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LAGOS— Less than six days to his appearance before
Magistrate A. J. Atunwa at Roseline Omotosho Court
House in Ikeja, GRA, for alleged theft of nine iPhone
sets, Nollywood filmmaker, Seun Egbegbe, who had a
celebrated romance with popular actress, Toyin
Aimakhu, has been arrested for a case of fraud at the
Gbagada General Hospital, Lagos.
The reports, supported by a video clip, which has
since gone viral on social media, claims that the
filmmaker, disguised as a doctor, attempted to defraud
a Bureau de Change operator of hard currency of an
amount above N6 million.
Confirming the report, the Lagos State Police
Command has issued a statement signed by the Police
Public Relations Officer, Dolapo Badmus.
Seun Egbegbe
In the statement, entitled Arrest of Fraudsters , the
PPRO explained how the incident happened: “Today
(yesterday) at about 1p.m., one Seun Karim, a.k.a.
Egbegbe, and one Ayo Oyekan, disguised as the MD of
Gbagada General Hospital and the other as a patient.
“They lured one Alhaji Isa Adamu and Abdullahi
Haruna, both Bureau de Change members, from
different locations, that they needed US9,000 dollars
and £3,000 pounds.
“The unsuspecting victims brought same to the
suspects at the hospital, where they collected the
said amount and attempted to escape with the money.
“The victims raised alarm and subsequently the
suspects were arrested by the policemen attached to
the hospital.
“Further to the arrest of the fraudsters, many members
of the bureau de change are trooping to the office
with similar complaint against the suspects.”
At the official rate of N305 to one US$, 9,000 dollars
would approximate N2,742,740.12, while at N381.64
official rate for the one pound, £3,000 comes to
N1,144,915.27.
However, at the parallel market where one USD goes
for N497, $9,000 would fetch N4,473,000, while £3,000
would fetch N1,836,000, with N612 pursuing one
British pound. The total street value of the forex
involved comes to N6,309,000.
Recall that last November, Seun Egbegbe was arrested
after he was beaten to a pulp at the Computer Village,
Ikeja, for allegedly attempting to cart away nine sets
of iPhones.
He was subsequently charged to court and is due to
appear in court February 8, after the first hearing in
the case was adjourned.






http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/02/nollywood-filmmaker-seun-egbegbe-arrested-n6-3m-forex-scam/

The Group Managing Director (GMD) of the Nigeria
National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC), Dr Maikanti
Baru, on Thursday said the corporation saved 500
million dollars (N152.4bn) on oil products sales.
Baru disclosed at the opening of bid for the Direct
Sale Direct Purchase (DSDP), at the NNPC Towers in
Abuja. Newsmen reports that DSDP is a model
introduced in 2016; carried out through direct sales of
crude oil to refiners or consultants, who in turn
supply NNPC with equivalent worth of products.
Journalists also reports that 128 Indigenous and
International Oil and Gas companies indicated interest
to participate in the 2017 DSDP programme.
*Gas pipelines
The batch over which the bids were opened is
scheduled to last for the next one year, starting from
April 1. “The DSDP programme has also recorded
significant cost savings of over half a billion dollars
through major reduction in the amount we paid for
both demurrage and the product themselves.
“It ensures that the supplies from refineries are fully
augmented to meet the national supply as well as a
sustained over 30 days sufficiency particularly with
petrol. “The programme is very transparent and the
major instruments on the partnership between the
NNPC and the product supplies both local and
international, we have as part of this programme,”
Baru said.
In an interview with newsmen on the sideline of the
bidding process the GMD said the requirement was
that the bidder must have physical presence in
Nigeria. “The major drive here is to ensure that
Nigerians are not left out and to ensure that those that
emerge, whether consortium or single, must have
physical presence in Nigeria.
“That means they must have depots or retail outlets
as a minimum or they must be involved with
exploration or production of crude oil. “So we will
ensure that most of them are domiciled here in
Nigeria. This year’s programme for DSDP is about 800,
000 barrels at most,” he said. He said the tenders will
be based on West African quality specifications and
we will maintain the latest which is 50 per cent of
sulphur content. It was equally reported that the
corporation saved a billion dollars from the DSDP
programme in 2016.









http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/02/fg-opens-128-bids-saves-500m-oil-products-dr-maikanti-baru/

Alexchubee:
educative

You are right

Justice awaits you dudes

Hell awaits you bro

When a relationship is doing more harm to you than good, it’s time to quit it. Jumia Travel shares 4 signs to help you determine when a relationship is doing more harm to you than good.
ABUSE
Be it physical or emotional abuse, any type of abuse is a glaring sign that you should quit the relationship. Please don’t be lenient with abuse or make excuses for it; simply let go and move on because abuse is one of the clearest ways to communicate a lack of care, love and respect for someone. Abuse does not go hand in hand with love, if anything they are polar opposites. Although, one thing to note here is that emotional abuse is more relative than physical abuse. For instance, there is arguably a degree of emotional abuse in every relationship. When you try to control your partner or influence them emotionally to act or behave in a certain way, by ignoring them (ignoring their calls, messages etc), refusing to talk to them (the silent treatment), being provocative with the other sex (trying to make them jealous) and so on, to a degree that’s emotional abuse. These are all elements of emotional abuse that are born from the very fair fact that we are human. But when emotional abuse becomes dangerous, is when you begin to lose your confidence and live in fear of what your partner is going to do to you next emotionally.
LIES
If anyone you are in a relationship with, be it a romantic relationship or a friendship, constantly lies to you or finds it difficult to tell you the truth, it communicates a lack of trust and a lack of respect for you. If you can’t trust the person(s) you are in a relationship with, things remain unsettled. Such lack of trust can lead to paranoia (an intense feeling of anxiety, fear and unrest) for you, which is very unhealthy. Without trust, there is no point remaining in the relationship and continuing to torture yourself emotionally.
THEY NEVER ADMIT THEIR FAULTS
This is one thing most people ignore as a red flag in a relationship, probably because they don’t understand just how important it is. When someone finds it difficult to admit they are wrong, the next thing they do is pass the blame. Now when you are constantly at the receiving end of the blame, even if you are fine with constantly saying you are sorry, you allow what is called a “cognitive dissonance” to be formed in your mind. This means that as you continuously act in a way that contradicts your beliefs, eventually your beliefs will change to align with your actions. In other words, after a while you will begin to believe you are the one who is always wrong and start to doubt your ability to perceive what’s right and wrong. Eventually, it ends up affecting your ability to make decisions and be assertive as individual, and you end up constantly feeling confused, having lost confidence in yourself and abilities. It’s truly a terrible place to be, so please don’t let any relationship take you there.
CONSTANT FEELING OF BEING OVERWHELMED
When you constantly feel overwhelmed by your relationship, almost like you can’t get a break; when you look back and can’t remember any significantly joyful memory in your relationship, you should acknowledge that it is abnormal. As much as a relationship can at times bring you sadness, it should also bring you joy. If all you can remember when you think back on you relationship, is a long thick dark tiring stretch of fights, pain and sadness, with little or no joy, that’s not appropriate. Relationships may not generally be very easy but they should not suck the life out of you, leaving you miserable and unhappy.

The Supreme in Abuja on Friday dismissed a suit filed
by the Federal Government challenging the Land
Regularisation Policy of the Lagos State Government.
A seven-man panel of the apex court, in a ruling,
upheld the preliminary objection filed by the State
Government to contest the legality of the suit.
By the policy, the State Government had specified the
process of ratifying the title of holders of Certificates
of Occupancy said to have been obtained from the
Federal Government.
But the Attorney General of the Federation (AGF)
represented by Mr. Olisa Agbakoba (SAN), had in a
suit with reference number SC/50/ 2011, invoked the
original jurisdiction of the Supreme Court to challenge
provisions of the policy.
While arguing the case, Agbakoba had cited particular
properties where title holders were required by Lagos
State to pay certain amount as “Ratification” of their
title before any other transactions can be permitted on
such land.
But by way of a preliminary objection, the State
Government raised objection to the effect that the
Supreme Court could not exercise original jurisdiction
in the matter, reason being that the subject matter
was a land matter within the exclusive jurisdiction of
the High Court.
The office of the State’s Attorney General and
Commissioner for Justice, also argued that the AGF
lacked the locus to file the action on behalf of the
Federation against the State Government on account
of the fact that the matter in dispute was between
Federal Government and the Lagos State Government.
The arguments of the State was said to have been
based on a recent judgment of the Supreme Court
delivered in 2014 where the apex court held that
disputes between a State Government and the Federal
Government cannot be arrogated to the Federation of
Nigeria in order to cloak the Supreme Court with
Jurisdiction to hear same.
After considering arguments for and against the suit,
the Supreme Court in its ruling delivered by Justice
Clara Ogunbiyi held that although it did not agree that
it could not entertain the matter in its original
jurisdiction, but from available evidence, the Federal
Government had divested itself of the titles to
properties which were subject of the suit and
therefore had no locus to bring the action.
The preliminary objection of the State Government was
therefore upheld and the suit dismissed.
By the decision, the Supreme Court has now laid the
dispute to final rest.








http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/01/supreme-court-dismisses-fgs-suit-challenging-lagos-land-regularisation-policy/

Abuja – The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) Governors’ Forum on Friday announced the appointment of Gov. Ayodele Fayose of Ekiti state as its new Chairman. Gov. Seriake Dickson of Bayelsa made the announcement while briefing newsmen on the outcome of the Forum and PDP Caucus meeting which ended in the early hours of Friday in Abuja. Fayose Dickson said that the PDP chieftains had a very fruitful deliberation on the state of the nation and the party. “As an integral part of the discussion, the governors of our party, among ourselves, as well as those who were unavoidably absent, unanimously appointed a new PDP Governors’ Forum Chairman. “In line with the tradition of our party, we agreed to appoint our colleague, the most senior governor in PDP, Ayodele Fayose, the governor of Ekiti as new Chairman of the PDP Governors’ Forum. “You are all aware that he is a committed party man, doing a wonderful job in his state. He is well experienced and committed to the ideals of our party. “We have all unanimously appointed him as the new Chairman of the PDP Governors’ Forum to coordinate the affairs and activities of our forum and to work and collaborate with other structures of our party,” he said. The Bayelsa governor, on behalf of the forum, expressed appreciation for the sacrifices and contributions of the outgoing chairman of the forum, Gov. Olusegun Mimiko of Ondo state, to the forum and the party. “He did a very wonderful job while he served as our chairman, leading and coordinating our activities. “He is now rounding off his meritorious eight years’ service to his state and to Nigeria.” He said that the forum wished Mimiko well as he would continue to work as a leader to move PDP and the nation forward. Speaking with newsmen after the announcement, Fayose said that he had accepted the responsibility to work as chairman of PDP Governors Forum. He pledged that he would work with stakeholders, including the National Assembly, to restore the glory of the PDP. “I take this responsibility at a time the party needs somebody to stand up. I am sure you all know that we will do it to represent Nigerians well. “It is a call to pull the walls of Jericho down; it is a call to make a difference. “I want to assure you that within the next few months, the mobilisation, the consultation will be so effective and there will be a new beginning for our party – different and enriching,” Fayose said. He also commended his predecessor, Mimiko, for his contributions to PDP, saying time would not permit him to continue. “I will take over from where he stopped. Come 2019, we will take over again, we are going to come back again,” he said. Fayose added that some people in their imaginations believed that PDP was divided but that in a short while, the party would be stronger than ever. The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that leaders of the party present at the meeting pledged their support for Fayose. Chairman of National Caretaker Committee of the party, Sen. Ahmed Makarfi, said leadership would give Fayose the needed support. Chairman of the Board of Trustees (BoT), Sen. Walid Jubril, also pledged the board support to Fayose. “This is the beginning of success and the continuation of the party to be one. “So, all speculations by any other person about the disintegration of the party are gone. We are one and we will continue to be one,” Jubril said. Deputy President of the Senate, Ike Ekweremadu, assured that members of the party at the National Assembly would support the new leadership of the party’s Governors’ Forum.




http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/01/fayose-emerges-pdp-governors-forum-chairman/

otokx:
Give me Port Harcourt International Airport

and then

Stupid troops. do you think you will find him I pity innocent soul shan

I will surely be there

chaii. Life goes on sha

u should have think twice b4 doing that. Be prayerful God will do it.

Man u: Always the best.
king of England

infected nunu. Abasha

noted.

Minister of State for Aviation, Senator Hadi Sirika has
said the need to concession the maintenance of
airport infrastructure and the building of new ones
across the country is inevitable as that is the only
way to maintain high standard and efficiency in the
running of airport operations across the country in
keeping with global standards.
Sirika made this justification when he received a
delegation from the International Enterprise Singapore
led by its Director, Middle East and Africa Group, Ian
Lee. He said government is strongly committed to
providing an enabling environment for investors to
thrive in the aviation sector with rules and regulations
to make the industry economically attractive.
According to Mr
James A. Odaudu,
Deputy Director,
Press & Public
Affairs, Ministry of
Aviation, the
minister also said
the government has
made concerted
efforts on the
improvement of
security in the
country with the
virtual defeat of the
Boko Haram
insurgents that had
terrorized the nation
in the immediate
past, and also “
confirmed that the
procurement
processes for the
Concession and the
National Carrier had reached advanced stages as
government would soon appoint Transaction
Advisers.”
“He expressed delight at the interest shown by
International Enterprise Singapore and other
Singaporean firms in Nigeria’s aviation industry and
assured them of the federal government’s openness
and preparedness to work with all serious minded and
sincere investors who have the know-how to
contribute to the nation’s development.”
Sirika also used the visit to explain the rationale
behind the decision to temporarily shut down
operations at the Nnamdi Azikiwe International Airport
Abuja for repair works on the airport runway, saying it
was purely based on safety considerations He also
explained that while the whole renovation work would
last for six months, the six-week closure would
enable the restoration of the runway to a usable state.
Responding, the leader of the delegation and Director
of the Middle East and Africa Group of International
Enterprise Singapore, Ian Lee said they were in the
country to establish their interest in building business
relationships with Nigeria and Nigerian companies,
especially in the Aviation Sector where they have
identified the on-going Airport Infrastructure
Concession and the proposed National Carrier as
areas of high interest.
He told the Minister that the main purpose of IE
Singapore is to drive Singapore’s external economy,
by growing Globally Competitive Companies and
promoting international trade to ensure Singapore’s
growth in a globalized world.
He further disclosed that with 39 offices in over 20
countries, in addition to being based in Singapore, IE
Singapore offers services to help enterprises export,
develop business capabilities, find overseas markets
and to enter new markets, through its Global Company
Partnership and Market Readiness Assistance
frameworks.
According to him, Nigeria represents the future of the
African continent going by its political and economic
stature which has placed it in the leadership position
it now occupies. This, he said has made the country
highly attractive to prospective investors, especially
from Singapore and expressed his country’s desire to
forge a better and mutually beneficial economic
relationship with Nigeria.





http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/01/concessioning-nigeria-airports-inevitable-sirika/

Adele_Water under the bridge.

End time pastors all over.

Really

A number of residents of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) have attributed the pressure on single ladies to get married at certain age in Nigeria to societal beliefs. Society expects females to get married in their 20’s as they are seen to be at the prime of their beauty, strength, fertility and maturity. The residents, who spoke in Abuja on Sunday, gave their opinions on various factors that made women feel pressured by society to get married early. Miss Toke Makinwa, an entrepreneur, and a blogger on marriage issues, said that fertility was taken into strong consideration by society, therefore putting pressure on women to get married at their prime. “Women below 30 are known to have better chances at having healthy pregnancies and healthy children, so I believe that women who are getting closer to 30 and haven’t gotten married feel immense pressure from society. “Having parents stress the fact that they want to have their grandchildren early does not help matters too, so I assume fertility is the underlining cause of the societal pressure on single women,” she said. Mr Marcus Solomon, a stock broker said that women allowed the pressure get to them because they think men view beauty and fertility as the deciding factors for marriage. “Women are at the prime of their beauty and fertility when they are in their 20’s, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be as good looking or productive when they are older. “It also doesn’t mean that they will suddenly become barren or their fertile eggs will become fried eggs or something of that sort, so they should relieve themselves of the pressure from society. “However, I think that the major thing that makes women feel pressured is the fact that they believe that men are attracted to only beautiful women and their beauty will wane as they age. “Women should know that all good men look for a girl who is presentable, but also has a good personality and character and no matter the age she is, the man will marry her if she makes him happy. “The lady in question just has to be patient and be realistic with her expectations of a relationship,” he said. Mrs Nwanneka Agbasi, an accountant, said “I believe that young women also pressurise themselves because they feel left behind by their friends and peers.” “When they begin to notice that most of their friends are getting married and having children while they themselves are not even in a serious relationship, they tend to get worried. “Most will put on a brave face and force themselves to be patient, but deep down they are wondering if they have a major flaw that has caused them to remain single. “Coupled with the fact that age comes with its physical effects, the desperate women will see the need to settle with any man possible even when they know the man is not right for them. “Ladies shouldn’t be pushed into marriage because marriage is not an easy task, it is something that can be emotionally and mentally draining, which is not easy to manage. “Everyone looks at the expensive and lavish Nigerian weddings that hold, but no one talks about the high level of divorces and the individuals coping with unhappiness and domestic violence in their marriages. “I believe it is better to be single and happy, than depressed with a spouse.”

knightsson:
Quite a long epistle.

Really.

Former Military President and elder statesman, General
Ibrahim Babangida, has called for national unity, noting
that “in our collective and individual resolves, we should
keep Nigeria’s unity, irrespective of sectional, religious and
cultural leanings”.
Speaking on the occasion of the 2017 Armed Forces
Remembrance Day Celebrations, Babangida expressed joy
that this year’s celebration is coming at a time our armed
forces are gaining more ground in the fight against
insurgency.
In a statement by his media office, IBB said, “As we
celebrate the Armed forces remembrance day, we should
take a stock of our uniqueness and sacrifices by our men
and women of the armed forces especially the fallen
heroes that paid the supreme sacrifices of maintaining
peace not only in our country but beyond the shores of
Nigeria”.
Commending the military for containing Boko Haram
terrorists, Babangida posited that recent events across
the country on general insecurity and economic sabotage
are a source of concern to every well-meaning Nigerian.
Meanwhile, Niger State Governor Abubakar Sani Bello has
expressed displeasure over the way and manner soldiers
who fought for the peace, unity and progress of the
country are neglected and pleaded for a special attention
and support for them.
He made the passionate plea during the launching of the
2017 official launch/ sale of poppy to mark the Armed
Forces Remembrance Appeal Week, held at Government
House, Minna.
Announcing a cash donation of N6million, on behalf of the
state government and a personal donation of N250, 000,
the governor directed all local government councils in the
state to support legionnaires.



http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/01/armed-forces-remembrance-day-celebration-2017-ibb-sues-national-unity/

yanabasee:
Lovemaking has nothing to do with either the married or singles but a lot to do with the man and woman's strength....


How long he'd last and romantic the lady is.... most times.... people don't understand that there are things u say that will make the pre-intimacy enjoyable..

Most times...the face either of the foreplayer is giving during bedding... a sexy face and a good smile mixed with an appreciating face will make it all sexy for the both of them....


In all.... how much the both understand themselves when ever they embark on this tie of ecstasy....Most times with a pinch of romance...tickling and vellication then soft kissing to gentle touch of her body...making her feel ur hands all over her body like some octopus... lemme stop here.....

U mean both couples and singles do enjoy sex

Considering the chaos of family life, you might imagine this to be a special occasion but we have sex practically every night. Intimacy is a huge part of our 14-year relationship,” the glue that bonds our marriage together. Having three children is no excuse for letting your love life dwindle”. Anjola is reacting to the view that the more children a couple has, the more they relegate sex to the back burner. “I feel desperately sorry for couples who find themselves boxed to this unfortunate corner,” she continues. “It is a surprise they would let a crucial side of their relationship wane. Luckily for me, I am self-employed and work flexible hours. But after a day spent looking after the children, I yearn for my husband’s embrace. His desire for me makes me feel alive, confident and secure. It has boosted my self- esteem and I believe helped me through postnatal depression, as well as the devastation of two miscarriages. I could never imagine going for days – let alone months – without making love with him. “I was 21 and doing my youth service when we met and he was one of the bosses in the logistics company I served at. When we started dating, we waited months before making love. When we did, the chemistry was palpable – and it has remained so over a decade together and three children. For some women – and their partners – the thought of sex during pregnancy is a huge turn off. But for me, that’s when my libido goes through the roof. Fred used to joke: ‘Leave me alone, I’m exhausted!’’’ Surely, she and her husband couldn’t be at it every day?! “Of course not! there are times when nature knows best. Like most new mums, sex was the last thing on my mind immediately after giving birth. But it never even occurred to me that things wouldn’t pick up again in the bedroom as soon as I healed. After my six- week check-up, we became intimate again and it felt so natural. It was gentler than before the birth, but a relief to be able to show each other physica1 affection again. Not that it was plain- sailing- I struggled with over-tiredness and began to suffer lethargy. I also had a bout of postnatal depression and was prescribed antidepressants. “For some, libido vanishes with depression. But, if anything, sex became more important to me, as it helped me more than any medication. The endorphine release that sex produces boosted my feel-good hormones like no tablet ever could. Admittedly my body has changed after three children, but the fact that Fred found me attractive made me feel sexy and desirable. We are lucky that our children sleep well. I can understand why some others feel too exhausted to want sex. But on my most bleary-eyed days, I can spare an hour to be intimate with my husband’s physical attention as much as he needs me. I make an extra special effort for him too, and whatever drab clothes I have on, underneath them I always wear beautiful, matching, lacy lingerie. It is as much a treat for him as it is for me. “Today, sex is just as important to us as it ever was, if not more so. As busy working-parents of three children, you might expect us to have to schedule it into the diary, but that would spoil the fun. Instead, we simply go to bed around 10.00pm and make love most nights. I’d have to re-evaluate my entire relationship if I hadn’t had sex for more than a few days. It’s not that I think that Fred would look elsewhere. Some women say they go off sex because their body has changed or their partners body has altered. My husband and I are by no means perfect specimens. I was very slim when we met but I’ve put on some weight. Fred’s weight has fluctuated too. But in all that time, we’ve never stopped fancying each other. “Fred is my best friend. He was here before we had our children and he will be here when they’ve flown the nest. We see it happen so often – couples separating when their children have left home because they have nothing at all in common. 1 could never allow that to happen … ‘’ A Leopard and its Spots! (Humour) A couple return from their honeymoon and it’s obvious to everyone that they’re not talking to each other. The groom’s best man takes him aside and asks what’s wrong. “Well” replies the man, “when we finished making love on the first night, I got up to go to the bathroom and placed three N1,000 notes on the pillow without thinking.” “Oh, I shouldn’t worry about that too much,” says his friend. “I’m sure your wife will get over it soon enough. She can’t expect you to have been saving yourself all these years.” The groom, nods his head gravely and continues: “I don’t know I’ll get over it though. “Tonight, once our three young children are in bed, my husband Fred and I will head upstairs together for an early night,” says Anjola, a 36-year old cosmetologist. “We might have a glass of wine each and, afterwards, give each other a massage and, chances are, we’ll make love before falling asleep in each other’s arms. Considering the chaos of family life, you might imagine this to be a special occasion but we have sex practically every night. Intimacy is a huge part of our 14-year relationship,” the glue that bonds our marriage together. Having three children is no excuse for letting your love life dwindle”. Anjola is reacting to the view that the more children a couple has, the more they relegate sex to the back burner. “I feel desperately sorry for couples who find themselves boxed to this unfortunate corner,” she continues. “It is a surprise they would let a crucial side of their relationship wane. Luckily for me, I am self-employed and work flexible hours. But after a day spent looking after the children, I yearn for my husband’s embrace. His desire for me makes me feel alive, confident and secure. It has boosted my self- esteem and I believe helped me through postnatal depression, as well as the devastation of two miscarriages. I could never imagine going for days – let alone months – without making love with him. “I was 21 and doing my youth service when we met and he was one of the bosses in the logistics company I served at. When we started dating, we waited months before making love. When we did, the chemistry was palpable – and it has remained so over a decade together and three children. For some women – and their partners – the thought of sex during pregnancy is a huge turn off. But for me, that’s when my libido goes through the roof. Fred used to joke: ‘Leave me alone, I’m exhausted!’’’ Surely, she and her husband couldn’t be at it every day?! “Of course not! there are times when nature knows best. Like most new mums, sex was the last thing on my mind immediately after giving birth. But it never even occurred to me that things wouldn’t pick up again in the bedroom as soon as I healed. After my six- week check-up, we became intimate again and it felt so natural. It was gentler than before the birth, but a relief to be able to show each other physica1 affection again. Not that it was plain- sailing- I struggled with over-tiredness and began to suffer lethargy. I also had a bout of postnatal depression and was prescribed antidepressants. “For some, libido vanishes with depression. But, if anything, sex became more important to me, as it helped me more than any medication. The endorphine release that sex produces boosted my feel-good hormones like no tablet ever could. Admittedly my body has changed after three children, but the fact that Fred found me attractive made me feel sexy and desirable. We are lucky that our children sleep well. I can understand why some others feel too exhausted to want sex. But on my most bleary-eyed days, I can spare an hour to be intimate with my husband’s physical attention as much as he needs me. I make an extra special effort for him too, and whatever drab clothes I have on, underneath them I always wear beautiful, matching, lacy lingerie. It is as much a treat for him as it is for me. “Today, sex is just as important to us as it ever was, if not more so. As busy working-parents of three children, you might expect us to have to schedule it into the diary, but that would spoil the fun. Instead, we simply go to bed around 10.00pm and make love most nights. I’d have to re- evaluate my entire relationship if I hadn’t had sex for more than a few days. It’s not that I think that Fred would look elsewhere. Some women say they go off sex because their body has changed or their partners body has altered. My husband and I are by no means perfect specimens. I was very slim when we met but I’ve put on some weight. Fred’s weight has fluctuated too. But in all that time, we’ve never stopped fancying each other. “Fred is my best friend. He was here before we had our children and he will be here when they’ve flown the nest. We see it happen so often – couples separating when their children have left home because they have nothing at all in common. 1 could never allow that to happen … ‘’ A Leopard and its Spots! (Humourl A couple return from their honeymoon and it’s obvious to everyone that they’re not talking to each other. The groom’s best man takes him aside and asks what’s wrong. “Well” replies the man, “when we finished making love on the first night, I got up to go to the bathroom and placed three N1,000 notes on the pillow without thinking.” “Oh, I shouldn’t worry about that too much,” says his friend. “I’m sure your wife will get over it soon enough. She can’t expect you to have been saving yourself all these years.” The groom, nods his head gravely and continues: “I don’t know I’ll get over it though. She gave me N500 change.” Birds Of The Same Feather? (Humour} A woman goes to a dating agency saying. She doesn’t care about looks, money or background. All she wants is a decent, honourable man. Later that day, a man comes in and tells them the only thing he is seeking in a woman is intelligence. The agency matches them together at once. They have one thing in common – they’re both compulsive liars!

If you’re single, you imagine all your problems would be solved if you had a partner. If you’re in a relationship, you might wonder if life would be more exciting on your own. But when it comes to sex, is it better when you’re single or is there something about a relationship that makes sex more intense? Single Sex: Singletons can enjoy casual sex with no strings attached. They can freely sleep with whoever they choose…. You’re free to enjoy the moment and may not think too much about the future. Sex can be spontaneous, carefree and exciting. You can have sex with somebody you know, but sex with a stranger can be more of a thrill as it can be easier to lose your inhibitions. s3x Casual sex is seen as risky and naughty, and can give deep physical satisfaction. It can also leave you emotionally empty. They are only life-affirming if both of you want the same. Be sure to protect yourself and your lovers from sexually transmitted infection and pregnancy by using good contraception and condoms every time you have sex. Couple Sex: Most relationships go through an intense period at first when you can’t keep your hands off each other. Because you’ve invested more in each other emotionally; the sexual highs and sense of fulfilment are immense. But the stakes are high and you risk greater heartache if things go wrong. After about a year, the intensity of sex and the passion changes. You know your partner and it’s difficult to shut out the more mundane things in your life. What you get instead is a sense of satisfaction with life as you feel more secure in your relationship. But you can get complacent. Without working at your love life, nights together can soon become mundane and routine.

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ABUJA — The Federal Government, yesterday, stated that the United States was reluctant to release over $ 550 million to Nigeria, being proceeds from identified Gen Sani Abacha loot in the country. Special Adviser to the President on Diaspora and Foreign Affairs, Mrs Abike Dabiri-Erewa, made the disclosure when she addressed newsmen on Asset Recovery and Asset Return organised by the Presidential Advisory Committee Against Corruption, PACAC, in collaboration with Office of the Special Adviser to the President on Diaspora and Foreign Affairs, Abike Dabiri-Erewa. Erewa said: “America is keeping the funds, they are telling us about technicalities, they are saying recover doesn’t mean they can return them.” Late Sani Abacha She lamented the delay in the return of the funds, stating that the person who steals is just as guilty as the person who keeps stolen funds. She said: “The person who steals is a criminal, the person who keeps known stolen funds is also a criminal. We are here to state that every Nigerian in disapora, friends of Nigeria, should join this committee in demanding that every stolen fund of Nigeria recovered in any part of the world should be returned to Nigeria. “You can’t give us aid of a billion dollars and keep a billion dollars of funds you have recovered from Nigeria. We will join the committee to embark on an advocacy with Nigerians outside the world to appeal to these nations to do everything possible to return what belongs to Nigeria.” In his remarks, Chairman of PACAC, Prof Itse Sagay, SAN, stated that the fund was different from the earlier $480 million forfeited to the US following a court judgment in August 2014. Sagay lamenting that the tracing, seizure, forfeiture and return of Nigeria’s assets laundered outside the country had become a challenge due to the uncooperative nature of the countries in possession of the fund.




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