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Nairaland / General / Re: Happy New Year Nairalanders by SeriouslySense(m): 12:08am On Jan 01
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Thank God for 2023.
Thank God for 2024, it can be better.
Politics / Re: What Are You Regrets In Year 2023? by SeriouslySense(m): 12:06am On Jan 01
You can always improve.
George700:
I was too lazy this year
I didn't take my life serious
I didn't stop my addiction
Politics / Re: What Are You Regrets In Year 2023? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:21pm On Dec 31, 2023
Better. common format, and it happens a lot.

Grit2943:
Lending people money 😢 😢

I lent someone #1.2 million naira in January 2023 and the person is yet to refund a dime as at now.
He keeps saying that things are really tough for him.
I do not see myself lending someone money again as from 2024 .

I will only gift according to my capacity.
Politics / Re: What Are You Regrets In Year 2023? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:17pm On Dec 31, 2023
Big Error. But you have learned, dont be too hard on yourself.

Sergio107:
Lending people money.

It breaks my heart whenever I remember that the mugu has refused to pay back

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Politics / Re: What Are You Regrets In Year 2023? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:11pm On Dec 31, 2023
cheesy lipsrsealed cry cry cry Not eating enough rice.

Rice
Beans
Rice
Beans
rice
Beans cool cool cool Plantain cheesy cheesy cheesy Good fruits cheesy cheesy cheesy


I regret bandits are not allowing farmers to grow food, what do they want for everyone to go hungry.

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Politics / Re: 27 States Attracted Zero Foreign Investments In 9 Months by SeriouslySense(m): 10:50am On Dec 30, 2023
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Politics / Re: Trending On Quora: "Why Are Nigerians Fleeing Nigeria" by SeriouslySense(m): 7:41pm On Dec 29, 2023
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Travel / Re: "We Are Too Much In UK Thats Why Light Went Off" Nigerian Man Says (video) by SeriouslySense(m): 7:34pm On Dec 27, 2023
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Career / Re: Nigerian Woman Gets Fired In The UK Before First Shift After Bragging On Tiktok by SeriouslySense(m): 8:47pm On Dec 26, 2023
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Romance / Re: What's Your Plan For 2024? by SeriouslySense(m): 5:13pm On Dec 24, 2023
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Religion / Re: What Makes You To Adhere To Your Church? by SeriouslySense(m): 9:29am On Dec 24, 2023
By the help of God, i can adhere to a church, on my own i would not be to do so. Because i dont like going cool

But if i should add, i think understanding makes me to go church, because i seek to understand the creator who made me, when i get new understanding, and knowledge i am amazed, at the awesome God. smiley smiley


Thanks be to God, for his mercies and kindness, and his salvation. I do not deserve these things, but his thoughts is to give us life and in abundance. Praise God
Family / Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by SeriouslySense(m): 1:08pm On Dec 23, 2023
You have done the right thing to be genorous despite her deceits, and moving on.

You are right, and that is the right thing to do, but i think in nigeria, especially southern Nigeria, we tend to to become easily jealous, and want others to be lower than us, because we like using power to oppress and use those who dont have the same priviledges, such culture destroys the people in the long run. And thinking like how you are thinking is wise and that is how we should be thinking.

Being together as a family, helps in knowledge sharing, even in skill discovery, if the family are wise and not forcused on quarrels and drama.
It also helps to pass on wisdom acquired by elders and helps the children to be more confident and know a lot about their strenghts.

Although we may be losing some of these things, but these are the ties that helps us, when we cannot help ourselves.

I hope she stops that attitude, because it breaks family ties, and what if she is alone and trully needs help, no one will trust she is authentic.

Building the house and hiding that fact from everyone, is not a problem, but pretending to be broke and collecting money is the matter, she should not try to look smart and make others look like fools, especially if her intention was to use it as a means to gather capital. cheesy cheesy



babaYIBO:


I’m not dwelling on the pain whatsoever and I’ve really moved on. Most times when I’m sharing money to my siblings in festive periods, I still include her in the sharing.

But her actions has thought me to not put her on the family level that I put others, I honestly now see her as a stranger.

I’m a family oriented person and I believe the way we treat family should be different from the way we treat strangers. Usually treating your family with regards and love will not be just for your own benefit, but also foster on your kids too.

How you treat your siblings will definitely have impact your children as well.

You don’t treat your siblings like a total stranger and expect them to treat your children like your own when you’re around or not.

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Family / Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by SeriouslySense(m): 12:55pm On Dec 23, 2023
If you claim you really care, then you wil move on, because its time to do so, do not dwell on pain. At least not for long.

babaYIBO:


The most painful part is that I have so much regard for her.

I’m never entitled to her money, infact I sometimes give her money because of her level of acting broke.

I also go out of way to make sure I stand for her even when she had issue with my dad when he was alive.

You know that feeling when you love someone, not because of what they want to give you, but because you just want the best for them and you want them to be happy.

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Family / Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by SeriouslySense(m): 12:50pm On Dec 23, 2023
At least she you dont have to worry about her, since she has something that could help her.

Although there is no longer trust, but she can stand on her own.

Move on and focus on whats ahead.

But that her pretending was not good, seems she used the family to gather capital wink

babaYIBO:


You people aren’t seeing this thing in the same perspective as I want, but I understand, this is the internet until it becomes your reality.

I’m talking about someone that go about acting broke and all the family would not mind contributing to donate to her.

Funniest thing is, non of our parents know and my dad to death complained about the fact that she’s the most different amongst us. I was defending her in front of my dad. Begging him to forgive her whatever she must hav done.

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Family / Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by SeriouslySense(m): 12:28pm On Dec 23, 2023
You got it, i think that's the issue, hiding the house is not the matter, it is pretending to be broke.

advanceDNA:

Building ur own place secretly is one thing ...

pretending to be broke, building ur own house and telling ur folks to give ur money is another thing ....That's exploitation of family ties and the church mind ur family members naturally have towards u..... It's wickedness.
Travel / Re: I Travel On The Lagos Ibadan Train For Free. Nairalander Share Travel Experience by SeriouslySense(m): 10:27am On Dec 23, 2023
I enjoy trains in other countries, they are very efficient, and faster than buses cool

smiley smiley Its also clean, safe, and everybody behaves well.

I hope Nigerians can behave like decent people on trains.
Romance / Re: Can You Marry An Ex Hook Up Girl If She Changed? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:00pm On Dec 22, 2023
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but men want all women to be sleeping with them, so which one will remain.



tnerro1:
If you do that, ur gateman, driver and neighbors go enjoy tire😋😋

But life na risks, so who am I to stop you 😋😋😋
Romance / Re: Can You Marry An Ex Hook Up Girl If She Changed? by SeriouslySense(m): 9:49pm On Dec 22, 2023
I can if she has grown responsible enough and is decent, kind and wise

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Properties / Re: He Completed His House Without Uttering A Single Word To Me As A Close Friend by SeriouslySense(m): 9:44pm On Dec 22, 2023
i think you are too attached to people who you consider friend.

and they may not appreciate such closeness.

So learn to stop attaching yourself to people who do not value such. And they may not really understand whay you expect from them or they may not be able to relate as you do.

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Crime / Re: Wisdom Onyekwere: 12-Year-Old Boy Missing In Lagos by SeriouslySense(m): 8:58am On Dec 22, 2023
Were the doors locked, how did he go missing in such a short time, is the house that big, why did the child not raise alarm.
Business / Re: How Is Cash Availability In Your Area? by SeriouslySense(m): 8:24pm On Dec 21, 2023
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namedo:
True.
This is really despicable!
Business / Re: How Is Cash Availability In Your Area? by SeriouslySense(m): 6:33pm On Dec 21, 2023
Business / Re: Fire Destroys Goods Worth Over ₦‎300 Million In Anambra Market by SeriouslySense(m): 9:55am On Dec 21, 2023
Welcome back, then it means i like nairaland. undecided cool

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Crime / Re: Barrister Brutally Attacks Wife Over A Key In Uyo, Akwa Ibom (Photos) by SeriouslySense(m): 7:45pm On Dec 16, 2023
That is why men should be honest and stop pretending, tell her and help her, or encourage her, not forceful though.

Anyway its already late for all of that, he has already damaged her mouth and her belly has grown too big, it will take a lot of work to bring it back.

But with fitness apps, its possible withing one year, of consistent training.


Women should try, you can do it, and be your husbands wine, try pedometer (android app), you can walk within your homes.

Also reduce late night dinner smiley

Justiceleague1:

That's not what she needs,should she live her life at the approval of others?

She needs her space,to be away from the monster she got as husband for good

Crime / Re: Barrister Brutally Attacks Wife Over A Key In Uyo, Akwa Ibom (Photos) by SeriouslySense(m): 7:35pm On Dec 16, 2023
Body shaming her, is not right in this situation, where she has just been abused, and does not warrant such abuse. Advising her to have a healthier body is more helpful. But was it really an indirect factor in her assault.

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Crime / Re: Barrister Brutally Attacks Wife Over A Key In Uyo, Akwa Ibom (Photos) by SeriouslySense(m): 7:25pm On Dec 16, 2023
will reserve until further comments have been inspected.

But, its abuse abusive shocked shocked lipsrsealed. Insanity.
Romance / Re: SA Woman Loses N30-million To Ugandan Boyfriend & Prophetess In Love Scam (PICS) by SeriouslySense(m): 11:22am On Dec 16, 2023
cheesy, how i wish
membranus:


I dey sell IQ.

In Rands pls.
Romance / Re: SA Woman Loses N30-million To Ugandan Boyfriend & Prophetess In Love Scam (PICS) by SeriouslySense(m): 10:06am On Dec 16, 2023
IQ
IQ
IQ
IQ
Please i need more IQ. Thank you. grin

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Romance / Re: Lady Weds Her Physically Challenged Lover In Akwa Ibom by SeriouslySense(m): 8:17pm On Dec 14, 2023
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Dennisochampa:
Whatever makes her happy....
My prayer is for God to bless their home....
May they find peace... Love and happiness while growing old together... Amen
Romance / Re: Lady Weds Her Physically Challenged Lover In Akwa Ibom by SeriouslySense(m): 7:59pm On Dec 14, 2023
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NYSC / Re: Chaos At NYSC Abuja Camp: Alleged Assault By Commandant On Corps Members by SeriouslySense(m): 4:42pm On Dec 14, 2023
Does the training include throwing stones on the corps, and brutalizing market sellers. cheesy

gentlekeny:
simple basic training, you tag it assault

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