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EfemenaXY:
Why should you feel betrayed? Over what?

It's her body, not yours. Besides, you won't be the one left holding the baby, making sacrifices and keeping a big chunk of your life on hold - she will.

Tell them you feel betrayed. Have you spoken to her
You men think when you marry a woman she has no right to her body yimu to you all

2 years he even try sef

I vote for
Rokiatu
Vivly
African apple
Jennimma
Annypie
Omolola1
Martha k
Temmie grace

Busted lol

I noticed that mostimes the most hard working African good wives die before their husband because they carry around so much anger and hate while keeping it in the family
I pity them though

Dancing azonto lol
Running to book 50 bags
Get till 20100

kendrick93:
ashawo.. followin politicians. dats why u divourced ur husband.... time isnt on ur side anymore,remember u are turnin into an old cargo

How is dat ur business
Her staying in her marriage may be it will help you solve your problem
Baba gwegwe
Oshinko

This is just to show some people from a particular region of this country are kinda dumb and gullible
Ha ha ha
Prison break ko
Kim Kardashian ni

Most pple marry with the hope their partners will
Change Lmao
You are on a brakeless train

Most women tend relax sexually after marriage
:-
But I blame you op you knew she doesn't like sex
Before marriage but you went for her because in your mind She decent Abi
Am sure you had other sex kittens you felt them too spoil
Oya deal na ya cross carry after all Jesus carry him own

What people don't know is that majority of. People are good at pretending
When them show you attitude you go bow
Make we just pray make God no put us for a scenario that we can't control

Bully ke
If she bully you then take her by the horn
Shikena

Both
Depending on the mood and the person

Rosarie:
u just started d journey of marriage.soon u will see a diffrenet husband.even the bible says therefore a man will leave his father and mother and cling unto his wife and both of dem shall be one flesh and one body.the man is d head.if u want happiness i advice u to make a u turn though i believe u a lying.no African man will allow u to SOLELY bear your fathers name.so the mr and mrs u will be ur fathera name den he will write mr his own.lolpls tell dat to birds

Show me in your bible that say I should bear my husband name
Or he should bear my name since we are one
Africans and follow mentality. When you go to the village and you. Call some one name they can only identify you with your father's name most times they ask you who is your father and not who is your husband

I got married a year ago but
I and hubby agreed. That there shall be no change of name until after 20 deserving years
I made him understand he has to earn it
And we are fine :-)I no fit. Shout

Kanwulia:
Women raised with low self-esteem issues!
100% YES!
They should DIE inside the abuse.
No sympathies!
Amen.


If na to fight other women for the same BEASTS OF MEN . . . dem mouth go dey run like 'mmiri jordan' ati 'by the rivers of babylon'!
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!

Funny enough you are right

write2obi:
My dear lemmie advice you,
There is no anus that you open and wouldn't see Shit.
If you have a cat that always eat your fish, what do you do?

Start locking your kitchen. Simple

If you like allow this E-hypocrites to deceive you,
* If you live your home cos your husband pucked your maid, lemmie tell you what will happen
-you will turn to that woman that lost her husband to her maid
*If you leave your maid.
-he will puck her gain


Like i said be4 make your honey pot attractive n available. Lemmie see how he is going to puck your maid with a limp dik

Stories that touch the truth is some men or women like the side attractions

write2obi:
What was she suppose to do? Chase her husband out ?


It's for better for worse remember?
So the best solution is to
1. send the maid parking
2. Make ur honey pot attractive and available to your husband at all time.
3. Try to make your next maid as ugly as possible.

Before you know your husband go sleep with your mama,your sister and then your daughter before you know you go chase all your family
Start to seek responsibility from the men
When people start taking responsibility they always think twice

This is a big blow below the belt

Sometimes is best to keep things discreet not because you are a mu----mu
The truth is that are not after her because she showed off but she never quoted any sources
May God help us all

lottoe:
You are right!...dont mind these girls.

And don't mind those men

Am crazy over bike and the guys riding dem

So many stuff
What I do now is i pay for extra seat and keep for stuff jeje and tell the driver or conductor to remind me or else I go swear for them if I forget my stuff

kennz:
Sexybash,l doubt lf ure marid or maybe u av hidden agenda dats y u can supot d motion

Am married and I rarely check hubby's fone
When pple say thershouldn't. Be boundaries in marriage I laugh
Most young folks these days don't want peace in for me. I don't check and am at peace with my self

Na lie lie things nah
Besides they started locking. Before they got married
It's just that the women choose to ignore. The obvious
And also what did you keep inside the man's fone

Abuse is not only limited to women
Men to abuse men
But why would anyone remain in abusive relationship baffles my eye balls out of it socket

Lol
Some men don't do this things but still cheat
;-);-):-o who still check sms and phone
When am suppose to be checking his bank account and talking to his finance manager
Lol

Oluwa naputam any man dat refuse to provide for the family
Most times women aid and abet this men to do poo
You give birth to the first child he doesn't take responsibility
Do not take in for the second :-/
Suse the damn contraceptive. Some men are internally useless
If you can't take care of kids then you don't deserve one
Simple

@ coco I am just stating the obvious
We live in.a society where people are not allowed to be themselves thereby giving room for hypocrisy
Why do men run to get married shortly after they loose their spouse go figure
Most at times the so called new woman is a side chick from yesteryears
I know men who has father kids which thier only wives know nothing about and they secure financial future of those kids
If as a man I can afford polygamy why won't I go for it
Solomon who commuine with God directly practice it
If one can afford it why don't you go for it

cococandy:
So you're getting yours on the side too

See flexing

What make you think so
If only you can see the mind of the so called. Only wife
You go bow

Yeap I agree most men are going to cheat on their wife or have cheated and still cheating
Me and my husband has agreed he going to take a second wife as soon as I clock 45, there no point suffering the guy when I can no longer shine his Congo
This might sound absurd oh but me I like to tell my self the truth.
My girlfriends ask a question what about if the woman get pregnant I tell them so be it
After all I came to this world with no husband and am leaving with none


As for me oh monogamy equals hypocrisy from both parties

@ poster the truth is your wife isn't going to change anytime soon
So I suggest you don't take anything she tells you and make her know you don't trust her
When she is talking to anybody around you
Just tell them before hand that ah
My wife is. Serial liar oh please don't believe her
I assure you within one year she go change:-)