₦airaland Forum

Domdao:

Jeon:
I don't have time to argue.


Just say that's your standard because you are also cheap.

Jeon:
Yes nah they will surely come to you.
Because they're also cheap.

siofra:
90% of Nigerian men type like this and I can't stand it.

It's annoying, reading chats like this.

akbonus:
WHAT IS FRESH PEPPER AND ONION DOING IN UKODO? OR EPURU? AS WE CALL IT IN DELTA STATE

Monaboo:
Someone I know, an Igbo lady married a Delta guy.

She had to learn how to cook this Ukodo food.

She now cooks it perfectly well.

She even likes eating it.

But I doubt if I will like this food o.

I think I would prefer ripe plantain if I decide to it eat this.

But well, never say never. Let me keep an open mind.

Officialgarri:
So you mean, you still had to ask a guy to pay for the eggs, pepper and macaroni while your own contribution to the meal is just #20 maggi

I'm not against women but I spit on your forehead

Halimat04:
Abeg make I bring plate?

kaludestiny10:
Is red oil not needed in cooking the food?

garriAndsugar:
Nice one bro.. you cook better than channah2

Lordofalmajiri:
At this rate comrade I no sure say you go marry o . Even if you marry you no go last for marriage. Ha , most Nigeria girls no fit make this type of food.

BunmiBie:
Goat meat groundnut soup with white rice

Dbtcking:
Okay.. you can pm me. I'll send you the digits through mail

Troubledman:
So this night. I did a horrible thing. I stuck my wife thrice on her back. Yes, I know it's horrible and I should be burnt at the stake. And I am truly sorry for it but... There's always s back story.

I went through university without ever getting into a fight. I swore of physical violence since 2005. I havent raised my hands at anyone ever. Not to defend myself. Not to fight. In those years. I don't even let people fight aroujd me. I am known everywhere as the peace keeper. Which is why I feel very horrible about my action tonight.

Since we got married. I have noticed this trait of aggression in the person I married. Always quick to anger and insults everytime. In the last couple of days. We've had course to stay with my mum.

Earlier in the day. We were arguing about something (not so important to be honest) and my mum remarked that we should do better that were a new couple and we shouldn't be arguing like this all the time. She even joked that she was going to buy a cane for both of us.

Barely 2 mins later another discussion came up and this lady started raising her voice again. This time in full view of my mum. I just kept telling her please take it easy, take it easy. I even mentioned to her that this was what mummy was just telling us about. She would not bulge. Eventually my mum chipped in and said to me to keep quiet. So I did. When she finished shouting she stood up and left for the room.

After a while , my mother went into the room to talk to her. Even asked her not to be annoyed. Invited her to eat. She brought the food to me but I was too annoyed to eat. How is my wife shouting at me in front of my mum ? So I walked away, went out for a stroll. When I came back. She was in the room, she I stayed back in the living room. She came to me, started telling me that I should not let her be angry at me, changing the story that I was shouting at her earlier and she didn't say a word, I was livid but this didn't tip me. I just told her off and went back to do my work. She came back again started off another tirade in the middle of the night btw and ended it with saying "your mother is responsible for this"

Now, that's what made me mad. From the start I have warned my family not to interfere in mine. Not my dad or my mum have ever told me or directed me on how to do in my marriage to her. I imagine that because her display was in public today that's why my mum commented. Even on Wednesday she was talking to me harshly in the car and my mum was there and she never talked.

So anyway I stood up from where I was went to meet her and struck her about 3 times in the back warning her never to involve My mother in our talk again.

Then she shouted screaming at 2 am. Cursing me. Mt mum came out to even try to calm her down. She turned to my mum as well. Saying she knows what she'll say. That she supports me etc. Even when the poor woman didnt say anything. She's gone off now. Milking it. Saying I beat her. Should I add that she came back slapped me square on the face, hit my chest. Even dragged my mother to the floor

But everyone is on me. I'm the woman beater. Domestic violence.

Honestly, I'm just tired of this marriage. I married for peace this woman gives me trouble everyday. I chose to stay in the living room for peace tonight. She brought her madness to meet me.

I agree I messed up. I perhaps shouldn't have hit her. I regret it. It's going to go with me. But I was too pushed. She continues to do this knowing I wouldn't talk and st the time I believed that's the only thing she'd respond too. I know this could probably get me a lot of hate but I'm also hoping someone could see reason in what's happening

Im sorry it's so long. I didn't think about it. I just created this account and started writing. Apologies for likely typos too

TroubledMan