Acidosis:
Your dream of acquiring your father's wealth has been cut short. The wise thing to do now is: build your own house.

It's not about inheriting his property. It is about the amount he sold those houses. And still owe those people. As I am typing this I now own my house.


I'm only thinking of another dimension.

Good day sir/ma, I want you to please advise me on what to do.

It came to pass as I returned from a job travels that took about a year. My father and I do communicate on phone.That is if we have hidden disagreement I wouldn't guessed it's possible. I received a call from one Alhaji(one of the tenants) that I should come back home to pack my housing loads. I couldn't figure what happened until I received another call that my father had sold the house. I couldn't believe it, I went back to Lagos Nigeria to confirm the truth.

Behold it is the truth! I lamented that what could be the reasons my father refused telling me. As the first born and the only graduate of the family, I persuade him (my father) to tell the reason for hiding such plan from me. He couldn't give any good reason for selling such huge houses. He said he owes a bank and a lot of people and couldn't bare it and other flimsy excuses and lies.

There are series of thoughts on my mind now. I couldn't figure "the why" of the whole issues. As the only child of my late mother, I realized I do leave a life of an orphan. What should be the wise steps I should take?

lalasticala please!!!

INFOTECH2:
Thank you all for your kind words. It finally happened by 6:55pm this evening.

A Boy has been gifted into my family by the Almighty.

Very grateful to the Almighty for this miracle and I also pray the guidance of the Almighty in his upbringing.

Thank you all

This is the begining of celebration in your family. You have just given birth to your twin brother. You really resemble!!!

Just bring my own semo with idika-ikong soup. It really call for celebration. You can now go to meeting of, "papa chinedu association"



But wait, expenses ti bere ni yen ooo

DUNKA:
And u are here chatting? WTF!!!!

He is chatting to ask reasonable question. Provide an answer to this.

Rumpelstiltskin:
I sincerely apologize......I havent replied any mail since yesterday but I will. Even all those I promised to send some numbers, I havent done that. I need to sort out the emails one after d other. I also have my own things to do. Please bear with me. You will get a response today.

Bros, are they still recruiting teachers? Help!!! How can I apply into federal. I hold BSc in mathematics

Rumpelstiltskin:
I sincerely apologize......I havent replied any mail since yesterday but I will. Even all those I promised to send some numbers, I havent done that. I need to sort out the emails one after d other. I also have my own things to do. Please bear with me. You will get a response today.

Bros, are they still recruiting teachers? Help!!! How can I apply into federal. I hold BSc in mathematics education

Good day nairalanders, I want to share a real life story that happened to my friend yesterday.

The story goes like this, he met and toasted this lady on the road and everything started in a fine way as he said. They went to Shoprite, Mr Biggs and all kinds of eateries out there. Everything goes on well but no sex from the lady. I advised my friend to stop taking her to eateries and other benefits she gains from him.

There was that fateful day that this my friend invited this lady to his house just to catch fun including sex. She strongly refused sex and this my friend dick don rise. He tried all tricks but no one works. He eventually felt tired of the whole thing. He told the girl he wasn't interested in the relationship again. He asked her to go and surprisingly, she was asking of about N5000 transportation fare from him. And this trouble started. He decided not to give her any dime.

She carried all kinds of things including his bag without my friend knowledge. Before he could not what was happening the girl has absconded with a motorcycle. He got to know his certificate was missing when he was asked to present his certificate during his company verification exercise.
And he called the girl with phone on record that she took the certificate.

What should this guy do to get his certificates back, please?


Cc lalasticlala

Thanks everyone! I am happy that I'm member of nairaland family. I appreciate your advice. Your points was wisely selected.

I went to meet the lady to ask what I did to her. She said mama Mary told her I don't do something in the compound. I told her that these things are lies against me. I gave her evidence and witnesses in the compound. Thereafter, I begged her and knelt down close to 1 hour begging her to take back her quit notice. She finally agreed to my plight but said I should write LETTER OF UNDERTAKEN. What did I do wrong that will be in the content of the letter? Just thinking how to write this letter!!!

Unikbeau:
. You wouldn't have replied dear,I pray you get a better accomodation.

Is staying in face you and face me crime? Saying it's four means the house was built like a flat. Two tenants to one toilet and bathroom. I should pretend that I'm staying in flat?

ronaldbecky:
sorry,there is noting u can do.no receipt
u are no choice,either u beg her or look out for some place

There is receipt I paid before this recent three months payment.

Funjosh:




You don't have case with the Landlord but with Mama Mary

That's right! She is the one behind all these.

mayorkyzo:
yes e paid a year before but the fact e paid 3months has voided the 1year agreement..and @op did you sign a tenancy agreement?if yes go thru it thoroughly and see if it was inserted that you could be evicted in a month...

No, I didn't sign any tenancy agreement form.

lastpage:


We have not heard from your Landlady so all these story might just be one-sided, made to make your Landlady look bad.

But then, let us give you the benefit of doubt.

Questions:
1.) How long have you been in this same house?

2.) Do you pay yearly or Monthly? Your last payment was from when-to-when?

3.) Do you have a rent receipt?

4.) Are you owing any rent before now?

5.) How many people are in that house, that use the same bathroom?

6.) Was that "discussion about who should bath first" with your Landlady, done in an "aggressive tone" or with decorum (gentle manner)?

Now, There are three routes:
Long Route 1:
if you are a yearly tenant, your Landlady MUST give you SIX MONTHS NOTICE, to quit.
If you pay monthly, then you are only entitled to One Month Notice.
After that, she will give you another One MONTH, if you are still there, then ONE WEEK after which she will go to court to seek an EVICTION ORDER (Must be issued by a Court).
The Court will serve you a NOTICE to hear your own side of the story and may make or not make that order.

Long Route 2:
Go to the nearest Mediation Centre to your house and inform them of this situation.
They will invite your Landlady and ask her to state her case.
Their duty is to help both of you reach a reconciliation/agreement, without going to court.
They dont take cases that are already in court so you must decide which one you want (Court or Mediation)

Short Route: Ask someone to speak with your Landlady and tell her that you were no trying to "cause her trouble" but just trying to find a way that you and her can have your baths without disturbing each other.
Explain to her that it just happens that she wants to bath when you also want to bath and that can she give you a particular time she thinks the bathroom will be available for you to bath before you go to work in the morning, without conflicting with hers?

Try sooth her ego, beg her and act the "foolish" for now, since you are not in a position to rent another house now and[b] l know what "stress and anxiety" it is causing you right now.[/b]

I hope one of these methods works for you.


Lastpage!

BTW: other underhand tactics:

a.) If she get "matured daughter", befriend her and impregnate her (be ready to marry her sha o!).... you are now her in-law and she cant throw you out!

b.) If she be "Fine Mama" and you nor mind, befriend her and your rent might just be "paid upfront" for as long as you dey knack correct-correct!
But keep the House rents somewhere because the day wey she vex, you will need the money to rent another house, in a jiffy!

NB: I do not endorse any of the last two strategies even though they work like a charm, l saw them in my dreams!
It wasn't me....

(1) I have been in that house a year and four months now.
(2) I paid yearly but due to circumstances I told him I will pay three months first before paying the remaining this February.
(3) I owe house rent due to he ask me not to pay again.
(4) We are two that you use the same bathroom (myself and mama Mary)
(5) here, the landlady is not leaving with us down stair, she stays upstairs. She was only told lies by mama Mary who wants me quitted.

LEGALAide:

it must not be 6 month's notice.
First it depends on whether there's been an agreement for a lesser notice between the landlord and tenant.
Second, whether it's a yearly tenancy, monthly, quarterly, or half a year.
In fact visit: www.facebook.com/LEGALAide for more info.
Thank me later.

My last payment receipt was 1 year. He hasn't given me receipt for the three months. We didn't have any written agreement of any kind.

lacicrips:


Always fight fire for fire. No gree for anybody as long as you're on your right. When you go around apologizing or begging people who have offended you, that's what you get. You just boosted their ego, and they'll Bleep you up the more as they've seen you're weak.

Your option is to look for money and move. Forget lawyer, when your time expires, tell the landlady you've not seen a place yet, and ask for additional time. If she tries anything funny, tell her to take you to court. She wont, just threats and constant harrassments.

Thank you, you really revive my happiness again.

lastpage:
Okay, l have seen new information that was not there before.

So, you are owing January rent already? Why now?

You cant afford a Lawyer, so that wont help you.

Best Options:

*Beg your Landlady [/b]to give you more time, say House is difficult to get and you dont even have enough money to rent a new house now.
Tell her to give you till June. Look for another house as quickly as possible.

[b]*Go to the Mediation Center for help.
She CANT remove your things without a Court Order but your owing rent makes that order easier to get.
She will get that Court order within a few Months, after your Notices has expired.
Incase she refuse all begging, then tell her you CANT MOVE OUT NOW, unless a Court asks you to!
That will give you like 3-6Months. Pay your rent during those periods, Judges dont like owing tenants at all.

Dont mind those people telling you that you are entitled to six months notice, it is false.

Sorry for your plight.


Lastpage!

Thanks, I have about six months money to pay but she stopped me from paying into her account. She said I shouldn't bother to pay again.

flokii:


that makes it... 'face me I slap you half' lol

buh you sef try get flat.. to avoid tenant wahala

The reason I rented that room was because it was built in form of a flat. Down floor, we are just two tenants, she and I. The first floor is occupied by the landlady with two other tenants.

linearity:
Na wao! If them wake up to baff around 4am, you should wake up around 3am or 2am or even take your bath the night prior.

This is a temporary housing for you, so some temporary pains are okay.

Technically, the landlady can't evict you like that, if you are up to date on your rent, go and explain the situation to her, eat the humble pie for now, while you are focus on the bigger picture, switch your bathing time, so that you can avoid conflicts with this other lady. The truth is, it is not worth the trouble.

Funny enough, the woman do study when I wake up. It really generate to other lies like not sleeping the compound. She is the oldest tenant in the house. She has much say in that compound. She clearly told me she will make that house frustrating to me. I called she and her husband telling them to forgive me if at all I have offended them. But still my efforts prove abortive. I'm just thinking the next move.

angels09:

If you had been paying rent say annually then you can be entitled to 6 months

My first payment was annual. I have not used up to two years in this same house. When my rents expired last year October, I quickly paid in three months promising to balance him this month.

ladyF:
If u no like wahala, when you get money just move, you don't have to wait for 6 months because you will be dealing with harassment everyday. God go bless all of us sha, we go build houses and buy jet IJN.

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

Packing out is not the problem but where will I pack to? I'm thinking of working for two or more months to gather some money for another apartment.

angels09:

You paid 3 months thereby turning yourself to a tenant @ will.... One month is all you can get....

I don't get you properly. You mean because my current rent only deserve one month?

opalu:
6 months is the standard. I have some guy and his family living free in my duplex for the past 5 months now. Because he has a lawyer friend advising him. I do not like involving my company lawyers because they are like wounded ' Tigreses'. So I just want them to pack out at the fulness of time at least for the sake of their children (I love children). But the parents are too proud and obstinate.

I advise you to use wisdom mixed with humility except you don't dream of owning houses that people will live in some years from now

Thanks sir, I will take this advice.

menix:


Good u paid into his account but next time endeavor to get ur receipts cous he could still deny the payment as ur rent.

Go plead with ur landlord(which in my case I won't do), if he refuses don't fret about it.
When the 1 month elapses, he will certainly come again then tell him u ve not got a place yet nd u need extra 5month to complete the mandatory 6month.

Sure with this he would get where u re driving to, if u like when it's 6month take him court, this will give u another 6month to 1yr free accommodation.

Just start making arrangements for funds to move cous the above ain't going to be easy, the landlord will find every way to make ur living there Hell...

Thanks, I will start making preparation even in three to four months time.

Cutehector:
doesn't mean

Please help, what can I do?

Cutehector:
Face me I punch u

But we are just four tenants

menix:
Do u ve ur receipt of last payment.

Just inform a lawyer, cous he has to give u 6 months notice else sue someone's axx...

Yes, I packed in there not up to two years now. My first rent receipt expired last year October. I paid him three months after my first rent expired but no receipt for this. This three months rent was paid in his account.

I rented a house where a friend solicit on my behalf through a woman called mama Mary. My friend met this woman to beg since we heard that the landlady doesn't want single tenant.

The struggle started as to who take bath in the bathroom. She compete with me for the bathroom just like waking up all her four kids as early as 4:00am, taking their bath one after the other for hours. But she and her kids works and school at three buildings distance from our compound. This woman (mama Mary) is a fellow tenant as I do. In fact, just a wall separates my room from hers. There was a time I went to meet her explaining reasons why she need to allow me take my bath first since where I work is far. Surprisingly, my plead finally cause enmity between us.

She finally succeed in helping the landlord to quit me from the room through her lies and others. My rent expired last month and I was called last night that I should quit the room in the next one month. Please what should I do? I'm in state of confusion now and depression. Right now, I couldn't afford to rent another room.

jtenna:
Helo friends I need help in the school am teaching.
I took the job as a computer studies instructor and the salary was I pity. Salary is 20k after much haggling on their part. I just decided to managed it for now since the school is still growing. I started work only for them to bounce 2 more subjects on my laps, plus I was told that I will not only be teaching the whole school practical computer on Thursdays, class by class but I will also teach jss3 computer for one hour every Tuesdays from 7-8am in the morning.
Then only recently, I heard every teacher pays a compulsory 1500 which is deducted from the salary every month for as long as she remains in the school. When I asked, I was told it was the teacher 's money, that upon leaving the school 'honorably' they are entitled to the accumulated sum.
My fellow teachers, is this normal? never heard of this since my 5 years of teaching.
And how many periods is a suppose to teach each week?
Please I need serious advice.

You should just find an excuse not to participate on that contribution. It's a way on holding you down from other employment opportunities.

Maczeelly:
sorry, the school need a full time teacher not PT. Thanks

LIKE how much do the school pay for full time? I'm mathematics teacher with second class upper degree. I stay at agege and so...

chccho:


Be like say u dey read the back of NL, pls where did the OP say anything about slap in his write up?
Slap is another topic of discussion entirely!!!!

Good morning, I'm just narrating a similar story that involves slaps.


You are the one that doesn't understand my points. Read carefully before you reply

LIKE seriously this is not how it use to be during the days of our forefathers but now you see women cheating becaus their spouse have small dicks but why are they crazy about big dicks? cant ladies of this generation manage small dicks?

They love big dicks because dicks of different sizes have been digging their wells.
Don't you know that the more they have sex the more they crave for bigger dicks?

What guarantee that even if you are married to this same guy, and he travels for just a month, you will not bring another guy for sex. Guys, beware of girls these nowadays. I said it! I said it!! I said it that most girls today are just sex objects.



What do you want to hear from people? Advice? You need to go ahead to explain things to him. I just hate to advise promiscuous ladies!!!



mathematically ;
LADIES=MONEY= PROMISCUITY

IF MONEY = I LOVE YOU.