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That’s one interesting that makes me want them
All this premarital sex no fit Ellu p me I go just lose feelings ..

ikeno:
Make ur matter no bi like sabinus wey follow the girl wey get big yansh go her church and wen pastor start to flog sabinus wit cane all in the name of say dem want drive the evill spirit from em body dem no tell am wen em dust em slippers and find em square root.

He won be like am ooo

But omooooo I am tired for real the matter just weak me at this point I no even sabi if commitment and marriage is even worth it .: me way I lazy normally and soft introvert .. now I Dey pray reach 5 times a day .
The girl is beautiful and she has morals Boya I should stick with the ones their eye don open ooo.

Jakumo:
It is absolutely compulsory for any man who seeks female interaction to go out and meet women because women will NEVER go to a man's house in search of companionship. By encouraging a man to give up on the hunt, you are encouraging him to waste potentially YEARS of his life that could have been spent enjoying female companionship, if only he is prepared to invest just a little effort in escaping loneliness.

Finding a woman is a game of numbers with rejection being a necessary and perfectly acceptable part of the game. Furthermore, an initial rejection may not even be the woman's final word. The more beautiful she is, the more tests and obstacles she will place in the path of men who pursue her, in order to weed out those who lack motivation and give up easily. Women are attracted to confidence above all, along with PERSEVERANCE after an initial rejection. Those traits are necessary for survival and success in life, so women value those traits and therefore filter out prospective suitors in a deliberate search for those who know the values that they MUST portray in order to reach that promised land.

There is a whole community online of men who have simply GIVEN UP on finding a woman. They are called INCELS, a horrible acronym for involuntary celibates who have now grown to hate women because they harbor the delusional expectation that women ought to just throw themselves at men due to the perceived wealth, good looks, muscularity, social status, or academic brilliance of those men. By encouraging a lonely man to give up and remain alone and content with his isolation, you are doing him a terrible disservice that could result in YEARS of social isolation and sexual frustration.

OP go out and meet women everywhere you find them. Don't let these INCELS try and rope you into their sorry brotherhood of bitter losers. It is never too late to change up your game and learn the art of banter with women that will in time lead you into their silken panties.

You’re delusional just because of being an extrovert you making this baseless assumptions and trying to put yourself out as someone who has achieved so much in being out there .. You’re a sicko regardless of op thoughts introverted people are veryyyyy comforted and they love the thought of being alone no one gives a Bleep about those temporary feelings you catch like Covid 19 out there Mr man . Mumu Dey feel funky on top people way he meet

Jakumo:
It is absolutely compulsory for any man who seeks female interaction to go out and meet women because women will NEVER go to a man's house in search of companionship. By encouraging a man to give up on the hunt, you are encouraging him to waste potentially YEARS of his life that could have been spent enjoying female companionship, if only he is prepared to invest just a little effort in escaping loneliness.

Finding a woman is a game of numbers with rejection being a necessary and perfectly acceptable part of the game. Furthermore, an initial rejection may not even be the woman's final word. The more beautiful she is, the more tests and obstacles she will place in the path of men who pursue her, in order to weed out those who lack motivation and give up easily. Women are attracted to confidence above all, along with PERSEVERANCE after an initial rejection. Those traits are necessary for survival and success in life, so women value those traits and therefore filter out prospective suitors in a deliberate search for those who know the values that they MUST portray in order to reach that promised land.

There is a whole community online of men who have simply GIVEN UP on finding a woman. They are called INCELS, a horrible acronym for involuntary celibates who have now grown to hate women because they harbor the delusional expectation that women ought to just throw themselves at men due to the perceived wealth, good looks, muscularity, social status, or academic brilliance of those men. By encouraging a lonely man to give up and remain alone and content with his isolation, you are doing him a terrible disservice that could result in YEARS of social isolation and sexual frustration.

OP go out and meet women everywhere you find them. Don't let these INCELS try and rope you into their sorry brotherhood of bitter losers. It is never too late to change up your game and learn the art of banter with women that will in time lead you into their silken panties.

You too Dey spit crap over sabi Dey worry you women affairs minister just few ones you’ve met you Dey claim itk ..

Gerrard59:
And who says it is easy? It is actually easier to stay at home, and even cheaper. In fact, as I write, na church I dey come from. I was specially invited today so I could meet the daughter of the invitee and have lunch with the Singaporean medical professionals I met earlier. As it is done in the abroad, you pay for yourself, but the doctors decided to pay for me. Why? We have conversed deeply about various issues. I am proud of myself that there is no topic outside literature, movies and music that I don't know of. Even the invitee's daughter who studies Computer Science at a Canadian university, she and I discussed about the tech industry. She was even interested to meet me. If na OP, he wants the girl to meet him where he is siddoning put.

You think it is every one that would invite a random black guy from West Africa to meet their friends? But I put myself out there and during our various conversations, we saw that we shared the same values. If I was not going to the church, I for no sabi these people existed. If I did not apply to join the university's church group, the medical student wey carry me go her church, I for no meet am. OP wants to meet people, but he has ZERO SOCIAL LIFE AND FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS. For crying out loud, how would he meet people if he siddon put for house?

The issue is that he is lamenting his situation, but is adamant about not changing it. How on earth do you want to meet people when you don't go out? Who the fvck does he think he is? Even top class researchers attended conferences, but one random Lexzeey believes people should meet in the hole he put himself. Even the doctor's mentor, a renowned specialist in the field globally, went to Singapore and Australia for conferences, but this guy believes people should meet him in the hole he dug. Remember, he stated that he has ZERO SOCIAL LIFE AND FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS. He is the one lamenting of not having a female partner but has ZERO SOCIAL LIFE AND FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS

He can’t change who he is to please others ..Besides you are just creating normal chances for yourself and one can still meet whomever they sought in their home playing games or drinking and it ain’t compulsory you should be out there ..

Gerrard59:
Your responses showed the same. You make it seem like the fault is not you. Meanwhile, as I have analysed it, you share the larger portion of the blame, not some imaginary ladies.



Otedola is a false equivalence to put up there as someone with financial stability. The thing is, you don't go out. You have ZERO SOCIAL LIFE. Those are your words, not mine. You stated them, I am simply regurgitating what you stated. I did not pull them from my yansh.





How would you see more people if all you do is play video games INDOORS? You stated that you have a FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS, which can mean zero since you stated that you have ZERO SOCIAL LIFE.

I am hard on you because I was in your shoes years back, and it still affects me to date. But I made concerted efforts to GO OUT and meet people. Heck, I am in a place where there are very few black people. Yet, I still go out so I can have a social side of me. If you were in my shoes, you would have wailed and even entered Instablog9ja. When I was in Nigeria, I made concerted efforts to attend weddings, birthday parties, and get-togethers rather than staying home writing and reading (in your case, playing video games). I knew the fault was from my side as no matter how you like intelligent women, if you don't go, how will they know you exist? How will you know they exist? You are doing siddon put for house yet want people to know you exist. Are you crude oil? Heck, even in crude oil parlance, it is the exploration firms that go out hunting for new fields rather than staying put in their air-conditioned offices lamenting that there are no new crude deposits. Total has found oil in Namibia and Mozamqbiue, but if you were Total, you would have said new oil fields do not exist and siddon put for Paris lamenting how others are discovering newer deposits.

Recently, my friend was gisting me how he has grown an army of females he converses with through Instagram. When I explained that I didn't have a similar outlook, he said it was because I put my profile in private mode and restricted myself only to Instagblog9ja. Meanwhile, he is active on almost the major pages relating to Nigeria on Instagram. You see the difference? He puts himself out there and makes himself accessible. He told me he does not message ladies whose profiles are private. So, he can understand if ladies would not bother to message me no matter what I write. But if it were you, you would have wailed and chanted that Nigerian girls don't like you, nor they don't like intelligent men. How dem wan take know you dey intelligent since you don't go out?



This is what you should know about the Internet: once you bring information about your life to the Internet, you cannot dictate how people would respond to it. The moment you bring it out, which no one forced you to do so, expect all sorts of responses, including the ones you don't like. I am not here to make you happy. Your type is the one who rarely accepts correction and believes he is the best thing since sliced bread. He wants to have a girlfriend but he has ZERO SOCIAL LIFE AND FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS. How on earth is that possible?!

Forget that internet yarn or going out to make friends and socialize y’all make it sound so easy and just something that everyone enjoys doing .. That Nigga enjoys his privacy which I applaud humans are full of bullshit especially when you make yourself accessible to everyone some networking can go wrong and sometimes you end up meeting misery out there .
Having few selected individuals will save you from such stress and please don’t translate financial explorations to looking for a relationships they both differ.

Jennyclay:
Hello was i talking to you

Besides, how much is ordinary data he can’t help her with .

You broke men should stay away from relationship if you can’t provide common data for your girlfriend. That’s the height of poverty!! Shame!!

Werey I sub 300 gig monthly… Ask for my Spectranet pass

NGArmyTerrorist:
Kpekus is so powerful that it can make a make starts misbehaving and even work against his family and his callings in life. Don't underrate it.

Wahala

Jennyclay:
Nobody wants to settle for less my dear.

She did the right thing, she don’t want you to put her in abject poverty!!

You be werey cuz she is the oga of abject poverty herself ..

muyico:
Best behavior but bad act

How can I stop and tolerate them more

Jennyclay:
If you claim the ladies you’ve being with in a relationship are broke then you’re also broke man because you’re attracted to your kind.

BTW, you’re also a randy man. Shame on you!! Shame!!

Laugh in Chinese …

I don’t feel love anymore and I practice emotional detachment despite being in a relationship with different women ..
The first month is exciting and when I start seeing their character and burdens and reactions I just lose interest .I just broke up with one today and i just feel it is baseless taking over their burdens this ladies are just broke and i can’t buy one’s loyalty for money ..
Women have this ugly character when you aren’t meeting up with their expectations and needs due to that it has made me cared less and made myself a priority.

Jodha:
So yhure willing to change religion because of a woman yhu just me

So what’s special about them religion ??

Jodha:
I'm gonna take this as a joke...

It is no joke lol ..

SHINJACRUSADER:
You want to become a Muslim because of a woman..

Stupid people everywhere

And what’s special about being a Christian fool… You think I am a religious freak …
I want a good woman that’s all and I don’t mind switching religion for that sake …

I have this Hausa lady I just met and I am very interested in making her my bride despite the fact she is a Muslim and I am willing to become one as someone from the East side ..
I am tired of southern ladies and I just feel the Hausa women still have some morals and decorum to be faithful in a relationship and loyal ..
they’re not exposed and money mongers that wants to rip of a man ..

Ingocof:
As e dey pain you e dey sweet us.

Omo werey Wetin concern me with you … better go find your likes display your madness to ..

Ingocof:
No wonder they are running to Lagos with their Ghana must go bag in night buses.

Stupid incoherent words ….

Ingocof:
But they don't sit at home every Monday in those zones you mentioned

It is their will and they owe you no explanation if they decide to make it an holiday so far it is respected .

Ingocof:
You and those who have this line if thought are the biggest problem of the igboland.
When you think that hiding and shielding evil and wickedness in your backyard but using horn speaker to escalate what's going on in other regions will make you developed is a high way to delusion.
That's why Oby will quickly shout about any atrocities in the north and west but never ever condemned the evil in her region.

You’re delusional so speaking about it and tainting our image is the solution ?? What actions have you take in practice to make it better and not widespread instead you type shit with your keyboard…
Are you happy when they say untruthful things against Igbo tribes when actually it is not the true context of what is actually happening? Any small thing they mistake the east for a terror zone whereas this insecurities exist even in the so called west and north ..

Una don chop this one but that bone fish go hook Una for throat .. Otilo but mark this one Igbo people go rise up and nothing fit quench light no matter the darkness morning go always show ..

muykem:
I don't believe that anybody hates igbo because of tribe but because of your believe that you can dictates pace for the majority.

People really do and I have experienced it firsthand from people that I am close to and if you dig deeper they hold this widespread grudges and they feel they have justified reasons towards their behaviour and what surprises me is that I feel such things is geared towards the impeccable behaviour of Igbo people in terms of growths and no one is above blame in certain situations of the country which Igbo people has also partakes in but in majority we have done exceptionally and excellently well which are their fears in bringing up baseless allegations.

Danisaint112:
Shortcut2life
Imagine the igbos told YORUBAS to go back to his their father's land as a retaliation for what happened during the Lagos governorship election, Igbos would have been tagged wicked today.

What the Igbos tolerated during the Lagos governorship election, even Arewa people (Hausa and Fulanis) will not tolerate it. A serious fight would have broke out in the North and Yorubas sent packing immediately. I know Northerners cause I live with them.

But it's alright. We got the message. I know friends who swore never to invest their penny outside the shores of Igbo land. I never got to understand fully until after the just concluded presidential and governorship election in Lagos State.

I now fully understand that investing outside the shores of Igbo land as an Igbo man is putting your mental health and business in serious danger.

If you reading this as an Igbo man about to make a serious investment somewhere not your land Kindly have a rethink and come back to the South East. There are many places habitable for any kind of investment you want to venture into.

Forget about naysayers because businesses in the South East is more secured than anywhere in Nigeria. Home is home.

Infact, instead of making a huge investment outside the shores of Igbo land, invest abroad. For you will find greater safety and peace there than any place not Igbo land in Nigeria. It's not me trying to preach hate but the obvious fact from multiple experiences.

They have asked us multiple times to leave their land for them and go develop our SAD EAST. Do as they have instructed. I have come to understand that once the drum of war or violence is been sounded over and over again be rest assured it will occur someday. Russia and Ukraine is a perfect example.

As some hate filled Yorubas usually chant "Yoruba Ronu!"
"Ndigbo Chénú-úche!"
Peace umunnem. ❣️

You have spoken well like a true son of your land unlike some that make baseless assumptions and claims of a non existence violence and now it has become a stain which the other tribe has used as a cheap chorus just to taint the image of our land ..
My father has always chosen to invest in the East and his years in Lagos he never thought of putting a penny there and I have always made him believe it was wrong by now I fully understand his reasoning..
I have an investment in their best choice estate and when this people rant that we should go back to our land it aggravates my anger course I believed in our unity that’s what prompted me to make such investments and I was prolly going to make someone from the west my bride but as it stands I will retrace my steps so as not to fall into their traps and gimmicks ..
please Igbo Invest massively in the East so your future generations will be secured from unknown threats of the true economic gunmen of your wealth and prosperity they’re prevalent in this site and waiting for any slight chance to claim something that doesn’t belong to them …

paramakina202:
How bad exactly do want the violence to reach before you acknowledge something is wrong? oh as far as it is not as bad as in the other regions we are fine.No, we are not fine.UGM and other criminals operating in the SE must give peace a chance or else someone like me will continue to loud it.No other region is forced to sit at home on mondays except in SE which is not good for business.

The decision was taken because of the injustice meted out by the feds on one of your own .. The solution is not by keeping him captive and worse of it all the law is not helping matters by prolonging his judgment…
This county is an encampment which made the agitators to acts in their best interest and you can’t blame them literally for it ..

paramakina202:
The number one enemy of Igboland is unknown gunmen period.

I disagree with your notion I believe violence is not widespread in Igbo land it can be curtailed … Gun violence is prevalent in the most developed countries but why castigate your tribe in a bad light and you give other tribes reason to spill rubbish …
Even during bokoharam and iswap the north never looked down on their tribes and this violence is still in existence today but instead they rehabilitate their citizens and release the offenders into the society..

Please speak good about Igbo tribe because other tribes are taking note of our weaknesses and that will be dangerous to our growth and greatness..

From the inception of Nigeria our forefathers as kicked against this union and to be honest the spirit of division still lingers in this country…

We need each other more than ever especially now that they feel the odd is against us and they feel boastful about it believing it is in our detriments and their so called far fetched reasoning and aggression towards us as a tribe …

Bring investment and employ our youths by embarking on infrastructural developments that will foster the growth of the incoming generation and populace of our dear tribe …

In my next life I want to be an Igbo course we represent strength,resilience and determination.. please don’t give up on our tribe let us work together to achieve greatness in our region as a whole ..

Smartguyboy:
Lol
I was lucky enough to meet a good one my cousin roommate back in school and my ex even know her self her course-mate Dey all say something nice about her and I have to find out myself too.

Your sis or cousins can still link you too Dey will be the one to tell you if she’s good or bad.

Lucky you ..

This one person Dey come of age to settle down to find banny come be like further mathematics …

How did it work for you and did you just tolerate their excesses ?

I seem to walk out on women easily even when they’re in love and into me …
I just like to put myself first and I have heard different ladies say this about me lol ..
what can I do to drop my pride and ego in a relationship cuz mehn I don’t trust this girls and my guard is always up .
This alpha male stuff Dey mess with women mind .

. Women no go hard you at all ………
Wahala for who Dey simp on top one
Selective breeding… na him you go practice

Dennis3D:
The Building is on 610 sqm.
Finishing cost from foundation to roof and to handing of keys is estimated to about 98 - 120m.

Here, we are doing full automation on lights, curtains, gate, cameras, sensors and so much more.

And the estimated cost of sale of the building is projected at 610m - 620m. Currently, buildings that are similar are already sold for 550m in the estate. Vintage Park is the name of the estate Ikate. Burns boy's house is just a stone throw from ours. Igalo of Manchester united too has his private residence behind ours.

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