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yo do 20 good things to a woman she praise you, the moment you mistakenly do 1 unfavourable thing to the same woman...she gets angry and get to the level of saying “since have known him, have not received a good from him“

Deduction- they are easily tensed, so male should be careful in dealing wit them...


They are delicate.

Sissie: i do not have a problem with the post, besides all this isnt new, we all know compromise is a sure thing, me myself am not perfect.
its just tiring when you talk and people want to ''preach'' to you.

sis you need not to get tired, we must continue to remember ourselves of the goodies we seems to forget atimes................... FORGETFUL MAN!

maclatunji: @bolded, not all. For every lady that does not want you as a man, there are probably 5 others who are dying to be with you WITH ALL OF YOUR FAULTS. Men are pragmatic and that shows in our reactions to idealistic single ladies' posts... it is not about being pained, it is about being frank/truthful. The truth is that a lot of single ladies are in Lalaland when it comes to their expectations of marriage.

Well-meaning men will always point this out. The irony is that many of the ladies who have made the switch from single to married either keep quiet or don't tell you the single ones the truth. Maybe, they don't want to be reminded of some of the things they posted whilst being single.

bro i no de there ooooooooooooooo............................... not willing to add that for now

@aunt sissie nd aunt deols- don't mind me, my talk is always general, not particular... Its a REMINDER!

We've once on this same thread talked bout a relating issue which i said observers told me that “they doubt if i ll actually get married“ reason being that “they think my desires is unrealistic“.
Also, no one is perfect and that's for sure....we can run but its hard to hide. Lets hit the nail on the head.
Bro mac once said he doesn't live in lies, am of the same opinion...

Reality and appearance are two distinct course but they are related, if consciousness is compromised in testing the thesis observer might fall for appearance which could later be barbaric...

Compromise is constant!

Wish you what i wish myself...

Av cherry tantalizing life tym.

deols: @showietee, una try ooo

ma!
what have I done??

“The sign of a beautiful person is that he always sees beauty in others.” SubhanAllah! ~~ Omar Suleiman ~~
Do you try to see positive traits in your spouse?
`A believing man must never hate a believing woman; if he dislikes one trait in her, he will find another trait in her with which to be pleased.' (Hadith in Muslim)

My brothers and sisters in search of a perfect person, don't lose a true one. Because perfection is fantasy while truth is a reality.
Waleed Basyouni

"We always feel that Allah's Blessings never
come on time, but the truth is, they are
always on time, but we are always in a
hurry!"

subhanallah... Alhamdulillahi... Lailaha illalahu.... Allahu akbar....


#lesson

You can marry a woman for her wealth but money will perish.
You can marry a woman for her beauty but beauty will fade away.
You can marry a woman for her power but power will be gone.
If you marry a pious and righteous woman who fears ‪#‎ Allah‬,
- she will honour you,
- she will be affectionate with you,
- she will help you to get closer to Allah.
Your love story will last forever. It will begin in this life and Insha'Allah will continue in the Hereafter.
Her love and satisfaction willbe your key to ‪#‎ Jannah‬(Paradise).


We are looking for a spouse with certain qualities but have we developed the qualities that such a spouse would be looking for?

.•*''''*•. Do you know who's the true princess? .•*''''*•.
She has these qualities:
- ‪#‎ Qur‬'an is her guide
- Prophet Mohammad (pbuh)is her example
- Khadijah (RA) is her role model
- ‪#‎ Jannah‬is her goal
- Shyness is her principal manner
- Her Imaan is the secret of her purity
- Her ‪#‎ Hijab‬is the crown ofher chastity
- She is the one who stands to perform salah the momentshe hears ‪#‎ Adhan‬
- She is the one who falls in love only with her husband
- She is the one who spends her night praying to her Lord
- She is the true Muslimah!
May Allah SWT grant all God-fearing men such kind of ‪#‎ muslimah‬, ameen.

alot said... During working hour..... Hmmm..... Noted lot of em.

Sissie: How important is looks when searching for a spouse. honest answer oh, tell us your own perspective.please don't turn it into preaching session!!!!

Wanted to post a video on this but the bad server won't let me....

A person's beauty goes beyond the facial appearance... Inner beauty is the most important.

Though we've been told by our dear prophet(s.a.w) to look at what the person looks like, but the look exceeds that.

MAC- you understand!

onegig: so your calmnesss will be proposing like that clown up there?


If na me be the girl i will just squeeze my face like he did write on a sheet of paper the words "No Thanks."


There are sweeter ways of doing it without showing off.

Not in such mode.

In my calmness mode, i already wrote a line yester9th but didn't see the reason to post such...


Something like- my desire is jannah(inshallah) and i ll be a beta occupant if i glue my other half while in duniya, throt the globe but non is closer........


Piety and calmness are attributes of iman.


Display of skills here is like show off to me...

One might attract crowd, which is very dangerous(it has more harms)

AdeSuave: Thank you my sister,I pray they listen,no one wants to be subjected to a life time of boredom

They're skillful, but rather prefer to be calm(no showoff) for that is beta.....

they need not to say those nice words meant for that jewel here for they don't won't to expose the suprise to the masses...

Btw... I already typed some in my previous comment, i just didn't see need for the exposure of the rhymes.

^^^must my brothers copy from the regular ones?

Remember its a hunt for a jewel, the mode should be special.

deols: Did I call it a bad thing?

Whether its called a bad thing or not, it has deficiencies and that's one of it.

I bother less bout happening these days cos it has been written long time ago.... Allah's message to us is so clear...

“At a later time muslims ll change but islam ll not“

Muslims have change and people put the blame on islam but that's not the reality.

Our society is flooded wit muslim schools and islamic schools are scarce...

Muslims schools where kids are taught music(the haram version)....

Parents now have reservations on islamic laws and prefer to a moderate muslims(don't wanna be seen as a fanatic)

It begins wit you and i.

Lets correct the idea of blaming the tree for a rotten fruit gotten from it.

oxygen25: E go better for you jare

Same to you.

pDude: Speaking of shifting the blame

NOT REALLY.... Am calling a spade a spade....

Blames should be apportion to the right channel.

It won't be approprate to judge the general by a particular.... (to have a deductive conclusion based on inductive test.)

pDude: They are all dumbheads. Yes.

Their practices are crude and archaic. They have no business ethics. And also they have not been able to lift the nation out of its financial abyss.

So yes, they are dumbheads. Thieving dumbheads.

Pulling the nation out of the mess can't be attained on a partial differentiation but rather on a total differentiation....

These individual operate by laid down regulations, if the regulations are good enough then the nation will move ahead....

They are not the policy makers of the nation, if they fail in their duties then we can talk about it, if not, we beta mute.


Blame the policy makers for the general errs and blame the individual for the particular errs.

PEACE.

nice one bro, keep it up.

Hope you ll consider another one after this might have been successful in other locations aside of lag.

All the best, may thee creator strengthen you...

And i can remember a brother that said he didn't take nairaland serious until he ram into one of tbaba's article(alot of us are like that)....


Imagine how beverly osu and relating topic has flooded the frontpage (what ll be my derivations from such)... can we educate our younger ones wit such things?


The goals needs to be redefine?

^^^ I think from frontpage those that are not really interested in our forum might see something that will amaze them and get used to our forum....


Have been following nairaland since nov 2006 wen a brother informed me of the site but didn't join until recently. Reason been that the topics i usually see on front page aren't what i actually wanted. Biz, jokes,politics,computer,phone ..... Were my visitation spots then cos i hardly see my desires.


https://www.nairaland.com/1395372/joining-bandwagon-embracing-single-story#1395372.7


We've already propose that the thread should be moved to frontpage but i don't think its there yet...


Information on the national integration and spiritual upliftment is what we need, not some awkward news bout BBA.

maclatunji: She is not alone or rare. There are far too many of her kind on Nairaland and they believe in their hearts of hearts that they are knowledgeable about Islam too... #Pathetic

It is only Allah thats leads man aright. They are misinformed, and they're almost everywhere(even among family and friends). All we need do is pray for ourselves and our loved ones from deviations. Idina siratal musteqin....

Sissie: this should be moved to frontpage please.

Seconded.

The statement doesn't mean am refering to you, Its a general advice....

maclatunji: ^People will get married at the time God has ordained for them. It is not something I bother about. Ameen to your prayer.

I think it worth bothering bout, for wit it one is a beta believer(if upright wit it) and alot are set but don't want to move ahead due to some irrelevant point.


According to a narration, its one of the three things that should be attended to asap. (solat, nikkai, burial proceedings)....


In summary- those that have the prerequisite should get on fast.... No time!

<<<<<<NOTE>>>>>>
Not really meant for the quoted person but for all.

kayword: Na wa o, this is definitely not sunnatic. I dunno how events such as this even get sponsors.

Bro you're funny.... How did boko haram get sponsors? Some people did claim that they established the taliban group, do we still need a schooled person to tell us the sponsor of such org?

Enemies of the truth ll not stop, and as it is said in the hadith posted by bro tbaba ^ earlier...

They ll follow the ways of their friends, so everyone of you should be careful wit who he keeps as a close friend.

kemiola89: ^^ well, i was just being sarcastic, thanks for that. I know this ain't the right way to go about it.

If you want it right, then start right.

What you sow, you shall reap....

Foundation matters alot, so don't toy wit it.

Subhanallah.... Is this sunnah?

LagosShia: very good!!! she is brilliant.may Allah (swt) add more of her kind among the enemies of Islam and Muslims.

Subhanallah... There are alot of people like her on earth that lives on lies, fallacies....


Let pray for her instead that she should be shown the light by the creator.

She has been misinformed....

Rosullah was rejected at to'if cos the people there then did not know his worth but he still pray for them despite the rejection.

kemiola89: Lol! Where are the sisters? I don't want to believe all the sisters on this forum are taken.

They are not taken, but they fear their lord for this doesn't look good enough.