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SalamRushdie:
This is totally alarmist and sensational lies ...The US is saying you can be denaturalised if you are found guilty of certain crimes like terrorism, antisemitism, extrajudicial Killings , human sacrifice and many other gory crimes ..If you don't have you hands in such dirty things then you have nothing to fear

yukinakahara86:
She Left Me for Someone New — While Still in My Arms

Five years. That’s how long I was with her.
Five years of being there for her through everything: her struggles, her dreams, her insecurities.
I gave her my best.
And yet, she left me for a man she barely knew.

XINEE didn’t wait until we were over. She started something new before ending what we had.
She accepted his pursuit in secret. While I was planning our future, she was planning her escape.

"I Love You" and Lies in the Same Breath

Just days before she left me, she told me, “You’re the only one I trust.”
She still kissed me, called me "babe," and held my hand.
But the truth was already rotting under the surface.

She had already been going on dates with him.
While she was still with me.

How I Discovered the Betrayal

She started acting distant. I noticed late-night texting, secret smiles, sudden changes in routines. I never wanted to be the paranoid boyfriend.

Until I saw her phone.

Flirty texts. Sweet nicknames. Hotel bookings.
It wasn’t a misunderstanding.
It was a betrayal.

She Didn’t Just Break My Heart — She Robbed Me Too

What made it worse?
Money went missing.
I thought maybe I misplaced it. Maybe I was overthinking.

But it didn’t feel right.

I reported it.

The police found out the truth. She stole from me.
She admitted it. No shame, no apology. Just another layer of betrayal.

Five Years Meant Nothing to Her

I helped her when she had nothing.
I paid for her bills, supported her through mental breakdowns, celebrated her every small success.
I stood by her when even her family gave up.

And she gave herself to someone else.

That’s not love. That’s betrayal disguised as affection.

Why I’m Telling My Story Now

Because people like her get away with too much.
Because there are others out there going through the same pain.
Because silence only protects the liar, not the one who loved honestly.

I’m not perfect.
But I was loyal.
And I deserved better than lies, theft, and a secret affair.

My Message to Her

You said I was the best thing that ever happened to you.
But the moment someone new came along, you threw me away like trash.

I don’t hate you.
I pity you.

Because you lost a man who would’ve done anything for you.
And one day, when the new guy leaves you too, I hope you remember who picked you up when no one else would.

Final Thoughts

Some people cheat. Some steal. Some lie.
XINEE did all three.

This isn’t revenge. This is closure.

And to anyone reading this, wondering if they should walk away from someone who makes them feel "not enough" —

You already know the answer.

FAQs

Q1: Did she cheat before the breakup?Yes. She was going on dates with him while still in a relationship with me.

Q2: Did she really steal from you?Yes. It was confirmed by police. She confessed.

Q3: Why didn’t you leave earlier?Because I believed in her. I trusted her. I thought love would be enough.

Q4: Are you over her now?I’m healing. Day by day. But I’ll never forget the lessons.

Q5: Would you ever forgive someone like her?I can forgive. But I will never forget. And I will never go back.

henrydadon:
am not surprised..half of the youth in that state have only two ambitions in life.

1. to enter europe and become ashawo most preferably italy(ladies)

2. to become a professional scam artist defraud some people and spend the money on club jokers on friday night and repeat the cycle all over again.

That state is a failed state. The same with Delta.

Xscape1993:
The mentality of the majority of the blacks.

insidelife22:
Women are insatiable, irredeemable and ignorant.

Hustle guys.

Take care of yourself.

WeNoGoDie:
You can imagine the level of audacity these shameless ladies have. I only blame the senseIess menn that go about giving fortunes to these undeserving ingrates

zed7:
Men should be smart. Small items should be ignored, bigger items like cars and houses should be in the buyers name.

If it is in my name, it's not a gift, just a loan to you.

Meanwhile, men should ignore the rants of entitled girls on nairaland like the OP. If you see them in real life, you'd spit out of disgust. They're ain't shit. Don't take them seriously.

Fiscus105:
One thing I can never do in life, is renting room for side chick........I can't imagine seeing another man in the house I used my hard earned money rented for woman.


IT'S 90% CERTAINLY, SIDE CHICK WOULD BRING ANOTHER MAN INTO SUCH APARTMENT.

VOsimhen144:
If we're dating and I bought you things, when the relationship is over, it's expected you return everything.

The gifts are for the "Office of the Girlfriend", the next girlfriend will have the gifts.

Guys no get joy this period, see how baba carry the kiosk and the roof join 😂😂😂😂

Offpointng:
Reason why I tell young men like myself, Dont allow Love becloud your senses of reasoning. Trust me the sign were always right there, you were just blind to it

I used to have what you'd call an Ex then, Same way OP describe his wife was exactly who she is. Twinkling annoys her and she immediately changes it for you, hugs from the back esp when she's in the kitchen immediately changes her mood and get her so angry, Simple romance like hugging (common hugging) she'd push you away, You can't have a healthy and Intelligent talk with her, Always defensive and hardly apologises, Any Play other than the use of mouth to call each other Big head is a No No for her, Loves sleeping like some descendants of Koala, So boring and everything bored you can think of. Firstly, I thought all these happened cuz she's still a Virgin at that age, but I've got Virgin friends that we play and have lotta fun without having sex and are not so boring like she is. Later Got to find out that's just who she was, not cuz she's a virgin or something

So that faithful night we were all loved up on chat and we chatted till she wanted to sleep and told me we'd chat the next day, so we said the lovers Good night and went to bed. But before I got to sleep, I told myself I'm so done with this girl. Normally, she always expects I do the Good morning text first or the Good morning call all the time. But this time, woke up and din call her or text her Good morning, I went bout my normal day activities like she never existed. All those time till in the evening she never call or texted until I uploaded a picture of Myself and my guys chilling bfr we replied the status and of cuz some Rude Bullshit text, I read and din reply.

She called me that night bout twice and I din pick nor returned the call, of course she took to WhatsApp again forming boss lady, I made sure i read and din reply and went to sleep putting my phone on flight mode incase she wanna disturb my sleep with calls.

Oooboy I dabaru that girl head cuz we had no fight the night bfr, we chatted so cool and was even talking bout marriage plans next day she kept calling and calling, pick for where. took her sis phone to call me unknown to me I picked, my people come see cool broken voice that I've not heard in months. I immediately cut and blocked. Any she took to crying on VN telling me if she's done anything forgive me bla bla, But nigga man's mind was made up. She got into depression and every effort her, her friends, her family made to reach out to me, I blocked em all. I moved on. Well after so many months I'm glad to let y'all know she's still single cuz I doubt any guy can be patient with her like I was

So Op the signs were always there, you just turned blind eyes to em.

Evestar200:
Maybe You are not her dream man

That Woman Married you because of Marriage pressure not because she loves you.

There is no way a woman who loves, Cares and has feelings will not like to do anything with you no matter how angry she is.

UncannyGenius:
Let the girls who dress indecently be expelled as well.

Heineken:
Good news. Them go dey get sense small small at least. Onye oshi people.

accordadoga25:
Hehehe..

Typical ipob mentality.

Cannibals!!!

Castrate the bastards.

Mccullum:
See what Peethief Obi has caused, may God save us from these Obid'iots.

Freshtruth:
Wetin your fans expect say u go dey for this highly rated movie? Una feel say Hollywood na nollywood wey dey put every dick and harry to dey act nonsense for us they call film. They done test am for audition and the guy no sabi the guy self know he no wan come out plain, we are no fools we know wetin dey play. Shame wan kill am Even Bollywood actors dey struggle to enter Hollywood movies na this one wey dey act like mumu wan enter Hollywood lol

Michaelspresh:
I can't see any harassment here ohh

ROYALMAXCLEANER:





Dey Bobo look like one criminal minded phone repairer for wuse market....🤣🤣🤣



See face lik fowl wer swallows wetin pass e power