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Omar09:
Romantic Love doesn't exist. The only love I know is that of Jesus Christ simple.

yesss o!! He never fails

ultimate77:
I've never been heartbroken. All relationships I'd had we ended without no heartbreak, we agreed because I wasn't ready for commitment at the time. I've dated 3 ladies before I got to the point I am ready for a serious relationship. However, while in those relationships, suitors comes for their hands in marriage and when they get to tell me, I let them go after much understanding conversations. They were all great girls. All married now with 3_2_2 kids.

I have only been disappointed not like dashing my hopes totally but it was a relationship I was hoping to spend my life with but the ogbanje spirit in her won't let her understand that life isn't about flirting and material pleasures. After few years, we had a conversation and I walked out. So, in my own case, I've not been hurt but I was disappointed not like regrettable disappointment but the fact that a lady at this time can't calm down to realize that a man is ready to commit to her.

I am simply amazing. You mightn't understand. I break boundaries and barriers and my desire is for all mankind within my jurisdiction at a time understand the beauty of love, happiness and joy in coexistence.

Peace.

amazing write up !! I totally get it

Lyydia:
"It was never meant to be"- this keeps me moving

exactly!! Lol

I love the fact u posted her messages ,, gives us a better scope of whats going on.

She’s not a bad person or wife,, she just feel trapped , n my dear u caused it ,, give her the freedom to express herself .. this world is evolving , women wanna feel important, women wanna make their own money and women wanna make vital decisions in their home.. give her some space ,, allow her breath ,, she’s shocked up with ur bossy attitude that’s why she’s saying hurtful stuff n that’s normal for women ,, our mouth r deadly weapons. Be strong !! Be a man !!! Divorce is not an option.. this is a matter of talking n hving a common ground on how the home will work peacefully.. leave I am a man out of this.. u didn’t marry a desperate girl !! U married a lady that had so much dreams ,, don’t trap her..

ultimate77:
You started a good thread and see how you are using this "rubbish talk" to spoil it. Haba na!! So if we don't say ours that makes us "scumbergs " haba na

u better say it or yes u are n u know it

dingbang:
twice.

but why ? Do u know how much it hurts ? So unfair

Illuminated993:
I've never experienced pain like that, September 2018. At first, I just liked her; I wasn't really in love with her. Over time, we started having sex, then, I started getting used to her and we always pictured a future and a home. I fell in love with her. When everything ended, I couldn't stop the pain. I tried different coping mechanisms, they never worked; I was traumatized constantly thinking about her. I feel pain deeply, as a result of my introverted nature. At this time, I was always by myself, so there was no activity to distract me - I was without any job, I was always home. It was terrifying. I cultivated the habit of reading. Ultimately, I learnt that the ultimate human is that human who has found a way to be happy by himself, and can clearly see himself maintaining this happiness throughout his stay on earth, even without the company of anyone. The way I see it now, a relationship isn't meant to make you happy. At the very least, happiness shouldn't be the primary reason why we get into a relationship.

makes so much sense

AfroKnight:
You face your job to keep your mind busy during the day. Then endure the hurt at night.

Friends will help. But if your partner has somehow isolated you from your friends, then you are in deep shît. You go suffer well well.

I don’t like telling personal issues with friends,, cause most ain’t real to me,,, n are happy am frustrated

Omar09:
Hope you are not fat. My advice, always be open to change, that way you will not be taken by surprise.

there is nothing wrong being fat!! Am learning how to expect the unexpected!! But when really love someone it hurts regardless

dingbang:
Ladies are emotional that's why they suffer heart break issues.

u hear u sir ,,, how many times hv u broken a sisters heart

Fumiex:
will cry for just a day and move on to the next available toaster

lol right❤️ I do that too

danot1030:
You must really be a strong woman.

Rather than crying, nagging and seeking sympathy from people, taking care of yourself and concentrating your energy on what keeps you busy is the key.

yeah that’s the best way to move forward!! U may tell friends if they cm around!! But that doesn’t really helps as much cause it makes u talk about it too much ,which makes it harder to 4get

Blu03:
Table shaking?

yess on

Blu03:
Very! I think heartbreaks make me bit b!tchy. After a while, i gain my conscience.
#teamsingle is fun tho.
Amma rock it till i fall in love again and start this dramatic circle once again

Ariza:
Well, I've never had much experience on heartbreaks but I can say crying helps to let out tensions when hurt. It washes out some pains, sobers the mind, cleans the eyes so as to see thing clearly. So yes it helps a lot. I dread it though because I make hard decisions that are almost impossible to reverse anytime I clear a tear from my eyes. Good thing though, I hardly cry.

perfectly said dear!!! As soon as I am done crying !! I toughen up n make hard decision I was so sober to make

Where r the guys,, so only ladies get heartbroken abi? Meaning men r scums right ?

Blu03:
Aww... I'm even here for the exact reason
I cut off all contact with him.
Distract myself with twitter or instagram. In this case, nairaland.
Eat as much comfort food as i can. Esp chocolate icecream. Or take a glassful of my favourite redwine.
Stroll out in the evening.
Avoid all my friends.

Foremost, enjoy my own dark humor.
Its fun looking at the sh!tty side of things i once admired

lol dramatic , why avoid ur friends tho

Ariza:
Well for me, I cried.... Yes l let it all out through tears, accepted we weren't meant to be, picked one or two lessons and focus on making myself better. That's it.

crying out is very important!! Until u cry out , u will never get over it,, hv u noticed ?

Oluromantic:
The Bible you don't open at all, you suddenly remember and clung to it after a heart break..lol.

I'm sure d next time you will open it is when you lose a babaijebu or nairabet game that you played with a loan.

Bible don suffer

the Bible never fails!! It helps

donbachi:
love again

it’s romance section !! DUH

Ariza:
Your heartbreak nah Die then oooo

e get heartbreak wey Dey swt ,, the next always hurts more than the last

abluck:
Grab my game pad

nice

Ariza:


Aunty stop confusing my brain, God or Alcohol.Which did it for you? How can you put two contradictory subjects together in a situation? Nne pick one.

lol I do both ,, as u can see

We need to talk about this,, u might be helping someone,, so when u veiw please drop a comment cause I know all of us has had our heart broken some couple of times,,,

question: how did u get over ur heartbreak ?

Well I read my bible while I cry ,, reading verses that says how God loves me no matter what , I can drop the verse for any one who asks , then I take some acohol , then eat heavy n sleep. The next day I do chores , go to work n get really busy ..continue with the same routine till I am over it , so what about you ?

yomi007k:
Happy New Year.

You're just super excited. Are u blowing banger?

yeah I was at that time!! How did u know

kecee99:
Amen

happy happy new year to you

chiommy123:
AMEN.!!!

happy new year

delighttessy:
Amen

happy new year dear

Home with family ,,, going to church this morning.

Ojukwucriminal:
For all of una wey dey shout Amen.. I wish say I get una spouse number. E for set well this New year

lol I no understand

kurupt1:
Are you tired of the hoeing stage? mugus full naija sha,look for one and wife up

this one is not normal,,,, happy new year jor

ekochris:

A man is a man because of what he makes of his life....through his own hardwork, i.e. wealth, body build, social status

While a woman is a woman because of what hr mother gave her...what she was born with i.e. boobs, ass, pretty face etc.

lol. Happy new year