₦airaland Forum

freecocoa:
Why are you vexing na? It’s just the simple truth. If you need a man to do something before you make your hair, or buy recharge cards, then you are the problem, not the man. Fine the man might be stingy, still, the mindset that he should be responsible for those things is just wrong.

sadly even if u can do those things for urself !! But it’s ur man responsibility to change ur hair n update ur toiletries !! That’s the least man should do no matter what.. if not he doesn’t see u as his own

He doesn’t find u worthy

Fortune109:
That will be in Igboland not here in Lagos... Yoruba customary laws apply here. Customary laws are only applied in the state where the custom prevail

okay. Let’s just it never gets to that point tho!! Cause if it does , u would be surprised

prettysassygirl:
Heartbreaks are excruciating,u can't explain it till u have felt it,especially when u have been protecting your heart for a long time and u just decide to test the waters a little,the best way I deal with mine is staying far away from the person that caused it,only then can I forget that person in my head.

bolded is perfectly said.

DenreleDave:
Babe, she can only take away the son if she carry am go village oo.. But within lagos, she no fit collect son from Davido.... I don't care abt the culture, we are talking abt influence here....

lol leave influence out of this !! The family can go to court n win!! N call davido a kidnapper!! As far u hvnt paid the bride price of a an Igbo girl anything from her is for her family!! It’s a known law!! Definitely if the family plans to do such ,, they hv to be smart, chioma family isn’t broke , so ain’t gonna be an easy ball game for both parties n Chioma’s family has the upper hand. Prayer is it never gets to that point .

AfroKnight:
Sorry about your friend.

A rule of thumb is that you and the guy should meet at a mall or park for your first date. No alcohol, no drugs please. Don’t let him drop you off or anything. From the mall, everyone goes their separate ways. Do this a couple of times to get clues about his temper and other things.

Ask to meet his friends after so you can get a feel of the kind of company he keeps. Meet in public spaces. Visiting him early in the relationship is risky.

very risky

Kazeemakeem:
no man will stand that to marry you

okay o

If u both r really serious, like datedfor atleast 6momths , then I will say the solution is to get rid of her friends

Blu03:


Taking away the tribalism, you got a point.
If not for the son though. I believe the rumor affected him deeply.

it’s gonna be hard for davido to leave chioma, apart from love,, her family can take his son away cause e never pay money for her head, she’s an Igbo girl . Every got a past , the fact she might hv had something with perruzi don’t mean nothing!! Except they still hv sex . Am very sure the did DNA for that boy

Blu03:


Taking away the tribalism, you got a point.
If not for the son though. I believe the rumor affected him deeply.

it definitely did 4vsure .. cause an insider licked it!! Kemi has said it b4 but this time it was someone who actually knew them.. am sure that alone will cause them to pay that guy!! Cause chioma was getting into this mess

Kazeemakeem:
Drink ke, ladies and you want to marry, i hear you keep serching,, Men Will run for you, how can you Drink Wen depressed, so If Anythimg happen betwwen you and your husband Wen married na Drink remain


Oloshi

mtcheww !!! B4 nko , cold black bullet n bbq fish . Only me

CsRockefeller:
Rubbish!! Gibberish!! An inexcusable attitude for display of bad behaviour.

God didn't create a monster, I refuse to believe this narrative.

Any woman who tries that in my house should be ready to leave. Imagine the excuse for terrible behaviour!!

lol like it or not,, our weapon is our mouth !! If u not ready to get used to that fact ,, just know u are not ready to hv a woman under ur roof!!

Mtchewwwww u no get problem! Next

pwettyme:
It's so risky.... But involve God as you proceed.

My advise to the ladies is not to visit the guys at the first or second meeting (he should come see you at your own convenience).... not until you have spoken or seen someone related to him.
This can be done if you demand to speak or see someone related to him or better still become a mutual friend with his family members e.g Facebook.
I apologize for the preference guys.... But that's just it.
A responsible guy or girl will use his/her real name to ease your search.

Also do a video call once in a while to know who you are chatting with before you schedule your meetings.

i totally agree

lefulefu:
u might think u chatting with a lady but it would be a guy in disguise
physical relationship still has an upperhand compared to electronic relationship.at least u can seize the person up to know if he or she is real or not.

true �

Kingrexyl:
Do you drink alcohol when you are depressed

yeah I do

Peacefullove:
There are no rules to this thing , people are raped offline as well, by people they know very well leading to " I can't believe he could do such a thing " ... You only share the negative sides, forgetting some
good relationship and Marriage today also kick off online.


Just find what works for you

the risk is huge tho ,, u can’t neglect that fact . Majority of ritual killing started online

DenreleDave:
See as non virgin dey frustrated for there.. Cox donstan talk say virgin, the ladies with uncountable body count started ranting.
See them shugavee Makydebbie ammyluv2002


Abeg let's move on to virgin jare.. After we av chop the non virgins, we then settle for virgin to avoid baby harder harder harder.. Emergency carpenter..

Riele will still coman spew her rubbish too

see these ones !! Don’t complain if we don’t want broke me tho

ammyluv2002:
It doesn't make any sense at all... It's sad though.

very

Remijuice:
Who chop who

No be the girl open leg swallow am...

weyti u Dey do for there? Weyti u find!! Better be careful

ammyluv2002:
Lol...

yeye boy!! U are looking for a virgin when u r not a virgin!! My sister does it make sense?

Mr7gWIRELESS:
I think you are telling her to get the wrong thing.... Alcohol has temporary effects

Tell her to get a correct jazz. Most men needs to be controlled either physically or spiritual

lol okay o ! That’s why jaruma is selling

dawnomike:
It has more disadvantages than advantages

that’s just the truth.

donstan18:
Marrying a Virgin lady will always remain the best thing that can happen to a man.

u don. Start!! What of the ones u don chop

Some people benefit from it n many hv died from it !! Is it worth the risk? My friend was gang raped in porthacort for some days by someone she met on line!! Plus that fact u don’t actually know whom they are !! Plus so many stories online, is it worth the risk ?



, my male friend hates hearing that I met someone online !! U can never trust them!! What u think ?

DEPRESSED

I can imagine!! U won’t hv deactivated ur account, I totally understand how u feel !!! U would feel better soon I promise !! Get ssome achohol

proclinician:
You're excused.

what does sex and money got to do with my thread, Mr man

solmus:
all am seeing in her text is me, me ,me that lady thinks to highly of herself

how?? Please don’t say rubbish!! She thinks so highly of herself n she got married at a time she didn’t want to just to make the man happy?? Don’t advise rubbish I beg you

AfroKnight:
Hybrid77, contrary to my propensity to resist the antics of any overreacting selfish entitled Nigerian woman, I would actually ask you to share the authority in the home with her.

This is wife, not girlfriend, not your staff. For some reason, I don’t think her complaints are far fetched. Listen, contribute and then decide together, especially if it affects the family as a unit. Your case shouldn’t lead to separation in my opinion.

isnt even a serious issue , just normal lovi dovi fight to me

proclinician:
In all these drama i see two problems. Sex and money. Wake up ppl

hmmmm excuse me?

ultimate77:
I hope I'm now out of the "men are scum" shit

hmmmm thinking about it lol, u definitely are

Nearbyproperty:
Seeing love beyond sex,emotion will save u all the headache. I love ladies as a humans like me who has an atom of imperfections,I don't expect them to be GOD, even when their fail in some areas, I still see the need to keep them because their part of the humanity. Breaking of heart comes into place when you see your fellow human as your idol or God that deserve worship.paying least attention,not expecting a human like you to be the centre of your happiness and working on innovative ideas will distract you alot from heart break as you call it.

I totally agree with you .