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I wish you and every person here Merry Christmas and Happy New Year in Advance too. ![]() |
@all, I thank you all for your contributions but the one that said "I'am a big fool," should ask himself if he is worthy of being here like others. I have a plan for my wedding and after it but situation of things has forced me to give up any idea of getting married now. Though, I feel for my fiance who had already told some of his friends and members of her family that plans were in place to get wedded in 3 to 4 months time. But, she has to endure it, such is life. |
I had thought to make my wedding day an extraordinary one. I had big plans for it because few of my friends that wedded had it in bigger styles but all my plans failed abruptly and life is no longer moving as expected. I attended friends wedding and mine cannot be different because all my friends are expecting it big from me. A project I got myself involved fired back against me and things went wrong, cash drained in the process. My fiancé is not happy with the decision I have taken and she wants both of us to go ahead with the marriage as planned. To her, I should forget about competing with my friends. I have told her that, I might forget about marriage because I have no interest in any marriage due to condition of things. Please, I need your opinion because friends expect more from me and I don’t want to put myself in shame. |
I was in the North during the fight. Igbos lost their lives too but Hausas were worst hit followed by Yorubas, then Jos Indigenes and Igbos etc, The Igbos were able to mobilize themselves against the muslems. The muslims made an attempt to burn down the Seminary School and if they had succeeded hundreds of those students (mostly Igbo children) would have been slaughtered, but they had to retreat when they saw how Igbo boys mobilised themselves to defend the Seminary School. Though, Igbos suffered huge loss because their properties were burnt but it seems the Hausas suffered more loss because Jos indigenes and some Igbo traders Joined forces together to burn down their properties in different locations as a retaliatory measure. All the same both sides suffered a lot but Hausas suffered most. But as for properties, Igbos and Hausas were worst hit. |
@Poster, The road is no-go-area. Stay away from her. |
The Hottest Nigerian Muscians Arranged In Order. Hope, I'm right? P-Square Debanj Tu-Face |
QuotaSyste:I need to salute you with 2 gun shots. I was in that region (Niger Delta) and the mugus believe Igbos are the real enemies. Very difficult to understand their 3rd Century mentality. They are always killed by those they call friends. |
I don't think any person will condemn the new ministry if it's not a mere duplication. NDDC is there already. |
What role do you expect the newly created Ministry of Niger Delta to play when NDDC can still play same role? Is NDDC going to be a Commission of its own or a Parastatal to this new ministry? If it is a parastatal, the payment coming from the oil companies to the NDDC may come to an abrupt end. There are some Nigerians who are not happy with the creation of NDDC right from the onset just because of the money that goes into the NDDC pocket and in order to stop the money, they now created a new ministry that will be tactically scrapped out when another government will be in place. The game is that, if NDDC is scrapped out right away, people will criticize the government action, but in a way to stop NDDC and the money going there, new ministry is now created and will soon be phased out by subsequent governments. Let NDDC remain separate while Ministry of Niger Delta still remains. Whatever the motive is, time will tell. |
HR.hotness:It's just a confirmation of what i'm saying. Character is something else. I'm out of this thread. Bye thread! |
There are other sites and the members share every topic peacefully and responsibly without abuse. I'm waiting for the day this site will grow to that level. It's insult and insult on this site and one wonder the kind of people here. |
@Poster, Just see yourself and what you posted. It's all on net, you dare not insult a guy like that face to face. It's for you and any person who cares to take your ranting serious. |
There is still hope for Nigeria |
Honour to? |
Stairing at you, she might as well think you are stairing at her. Joke with her and find out by saying something like 'na whao o baby, this one wey you dey look at me this way and even frown face, shey I no look like that guy wey commit that crime." She may ask you which guy. You can follow the question up with the stuff that will open conversation. |
@Rubby, Big or no big woman, for any rape case, once it's confirmed that they guy didn't carry any gun or matchet against you, it becomes difficult to prove because you must show that you struggled to avoid the act, probably, there must be wound in the body to prove that he beat you until you got tired, there must be evidence that he tore your clothe and you did cry out when he was doing all this. Now, think of the act being done in a compound where the guy has neighbours. You must also explain that you cried out and the neighbours could not hear you. Hell no. |
Uche2nna:It's difficult to prove that a single man raped a girl. |
@Onyi, It's not easy to prove rape case. Do you think you can prove it that a single man overpowered you, held your legs open, covered your mouth from shouting, held your two hangs before he was able to rape you? It's really difficult to prove. The court will assume that the girl enjoy the act. |
When a girl says "No" she has to react in a way that will convince the guy that she really mean "No". you know, a girl's No can mean Yes at times. So, the way she react will pass the message to the guy that she is not in the mood to have the act. |
Ujujoan:Fair enough, It’s from experience but I saw where you said you were sorry, and I didn’t mean to direct my post to you base on your previous response to my post. There were people that likes to abuse every post. As for you, that was why I said “hope we are calm now” in the other thread. I believe we are cool and I’m no longer bringing that to mind. ![]() Reserve your comment? Are you still planning to repeat your comment against me? It’s you that will answer the question but I know we are calm. ![]() |
I must be sincere, both men and women cheat and tell lies at times but some (example myself) often regret cheating. Its just difficult to stay without cheating on your partner. It may not be your wish to cheat but temptation often come and you try to avoid some while some are diffifult to avoid. I wished I could avoid all. |
ssheryl:You posted wisely and answer must be provided. If you had not come in to change the popular trend of the first abuse begets another, the other posters would have started abusing the poster. Once the first abuse comes, the rest of the posters follows. The poster wanted to learn but some people tried to rubbish him for nothing. It is better to read and move to another thread If you don't like the topic. It is as simple as ABC. @Poster, Yes, girls can admire guys. They are still human-beings like guys. Guys admire girls and vice versa. |
RichyBlacK: Brash!:I'm happy with all your contributions, but i think I have to follow the above contributions because I'm already out while she's trying to get things rght with me. I want her to try the other guy but as for the guy's girlfriend, i'm not ready to hook-up with her. I need to go for one of the girls I have in mind and I told her my plan she has even noticed the girls and is making serious effort to stop me from making a move. @Ujujoan, Good you accept peace here. |
It's calm here now. Right? |
It is the case |
@Ujujaon, It's your business there, all I want is contribution. |
Seun:funny |
@Ujuojaon, Why not contribute or leave me alone. You are there asking me my age. It is Out of point dear. Why initiating trouble? |
Ujujoan:Few years older than you. |
My girl answered before me that she loved one guy (my friend) most when she was asked by the same guy who she love most. I then told her to leave me alone and meet the guy but she told me it was just a joke. She try to kill herself each time I play with any girl but she always hug and play with other guys and I don’t bother, but her answer to the guy’s question was a slap on my face. To the house, if you were in my position, what would you do considering her answer that she loved the guy most? I remember that the same guy made move before me but he didn’t succeed. Though, I can notice that she has developed love gradually for the guy. Now I want to give her a chance to try the guy because I have told her that she was free to meet the guy. To me, the relationship is over but it seems that she is not ready to let me go but I’m out of the relationship. Please, your advise because I just don't want to hang out with a girl who can cause trouble between me and my friend. Funny enough, my friend's girl is diying for me and I have been trying to resolve a minor problem for them but she keeps on coming to me even at odd hours. She has told me clear that she would have nothing to do with the guy again. |

For some reason, I think it is more easier to convince the court that it was rape than to convince them that it was not 

