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PoliticsRe: Photos:Meet Adebola Williams, one of the young minds behind the new Buhari by shindarayo(f): 7:31am On Apr 02, 2015
charix:
Instead of devicing means to put himself and peers in the position of power he is busy rubbing minds and creating avenues to put these old men back. He seems to not know these geriatrics were his age when they first seized power and've chosen not to let go. I do not see his work as praiseworthy in any way.


By the way, 29 is just one year away from 30 - I don't see the difference mentioning he's under 30 unless he's 25 or thereabout.
wch youth?u mean d naira landers men dt hv no moral standard s?lets face d fact youth of nowadays hv no sense of how to manage dir own life, so how wld dey manage nigeria, or u think nigeria affairs is a child's play.
Jokes EtcRe: See This Photo: Male OAU Student Spotted Wearing Mini Skirt On Campus :-) by shindarayo(f): 6:30pm On Mar 27, 2015
wat I first saw were his legs, looks familiar wt d chickem I fried last nyt.funny dude
PoliticsRe: President Jonathan To Address The Nation, Nigeria, 7:00 am by shindarayo(f): 9:37am On Mar 27, 2015
Hmm, voye wisely, let he who have ears hear

CrimeRe: Court Sentences Man To Death For Stealing Handset, N10,000 by shindarayo(f): 11:31am On Mar 25, 2015
steppin:
Death sentence for stealing only 10k?
Meanwhile some people are lying under oath, forging certificates and nothing has been done to them.
E no good o!
d death sentence isnt for d 10k he stole, its for being harmed while stealing d 10k
RomanceRe: He Ended Our Relationship Few Days To Our Wedding.......... Lady Cries by shindarayo(f): 6:05pm On Mar 24, 2015
dre11:
http://dailyindependentnig.com/2015/01/ended-relationship-days-wedding/
its sad buh thank God u didnt hv to marry a good for nothing man, cos believe me ull end up takn responsibility for ur upkeep, his and ur children wen u marry him and he wld still not appreciate u.
RomanceRe: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by shindarayo(f): 6:16pm On Mar 23, 2015
majalisa:
madam mixbag what u r saying here contradicts ur "should i opt out or stay thread".or am i missing something?
hw did he contradict, d fact dt he hd nothing or wat?if u are so observant with ur life maybe it wld be beta dan wre it is..go back and read all my posts well since u are so interested in my life.
RomanceRe: Can You Date/marry A Woman With Stretch Marks? Pics(+18) by shindarayo(f): 2:11pm On Mar 23, 2015
skillzbae:
There is no woman dt wont av stretch mark, because it comes wit pregnancy,except u use certain cream,most of whch av side effect. So,young lad, wil u divorce ur pregnant wife over some mark?
not all woman are prone to stretch mark my dear.am a mother and looking at my tummy u wont eva believe it has bn stretched due to preg.i hv friends too like dt.
CelebritiesRe: Wole Soyinka's House In The Forest (Photos) by shindarayo(f): 1:05pm On Mar 20, 2015
Its a very cool place.my aunt house is also in d estate.if u want peace and privacy, its a very good location in abk, kemta idi aba housing estate to b precise
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Aigbe Looking Like A 14-yr Old On Set by shindarayo(f): 9:09pm On Mar 19, 2015
OMG,pls wre did she hide her curves?
RomanceRe: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by shindarayo(f): 5:28pm On Mar 19, 2015
Married my huby wen he was still been fed by his parent, so he practically had nothing, but tank God for wre he is today.not a millonaire but I can say am happy and comfortable.amd I know d sky is just our startn point
FamilyRe: Churches And Wedding Wahala. What Is Your Take On This? by shindarayo(f): 7:51am On Mar 19, 2015
ronald4lif:
He should make a decision, quit the church and join another if they suspend him or do the wedding in his church. He should make up his mind already. Move to another provided is not a white garment. wink
and wat if its a white garment undecided
CrimeRe: Aisha Mustapha's Body After She Was Found (Graphic Photo) by shindarayo(f): 7:06pm On Mar 18, 2015
If dis is true I hope dis teaches oda women lessons to stay away from wat is not theirs.she slept wt a married man got preg and still threatened to tell his wife? undecided.wen re u all goin to learn dt just because dey find u attractive doesnt mean dey wld leave dir wife for u, hell no, it doesnt happen...in all she didnt deserve dis kind of fate, r.i.p to upretty gurl, I hope u find peace in heaven
CelebritiesRe: Photos From Model Asha Bello's Birthday Party by shindarayo(f): 6:52pm On Mar 18, 2015
Dyt:
Ur current man will fall at my feet
And those chasing u
Smth abt thick confidence women
No amount of bone can intimidate cheesy cheesy

And to ur dad, at least I get to keep ur properties
grin grin
ahahahah, yh ull get to kip his prop wch involves 7grown men, I wish u d best.and my current man?rotflmaooo.
CelebritiesRe: Photos From Model Asha Bello's Birthday Party by shindarayo(f): 2:38pm On Mar 18, 2015
Dyt:
With that body, I can get even ur dad to submit his will
kiss kiss
my dad u say.i dash u, it can only subdue older men.
CelebritiesRe: Photos From Model Asha Bello's Birthday Party by shindarayo(f): 1:51pm On Mar 18, 2015
Dyt:
Better than ur slim flat ass
Yes am chubby and a proud one
Flaunts body
undecidedkip deceiving urself.dont forget to hit d gym dis weekend
CelebritiesRe: Photos From Model Asha Bello's Birthday Party by shindarayo(f): 1:50pm On Mar 18, 2015
kendrick9:
dry fishes everywhere
dont cm bk here to whine abt ur obese wife.
CelebritiesRe: Photos From Model Asha Bello's Birthday Party by shindarayo(f): 1:47pm On Mar 18, 2015
owolawitola:
Slim, thin, hungry, anorexic or whatever, they are beautiful....eyah sad
u wish abi.dont b surprised dey re healthier dan fat haters
CelebritiesRe: Photos From Model Asha Bello's Birthday Party by shindarayo(f): 1:46pm On Mar 18, 2015
Dyt:
Bone everywhere
Dayuum
I smell obesity hence d jealousy.
FashionRe: Checkout This Man Wearing Barcelona Agbada...as A Fan Can You Wear It? by shindarayo(f): 1:37pm On Mar 18, 2015
itsdumebi:
I nearly laughed by ears in when i saw this pic...when will Nigerians ever learn? the height of Fandom!!! grin grin grin
http://itsdumebi.com/football-fans-can-you-ever-try-this/
op is dt u rocking d samsung lemon top
RomanceRe: Very Hilarious Photo! Guys, Can You Allow This To Happen To You by shindarayo(f): 7:41pm On Mar 17, 2015
Guys re smarter dan dis, even if u weardem 20 of dis dey wld still cheat.wat happened to duolicating keys
CrimeRe: Graphic Photos: Hotel Worker Allegedly Tortured To Death By Police In Benin by shindarayo(f): 2:10pm On Mar 17, 2015
Havent u eva wondered y all policemen re damn ugly?I just hate d sight of dis men in black dey re frm d darkest pit of helll.how cld dey do dis to dis boy, am sure dey must hv used pressing iron on him.may God unleash his wrath on dis agents of darkness.i think dir uniform nids to b changed to white, change is all we need...
CrimeRe: Landlord Rape 8year Old Tenant daughter by shindarayo(f): 3:21pm On Mar 16, 2015
Peppyluv:
If rape/pedophile cases are 100, yorubas committed 80!!!!
Mostly fathers to daughters tongue
have u beeen raped by one b4?
CrimeRe: Landlord Rape 8year Old Tenant daughter by shindarayo(f): 3:16pm On Mar 16, 2015
bellychiz:
You can say that again bro now it's a yoruba man the damn haters won't show dia miserable face but if it were another tribe you will see them wiping their gutter anyhow anumanu pple them.

That yoruba goat shud be locked up for life idiota!
no matter d level of education an ibo person hs, dir level of stupidity wld still reflect in dir life...
CrimeRe: Landlord Rape 8year Old Tenant daughter by shindarayo(f): 3:10pm On Mar 16, 2015
kestolove95:
Dix. Yoruba people self...dem knw dey put dem prick one place?
one word for u.....asshole
FamilyRe: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by shindarayo(f): 12:24pm On Mar 16, 2015
greatgod2012:
Good day my fellow forumites. It's been a while opening thread on this forum. Happy sunday to us all.


This thread was borne out of a quarrel between a couple i tried to settle two days ago.
A colleague of mine approached me for advice on what is happening in her marriage, and at the end of narrating her ordeal, i pointed her fault to her as being the architech of her problems. I deduced that the bone of contention is that each time there is disagreement, he would ask her husband to choose between her and and his mother, and as it is expected, the man would choose his mother, and yawa go gas!

Please, my fellow women and wives (though some men are guilty of this too, but it's more rampant with women), let's stop this nonsense, let's stop asking silly questions, if there is an issue between you and your spouse, communicate with maturity, without raising voice, without setiments and without blackmail and most importantly, without silly questions such as, "then, you will have to choose between me and your mother" it's childish, silly, disrespectful and out of security and envy.
Let me tell us, no sane man will choose his wife over his mother, because the wife was not there when his mother conceived him, gave birth to him, breasfed him, trained him, have so many sleepless nighs because of him, sent him to school to become who he is now for you to see, admire and marry. No wife was there when the mother was washing the man's dirty clothes, even using bare hands to wash faeces with which he soiled himself, when the mother spent days in hospital when sick to make sure the man is in good health and shape. No wife was there when the mother wakes in the middle of the night to talk and advise his son on ways of life, on how to be a good child to her parents, a good person in the society, a good employee to his employer, a good employer to his employees, a good father to his children and a good husband to his wife. Now, it's the mother that the wife is now waging war against. Nooooo wayyyyyy.
Honestly, i don't know reason why there is usually rancour between DILs and MILs, if for anything, these old women deserves our respect, appreciation and to be made happy, at least for making these our husbands marriageable, abi, if they were not born, can we get married to them.

So, my fellow women, if you don't want to sadden yourself, stop asking your men to choose between you and his mother, because he would definately choose his mother. And for those who usually say, "then let him take his mother to bed", abeg, everything is not only about bed in marriage. For those who will say, "then let his mother prepare him food, remember, he has been eating his mother's food before meeting and marrying you. For those who will say, "then, let his mother bare him children", remember, the children are not only his, they're yours as well.

Let all DILs remember that they are also potential MILs and that whatever they sow as a DIL, they will reap them when they also become MIL.
Let us cultivate the habit of loving our MILs, appreciate them and stop unnecessary rivalry with them. Many of them are becoming old already, so, we need to remember that old age usually make someone to be eccentric. So, let' treat them as if they are our mother, which i believe they are. Atleast, someone who is old enough to be our spouse' mother is also fit to be our mother.
As for me, i have the most wonderful MIL in the whole world. I cherish her, adore her, love her greatly and i get the best of her, even my husband and his siblings do jealous of me.

Anytime there's a cause for all of us, me, hubby and mama, to be in a car, i open the front door for mama myself to sit, this singular act, i have been criticised of so many times, but, is it not for just one or few days, and i see that she usually love it each time i do that. She rains blessings on me as if there is no other day. I pamper her(but truth be said, she pampers me more).
See, my fellow women, this is a secret, if you want the best from your man, love his mother and you will never regret doing so.
God bless us all.
For those who will condemn this, i think i'm no longer a novice in marriage. This is my 10th year of marriage, and it's just like yesterday, we're just starting anyway, and everyday of our marriage has always been better than the previous day.

This also goes to the men who usually asks their wives to choose between them and their mothers.

P. S
DIL....daughter-in-law.
MIL....mother-in-law.

God bless us all.
it also beats my imagination when girls put dir hubby in dis kind of situation.what re u xpecting to hear, dt he chooses u?hmm!thank God for me sha, av always prayed to God to gv m a mil like my mum.and he did, she is d best tin dt eva happened to m and I love her like my mama...she talks to m and treats m like a daughta.she even gives me tricks on how to make her son love me more.i love her, shes d best.
RomanceRe: Heard A Man's Deep Voice And My Lady Talking With A Moaning Tone On Phone by shindarayo(f): 11:15am On Mar 14, 2015
dovelike:
She was probably trying to sleep with the television on or waking up from sleep with the television on. She won't pick up your call if she was in a compromising position with a man.

With what strength?
says who.dont doubt d power of a cheating woman oooo.just sayn*
FashionRe: Sandra Muna Okerie Is Amity's Most Beautiful Face In Nigeria (pics) by shindarayo(f): 7:43pm On Mar 11, 2015
ribbit:
Is this some kind of joke?

I can point five babes on Nairaland only prettier than her.
ure ryt.but dir calculation is based on d contestants she contested wt not on d people dt didnt.shes obviously not d prettiest in naija we all knw abt dt
FamilyRe: Older Man Caught In A Hotel With A Secondary School Girl (photos) by shindarayo(f): 11:24pm On Mar 08, 2015
Misogynist2014:
Do you know how fat his wife is?
lethim deal.wt it, its guys like him dt screams I lobe dem.big.and.curvy, so he sd carry his cross.

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