Thanks guys, but HOUSE I NEED MORE RESPONSE O.Where are all the intelligent chaps in this house i need your advice o.

frankkky:

are you the personally involoved or u are speaking for some else,let me know so i will know how to advise u on how to recover ur money back

Am not personally involved but a friend, the last time i have some issues and i threw it to the house i received a lot of wonderful thoughts that i was able to resolve the issues without anybody getting hurt. hence i felt throwing it up here i would definitely get good responses.

chaircover:

I remember you now. You are the married man who lost a lot of money when you committed adultery with your banker concubine & she ran away with the money.

Did you every get it back?

Now you have lost money to someone who "claims to be a pastor" and had promised to buy you a car in the USA.

Personally I think that you need to look very carefully at why you are prone to losing large sums of money to "strange people"

No insult meant but is the money "clean" money to start with?

Haba can you be so mean, i mean u cud have said i rememeber you without adding the adultery part. Anyway we were able to resolve the issues amicably with a payment plan after much pleading from her side. This time around its from a friend and not myself. Buy why cant we have honest people like us, without unnecessary looking over your shoulder when dealing with loved ones.

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Men thumb up to Eldee and Banky W, am so impressed not all naija artiste is like 2-Face who cant speak simple and correct english.
Ruben Abati should learn to ocncentrate his writings on serious national issues next time and leave our generation ALONE.

Fhemmmy:

When you are messing with her, you never remember that she is not your wife ?
Anyhow, no need to scold you, cos u knew you were wrong.
So best thing to do is talk to her and let her reason with you why you need your money back.
But never talk about your wife anyhow.

Thank you very much, i started by saying i know i messed up big time, its just that a lot of folks here are so unforgiving that they are so mad at me even though they are not my wife. No amount of tongue lashing is going to change the fact that i made a terrible mistake which i am so sorry about. Cheating on my wife does not in any way means that i dont love or respect her, but at times things happen that you cant explain the reason for your actions.
Nuff love everybody for their contributions and God bless us all.

chaircover:

Aiye ti baje

Imagine the effrontery

You will spend N100,000 on your wife to "apologise" for your adultery and on top of that you "lost" the money you should have spent on your family.

Lord I thank you each and every day for the wonderful man you have blessed me with.

Men life is not as serious that you are taking, i made that statement not because i have no regards for my wife but i just wanted to take everytin in a lighter mood,ok. What i meant here was why spend it on someone that dubious and not my wife.
Thank God for a wonderful husband that u have and i pray to be like him.

chaircover:

Plan A - Forget about the money and continue to live with your wife in peace & sin no more.

Plan B - Tell the bank manager, then your ex girlfriend tells your wife and you are in peppersoup

Plan C - Call your ex-girlfriend and beg her to try and find a way or returning your money. If Plan C does not work, then back to Plan A or B

As for A the reason i cant forget about the money is that she didnt render me any service to warrant that kind of money and am not afraid about my wifey finding out. Its better to use about a 100k of the money to do shopping for me and she would definitely forgive me

Plan B looks very tempting and that wat i think am gonna do.
Plan C , i have begged,cajoled and even threatened b4 and she always promise to pay it in my account but i have not seen my account credited to the tune.
Will she really loose her job if i go to the extreme?

Men i love you all in nairaland, first of all am not afraid to let wifey knows about the issues cos that  the reason we decided to call it quits. She can never go tell wifey about it. I know i messed up but it was just a mistake and anybody is capable of making mistake. The most important thing is to admit it, sort it and move on.
I have already decided talkin to a third party to handle it on my behalf cos i really donot have the heart to hurt her or anybody for that matter but its not as if i cant be mean if i want to.

tmontana:

Bizness is bizness pronto!! This is what i'd like to call cheap blackmail.
My advice is weigh your priorities, then decide which you prefer; your money or your coded chop-chop.
Only then will you be able to make a decisive move.
Whichever way you choose to go, remember you can't eat your cake and have it.

Broda coded chop -chop has ended a long time ago, but thats not the issue here. I thot business and pleasure are not supposed to mix especially when both knows there is a line.
But guess do you think she will lose her job if i decided to go to the extreme because the problem here is she is not just taking me serious.

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