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Moorish:
I know dudes who don’t care

Even if the girl is the flashy type that likes u spending on her

As long as she’s loyal, he will spoil her

It is broke niggas who think their couple tens of millions (if even) is a fortune girls want to die for

Maybe some hungry girls Dey sha

I no know every

u said plain fact!!! All these talk r broke men reasoning!! U will be suprised to find out that company don't even earn much!!

donstan18:
Social media formings

stan forming for who!! U think everyone is like the women u hv met? Forming that u put food on my table? Forming like i give a damn abt ur opinion abt me Sorry but i hv no reason to form for any one is this forum, i am not looking for boyfriend neither do I hv one here!! So sorry I mean every word I said

Moorish:
Nigerian niggas overrate bank

I have a lot of respect for Nigerian women actually

Some Nigeria women will actually turn u down if you think your wealth guarantees you access to the promised land

Just be you. The highest na no

Even at no I still show them love and respect

When they expected me to throw shade for getting turned down

Some are shocked by the maturity

just be you!!!! That test won't still guarantee a successful marriage

menix:
Chisos!!!!!
Babe u can lie oooo!!

lie thst what please?? There is absolutely nothing u can do to me so i hv no reason to lie to you

Cutehector:
your loss.. Your leaving him won't change the fact that he is still the boss.. Its like saying...oh because God doesn't bless you, you will leave him... Thats just laughable .

lol really, he loss too!! Me leaving him with his boss money won't kill me!!! So because u hv money u be testing me?? Nonsense!! Is me that does not hv money abi?? Or my family r probably poor so i be rushing n gushing to marry a liar like him!! Sorry dear I wont

overhypedsteve:
you sure say you go fit break up with anybody regardless of anything at all? You will break up with someone for testing your loyalty. This break up you people keep throwing around is it sweet? Is it a good thing to boast about. That you have shared your life and hope and trust with someone and you just break all that off. God Abeg awon jagun jagun should not come my way oh, that have no value for human feelings.

yes testing me is sayin u never trusted me!! Testing my loyality really? Like all the time I hv spent with u was a joke? I repeat I will dump him!!! So testing me means u hv value for my feelings!! That relationship was doomed already

PearlStreet:
Talk is cheap.

oh really then idont blame u tho!!!! The ladies u hv met hv probably made u think that way!!! But i say it again I will dump him if i realize it's a test or whatever!! I am not a m6achine he be testing n lying too

mikejj:
. na true weldone...we d real men can't be decived anymore.. ..lefulefu con hear this one

i value trust n honesty more than money in a relationship!!
It's forever n money alone won't keep it long enough!! Cause money go still finish!!

TheUpsetGirl1:
lol.. but it's not a must na..
at least it's good.. to catch gold diggers

whatever!!! I am more concerned that u changed to ur real gender!!! Nice one!!

greiboy:
I have to say as a very humble member of" cautious sexing brotherhood of Nigeria" that his observations may not be entirely correct.

Although, Some of our more active members have confessed to meeting ladies that their gentiles smell like locust beans ( iru pete). Nonetheless, I haven't encountered any lady that smells that bad in all my dealings


So I don't totally agree with the guy's assertion

to me it depends on the kinda ladies u meet!!

As for me the relationship is doomed!! I won't leave my man cause he lost his job but if i find out he owned a company blah blah blah, n it was all a test!! That's the end!!

U all talking very childish!! She didnt say he should feed her everyday or something.. based on the situation she has every right to feel awkward!! U cant tell a lady to wait for u for hours n atleast don't get her something to eat, is not abt hving plenty money , these r the little things that matters

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Boyfriend did not buy me anything even though I spent the whole day with him.


He went out to go send some money to his family back home and I wanted to come along with him, he said no that he can’t wait for me.But then after waiting for about three hours, he came back empty handed.
And then said, “If I had known, I could have bought you something to eat”.

How cold is that?[/color]

he didnt do well!! as far he said wait for me n already knew u would be hungry ,that's not nice, but on another note he might hv forgotten!! Talk to him

lefulefu:
yea its better they divorce than to be in a loveless marriage. But then..ten weeks?..its like she even broke Kim kardeshian's record.

yeah I find her kinda at fault cause i doubt it started when they got married!! So she knew and got in anyways!! All in the name of Marriage!! But i think its something they will fix tho

lefulefu:
though i didn't see anything in the writeup were the guy said she should exercise...but then there's nothing wrong if he encourages her to engage in physical activity. If ur man exercises and ask u to join him.i believe he's doing dat cos he loves u and cares for ur health. So na cos d man say make she dey exercise ...na dat one come vex her and make her sue for divorce?. Wetin we no go hear.

and u think if it was just that simple , she would divorce her husband? Nah no one wants divorce!! It was beyond that

madridguy:
Shameless as in?

sexual assaults has become a normal thing for them, in schools,places of work n etc!! Most of them r proud of their stupidity!! This man threatened her with no fear knowing Nigerian men wont condemn him!!! They ain't afraid to be sued, cause of Men acceptance to nonsense!!! Some might hv not indulged in it but when stories like these come forth, they find a way to discredit the victim n other word facilitating the perpetrators!!

TheCar:
The word "leadership" can bring to mind a variety of images. For example:

A political leader, pursuing a passionate, personal cause.

An explorer, cutting a path through the jungle for the rest of his group to follow.

An executive, developing her company's strategy to beat the competition.


According to the idea of transformational leadership, an effective leader is a person who does the following:

Creates an inspiring vision of the future.

Motivates and inspires people to engage with that vision.

Manages delivery of the vision.

Coaches and builds a team, so that it is more effective at achieving the vision.

Leaders help themselves and others to do the right things. They set direction, build an inspiring vision, and create something new. Leadership is about mapping out where you need to go to "win" as a team or an organization; and it is dynamic, exciting, and inspiring.

Yet, while leaders set the direction, they must also use management skills to guide their people to the right destination, in a smooth and efficient way.

Leadership is the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it.
– Dwight D. Eisenhower

Tell me how a leader will achieve those things without being submissive.

Take a political leader for example, before he can achieve his goal, he/she need your vote and to get your vote, he/she need to reach out to you in a message that resonates with you i.e. political rally, campaign etc.

He/She might be a Multi Billionaire who lives in luxurious apartment in a reserve area of town but to get your vote, he need to leave his luxury life, visit the ghettos, Street under the sun to seek for your vote delivering his/her message in a language you understand.

That my dear, is Submissiveness.

you!!!

madridguy:
Tired of Nigerian ladies, always painting Nigerian MEN black to the whole world with their tales by moonlight just to trend.

not only Nigerian men do this!!! Btw Nigerian men r shameless

It's really funny how men try to preach just to constantly put women on that slavery mentality!! Now submission is leadership?? How ridiculous

TheCar:
Apologies for tagging or quoting you in this post. I just need to make this point and I really hope I do not derail the subject matter.

From my understanding, Being Submissive is actually a strength not a weakness but a lot of people really wanna look at it from the weakness point of view just like 6 & 9 depending on your position.

Being Submissive actually means you have Control of your man. Let me paint a picture, You tend to like or cherish a leader more than a Boss.

A leader is Submissive, he/she leads instead of dictating like a Boss would do and leading people required you to be Submissive. You can’t lead until you’re Submissive.

Submissiveness doesn’t mean you should tolerate abuse or lack of discipline.

The real problem is that in most cases We (Individual) don’t know what we want or need.

If you don’t know want you need or want,how do you expect a Stranger to give you and you can’t be Submissive until you really know what you truly need or desire.

No man (Male or Female) is stingy, that’s my belief which you can disprove but the truth is, if you really know what you need, no amount of money is too small or big to make it happen.

If he his stingy, I believe you are an option not a priority.

lets say i agree ,, both male and female should be submissive!! A man can be a leader too!! Not just women

BluntBoy:
I knew that you wouldn't believe

It is like Hippolyta too. She keeps on doubting the sincerity of my overwhelming love for her.

okay!! U both should tell me when they r buying aseoebi o!!

BluntBoy:
I am.

lol in ur dreams

Kukuma kill me

The kbk foundation is looking for publicity so bad

BluntBoy:
I can even order the ring immediately I get her ring size.

lol ok!! But anyways my friend is only interested in virgin guys!!! R u a virgin??

Ladyhippolyta88:
Nice,I had many lesson teachers for mathematics and I kept failing woefully.I am not dull but the subject makes me lose focus my teachers were good.As for religion I just take it as is I am a good bible student but late 2016 I started to question some things and started researching on the net I am not just inspired by that book although I still believe in God maybe as an agnostic theist.I respect you for that(math guru) as for your age it means you are in your early 30's haba.Bluntboy go and marry.

lol he wants to marry u naw!

Beautiful ❤❤