IconicR:
So a man can cheat and go scort free while a woman who cheats deserves no mercy or forgiveness, how do you feel typing that?

If u be Christian read ur Bible
If u be Muslim read koran
For other religions read dia books
Surely u will find answers in it

Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

Ur relationship is sweet but is not by force to marry her, with all this how will u be seen in future if u succeed to get their daughter.
What is the father saying.
In all na witch behavior be that sobe kiafu

kcnwaigbo:
Emmanuel Udom is far more popular and influential in Akwa Ibom compared to Godwin Akpabio.

Furthermore Ex-Governor Ifeanyi Okowa gave Ibori the very first defeat of his political career.The APC candidate despite all the noise could not even make any headway in the Governorship elections.

Who is udom, oyong of blessed memory if he was to alive will be more popular than udom

garfield1:
Wike: his popularity cuts across the 6 SS states.he dominates SS politics,is loved and adored by the SS people.he controls pdp faction in cross river,sponsored ypp candidate senator oba who was in pdp,sponsored a faction of the pdp in Edo led by Dan orbih.his influence also extends to anambra apc and some northern states.

Oshiomhole: as an opposition candidate, he defeated pdp in edo.he was the second person to sack a pdp governor in the south and third overall.he is fanatically loved in the Edo north zone of Edo and large parts of edo.him and akpabio are the only ones able to deliver their districts to tinubu.oshiomhole also delivered his district to apc in 2015 and 2019.he crushed the obidient movement or tsunami in the north of Edo and humiliated shuaibu in his polling unit.

Akpabio: he delivered his zone to tinubu and overran obi in akwa ibom.he also helped to get 25% for buhari in 2029.he is madly loved in his ikot ekpene district and by virtue of being SP,he is the leader of apc in SS.

Governor prince otu: if not for the calabar metropolis,he would have won the southern zone for tinubu and perhaps the entire state.he is very popular.

David Lyon: he is popular in bayelsa but has failed to exert his influence since his ouster Hy the apex court.in the last two election,apc lost scandalously so his popularity is suspect.

Omo agege: if he had returned to the senate,he would be SP.he failed to deliver for tinubu and struggled to win his zone during the guber but delivered two senate and a reps seat.

Magnus Abe: he is very popular among his ogoni people



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SENATOR OBA is from akwa ibom not cross river,
Akpabio delivered for buhari in 2019 not 2029 sir

OsanIi:
Sometimes you ask yourself the type of society some of these lawyers want to live in

Law suit is not about emotions but fact

Taylor90:
Have y’all noticed that Tinubu is always dodging when other continents are involved

If it was Kenya Guinea or any African country he will gladly attend

But when it comes to Asia Europe US he will dodge

Was he not in France? Bitter soul

LewisHamilton15:
Late last year, the company I worked with decided to reduce workers as a result of the high inflation. I happened to be one of the victims of the mass reduction.

I decided to use my little savings to buy a tricycle so I can be using it to do town service but my fiancee outrightly rejected such idea stressing that my societal standing is above that. After intense argument I went ahead and bought the tricycle. Since that day she has not picked my calls, call me or come to visit me.

I have moved on.

Ur last sentence gives me joy, I swear.
My woman even said I should learn how ride Keke then buy one for evening hustling wen am back from cooperate work or any day I didn't go to work. Of a truth am learning it now

Shattuck:
he has submitted his evidence against inec

From the evidence submitted, what is the diff in scores + or - from each polling unit. And how did he get the answer wen the evidence dump in pept is blurred.

Shattuck:
he asked that the court sack tinubu with evidence of result manipulation, and other illegality, so if tinubu is sacked won't the court declare a fresh election or recount the votes, tinubu's supporters are somehow slow, saying he didn't say he won, if he can prove tinubu cheated the same evidence that proves tinubu cheated will also identify who won. Very simple something.

But he{Peter obi} hasn't prove that tinubu cheated na

Lol, this fake life show don start.

Great2017:


When is the INEC suppose to exercise this very wide discretionary powers? Is it before the elections or during the elections or after the elections?

Every unbiased mind knows that the rules guiding or regulating an event are made before the event starts.

LP never cry

Tinubuderanged:
No justice in this country. If INEC is allowed to do whatever they want then why bringing up the electoral act? No need for electoral act, we should tell INEC to give results to whoever they wish to.
Useless judiciary.

The same electoral act gives them the power ooo

Re: Appeal Court Voids Order On E-Transmission Of Election Results In Lagos
https://www.nairaland.com/7774904/appeal-court-voids-order-e-transmission
Happy Sunday obidatti

Mitsurugi:



I'm not arguing that. I'm also saying that INEC itself bound itself to its own rules. Even to the extent of declaring as fake news the position that it wouldn't. Which Ref changes the rules halfway into a game?

U never see ref overlook some fouls in a game despite assistant ref raising the flag?

damirosky60:
But INEC told Nigerians and the whole World that they will transmit results electronically.

The court held that Section 50(2) and Section 60(5) give INEC “very wide discretionary powers” to determine how it transmits or transfers election results.


“As I had demonstrated earlier in this judgment, the Electoral Act gives the 43rd respondent (INEC) discretion on how it carries out its assignment including how it transmits or transfers the result of election from polling units,” Umar stated.

The bolded na inec chairman be talk not constitution.

Mitsurugi:



Really? But aside the judgment didn't INEC itself vow to follow and enforce that particular guideline. It is sad how we allow partisanship eat into our psyche like this

Na everything wey them promise u wen growing up u dey get now.

eldoradoxx:

The judgement does not affect the election case. That case was filed before the election. Yes, it is absolutely correct that INEC has the discretion to determine how results are transmitted, and INEC had in it's guideline mandated that in confirming with the provisions of the 2022 Electoral Act, results must be transmitted. Having determined so, INEC can no longer change the mode after election has commenced as it will be similar to allowing the referee to change the rules of the game in the middle of the game. So that decision is right to the extent that INEC can only decide how to transmit result before the election, not after the election.

So constitution is inferior to guidelines abi

Yoighaman:
This judgment is a clue of what the outcome of the petition at the Presidential election tribunal will look like. I just pray Nigerians remain calm after the pronouncement, because that is what everybody is waiting for.

The bolded concern who want die for Politicians

Penguin2:

Uzodimma never approached the court with a figure. He only went with the number of polling units canceled which was 388.

It was when the Supreme Court agreed with him that they added the figures in the 388 results sheet and declared Uzodimma.

Again, in that Uzodimma case, did he join the candidates that came 2nd and 3rd like you lots have been suggesting that Obi should have joined Atiku in his suit?

So 388 is an alphabet not figures

Penguin2:

The issue in contention here is fine as used by the constitution.

Tinubu was fined. This fact is not in contention.

Now, look at this subsection again, did you see anywhere that the constitution said the fine must be of criminal proceedings?

Was tinubu fined or the illegal money suspected to be from drugs was forfeited from his account?

PissInside:
Fvck that shit 🖕

Nigerians are suffering.

Tinubu should declare a state of emergency on hunger.

No go get farm?

I no understand how this forfeiture got to do with Obi being third in last election oooo

Penguin2:

Do I need to remind you that each of those subsections are independent?

You can’t lump the provision of subsection “e” on subsection “d”.

Are you wiser than the framers of the constitution?

Are u wiser than the US that did not convict or forfeit the said money from Tinubu's account as criminal case

UnknownGunMan:
People threatening anarchy and doom don't know Peter Obi is the one holding his supporters back.

If Obi decides to post a simple tweet like: "Youths, it's time to #TakebackNigeria" , that is when corn munchers will know who the real president is.

Let him post na let see

Eriokanmi:
I'm not being sarcastic bro and I didn't mean rich Nigerians don't exist. I spent close to that building my house. Don't forget that over half of our population is poor.

Am among the rich bro

Alliswell248:


Keep wasting your time looking for what is not missing.
Your stolen mandate....
No one gave Obi the mandate in the first instance. He was rejected by we Northerners.

And come 2027 he will be dealt with in the north

Penguin2:

Lol!

You block your brains from objectivity with tribalism which ends up distorting your cognition and reasoning.

Look at Section 137, subsection (d) of the 1999 constitution below. Did you see any mention of 10 years there?

Una go dey alright las las.

Then read e and f of that same chapter/section u quote again

booblacain:


The question then is, will VIO give you fine for traffic offence, without you committing a traffic offence. That is the bone of contention here.

So, if VIO give you fine for an offence you are sure you did not commit, you will not contest it?

Have u or any of ur relations ever contest for bailout money wen arrested by police?

TheOldGods:
oh, drug trafficking and money laundering is not a criminal matter

And did the US government treat it as criminal offense

Eriokanmi:
My 100usd can't be forfeited by any agency and I'd not sue them, if the money is legit. Its over 400k usd (over NGN339,000,000) we're talking, someone's life savings 😆. Millions of individual Nigerians can't see that in a lifetime

Excluding me and my bloodline ooo

Kukutente23:

The judgement was a forfeiture for proceeds of narcotics. In truth, if you read through the charge sheet which was made public, Kevin Moss established a connection between Tinubu and Agbele the main culprit initially, which Tinubu later denied. It was his denial that saved him from being indicted coupled with the fact that he was already in Nigeria then. So the forfeiture was for money involved in drug trafficking found in his accounts.

Was forfeiture criminal or civil?