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RomanceRe: A-Week Engaged Nigerian Lady Dumps Her Fiancé A Week After “losing” His Job by Sheyman95(m): 10:48pm On Apr 29, 2018
goldbim:
Plastic love!!owo epo lipsrsealed
Atenu
PoliticsRe: Femi Fani-kayode Speaks On Melaye's Arrest & Hospitalization - Nigerians React by Sheyman95(m): 6:54am On Apr 25, 2018
Omeokachie:
When you dine with the devil...
you pay the price
EducationRe: Finally, No More Difference Between Bsc/hnd Graduates – FG Announces by Sheyman95(m): 1:14pm On Apr 24, 2018
OrestesDante:
angry angry angry
☣ ☠

The differences are in us not on paper.


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well, its both.
RomanceRe: Share Your Heartbreak Story Here by Sheyman95(m): 9:10pm On Apr 23, 2018
americanson:
no kill urself cos of another man pikin bro. U came into the world alone and will leave alone. Always remember that.

When I had my first major heart break... The very one the refined me, one thing that reset my brain was that if I die, she will move on to another person and forget me completely...

At that time I wasn't breathing well and that was the thought kicked me back to life.

Then I told myself I was gonna tell this girl I can rise. She is gonna see me rise from my ashes like a Phoenix!

In order to make that happen, I kept in touch, even till this very moment. My transformation is gonna frustrate her so much that in her next life she will never abuse or look down on any guy.

And it is working already... So much that her countenance (according to her brother) often change each time he tells her we chatted.

At a point, she was even wooing me out of desperation. A girl the destroyed my self-esteem and confidence.

Walahi... Success is the best revenge!
I sight you bro.. You nailed it
CareerDID YOU KNOW ~ 11 Life Truths & Tips by Sheyman95(op): 7:38am On Apr 20, 2018
1. Encouragement is scarce; criticism is abundant. No matter what you do there will be people who will either disapprove of your choices or simply hate your guts for living life on your own terms.
2. Your opinion shall be valued by your closed ones, but only till you don’t start interfering with their personal decisions. Everybody will live life the way they want to, do things they want to whether or not you approve. You cannot control people.
3. But what you can control is your own life because if you don’t, someone else will. Blaming it on the circumstances may get you sympathies from others, but it never makes for a valid excuse. Giving up and complaining about life problems is easy, manning up and doing something about it takes real courage and
confidence.
4. There’s no absolute right or wrong in this world, just perspectives. What may seem stupid to you may actually be the wisest decision for someone else. That’s exactly what makes us so different from each other.
5. Nobody will love you exactly the way you love them. Some will love you more, some less, some won’t love you back at all. But that doesn’t mean they are bad people, just not the right ones for you, maybe.
6. People don’t mean most of the things they say. Your real worth is neither the appreciation people shower you with nor the nasty criticism that comes your way. The truest evaluation comes from yourself.
7. We have most of the qualities we don’t like in others. Think about it.
8. You don’t always get your due. You don’t get what you deserve, and sometimes, you get much more than what you deserve. Life is unfair. Complaining about it is not going to help.
9. You will be judged, all the time. People may say
they’re not judging but they are. They always are.
However, that is perfectly fine. What they think is their business, not yours. Just laugh it off.
10. You are not the centre of the universe. Most
people don’t care what you think of them, and others don’t even know you exist. Everything cannot revolve around you. Giving yourself too much importance in other people’s lives will only bring disappointment.
11. You may never be ‘the best’. And, that’s okay
because you don’t have to be the best. It may look like one, but life isn’t supposed to be a race. Don’t think of being the best, think of being yourself.
RomanceMarriage Is Not About Understanding by Sheyman95(op): 7:19am On Apr 20, 2018
One of the funny statements you hear from singles
who are not willing to learn about marriage is
"marriage is all about understanding, nothing else". My
question to them is, how do you understand something
when you don't have detailed information or right
knowledge about it? How do you understand the man
or woman you are married to or want to marry when
you don't have any knowledge about them?
When you don't know their needs, when you don't
know what makes them happy or angry, when you
don't know the right words or action? When you don't
know what to say or do and the right timing? When you
don't know how to be the right spouse for them since
each man has their own definition of what marriage is
and what the right spouse is or is not?
The truth is, marriage is not about understanding as
people say; it is about seeking the right knowledge.
Without the knowledge you can't understand your
spouse. It is time people stopped being lazy and idle,
and start acquiring knowledge instead of hiding behind
the tag, “marriage is all about understanding”.
No man can correctly operate a newly acquired
product when they have no knowledge about it or fail
to read the manual that comes with the product. You
either abuse the product or under utilise it. You might
end up just using the product for two or a few
functions when it capable of doing a lot more.
You end up pressing the wrong button and forcing it to
do what it wasn't meant or created for. Your lack of
proper knowledge will lead you to damage the
product.
Spouses are the ones destroying their marriages today
and not anyone because they don't have the right
knowledge about marriage but think when they get
married, it will be easy to understand each other.
It is like saying, I won't learn driving but once I get a
car, I will be able to drive. The truth is, you might end
up killing yourself if not with others as well. Don't
expect to read a letter and understand it when you fail
to learn how to read and write.
You need knowledge to understand. Without
knowledge, understanding is not possible. So marriage
is not about understanding, it is about knowledge. The
reason why some women are labelled as bad cooks in
their marriage is not because they don't know how to
cook, but because they have not learnt how to cook
food the way their husband want.
The reason why some husbands don't enjoy sex with their wives is not that they are bad in bed, it's because they are not able to discover what their wives want in bed, how they want it and do that for them. The missing link between knowledge and a product is understanding. When you know what one wants, it means you have knowledge about the person. Young men and women, please learn about relationship and marriage. That is what will make you succeed. Some of this knowledge you seek requires you having a good relationship with God for His Spirit, the Holy Spirit, to teach you.
In conclusion "Intelligent people want to learn, but stupid people are satisfied with ignorance."
NYSCRe: 5 NYSC Corpers Kidnapped In Katsina by Sheyman95(m): 6:06am On Apr 20, 2018
Tolzeal:
I honestly don’t know why people derive joy in serving the useless country. They’d say “Serving FatherLand “ . To hell with that Father that doesn’t care for his kids.

It’s a fu*ked up country with Fu*ked up leaders Fu*king the young generations up.

Infact, I’m vexing
The country is in total disarray.
PoliticsRe: Atiku Reacts To Buhari's "Nigerian Youths Are Not Ready To Work" Comment by Sheyman95(m): 4:42pm On Apr 19, 2018
richiearmany14:
If I have any reservation's before toward Atiku, I just buried it coz come 2019, I will Campaign for Atiku Abubakar whole heartedly for no fee
they are all birds of the same feather.
PoliticsRe: Senator YAYI Was Not abducted By The Thugs, He Mistakenly Entered Their Vehicle by Sheyman95(m): 8:29am On Apr 19, 2018
He mistook the thugs car for his car or he mistook the thugs to be his securities?
Whichever it is, its disgusting.
PoliticsRe: Fayose Reacts To President Buhari Saying That Nigerian Youths Don't Like To Work by Sheyman95(m): 8:05am On Apr 19, 2018
Where is Lie Mohammed?
NYSCRe: NYSC Members Now To Be Posted To Farms — Coordinator by Sheyman95(m): 8:56pm On Apr 13, 2018
Hope its not part of their scheme to feed the youths to those herdsmen
FamilyRe: Man Impregnates His Mother-In-Law In Nasarawa (Photo) by Sheyman95(m): 9:24pm On Jan 06, 2018
Abomination
CrimeRe: Fulani Herdsmen Kill 50 In Donada And Kaltibu In Taraba (Graphic Photos) by Sheyman95(m): 8:53pm On Jan 06, 2018
Only bad news exist in Nigeria these days
PoliticsRe: IPOB Is A Threat To Unity, Herdsmen Is Not, Lai Mohammed Tells BBC - FFK Reacts by Sheyman95(m): 3:34pm On Jan 04, 2018
The evil these Fulani Herdsmen commit surprises the devil himself. And the kind of lies the FG dish to Nigerians terrifies Satan.
CrimeRe: Shrine Of Baddo Ritualist Arrested By Police In Lagos (Video) by Sheyman95(m): 3:09pm On Jan 03, 2018
this is terrible
CrimeRe: Shrine Of Baddo Ritualist Arrested By Police In Lagos (Video) by Sheyman95(m): 3:07pm On Jan 03, 2018
This is bad
PoliticsRe: How Much Does The President Of Nigeria Earn As Salary? by Sheyman95(m): 4:24pm On Jan 02, 2018
Who the president epp?
EducationHow Many Year(s) Does It Take To Finish CIBN Professional Exam? by Sheyman95(op): 6:45pm On Oct 30, 2017
Please Nairalander, how many year(s) does it take to finish CIBN professional exam if one already posses HND certificate?
EducationHow Many Year(s) Does It Take To Finish CIBN Professional Exam? by Sheyman95(op): 6:37pm On Oct 30, 2017
Please Nairalander, how many year(s) does it take to finish CIBN professional exam if one already posses HND certificate?

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