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i had a similar experience sometime back but from ma bf side
he just called me one afternoon and said [b]i saw my ex 2day she's married now [/b]jokingly i said good for us, he just smiled and said u're not serious.whenever i call him & his line his busy, he calls back & says i was talking with Nini (his ex)-dnt knw if its always a coincidence. for like 3 months there's always something to say abt Nini. one saturday we were supposed to go out 2gether i dint go, he got angry and went alone he called me d nxt day to expressn his dissapointment and ended it wit Nini was there. I dint know if it was intentional or not.i just said i hope u had fun. we went for dinner four days after and he told me Nini wants him to come to her house on saturday, i was mad i just shouted enof of watever! are u playing a game of make her jealous or what, i said so much and i told him to do watever he likes but am bored wit the story of him and Nini.
he came to my place on saturday told me he's sorry he dint know all d Nini's stuffs was making me unhappy, he said he loved her but she was only playin wit his emotions, he said he went to see her and he's a free man now. I believe him and supported him. wev been together for more than a year since d incidence and we are happy together.

i had a similar experience sometime back but from ma bf side
he just called me one afternoon and said [b]i saw my ex 2day she's married now [/b]jokingly i said good for us, he just smiled and said u're not serious.whenever i call him & his line his busy, he calls back & says i was talking with Nini (his ex)-dnt knw if its always a coincidence. for like 3 months there's always something to say abt Nini. one saturday we were supposed to go out 2gether i dint go, he got angry and went alone he called me d nxt day to expressn his dissapointment and ended it wit Nini was there. I dint know if it was intentional or not.i just said i hope u had fun. we went for dinner four days after and he told me Nini wants him to come to her house on saturday, i was mad i just shouted enof of watever! are u playing a game of make her jealous or what, i said so much and i told him to do watever he likes but am bored wit the story of him and Nini.
he came to my place on saturday told me he's sorry he dint know all d Nini's stuffs was making me unhappy, he said he loved her but she was only playin wit his emotions, he said he went to see her and he's a free man now. I believe him and supported him. wev been together for more than a year since d incidence and we are happy together. so communication is a good part of a relationship.

Ogbono Soup

overlook wetin,
an ex convict?
he'll b my ex problems wen am tru talking to him.
if he cud keep that to himself, definitely he will have worse things waiting to give me Hypertension.

probably five wives scatered in other states with twelve children scattered around d globe.

Ko ma ko oriburuku bami, unrepentant ole :

thanks all am trying to run a test on d hard drive and memory now, guess that will take d wjole of today-I dont mind if it gives good result. I dont want to format the system cos I believe formating should b after evrything fails.I checked d taskmgr noting is using up d memory except d task mgr that's runnin. I use McAfee Antivirus-original not otigba. I'll get back to u guys when am done. Thanks again.

Computer guru's in d house please assist me.I use hp 2133 notebook running vista OS 1G RAM, 120 Hdd, Pentium c7-m 1.6 GHz. For some weeks now i noticed the system takes like 15 mins to boot, 10mins to open anything, av unistalled so many things, updated my antivirus etc but the CPU usage in task managr is reading 100% even when am not doing anything.
I will really appreciate ur solutions. thank in anticipation.

we have romantic local meals if u can be creative, this ma suggestion:

appetizer
fish pepper soup & chilled zobo or natural nunu

main dish:
semo and vegetable (efo elemi meje)
with cold water.

dessert: any of the listed below will do
asun, ojojo, dodo ikire(fried mashed plaitain), iyoyo dindin (fried fingerlins) etc. with apple juice

just a suggestion

engineers in the house please help, my friend gave a me a TV Mobile E71 Pro and i dont know how to activate the GPRS. I use mtn.
I sent settings to 3888 and a reply was sent to me that i av to configure it manually.i dont know ow to go abt it please help.
thanks.

please can anyone tell me a list of good softwares for a microfinance bank, Heard about orbit but not sure ow it works and ow their support is? please if u know a good sofware 4 a microfinance send a reply.
ur contribution will be appreciated.

Hi! Just wondering if anyone can help me with a little problem. my ethernet 1394 net adapter cant connect to the internet. Can anyone help me?
My brother's computer was working fine connecting at 100mbps until recently when it stoped. I've done a clean install of Windows XP and the problem is still there. Also in Device Manager under OTHER DEVICES it has a ?(question mark) on all of these:

Ethernet Controller
Mass Storage Controller
Multimedia audio Controller
PCI Modem
Video Controller
video controller VGA

Its running intel pentium 1.6GHz 256Mb of ram with a 38Gb Hard drive
the system is a compaq nx5000 notebook.

your support will be highly appreciated.
thanks in anticipation

marketer aabangs u're feeling like a good advicer abi,
ur farm; is it in the toilet area of ur house or the land u bought or the one u inherited 'cos u're talking as if u can start fish farming in ur bathtub.
to start with, how much will u charge him for consultation fee? poster if u really want to go into a sharp sharp biz that will bring some money which u can later invest in FISH FARMING, viewing center, cyber cafe, sales of recharge cards,sales of pure water or can drinks etc is ur bes bet.

FISH FARMING KO Monkey Farming ni. His he goin to breed d fish in his room abi dont u think he will need land, adviser/marketer u have target abi abeg free the man and give him good advice. Ma broda recharge card business is good, u can also go into sewing(if u already know ow to) selling food is also a good business if u can afford to get dirty try pepper soup, ofada asun etc(make sure the food make sense sha o)

for all the fish farmers I think you need someone more bouyant to market.

why are u in a hurry to get married sef, dont let any woman pressurise u into quick marriage.
your parent's opinion is very important.
if you truely love her and she loves you too, let d relationship continue for a while to build trust in both parents then u can talk to them.
dont marry without ur parent's blessing o

^{a word is enough for d wise}

wat kind of long boring story is this,
haven't they slept wit other people's wives(b4 they became wives)
abegi let d past b past
_{but oh girl u self rock town o}

[color] when he can have practically any chick he wants Huh[/color]

point of correction:
He can practically have any stupid chic he wants not any chic he wants

Irresponsible TU FACE

oh boy they're FAKE dont waste ur money

^{Guru ko} _{Efiko ni}

Barawo banza.

i knw we av AA,AS,SS not heard about SA in my life

Doctor my friend says his genotype is SA is it possible? am really bothered can u tell me if it's true?

Esther breakthrough is FAKE. av tried it and i was too too disappointed. I went for their test with ma friend we got a text and told ma friend to go first, she paid d money and guess wat? she was posted to a road side computer school to teach. u dont want to guess wat d salary is

^{Awon Ole}

Doctors on nairaland is there anything like SA genotype. my friend says he's SA i dint believe but he says its true. Wat's d implication of having such genotype. When I look @ him sometimes i feel he might have some kind of disease. He's ma good friend and i really wish to know wat the so called SA genotype is about. please can u give me a detailed info on it. please doctors in d house. thanks

@yeswecan
am not abusive and i dnt call ppl names am only giving an instance
^{& why are u picking on me?}

^{Well i can't comment on your boyfriend. Indidivual differences.}

u don't have to say anything.
he didn't take back his words he proved a point, is a  respectable person dat does dat.

@ jack
u are a coward shikenah!
how can u raise your hand on a woman no matter wat?ppl like u end up raising trouble makers as children 'cos all u teach them is how 2 defend themselves with their fist and they end up being a bully, even to their husbands _{nobody likes them}.

matured minds talk things out, if u know you cant bear the insults then walk away
and give her a red card if u think the insults mean so much more to U than HER.

I once called ma b/f _barawo, it was just a joke i dint really mean he's a thief, it was just wat he said that made me call him that. do u know wat he did?
he told me immediately neva to use such word to qualify him again cos he doesnt like the meaning. i felt bad cos i didn't expect him to react that way.we didn't talk till d nxt day. he called me in d morning and said he's sorry.
he didnt say dat cos he was wrong he said it to make peace reign and I respect him for that.
for married people since u didnt see all d traits in him or her b4 u got married, mayb u should ask urself wat u're doin wrongly or u need to start a fresh learning process.

as for me I will forgive anyone that insults me, and chose if we will continue to be friends.

WELL IT'S GUD U GAVE HIM RED CARD PROVIDED THAT IT MAKES U FEEL GUD.
DID U TRY 2 TUK DIS OVER WITH HIM, I MEAN D STINGY STUFF?
WELL SOME GUYS ARE HEAVY SPENDER WHILE SOME JUST MICE THIER MONEY, BUT ALL THESE DEPENDS ON THE AVAILABILITY OF THE EGO. THE RULE HERE IS, SPEND AS U EARN HAHAHAHAHAH Grin Grin Cry Kiss Undecided

I think some people are just scared of 2morow and they stay hungry and spend less with an excuse of saving 4 d future.
i told him he's too stingy for my liking and we cant be compatible lai lai. he's still ma friend sha.

stingy guyz dont change o!
I had an experience from ma ex b/f he is so STINGY ha!, he says he's investing every time, he buys cheap tins   as in cheap tins, tins i wont buy wit ma money & d funny tin is i buy him quality & expensive tins he'll come around & say am wasting money, he doesn't return them anyway . the one that got me angry was d last time we went to an eatery, I told him I wanted Ice cream wit ma meal he said no w'll take coke & someting.after d meal I told him i want to buy sometin 4 ma siblings,& he said do u av 2 buy smth 4 them, I said YES. i bought snacks chicken etc and paid 4 it.
he did so many stingy stants, walahi I didnt tink too mch b4 i gave him a red card.he doesnt like to spend his money.
_Awun

eat out

don't perform any rite,
do u know what the so called rites entails,
don't jeopardize your future.

^{ab'oro lan so fomoluwabi} _{to ba denu e ad'ondindi}  

Getting married to the living can b frustrating not to talk of marrying d dead.
My dear, advice your friend not to make vows with a dead person it is [b]spiritual [/b]and d implication is beyond now.
If he can sue them great, but if it fails, he needs to let things be for now and pray for understanding.
His children will grow up to know him.
he should always go to his in laws place once in a while to keep up appearance.
they might pour pepper on him, he shouldn't mind 'cos d reward will b better than not trying.
May God Help him.(Amen)

yes me too

Marriage is not age, is maturity
marriage requires tolerance and endurance
some people can b old but not matured.
i will marry someone I can tolerate,
someone I love and respect
whether he's ma age mate or not.
when u start creating barriers u start limiting urself
it makes ppl pretend to b who they are not.

I dated a guy that's five years older than i am but we were not compatible
he's a baby @ heart
my boyfriend is just some days older than i am and we've been 2gether 4 two years
and we are happy 2gether.

use ur head and know wat u really want b4 u say I DO.

oh boy if u have the money go for your masters, the job u av is temporary, if someone wit more exposure and a higher degree comes along my dear
u will b tossed aside. besides universities abroad widen ur scope of practicals and exprience.
Forget the temporary fear of leaving ur job, u said something abt age, u b woman? u are still a young man with alot to achieve.
I wish u all d best.