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ekanempatrick28:
anyways my own summary is dis, I always advise guys if u working date a working class not a broke girl and definitely not a student. and ensure both of u spend money on each oda., not one way

i agree

ekanempatrick28:
wow u are d kind of lady dat will abandon her husband if things go bad

no I won’t , if things go sour in the course of our relationship fine but don’t let us start that way!!! It’s disgusting

ekanempatrick28:
but u castigating broke guys and not poor guys. now at dat instance are u saying my friend shouldn't ask a girl out

yes he shouldn’t!!

ekanempatrick28:
but wait ooo, been poor is diff from being broke ooo. for u to b broke u must have had money for sometime and den due to some issues u had to spend till ur last kobo. see u can b rich and yet be broke. I have a banker friend dat earns 6 figures and yet he called me one day saying he had to use his money to purchase stuff and he is broke. but I know he ain't poor.

I agree!!

abdeiz:
@ Shugavee are you sure you have a job to do? you have been trolling and replying mentions throughout the whole day. I dont even see this thread as something serious. They all fell for your trolling.

lol replying who?? Please check the thread carefully!! I left on the 3rd page!! Just got home from work!! So yes I work!!

the way u all r pained tho!!! It’s hilarious �!! Never said u should feed a girl blah blah blah!!! But don’t use a broke pocket to toast a girl!!! Even if u ain’t that boyant still be financially strong to a reasonable stage!!! Not suffer with me trash!!! If she is asking for too much n u hv done ur best, fine !!! Not suffer with me!!! Suffer with ur self idiat

vincentus16:
Hmm. That statement 'pls u guys need to do better' I don't understand. U think its nt ur responsibility to make money as well. That statement means that u r jst there to depend on ur man which is very bad. Change that mentality sis. This is 21st century. Mind u if unfortunately for u the man dies one day jst knw that u will turn broke immediately.

I can never depend on a man!! Never but don’t start toasting a girl with the suffer with me talk!!!

Lovely mentions!!! Thanks for the attention lol

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Ryocaj:
U av no biznes being in a relationship if u r broke..

thank you

Saff:
MEN are too feminine these days. I can’t stand it.

they love whining

charlesditro:
May I never come across someone like you. Your mate dey run company they humble untop class, you wey no get bearing dey find gift. You sure say you sabi cook sef?

lol lololololo kikiiiiikkik I am presently at work lol

Timbuktuo:
Shugavee, if I cannot have a girlfriend because I cannot afford her demands let me assure you that I will have as many girlfriends as I can when I can afford to and I won't even hide them from each other because they are only around for the financial benefits. I will feel not one iota of guilt shagging multiple women if I'm rich because their love is based on how much I can afford. Thank you.

lol are u doing me? I always say people like u don’t need a gf!!! Just be a regular costumer in ashawo quarters!! Be regular in mama puts n hv a happy life

DrayZee:
Shugavee you didn't get your point across properly.

And this is a sensitive topic for some people, so they would rather misunderstand you than try to see what you're driving at.

And learn to ignore some people who are clearly trying to troll you (incase you decide to open another thread like this).

lol I am use to them!! I will reply them when I deem fit!! Thanks for ur understanding

AxceX:
Go to bed,you're poor in reasoning n your thread is absolutely meaningless n useless

Cry me a river!! Broke boys will forever hv a problem with the truth!!! Deal with it!!!

Elder001:
A boyfriend is neither a father nor an uncle nor a husband. He is just a dude who is in a relationship with a girl he likes and vice versa and also a girl he is contemplating getting serious with. He is not under any obligations whatsoever to foot the bills of a girl he is neither a father nor a husband nor an uncle to. Truth be told, the level of foolishness perpetuated by boyfriends of our generation cannot be compartmentalized. Majority of boys and girls in a relationship do not know tha meaning of a relationship or what being in a relationship entails. People who depend on others for survival, yet deem it an obligation to foot the bills of a random girl are what? They are fools of no comparison. They have been thoroughly misguided to believe that giving a girl an allowance signifies love for her.

I don’t understand if u guys read again!!! Who is talking abt a guy feeding a girl? Don’t toast a girl with an empty pocket!! Argue but get the message!!

olac21:
It's a pity God didn't bless you with sense!

it’s a pity u don’t simply hv a functioning brain but that’s not Gods fault ur stupidity won

Story for the gods!!! Don’t be broke n toast a girl!! Simple!!! Cry me a river

kenddys:
has anyone noticed that they are few ladies on this thread.
A lot of them are jobless so the ones with jobs won't let us rest!
what stops you from giving a guy a surprise? ehn is it illegal

it’s not but u r the one toasting the girl

ubunja:
just see how crazy you are about money!!!
just see...

yes money I make for myself

ubunja:
upbringing? who is selling sex between me and you? you are the whòre in this thread

selling sex to who?? Can u even afford a decent meal?? U can’t even do a proper sub to go on on ig or Snapchat!!! So who please!!! Lol say something else!!! Broke ass

ubunja:
so much for the sisterhood. woman insulting another woman. no wonder you cant love properly.

so much for ur upbringing!! Ur mother clearly didn’t give u a good example!! So I don’t expect much from you

ubunja:
if you cant love me at my lowest then you dont deserve me at my highest.
whòre. go sell your pvssy elsewhere.

lol stop telling us what ur mother does for a living!! It’s not our business

austyn0:
It is quite a pity your post was misunderstood by some but I clearly get where you are coming from.... The credibility of your point lies in the emboldened

A guy that cannot afford a little surprise or fund his personal needs is jobless and ambitionless and shouldn't have the nerve to toast a lady....This I agree with you.

God bless u abundantly

Ximenez:
pained for what exactly? I think i might have overestimated you,but when i saw 300, 100 and coke i now know the category that which you belong.

do u know me!! I am a working class lady!! Had people talk abt this shit n it’s so irritating!!! I am just saying no matter how poor u r!! U can do as little as u can !!! Not I am broke I am broke suffer with me

fancy4eve:
stop been funny, get a good job and all will cum knocking. No body lyk surfer head.

I hv a good job!! Thanks

Ximenez:
So what will happen if they are together and work together? Instead of saying she should work for hers and he should work for his.

In a relationship, what partners need most from each other are the things that money can't buy. There are situations whereby it will be the lady that will help the guy in the beginning before things will eventually get better for them.

I used to have a man as a neighbour then that once said he wouldn't mind if any of his daughters should come home with a road side mechanic as a fiance, meaning he is more concerned with the happiness of his daughters than anything else.

About my sisters. I am the first child and I have only sister that I love so much. If she comes home with a broke/poor guy, that's not even a problem at all as long as they are in love with each other and the guy makes her happy. As long as the guy is not poor in vision and ambition, we are going to help them, my dad is there, mum, uncles, aunties. Poverty and brokenness will be forgotten and they will be happy.


But most of you ladies that you call yourself slayqueen, you just want to enter a yahoo boy's car or one Alhaji who will give you instant cash, that's why majority end up being used for rituals.

now u r just being pained!! I am not saying he has to be a millionaire or something!! But he shouldn’t meet a girl for her to suffer with him!!! If he is a meat seller he can get her mama out of 300 coke of 100!! 1k when she needs it !!! Not I am broke suffer with me!!! Please u guys need to do better!!! All these ritual talk is not an excuse!!! They can both work together to make a better life for themselves but not at the beginning

ubunja:
it hurt didnt it? stop acting like one

how then is me acting as a LovePeddler hv to do with ur deadbeat self

bizzy500:
was it so hard? he meant yes.... besides brokenness is temporary.... why can't a broke guy toast a girl is it your toasting?

make I hear, wait till u are financially strong b4 toasting a girl!! Yeah u can go broke as the relationship goes on!!! Not at the beginning, that’s trash

Ximenez:
What's the aim of toasting? Are you saying because someone is poor then he doesn't deserve love and affection from the opposite sex?

If it's what you people do these days, that a guy will approach you, then you have no other option than to accept him because you know he will surely give you money or gift. Then you two go out together for weeks, months then discard each other to meet new partners. Then I perfectly understand.

being poor is different from being broke!! Asin u want a lady to cm into ur life to suffer with you!! Would u pray for that to ur sisters!!! If u don’t hv let her work n make hers while u work n make urs, it’s simple as abc

bizzy500:
read again.... he has answered the question

no he didn’t,, it’s a yes or no question with backup, not I get ur point but blah blah blah