Romance › Re: He Wants To Propose To Her Before Traveling Abroad, Please Advise. by shem4soul: 8:27pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Spiritfun: I met this beautiful girl sometimes two years ago. She's intelligent, smart and well mannered. I professed my love for her some two months into our friendship but she outrightly said NO.
I decided not to give up on her but to show her more love and care. As days went by, our friendship grew stronger, my love for her grew as well. Our life's goals are so similar that I find it very difficult to let her go.
I made sure I took the center stage in her life by doing everything necessary to help her build her dreams and its working perfectly.
I started showing her off on my social media handles just to test her reaction but contrary to my expectations, she loved it. I was proud that somehow I have perforated her defences.
Along the line, she started professing love to me too and that was the best moment of my emotional life. Then I decided to propose to her again but alas, she said NO and I was very sad and frustrated and she noticed it. At that point, I decided to give up on her and focus on other goals in life. She pleaded with me not to let our friendship die because she's afraid of losing me. I didn't bother to ask her for explanation on why I should still remain her friend without knowing where it will lead to in the end. I didn't also bother to ask her reasons for turning me down two times. I just agreed to her plea and ended the conversation.
I tactically started avoiding her to enable me heal but she would complain and plead with me to keep the friendship. I sucumbed because this girl has almost all the qualities I need in a wife and because of my standard, it's really difficult for me to find someone else that matches my preferences.
I know almost all her secrets and she knows mine too except my plans to travel abroad, preferably Canada. I made sure I did not let her know about this for some reasons.
Then, I found myself being obsessed with her again and she's been all over me too.
Now the crux of the matter is that I have perfected my plans to travel on or before February next year and I want to give her the last chance and propose to her again. I've conditioned my mind to accept whatever response she will give me and move on with or without her.
My major problem is whether to tell her about my travel plans before I propose to her or vice-versa. I know she also nurses the dream of living abroad. I'm afraid she might accept my proposal if I let her know about my Canada plans if I let her know about it before proposing to her.
Kindly advise me on this please cos I don't want to make any mistakes. I LOVE THIS GIRL and I'm certain that will make a good wife for me. I ve gone through d comments above and I agree with majority of them... bro,let me tell u d truth, d Lady does not love u,even if u finally end up with her and take her to Canada, she will still leave u when things re not going right... I'm in a similar situation as urs,though I later asked her what makes her reject my offer,she mistakenly said dat she can't tie herself down with a man for long,I.e perhaps she thinks dat i won't be ready soon,...but she is ready to make me her best friend I.e Friend zone me.if she has no other alternative, she will use me as a substitute. she said we should see what d future holds. i ve also friend zone her,cause I ve reduced my calls and d way I picked her calls, maybe once in a month we talk on phone... my little advice for u is that u should forget her,their re millions of lady dat re far better than her. u don't know what d future holds... how do u know she will make a better wife?? go to Canada, secure ur future,u will see a better lady dat suit u and can add value to ur life. I travelled recently to somewhere far from home,and I met countless of ladies dat ve more quality than d one I'm dying for over a year... educated,goal oriented and respectful.. I'm even confused, I don't even know who to date,cause each of them ve something spectacular dan d one I used one year to pursue... pls,don't make d mistake of telling her about Canada and then proposing to her,she will certainly accept,and later use and dump u... be wise... |
Computers › Re: US Used Ultraslim Dell Latitude E7240 Core I7 With Keyboard Light 4GB Ram by shem4soul: 4:05pm On Jul 28, 2019 |
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Education › Re: Which Course(s) Can A Student Apply For With This WAEC Result? by shem4soul: 6:25pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
BarristerAlarig: Management /social science courses without government or geography??
Not in uniben!!! These mushroom schools you guys attend sef. I also said it,just seeing ur post not in Uniben and UNILag A student need two other social science subject wit economics (making 3) maths,English, economic and two other social science subject to study any management science course... even wit economics as a course in Uniben,u need d listed subject above... I don't know much about political science and mass communication,... if d guy wit d result is still young,he can apply for another waec...or d ongoing GCE registration |
Education › Re: Which Course(s) Can A Student Apply For With This WAEC Result? by shem4soul: 6:19pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
MrJaay: What school is that? not all schools, some schools mass communication is under Art,while some re under management/social science |
Education › Re: Which Course(s) Can A Student Apply For With This WAEC Result? by shem4soul: 6:14pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
livelyausta: He can study accounting, that is the only course he can do with his love for mathematics, I studied accounting without govt and lit. He should write Civic, Economics , maths and English in jamb even without geography,commerce or account/bookkeeping? I'm a graduate from Uniben, and I also study business administration in polytechnic... cause u need another social science subject wit economics that is compulsory... OP,pls make enough research ooo...cause I really doubt it in federal schools especially Uniben and Unilag... ,unilorin may accept it sha(not too sure)...and other state universities I maybe wrong ooo...but still doubt d possibility |
Education › Re: Which Course(s) Can A Student Apply For With This WAEC Result? by shem4soul: 5:49pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
AJOBI77: Dear NLers,
Kindly advise on the course(s) a student can apply for at the tertiary Level with the WAEC result attached.
BOOK KEEPING: D7 ECONOMICS: C6 GOVERNMENT: F9 ISLAMIC STUDIES: C6 LIT IN ENGLISH. : E8 CIVIC EDUCATION: B3 ENGLISH LANGUAGE: B3 YORUBA LANGUAGE : C5 GENERAL MATHEMATICS: A1
Your Contributions will be much appreciated.
N.B The student wish to read Law but that is out of the case with this result I doubt d possibility of studying accounting, business administration, banking and finance and economics... u need atleast another social science subject such as government, account, geography, commerce, book keeping..... y can't he wait and rewrite another exam ... or go to polytechnic... I doubt if any good university will accept it for management science or economics course..... |
Education › Re: Which Course(s) Can A Student Apply For With This WAEC Result? by shem4soul: 5:44pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
walexy100: 'The student wishes' please.
You can study açcounting, business admin, banking and finance etc I doubt d possibility of studying accounting, business administration, banking and finance and economics... u need atleast another social science subject such as government, account, geography, commerce, book keeping..... y can't he wait and rewrite another exam ... or go to polytechnic... I doubt if any good university will accept it for management science or economics course..... |
Computers › Re: Fairly Used Gaming System For Sale by shem4soul(op): 6:23pm On Jul 24, 2019 |
Tobijoshua71: boss put the picture still trying to upload d pictures,
I will upload it soon...
d network is bad |
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Computers › Re: NEAT Dell Inspiron 8GB RAM, 1TB, CORE I3, 7hrs Battery @75k LAST PRICE by shem4soul: 1:48pm On Jul 24, 2019 |
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Computers › Re: Lenovo T450s Intel Core i5 128gbssd/4gb/keyboard lit/dual batt@75k by shem4soul: 9:52am On Jul 18, 2019 |
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I need this system cause of d battery |
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NYSC › Re: My Experience At The NYSC Camp, Yikpata, Kwara State by shem4soul: 3:07am On Jun 26, 2019 |
calculator123: if I understand you well. Let say you were posted to Kwara and you redeployed to Lagos. NYSC either gives you a PPA which you can reject or better still get a company in that new state to give you an acceptance letter that you will take to your LGA Office. thanks boss... u re too much... God bless u |
NYSC › Re: My Experience At The NYSC Camp, Yikpata, Kwara State by shem4soul: 3:42pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
calculator123: Yes I did, #50 for phones and #100 for power banks. boss,pls how can one influence his ppa if eventually d deployment works out...? |
NYSC › Re: My Experience At The NYSC Camp, Yikpata, Kwara State by shem4soul: 4:49am On Jun 17, 2019 |
calculator123: Oh thanks for compliment. Ensure you start the redeployment process ASAP. You know Lagos is a hot zone and get filled up quickly. With about 60k, the process should work out. Success bro. thanks a lot bro... wishing u d very best in life |
NYSC › Re: My Experience At The NYSC Camp, Yikpata, Kwara State by shem4soul: 4:49am On Jun 17, 2019 |
calculator123: Oh thanks for compliment. Ensure you start the redeployment process ASAP. You know Lagos is a hot zone and get filled up quickly. With about 60k, the process should work out. Success bro. thanks a lot bro... wishing d very best in life |
NYSC › Re: My Experience At The NYSC Camp, Yikpata, Kwara State by shem4soul: 8:35pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
calculator123: very very reliable. They are the ones in charge of allocating PPA's. So it will be easier to tweak things in your favour. Were you posted to Kwara? no...I was posted to kogi state but I plan to redeploy to Lagos.... I just fell in love with ur write up |
NYSC › Re: My Experience At The NYSC Camp, Yikpata, Kwara State by shem4soul: 5:07pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
calculator123: When the camp is done, you will be posted to your various PPA's(that is if you don't redeploy/relocate).
This process just like any other process in Nigeria can be influenced with the right amount of money.
Belonging to some groups like being the head of the band team, being your Platoon leader and platoon executive can work things in your favour so you get the best PPA's located in Ilorin, Omuaran or even Offa.
If can't put in the work, make your money do the job.
If you are sharp, you will notice the figure heads who can influence this process especially those in the ICT department. It might cost you within 10-20k like during my time.
If you are like me who doesn't care about were you get posted too, just keep your fingers crossed and hope for the best while expecting the worst.
This camp made me understood that corruption has eaten deep into the Nigerian system much more than I even imagined.
Be courteous and respectful to everyone in camp especially those you see in the kitchen and your Platoon inspector. Most of them are Local government inspectors in their respective local government and they will be in charge during your monthly clearance and every other activities within that LGA. thanks a lot for this... pls how reliable re the ICT guys for redeployment |
NYSC › Re: My Experience At The NYSC Camp, Yikpata, Kwara State by shem4soul: 4:56pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
calculator123: When the camp is done, you will be posted to your various PPA's(that is if you don't redeploy/relocate).
This process just like any other process in Nigeria can be influenced with the right amount of money.
Belonging to some groups like being the head of the band team, being your Platoon leader and platoon executive can work things in your favour so you get the best PPA's located in Ilorin, Omuaran or even Offa.
If can't put in the work, make your money do the job.
If you are sharp, you will notice the figure heads who can influence this process especially those in the ICT department. It might cost you within 10-20k like during my time.
If you are like me who doesn't care about were you get posted too, just keep your fingers crossed and hope for the best while expecting the worst.
This camp made me understood that corruption has eaten deep into the Nigerian system much more than I even imagined.
Be courteous and respectful to everyone in camp especially those you see in the kitchen and your Platoon inspector. Most of them are Local government inspectors in their respective local government and they will be in charge during your monthly clearance and every other activities within that LGA. |
NYSC › Re: I No Wan Go Bauchi Ooo by shem4soul: 4:28pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Mummyimbecile: when you get to camp,maybe around the 9th day or 10th day,they will make announcement for those who wana redeploy to start 4warding their application for redeployment,you can write yours and attach you Medical report with it,They will interview you guys for like a min or 2minutes,and ask you about the sickness wey you claim say dey worry you,If they are convinced,you will be redeployed,you can also redeploy on grounds of insecurity,...if you want to redeploy on health grounds,get your medical report ready,All the Best! pls is it only on health and security issue one can redeploy  is their no other means? |
NYSC › Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by shem4soul: 8:49am On Jun 10, 2019 |
Please i have issues choosing state of deployment its showing no deployment slot available how can this be rectified? |
NYSC › Re: Prospective NYSC 2019 Batch B Corps Members Thread by shem4soul: 8:48am On Jun 10, 2019 |
Please i have issues choosing state of deployment its showing no deployment slot available how can this be rectified? |
NYSC › Re: Thread For NYSC 2019 Batch B Stream 1 And 2 by shem4soul: 8:47am On Jun 10, 2019 |
Dammy2me: Please i have issues choosing state of deployment its showing no deployment slot available how can this be rectified? same wit me ooo,pls can someone help us out,I don't want to wait for batch c |
NYSC › Re: Inability To Choose State by shem4soul: 9:35pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Dammy2me: Good day everyone please help i can't choose state when registering has the registration closed? same here,pls anyone wit correct information.. I need to pick my preferred state ooo |
Computers › Re: I Buy Dead Laptop Batteries (benin City Only) by shem4soul: 5:18pm On May 30, 2019 |
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NYSC › Re: How Can One Change Local Government In Nysc by shem4soul: 11:19pm On Apr 29, 2019 |
kayola11: I got a better offer today from a private secondary school in ibadan, how do I change my local government?? pls,how do u go about it? kayola11: I got a better offer today from a private secondary school in ibadan, how do I change my local government?? kayola11: I got a better offer today from a private secondary school in ibadan, how do I change my local government?? pls,how do u go about it? |
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