop disgracing yourself in a public forum. For me as a young man, I'm very stingy in spending money on women. I even tell them face to face and they'll laugh yet, they'll never run away.

I invest my money, but on the other hand, they invest in me because they get what all these tramadol, via.gra, codeine, etc. addicts can't give in 50 years to come. They're too lazy to crack the stamina and amazing sex code. It's called GREAT sex, not good sex.

If you suck in bed, your life sucks. Even if you're Bill Gate, just give me your girlfriend's number let me chat with her on WhatsApp or on Facebook and see if she will not send half of the money you have to me.

Note: I was once a 69 seconds man like you, but I didn't resort to using money or tramadol to cover up - I learnt it the hard way. It's a gruesome 6 months training and till today, I'll still reaping the benefits. Now, you're talking about money? Just keep quiet. People who make clean money don't shout.

let me give you examples of what being great in bed can do. The first iPhone I used guess who bought it? a young lady (not sugar mommy). The Rolex watch I have now, guess who bought it? (another young lady - not sugar mommy). The Rolex watch girl was even dating a highly ranked army officer, but she fell in love just with the power of great sex - even a big d*ck. Now, imagine big d*ck and great sex combined in a cold weather. I select who is entitled to have a taste of what great sex feels like.

Great sex is not something you should give all women because some of them will kill you if they catch you sharing it with other girls - they want it for only themselves. They're very selfish with great dicking.

So, if I start listing all the great benefits of being great in bed, you'll never believe it. It gives you a different kid on confidence money can't buy. To me lasting just 3 hours is just a pre-intimacy. That is how great men should be because it's learnable, but most of us men are too weak to train for endurance which will even help in other aspects of life.

And guess who ended all the flings? I ended them and till today, they still send messages. The best way to make a woman loyal and humble is not to be good in bed, but great. Some of you are busy sending women recharge card and buying them phone, but do you know who they send half of those credit to?

Make money so that you and your wife or future-wife will enjoy when you get married and not to use it to lure women to Dubai.

I have been to Dubai, but I didn't pay my flight ticket. I have evidence of everything I wrote above in case you want to verify.
you (my fellow youths) should stop making money for the sake of women, but for the sake of your parents, siblings, future family and helping the needy.

Any man who is making money to enable women love him is a WEAK MAN. A real badass makes money because money is needed for survival, not to impress. Anyway, I have documented how I turned from a 69 seconds guy to a more than 7 hours guy without a single drug or enhancement, but mental training...lemme not talk too much before I offend more people. Bye.

blackpanthar:
pls stop posting thread on NL if you are still HIGH from whatever you smoking..

Its so funny that u think its PERFORMANCE that keeps Ladies... unfortunately for you... SATISFY YOUR GIRL SEXUALLY WITH 20000% PERFORMANCE and let me buy her a one way ticket to DUBAI.... she will break up with you with the FAMOUS LINE... :"ITS NOT you, ITS ME" and she will dump u.

sex is overated... its something that only jobless people or those who have spare time RANT about.... when u make hardcore cash.... she will moan like a poorrnstar for you even if na 5minutes you can perform, and she will be loyal to you because.... SEXUAL PERFORMANCE pays no one's bills but MONEY DOES.

Bro, get wealthy and see the difference because one day you may LIVE to see age 70 and more beautiful girls will be around but you won't have the same strength anymore.

lol don't tell me u r lame on bed

pls stop posting thread on NL if you are still HIGH from whatever you smoking..

Its so funny that u think its PERFORMANCE that keeps Ladies... unfortunately for you... SATISFY YOUR GIRL SEXUALLY WITH 20000% PERFORMANCE and let me buy her a one way ticket to DUBAI.... she will break up with you with the FAMOUS LINE... :"ITS NOT you, ITS ME" and she will dump u.

sex is overated... its something that only jobless people or those who have spare time RANT about.... when u make hardcore cash.... she will moan like a poorrnstar for you even if na 5minutes you can perform, and she will be loyal to you because.... SEXUAL PERFORMANCE pays no one's bills but MONEY DOES.

Bro, get wealthy and see the difference because one day you may LIVE to see age 70 and more beautiful girls will be around but you won't have the same strength anymore.

HARDLABOR:
I have come across numerous threads on this forum about guys crying that they have low erection and not staying long during sex

If you don't have the ability to fvck your girl to the edge of satisfaction, my brother she will look for another guy to do the job while turning you to her ATM since you're not useful sexually

What a girl really need is a good sex and you have to believe me that only 20% of Nigeria guys can deliver it to them

If you know that you don't have the ability to fvck, please don't even bother yourself to have a girlfriend coz she will using has her ATM

Note; if you fvck a girl like 3 or 4 times and you're not good at it she will disrespect you and never give you her body again

Goan hustle, don't have a girlfriend if you can't fvck very well .

is S** generally over-R'd?

I come to think 'day in day out' that it is not over-R'd as people think of it.. and completely it truly isn't over-R'd generally via my view.

let's see a definition of mine... (It is coppling between two partners for a purpose of either fun and pleasure, baby making or for reducing or responding to an upsurge in hormones (sensual) in need of control..)

Remember when the likes around misuse its purpose and other erotics involved you put blames on the individuals not on the act itself...

*as the old will say, its for married couples and not for everyone* so why say its overated?.

Honestly we are making it look so because of the educational influence on us... 'Before education, it was there and it happened but as we are giving in so much knowledge of our very own society through our various means of gathering more on education..(Which is completely wrong of us..

you don't chase education the way we do now as it is said =too much knowledge of something sometimes confuses your understanding of that very thing you desire knowledge of= )

The knowledge given to us about it becomes questionable that we say its over-rated... To me its not..

'Remember its a 2way stuff.. Either the parties involved say yes and do it or say no and don't....'

As always, its in no way over-rated rather the educational influence is making us say so...

This is so simple and short a piece I had to do after I visited a friends blog and saw people say their different opinions on s** being over-rated..

*NOTE: My opinion..
so tell me what you think about it.... your honest views please as i will appreciate it in a very massive way.

source: http://www.lexhansplace.com/2016/05/is-it-over-rated-yes-or-no-give-reasons.html?m=1

lalasticlala mynd44 seun

Its hard to paint a true picture of what love entails when you keep falling for the wrong sorts and for the wrong reasons, poke and probe a bit into the true nature of your partner, know what makes em who they are and let that tower above all other reasons cz in the long run that's what counts and not the elusive looks you seem to be obsessed with.

Am a sucker for sex so I don't undermine it in anyway, sex is more of a cosmetic reason but its an unavoidable reason as well, I'd love for my partner to understand the intricacies and schematics of a good sex but I don't let that alone tower above the inherent reason that love should stand for. Lemme put it this way, you've got a partner who is a kamasutra expert when it comes to wholesomely good sex but such partner lacks the inherent qualities to make a good home.

Love is relative, those boobs or abdominal muscles might look catchy to you but to me they are just sagging muscles firmed up with bras and loads of padding..those catchy ascent might repel you but they might the reason why am trying to court her. Set your parameters when it comes to love and be sure to set good parameters, try and create a balance between outward qualities and inherent qualities, do not just plunge and go head on into a relationship cz you feel drawn to it.

Love is certainly overated, we think highly of it when we should be modest in our thinking, the funny thing about love is that we keep thinking it comes from the heart, the heart has always been synonymous with love, the heart is an integral anatomy contained in our body with the sole function of pumping blood so I don't see the relationship it has with love..

I tend to laugh when people say "use your head not your heart" when it should be "use your head and use it well", love sets out from the brain and ends with the brain, it doesn't go beyond the confines of the brain so its natural and utterly necessary to be rational in matters concerning love after all the brain is involved, so next time you are being fed some wholesome and "A grade" bullshit about the heart being the progeny of your feelings you should be quick to stand your ground and let your brain take its place cz the head is where love should reside and not the heart.

The love bug has one or another sunk its fangs into us, your heart races and you stutter at her sight, the ease with which you carry yourself evades and you almost drool at her sight, that's the shit that happens to me when am stunned by a lady only to find out that they are not exactly what they seem to be, such is life.

Love rough so when you are jilted you still stand firm and unmoved, do not love with your head tucked in completely cz you might just lose your head.

Its hard to paint a true picture of what love entails when you keep falling for the wrong sorts and for the wrong reasons, poke and probe a bit into the true nature of your partner, know what makes em who they are and let that tower above all other reasons cz in the long run that's what counts and not the elusive looks you seem to be obsessed with.

Am a sucker for sex so I don't undermine it in anyway, sex is more of a cosmetic reason but its an unavoidable reason as well, I'd love for my partner to understand the intricacies and schematics of a good sex but I don't let that alone tower above the inherent reason that love should stand for. Lemme put it this way, you've got a partner who is a kamasutra expert when it comes to wholesomely good sex but such partner lacks the inherent qualities to make a good home.

Love is relative, those boobs or abdominal muscles might look catchy to you but to me they are just sagging muscles firmed up with bras and loads of padding..those catchy ascent might repel you but they might the reason why am trying to court her. Set your parameters when it comes to love and be sure to set good parameters, try and create a balance between outward qualities and inherent qualities, do not just plunge and go head on into a relationship cz you feel drawn to it.

Love is certainly overated, we think highly of it when we should be modest in our thinking, the funny thing about love is that we keep thinking it comes from the heart, the heart has always been synonymous with love, the heart is an integral anatomy contained in our body with the sole function of pumping blood so I don't see the relationship it has with love..

I tend to laugh when people say "use your head not your heart" when it should be "use your head and use it well", love sets out from the brain and ends with the brain, it doesn't go beyond the confines of the brain so its natural and utterly necessary to be rational in matters concerning love after all the brain is involved, so next time you are being fed some wholesome and "A grade" bullshit about the heart being the progeny of your feelings you should be quick to stand your ground and let your brain take its place cz the head is where love should reside and not the heart.

The love bug has one or another sunk its fangs into us, your heart races and you stutter at her sight, the ease with which you carry yourself evades and you almost drool at her sight, that's the shit that happens to me when am stunned by a lady only to find out that they are not exactly what they seem to be, such is life.

Love rough so when you are jilted you still stand firm and unmoved, do not love with your head tucked in completely cz you might just lose your head.

Love is a mix of the good, bad and outright ugly..

Velocitron:
I don't think just 'cause you're in a relationship, you're entitled to your partner's body, neither are you entitled to demanding gifts.

Personally, I intend on staying a virgin until marriage. Not for my husband or anyone else, but I believe I'm doing a favour to myself. sex is a huge deal. It's practically the power of creation right there in your hands [size=4pt]or your genitals [/size] and it's a risk I'd be happy to take in the safety of marriage.

However, it's always important to set boundaries of a relationship early on. It's better to tell your partner early on that you just want a romantic relationship rather than a physical/sexual one or vice-versa. And if it doesn't sit well with your partner, let them find someone who wants the same thing they do, and you do the same.

you cannot eat your cake and have it my dear if you know that you aren't ready for sex stay away from dem boiz and any form of romance. As My grandma would say..."If you no dey chop bushmeat, no use your teeth share am for children!
But personally, I think virginity is overated!!

Gyal96:
The V word is too overated. Especially in Africa. I mean so what if am not a virgin I am less of a women?? Does that make me a bad person?? Does being a virgin make me more worthed than other people?? No, virgin or not we are ALL equal. I man shouldn't marry a woman because she is a virgin but because he LOVES her. I fade up with this african mentality. That's why white people are miles aways from us,while they busy finding new planets, we Africans are here busy judging people who choose to do what they wish with their bodies. WHO gives a damn about what other people think sex before marriage is not the biggest sin on earth (no sin is bigger than the other) and it is not the only door that the devil can use to destroy your life(how about people are naturally greedy or jealous?? ). let PEOPLE LIVE THEIR LIVES HOW THEY WANT TO. We are all sinners and only God almighty can judge us.

Be true to yourself. Deep down, you wish you have more self control. you and I know that having multiple sexual partners makes you feel empty at the end of the day. And don't even tell me you've only been with one person. let's just accept that op is kinda right.

Here we go! We all have different concepts about virginity. Most people value it while others don't. Most ladies keep crying over spilt milk all through their lives while others move on. The truth about virginity is that its a door, once open it can never be shot again.

LADIES' VIEW
1. He will love me forever if he marries me a virgin (most times its just mental fallacy)

2. I'm special and a goddess because am a virgin (not all angels are virgins and not all virgins are angels)

3. Because I'm not a virgin I have lost my pride (I don't know how true let the men decide that)

4. I've lost my virginity so what? (It means to most men that you've been a LovePeddler)

5. I did it once so I guess am still a virgin. After all it was a mistake (as long as you are not a virgin no guy will believe you did it just once. Believe me. There's no way to find out after all)

6. God loves me so much and He will keep blessing me because am a virgin. (Lol)

MEN'S VIEW
1. I will marry a virgin (are you one? Who will marry the ones you deflowered? Maybe they should remain unmarried)

2. Because she's not a virgin she must have had abortion too (who never can tell)

3. She's a virgin so therefore she's innocent (hahahahahaha wonders shall never cease)

4. sex is the forbidden fruit. (Might as well be)

Now I strongly believe that virginity is a virtue. But I also agree with the school of thought that it is overrated! If you are not a virgin over there you can as well be a virgin of the heart. It has not reduced you a bit. But you are really blessed if you are one. After all sex is highly overated too! Its entirely different from what you see in porns. Ofcourse it is!

It's funny how we Human Beings tend to attach too much importance to status or the overtly overated class. We look good, dress in posh attire, buy sleek cars, attractive phones and strive to associate with the best of the opposite or same sex. The truth however, remains that, we do not determine who our parents are nor do we determine the circumstances or environment in which we're born.

In a way, your immediate environment and the circumstances you find yourself while growing up, tend to shape your life (at least up to that level, that you could decide to chart a new course for your life). Now I do not know your background, but I guess you must have been more privileged than your fiancee to have become computer savvy while she is a "Market Trader" like you put it. For you to call her your "Fiancee", it means you guys have gone beyond casual friendship, and probably you both have done some form of introduction to either Parents, so what do you want to tell them now, that you've been blind-folded all along and just suddenly realised she's a "Market Trader", that is not worthy of a "Computer Guru" like you?

I don't really want to delve into how you guys met, because I believe love can be found in the strangest of places. If you think you truly love her, I don't think status or ego should come between you two. Being a graduate and a "computer guru" doesn't guarrantee success and being a "market-trader" shouldn't necessarily translate to failure in life.

In fact, I think marrying someone that you deem as lower in status to you is better than marrying another career person like you, that will ultimately result in clash of egos. I you truly love your fiancee and feel you're ready for marriage, then don't wait a second longer, go right ahead. If you think her "status" is not up to "yours", you can upgrade her by making sure all your friends know her, go out with her to whatever gathering you are attending, and don't hesitate to be her voice in public; if she blurts out incoherent grammar, don't be ashamed to step in and cover up for her.

After Marriage, you can either enroll her in school or begin to teach her in your own way, you will be suprised that she will catch up. I don't believe you have to speak "the queens English" to be reckoned with, if you know your onions you will always stand up to counted. What is taught at the University will at most guarantee you a theoritical knowlege of your discipline and if you're intelligent, a more pragmatic approach to life, but not the norms in the outside world, you could actually apply your knowlege to turn her "petty-trading" into a business empire. In the event of life's turmoils, what you term "petty-trading" now might be the mainstay for the both of you. So, don't let true love pass you by, because of your ego!

, and a word of advice, do not table her issue in a forum like this, or to your friends for that matter, It is demeaning. you should be able to make your decisions and stand by them.

Wishing you a happy married life! I hope to get an invitation.