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Good food, feeling of achievement
And maybe peace of mind
If dem nor grow fat peeps go think say the wife dey suffer am

SAMBARRY: children breeded in polygamous homes are always very aggressive and defensive because they are used to an environment where they think everyone is up to something mischievous and so they are always at the defensive. The males don't know how to love or respect women, the females don't know how to respect themselves because they don't know.



No normal right thinking person wants that for their children. Personally I haven't seen a product of polygamy who turned out well. The ones that managed to escape sane and sound know what their mother and even themselves went through so they won't move close to polygamy with a 10 inch pole

I can't believe that some people click like to make you feel better
This is what I call stereotypes at it peak
Polygamous children never turn out well?
Your statement left me gobsmacked -

Igbo men don't make good husband
They only take the shit their wives throw
Their way.

No mind op you. Come dey stroke my tribal women
You want make dem. Shop sand if the men nor provide?
On a serious note. I respect these women
But. The problem be say. 6 women fit die for one man

If you wanna cheat
Cheat am tired with sob stories

Some men mumu sha
Na so domestic violence take dey start

sexymoma: The thing wey dey pain me pass be say her hubby go marry another woman.. i jos nor wan imagine d kind suffer wey her kids go suffer

I tell you

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No one is secretly buying houses it is just common sense
Before I got married I had already had my investment
Even down to group life insurance ( personal one oh)if as a woman am thinking about my unborn kids oh

Yes oh prenuptial all the way
If you want to know a spouse that want your money just ask for prenuptial agreement

lirusehn: pray u dont follow her soonest !!

At least I have live indeed
Na you wey dey fear to die na I pity for

PassingShot: Common! Show respect to the dead dude.

This is the type of post the mod should hide.

I have said my own if you like go kiss ebola patients
Am out

If you know you want to focus on a man
Then tell your parent not to waste time sending you to school
Abi. You can even master the art of scheming
Learn to work for your own money so you can afford the luxuries of life you need

abbey621: It's all about the weakling complex. Most women dream of handsome, wealthy husbands to take care of them, they feel it is the right thing and exactly what they deserve in life. It's only in advanced countries that women are gradually debunking such beliefs. In Nigeria however, husbands or boyfriends are known as caregivers, from hair extensions to monthly allowance; girls are just too ridiculous. For every 10 girls in 9ja, 8 are dependent on their boyfriend or husband, the little money their parents provide or their own personal funds isn't enough to keep up with their extravagant lifestyle, they got's to belong...

I tell ya it. Rate is staggering I swear down

By nospamin it's for stomach upset
And a little rophenegan drop will do the magic

Why do women worry over will and properties? Honestly
Work and save buy your own properties
Abi why una parent send una go school

zainyrazzy: You don't ve to coment if u don't have something nice too say that's very bad thing to say you will die one day and some one some where will say the same to you

No problem
If only I was warned and I did not listen
Don't you think she is been unfair to the children she left behind?

Sometimes you should consider the pple around you

raumdeuter: Does she have a job? Cos I'm wondering how a busy woman would leave her place of work to come to yours to pick quarell

Thats the side effect of marrying a lousy jobless woman

Na wetin good for this kind man obviously
When they were dating he felt that she was inlove
When you go enter gau na when she pour somebody acid and two of una go enter jail
I hate insecure jealous bicthes every where

You know say most women mumu
If Thier husband say jump
Dem go ask how high
She will never rest in peace for leaving her kids mother less
Amen

This thread just show the kind of women we breed
Justbecause. Am married then I should throw my. Unmarried friends away Abi
Una try may God almighty judge you. People for been sentimental towards single. Women ( FYI) I am married and have a child
Dat why. When una husband start to deal with una no go know where to go
Smh for women who think marriage is a destination and achievement
Leave single girls alone they are not the. Cause of your boredom in marriage

Lol at urge
If you don't feel safe
Just opt for the aforementioned . You only live once
There is always someone that will treat you right
Just believe

Mozilla: @davidylan, Busy_body and chihums

Thank you for your comments. She is a Nigerian. We relocated to the UK together shortly after our marriage. One of three things happens when I try to reason with her, I either get shouted at, get a hiss + murderous look and get completely ignored.

Davidylan was quite right. I did notice the stubborn, disrespectful, shouting part while we were dating. But she was always apologetic and conciliatory when she gets hold of herself. The apologetic and conciliatory part disappeared starting from the wedding night.

@Hauwa, I have been working on this marriage starting from our wedding night! My efforts seem not being appreciated and there was no reciprocity!

dont you ever think you can change some one after marriage
on a serious note your wife habour some resentment towards you
can you see a marriage Councillor if everything fails the door is wide open

At poster ur english na die
in life you have three choices
pray for your situation
change your situation
walk away from your situation
so op the choice is yours

i dont think so
get a lawyer to draft an agreement between the two couples which would be signed
then the divorce process can begin from there its easier if the marriage is more than 2 years
but not that the judge will try to reconcile if everything fails then the divorce will be granted
life sometimes happen to us
all the best

kaydada: People must always talk. I For one, even though I do not have a source to quote at this time, I can vehemently state that this news is not true. That been said, the people that decided to pay their tithes and offerings, were they coerced into doing so? Was a Gun put to their heads before they paid their offerings and tithes? Were they told by the pastors in charge that they were going to invest the money for them in some venture where they have stakes in? Had they not paid their taxes to the Government before willingly parting ways with their own money to the church?.... Then why should you be taking panadol for their headaches?

Everyone is entitled to decide how they want to spend their money. If I'm more comfortable giving 'My Money- the one I worked for, one which Your contribution is void', to the church than spending my money at the clubs or on other things I may not be drawn to, should I be crucified for that?

Lets learn to focus on what's Important. Enough said.

did you not see the airline alert
sorry but ebi like say you mumu

you must be sleeping on a moving horse if you think
she will listen to you
just get ready to end the relationship with her if you tell her
some women are just too d---umb to see in beteween the lines
be ready to be called the devil
even if my bff boyfreind or Horseband-whip toast me i will kindly tell him no zip it

after watching some investigative journalism on Youtube about religion
i gave up
right now i go to church just to past time

2sExy1: you just abandone us like this disappear. glad you back. I heard the news and I am happy for you that you go what you want at last! stay blessed!

thanks
how you dey

It's just. A name he should get over himself jor











Am guilty of dis 2

This is alarming

Naija women and insecurities
Why are you shaking like a headless chick
Communications is the key
Abi you dey fear say somebody wan take over ya duties
Lol
Talk in a sweet way and manner
Your husband will change
Gradually don't rush

How. Do I get emergency Number my little brother who is13. Is showing symptoms of Ebola I currently live in abuja
This. Is. An emergency
Thanks

Before u check ur partner's fone decide what do what ever the outcome is
I never pray for my self finish na one man I go put for my head
Name marriage go even send some people go hell