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skywalker240:
97% of "doing okay" kind of guys have a woman in their lives.
why do many single girls go after married men? (mind you, the married men who are not even single are not that rich, they are in that your so called "doing okay" caste, how much more a doing okay single guy? When a man is doing okay he has options.

am not saying go 4 a struggling guy (thats up to u)

what am simply saying is ladies should not bank on whats totaly obvious scenerio. If you go to a shop, you want to buy gala and u saw an unsealed one wont you rather pick the sealed one?

you are not making any point to me!! We talking about ladies who wanna date lazy broke guys n u talking about married men ,, make it make sense. Most rich men r involved, but there are ambitious hardworking guys who earn a living , who r single, they may not be rich but not scared to try n cater for a woman

Skmoda360:
it's a lie abeg....your opinion is just to yourself...all man for himself, a man's character cannot be judge by whether he is broke or rich.....to me your point is nonsense. I can be broke and still be flirting like shit and not pretend one bit ask jeweltz she will explain better she has experience when it comes to dating broke dude without kobo

lol Na zo

skywalker240:
97% of "doing okay" kind of guys have a woman in their lives.
why do many single girls go after married men? (mind you, the married men who are not even single are not that rich, they are in that your so called "doing okay" caste, how much more a doing okay single guy? When a man is doing okay he has options.

am not saying go 4 a struggling guy (thats up to u)

what am simply saying is ladies should not bank on whats totaly obvious scenerio. If you go to a shop, you want to buy gala and u saw an unsealed one wont you rather pick the sealed one?

sorry to say ur analysis is not correct

Korllami007:
It's now obvious that you have no business in relationship or marriage since your bestie will be more important than your boyfriend or husband. Don't bother yourself about marriage or relationship and I'll advise you to continue your relationship with your bestie that will last long.

my boyfriend n husband is more important!! But secrets r secrets for a reason

BestAccessories:
And you want unconditional love from your partner. He (your bestie) that know stuffs your partner do not know, how do you avoid see finish from him.

Why are you wasting your time with someone you called partner but couldn't trust with your secrets. Instead of calling partner, just call him Bleep buddy or maga that pays the bills.

Just go ahead and date your bestie since you can truly be yourself around him without see finish.

Read between the lines and you would understand my message.

Cheers

I ain’t sexual attracted to my bestie ,, n if I told all my ex’s all my secrets I would be in deep soup by now..

Riskest investment a woman can make is dating a guy whos broke/lazy .. because human being change !! Family betray us ,, more so a total stranger

skywalker240:
Oga lefu you have said it all

No upwardly mobile well to do guy is single, but these girls would not believe.

That's why they always try to reap where they never sow

please stop lying to urselves, do u know how many ladies r dumped by guys they stayed with when they were nothing ,, the ones who stay with their old gf r less than 20 percent!! They finally go for fine beautiful girls n they get married!! Those ladies move on with their lives n meet better men who treat them better.

uthlaw:
U expect me to be rich and I will be fucking only one puzzy.... kolewerk!

irresponsibility

Zoie:
Broke people are in default mode - hustling mode. They can adopt any character and adapt to any lifestyle to survive. The true personality comes out when the money is made.

fact ,, plain truth

BestAccessories:
That's why you should date your 'friend' instead of making your 'date' a friend.

I am not an extrovert, I keep a small circle of friends and they all guys. If my secret aren't safe with them, then it is not safe in the hand of opposite sex called bestie.

I am not against the idea of having a bestie, but if I cannot be my girl's bestie, then I have no business being in a relationship with her.

If my friends know more about me than her, there is a big trust issues between us and we can't be together.

So, if you are in a committed relationship, your bf/gf should be your bestie. If not, there is a big problem.

There are some issues that are better resolved within you (u & ur gf/bf) then allowed a third-party interference.

please u all stop it ,,, that’s if u are sure u will hv one partiner forever !! The only person u are sure of is ur husband n with the high rate of divorce Nowadays, u are not sure .

uthlaw:
I don Bleep my bestie more than her boyfriend....bestie ko sextie ni!

because u both r hoes

lilmax:
Lol this one just crossed 25 years

why do u say that ?

BestAccessories:
If you can trust him (bestie) with all your secrets but can't date him, maybe something is technically wrong somewhere.

You're 'True' to your bestie but can't date him but you're 'Fake' to your bf and you are dating him.

Eventually, it will dawn on you maybe you are chasing shadow and should just date him (bestie) since you're very and extremely cool with him than anyone else

there r stuffs he knows that ur Partiner should never know about!! The see finish no be small

lefulefu:
gbam!
shugavee hope u see what a fellow babe is saying
this is the right way
ur guy should be ur one and only bestie.any bestie apart from ur guy is certainly fucking u

certainly? Really ? At this point all I can say is sort urselves

proclinician:
Yea I understand the whole bullshit. Your intentions may be pure as in u no too like money but the guy might just be a hunter. When I ventured into phone hackin while waiting for admission in 2010 I caught one Fb account of a girl. This babe had a boo and a bestie. She had a misunderstanding with the boo and fell back on the guy and they had sex. The guy emtied his load in her against her will and against the run of play. She took some contraceptives and then made up with the boo and they had sex. She is telling her besty she is some weeks pregnant and she is not sure who is responsible.

Whenever women with male besty have issues in their relationship and fall back on the besty, they are very vulnerable and that besty can strike without hitches. Each time a relationship is dwindling there's a period of vulnerability for a girl and during school days I know I have had sex with some girls especially those one that ask pls my boy friend used withdrawal method of contraceptive will I be pregnant and similar health questions. Each time they have issues and I be the one to talk to her and comfort her with words u know well...

okay u win!! Anyways my post r for ladies who hv besties , which r a few!! Bestie or no bestie,, everybody go Dey alright last last

Korllami007:
Since you priotize your bestie over your relationship, why can't you date him and save yourself the stress of running from your boyfriend's house to cry on his shoulder. If you are having bad time at work, you will leave your boyfriend and go and find solace in your bestie's shoulder. I think you should just date him and stop stressing yourself.

I'm pretty sure whenever you are not in good terms with your husband, you will run to your bestie's house and cry on his shoulder too.

i actually do not !!! But let’s be realistic, u not sure of any relationship till he puts a ring on it

proclinician:
If I am not all these to a girl I'm dating then she doesn't deserve me. Its preposterous already. Male besty indeed.

just imagine how many guys would know all my secrets if this were true!! Friendship last longer than relationships

femiphillips007:
I think SELF CONTROL should be the right word to use here because maturity can be confusing sometimes.

a mature person should hv self control

Ariza:
This is double standard! Are you insinuating that it's okay for females to have male besties but it's forbidden for guys to have female besties?

If you can have male besties and see nothing wrong in it, I wonder why you can't accept his female besties as what they are and not fuckmates!

understand the sarcasm !! He is making fun of stuffs

femiphillips007:
I have a female bestie presently and we really vibe well...
No sexually attachments tho.....
Sometimes the thought comes but I just wave it off.

realest friendship a lady can ever hv is with a guy with no sexual attachment, if he’s mature enough

Ariza:
Well, I do not have a bestie but I have friends and they are all guys. The bestie position is reserved for that HIM.


I don't agree to having a male bestie,your man should be your bestie.

am not here to convince people to hv male besties, do what makes u happy !! That was never the issue.

CAPSLOCKED:
NORA EPHRON SAID.....

Nora whatever don’t know it all ,, n is not accurate,, cause males n females can be friends

MYSTIC19:
Well for me.. I'm note interested in hving sex with my female besties... But laslas some male bestie da shift pant..

not all tho

BestAccessories:
Wa gbayi.

If you can't be his/her opposite sex bestie, so what are you?

What's the point of dating, relationship or courtship when your boo get a coded boo called bestie.

hope u know friendship last longer than relationships!! How many men will be ur bestie in this lyf!! How r u sure u can trust them with ur secrets