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goldbim:Atenu |
Omeokachie:you pay the price |
OrestesDante:well, its both. |
americanson:I sight you bro.. You nailed it |
1. Encouragement is scarce; criticism is abundant. No matter what you do there will be people who will either disapprove of your choices or simply hate your guts for living life on your own terms. 2. Your opinion shall be valued by your closed ones, but only till you don’t start interfering with their personal decisions. Everybody will live life the way they want to, do things they want to whether or not you approve. You cannot control people. 3. But what you can control is your own life because if you don’t, someone else will. Blaming it on the circumstances may get you sympathies from others, but it never makes for a valid excuse. Giving up and complaining about life problems is easy, manning up and doing something about it takes real courage and confidence. 4. There’s no absolute right or wrong in this world, just perspectives. What may seem stupid to you may actually be the wisest decision for someone else. That’s exactly what makes us so different from each other. 5. Nobody will love you exactly the way you love them. Some will love you more, some less, some won’t love you back at all. But that doesn’t mean they are bad people, just not the right ones for you, maybe. 6. People don’t mean most of the things they say. Your real worth is neither the appreciation people shower you with nor the nasty criticism that comes your way. The truest evaluation comes from yourself. 7. We have most of the qualities we don’t like in others. Think about it. 8. You don’t always get your due. You don’t get what you deserve, and sometimes, you get much more than what you deserve. Life is unfair. Complaining about it is not going to help. 9. You will be judged, all the time. People may say they’re not judging but they are. They always are. However, that is perfectly fine. What they think is their business, not yours. Just laugh it off. 10. You are not the centre of the universe. Most people don’t care what you think of them, and others don’t even know you exist. Everything cannot revolve around you. Giving yourself too much importance in other people’s lives will only bring disappointment. 11. You may never be ‘the best’. And, that’s okay because you don’t have to be the best. It may look like one, but life isn’t supposed to be a race. Don’t think of being the best, think of being yourself. |
One of the funny statements you hear from singles who are not willing to learn about marriage is "marriage is all about understanding, nothing else". My question to them is, how do you understand something when you don't have detailed information or right knowledge about it? How do you understand the man or woman you are married to or want to marry when you don't have any knowledge about them? When you don't know their needs, when you don't know what makes them happy or angry, when you don't know the right words or action? When you don't know what to say or do and the right timing? When you don't know how to be the right spouse for them since each man has their own definition of what marriage is and what the right spouse is or is not? The truth is, marriage is not about understanding as people say; it is about seeking the right knowledge. Without the knowledge you can't understand your spouse. It is time people stopped being lazy and idle, and start acquiring knowledge instead of hiding behind the tag, “marriage is all about understanding”. No man can correctly operate a newly acquired product when they have no knowledge about it or fail to read the manual that comes with the product. You either abuse the product or under utilise it. You might end up just using the product for two or a few functions when it capable of doing a lot more. You end up pressing the wrong button and forcing it to do what it wasn't meant or created for. Your lack of proper knowledge will lead you to damage the product. Spouses are the ones destroying their marriages today and not anyone because they don't have the right knowledge about marriage but think when they get married, it will be easy to understand each other. It is like saying, I won't learn driving but once I get a car, I will be able to drive. The truth is, you might end up killing yourself if not with others as well. Don't expect to read a letter and understand it when you fail to learn how to read and write. You need knowledge to understand. Without knowledge, understanding is not possible. So marriage is not about understanding, it is about knowledge. The reason why some women are labelled as bad cooks in their marriage is not because they don't know how to cook, but because they have not learnt how to cook food the way their husband want. The reason why some husbands don't enjoy sex with their wives is not that they are bad in bed, it's because they are not able to discover what their wives want in bed, how they want it and do that for them. The missing link between knowledge and a product is understanding. When you know what one wants, it means you have knowledge about the person. Young men and women, please learn about relationship and marriage. That is what will make you succeed. Some of this knowledge you seek requires you having a good relationship with God for His Spirit, the Holy Spirit, to teach you. In conclusion "Intelligent people want to learn, but stupid people are satisfied with ignorance." |
Tolzeal:The country is in total disarray. |
richiearmany14:they are all birds of the same feather. |
He mistook the thugs car for his car or he mistook the thugs to be his securities? Whichever it is, its disgusting. |
Where is Lie Mohammed? |
Hope its not part of their scheme to feed the youths to those herdsmen |
Abomination |
Only bad news exist in Nigeria these days |
The evil these Fulani Herdsmen commit surprises the devil himself. And the kind of lies the FG dish to Nigerians terrifies Satan. |
this is terrible |
This is bad |
Who the president epp? |
Please Nairalander, how many year(s) does it take to finish CIBN professional exam if one already posses HND certificate? |
Please Nairalander, how many year(s) does it take to finish CIBN professional exam if one already posses HND certificate? |
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