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postmann:
It would be better you had given your marriage the best shot of survival and planned to raise a kid with all the advantages of a happy, balanced home than premeditatedly built a disastrous atmosphere for an innocent child.

When that child grows up; you wouldn't get to tell him the flimsy reason his mother wasn't ever around was because of the bull crap of reasons you sited up there. Rather you'd tell him how hard you tried but she didn't stay and what your experiences and failings were in your marriage (just as for illustration; this is not your portion). And he'll pick up from there to be a better husband and father, learning from your mistakes.

You can't prepare him to fail just because you want the fruits of marriage without the ploughing and sowing.

#GreedyShaqFu

mimzy:
Nope..

The difference is you didn't even give it a chance at all

You killed 'it' before it even had an opportunity to live n survive...

postmann:
This belongs to the gutters, Mr Shaq Fu!!! Completely irresponsible and self-seeking. You must have planned every aspect of your life --- your lust, carefree attitude etc quite ahead of the child whom you already planned to give an imbalanced life just to make yourself convenient.

A Child deserves a normal home with a loving mom and dad.

mimzy:
Selfish...

Mopricelezz:
Baby Daddy huh?

Jolsnow:
[color=#000033]Don't be án asshole.
How does this benefit the baby or the mum? [/color]

Cutehector:
Wat sort of arrant fuckery is this

Wait, wait and wait. Before you go all religious and self righteous, just hear me out a bit, and if you choose to, please do so with an open mind, devoid of any religious or self conflicting moral code or self righteousness.

Now, I believe everybody is well aware who a baby daddy is. In as much as society frown at a woman or man (especially a woman) having a child outside wedlock, I'll want us to look at reasons why being a baby daddy should be welcome in Nigeria, given that all what we hear about marriage, is one form of complain, abuse, violent conduct, and sometimes death as the case may be.

So, here are just five reasons why I so much feel being a baby daddy is the best thing one can think of:

1. Peace Of Mind: Lets face it, if one is a baby daddy, one do not even have to worry or loose sleep over night, over the affairs of ones partner. I mean, face it, especially in today's society, where most women, more often that not, have high blood pressure because they continue to disturb their self, over the affairs of their spouse, most especially if he is the one who keeps late night, flirt and philander.

2. Freedom: Yes, some will say freedom is not absolute, others will even say freedom is fleeting, but hey, if one is a baby daddy, one have the freedom to do whatever he want, because there will be nobody crying or loosing sleep over what he is doing. That's why being a baby daddy is not just good, but must be welcome by anybody who truly value his freedom and want peace of mind.

3. No Nagging: This is among the best reason, as most baby daddies, will say a heavy "Hell Yes" to this point. A baby daddy will have almost absolute rest of mind not having a nagging wife, too robust for comfort, nagging over everything and anything he does, because for one, he doesn't have to live with her, or even see it fit to spend time with her, what matters to him is just the betterment of his kid, not necessarily that of the woman.

4. It Is Less Expensive: Yep, everybody will agree that, it is much better and less expensive, feeding and taking care of one person, than two persons, because hey, truth be told, taking care of a woman is damn expensive, talk less of taking care of a baby, then, talk less of taking care of a woman and a baby together, most especially a woman who wants to sit on her ass and do absolutely nothing, other than watch Telemundo, drive fancy cars and nag all day and grow fat at the expense of her husband.

5. No Case Of Jealousy Or Envy: Aye! I've never seen, neither have I heard of a case where a baby daddy is jealous of his baby mama, talk less of losing sleep over her activities or trying to police her movement about who she sleeps with, or hang around with.

Conclusively, I'll urge people to take a look at our very renown baby daddies: Flavor, Olamide and Wizkid, and tell me if they're not really enjoying all the benefit listed above to the fullest, as they don't really worry over what most married men and married women worry about these days. That's why its best to shove society's expectations of us aside, when our happiness and peace of mind is at stake.

STFUareyouG0d:
you wanna join my team?

Dcomrade:
Thats why we don't trust Buahari government because Osinbajor is a Pastor in his government

MizMyColi:
My Sis who happens to be an exco in Uniben's Parliament introduced me to Pastor Ize Iyamu.

People have love for the man.
I pray he wins.

Oshiomole is a big flop and should not be allowed to install a bigger flop who defrauds people of money.
Oshiomole made the worst mistake ever when he denied PDP in the state the right to use a state owned Stadium.

No rigger, tyrant or fraudster is bigger than the will of the people.

POI all the way.

Ishilove:
And how do you get marital experience without getting married?

llaykorn:
How can you know if you haven't gone there to check

llaykorn:
Jupiter. There was a little party, just for a day. But you know how many of your days on Earth a Jupiter's day takes?

llaykorn:
Thanks so much, beautiful.

5minsmadness:
She thinks getting married gives the person automatic wisdom on marriage issues

Naivety at its best.

A lot of marriage counsellors are single. They study marriage and the dynamics of relationships as a course. They know how best the male and female psyche can flow in unison as a team.


But no, one akpako from jalingo who managed to trick her man into putting a ring on her finger and doesn't understand why everyday their house is full of quarrels will refuse to listen to good advise because she wants to show that she is a liberated woman




But I know MADAM ishilove is not like that...all this wan we are talking, she is busy taking down pointers from the op to use on her main squeeze when she eventually finds him

Ishilove:
Of age? It's like a woman who has never gone through labour pains advising pregnant women how to act in the labour room

Ishilove:
Single folks giving marital advice. It reminds me of Catholic reverend fathers and sisters handling marriage counselling.

Opinions are like ass holes. Everyone's got them.

AlphaDex:
funny event!!!

But it is a bit unsettling what online spar and pageantry would let grown men reveal and do!

obiorathesubtle:
Keeper of my Birth certificate.. I hail thee..



I don't know man.. I don't have any memories of the 90s

I'm just 16, born May 8, 2000

TonyeBarcanista:
Very funny... Fynestboi is humble, hence, he doesn't associate special privilege to himself despite his status as a mod.


Humility is a virtue


#TeamFynestboi

obiorathesubtle:
That one has been wiped from history.. No one gives a shvt about him.. Never did, never will..

But carry on Sir, don't let my R. Kelly lyrics stop whatever it is you were doing.

AlphaDex:
Is this a coincidence? Because I just happen to be humming Giyazz's "Good life"

Dope rap, deep lyrics and melodious chorus!

obiorathesubtle:
Lol.. You remind me of someone.

STFUareyouG0d:
who beautiful/handsome epp?

Na packaging be koko

AlphaDex:
Nope, bro, these guys aren't those petty criminals who have become a burden to humanity and have assaulted our collective sensibilities with there inferior breeding!!!

LordNicvuitton:
Good evening all, please I am humility, charity good interpersonal relationship personified, therefore I beg for your support, ur help, most especially ur advices.. I can't do it all alone, I need help and a sense of belonging, thanks in anticipation.

STFUareyouG0d:
same reason you didn't contest for miss NL swiri

TonyeBarcanista:
For a moderator to come down and subject himself to this contest that has non moderators as umpires is a symbol of humility and class, which is needed of the masculine face of Nairaland.

#FynestBoi is most deserving of the crown... Long Live The King

temitemi1:
Beautiful woman.