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@everyone
Hi all,
I had to run some errands, how's ur day been?

@alexx
Ur welcome to our coffee lounge... lol

@guests
Am sorry I haven't seen ur email. Maybe its the ntwrk? I'll be on the lookout for it. Is there anything u wanted to say to me?
Its cool to be an introvert. It just means that u weigh ur words before u speak. Its not cool to be a talking drum, u know.

@ amanze
u shd know that the criteria for a gf is diff from that of a wife. If ur looking for wife material and ur wearing the glass of a 'gf-looker', u'll have double vision.
Of course, we hope u urself are a husband material. Why shd a goldsmith mix gold with panda naa?

@eightsin
Hmmm...........

@joe
Spot on.

@dosunmu
Hmm.....

@dosunmu
If ur a Mr Right, just relax urself and keep busy in u daily activities. Ms Right will jam u. And be more flexible with ur standards. Be amenable to constructive criticism, to positive compromise, to forgiving faults and mistakes. Don't let looks and sex becloud ur judgment when choosing a lady. Take time to be a friend so that u study her xter, her upbringing, her values and culture, her family background. And if a certain age group doesn't understand u, go for another. E.g. U may chooser a younger or older age group and see how it works for u. Be active in church. Isaac worked for God, and He brought rebekah to him.
Of course there's nothing I've said that u don't already know...

@fejoko1
Thanks...and amen ooo

@ dosunmu
I prophesy, the next woman u will meet will be heaven sent. She will wipe away every bad memory and bad experience, iJN.

@dino
Abeg leave that thing jare. 25!!! Frog no dey jump pass him shadow. No matter how mature u think u are, what u probably have is wisdom more than ur peers. Maturity be like wine. It has to age to taste good.
Just siddon dey read, with ur pen and jotter ooo.

@dosunmu
How u dey?
U can be nice to a woman and not be a maga. U just need the right woman.

@torqque...

@sihom
Torqque is right.
I've tried the younger man thing, and was shellshocked by the time I came out of it. If I wasn't OP, I wud have told u all the story. One bad egg won't spoil the crate, but it will give the other eggs a bad smell (and odour ooo).

@figo
Hahahahahaha...thanks love.

@torqque
A lot of guys here are interested in OP Ahhhhh!!!!!!! I doubt it ooo.
And to clarify things. If ur interested in the beautiful sisters here, pls say so on open platform. I be OP naa. I go run intervention for u. If the lady likes ur show of hand, move to her profile and send her an email. Shikena. Then we'll come and eat ur rice.
U don't need a pic to kno what a person looks like. Beauty is in the spirit. Its in the personality. A frog cannot hide for long. Quote me...by their posts, u shall know them.
I love all the ladies on this thread and I fully recommend them to any serious minded man who has genuine intentions.

@bhella
How old are u sef?

@all the men here
Pls use style to declare ur age ooo.
Thanks and God bless.

@bhella
Wish it were so simple...lol
I think this thread just allows people to sit back, kick off their shoes and just relax in the company of like minded people, without fear or favour. Look at it like a coffee lounge. If sparks fly btw folks, that's a bonus. But if u read thru the posts from the beginning, u'll notice that there's this camaraderie among all of us. Everyone is comfortable. Everyone desires to join, whether they are of age or not. But if u see someone u like, by all means, pitch ur tent.
The best relationship is btw friends. Even if u find a date or spouse here, u'll know u found him/her among friends. Tell me what's better than that? Hmm?

@graciousolo
Lol. Happy birthday bomboy...lol

@icedude
Hahahahaha

@onstelly
Icedude don talk am finish ooo.
Quiet men are usually calm and collected sha. I recommend him. He has passed the initial screening. He has promised u ont eat garri in his house, unless u use imported sardine. But u also have other options he didn't mention. Like garri and soup, garri and beans.
Besides, the guy said he wanted to cook. That's a plus ooo. Unless he works in a hotel, in which case he's been paid to cook. Lol
I've done my job ooo. I've done the initial screening. Over to u, stelly, for more interrogation and possible approval.

@graciousolo
Its back on. I'll remove it by midnite.

@graciousolo
First of all, happy birthday! Long life and prosperity! May this mark the beginning of ne things for u...new open doors, never levels of lifting, new experiences.
May the Lord give u a new song and a new testimony in Jesus name.
*na true, na we start am...
*na true, u admired my personality, after toks admired it first sha.
* na true say I post pic, but I also said I wud remove it in the morning naa.
Ok, bcs its ur day, I'll put it back for the whole day, to mark ur birthday.
Pls, if ur not a witch or wizard, celebrate graciousolo as he marks his birthday today ooo, with prayers, shout outs and gifts. U can get him something cool on jumia or konga, and it will be delivered to his doorstep ooo.

@icedude
Don't worry, am on top of it.

@onstelly
Icedude is interested ooo

@icedude
Oya send me ur cv. I need to see whether ur for real, of marriageable age, and can keep onstelly. I don't want her to be drinking gari in ur house ooo. Lol

@onstelly
U heard the icedude. (What kind of name is that sef??) Lol

@torqque
That's a good ide, but u know, 9jaians may abuse the privilege, though I trust nairalanders not to abuse the fact that they have access to email or fb.
But I noticed that u can email someone thru their profile here. Nairaland will inform the person that u want to start an email conversation. If the person is interested, a connection will be made. How abt that?

@everyone.
Pls if u see anyone u like here, don't be shy. As james bond said, u only live once. Pls say hi to whoever catches urr fancy and get the ball rolling. Everyone here seems to be waiting for the shoe to drop. Kilode?

@myztikal, icedude, ismail, adeola...carry go jooo.

But pls remember to do ur due diligence ooo.

@icedude
Hahahahaha! I like u.

@bhella
How shd the single ladies take the bull by the horn ooo Hmm...

@icedude
No vex ooo. But...if at ur age, u don dey reason like 50yr old, wetin go happen when u become 50 naa?

@eggovinmma
I say amen. May God direct u iJN.

@ddshow
I now understand ur point. Thanks dear. Hope ur keeping well?

@toks
Gdmrn! I looked out for u this morn! How was ur nite?

@midehi...
Welcome dear. U heard toks.

Make une have a great day at work ooo. Am off today so I'll be keeping an eye on this thread, so pls no dissing. Ur all great people!!

@ddshow
If uve anything to contribute, that's hat this thread is abt. Not to take potshots at others.
Whatever Ufotty has 'advertised' to quote u, shdnt concern u. Afterall, he's not after ur sis. (Lol).
Now u all know why I initially made it 40plus. It was to avoid disrespectful remarks. Pls keep the thread civil and respectful, and show the world that u were well brought up. Thanks and remember to take it easy this wkend.

@henrodah
Am so sorry dear. That statement abt discriminating was meant for martins not u. Am so sorry. I was sending so many replies, I got mixed up. Pls forgive me. No slight intended.

@mazi
Lol.

@honeygirl
We are in the romance/relationship section, so yeah...its for singles to meet, greet, make friends, network, socialise, pray together, seek advice over troubling issues, and if anyone catches ur fancy, pls by all means hook up (after proper due diligence, pls).

@henrodah
Am so sorry dear. That statement abt discriminating was meant for martins not u. Am so sorry. I as sending so many replies, I got mixed up. Pls forgive me. No slight intended.

@erad
Good one. I like ur comment @omotayor. Pls let's maintain decorum. There has been a flow of maturity and mutual respect from the start. Don't disrespect anyone. What u give, is what u'll get in life.

@eyah
Uwc

@henrodah
I don't know who has ever discriminated against u, but its not happening here. Hope u had a lovely nite?

Its kessingsheen show (I think). Lol. I remember the haircream, greenish goo that gave ur hair a serious shine. Lol!

@everyone
Gdmrn all. Did u sleep well? I know I did.

@xtervaganza
Bcs I've been there and done that. Lol

@erad
Hi semi indomie kid...lol
We are single for so many personal reasons. No one deliberately chooses to be single. Marriage isn't do or die, but its nice to have a personal person to call ur own.
Abt contacting Seun, I agree with u. Ur truly way ahead of ur age. Welcome to our thread.

@omotayor
No, no and no.

@ariyebaba
Thanks love.

@ariyebaba
I so enjoyed reading ur post!
Hahahahaa I did all that and more!
I did the slate...mc hammer, salt and pepa... The gramophone, the suku, the geisha and garri...the hole nine yards! Lol
OMG.....am I old??!!!!

Hmmm. Ok. But u know u shd say something abt urself first...before u go outside this safety net called nairaland.

@tony
Am sorry u feel the way u do. As I said earlier on,.. U shd marry Ur best friend. And if u didn't get the chance to marry a Bestie... Its not too late. Find a middle ground.

@dosunmu....

Gotta sleep...

@tony
Hmmm.... Thanks for identifying urself as married.
As for ur other statements abt the single life...a bird being free?...not owing anybody explanation
I kind of like the idea of being accountable to someone, especially if ur married to ur friend.

@toks
Single, never married. Not divorced, not widowed. Not uncomfortable with ur questions. and yeah, single mom.

@toks
Ok ooo. Uve won my heart ooo. Am seriously blushing.
For those who asked for my pic to verify/authenticate/validate my 'realness' as OP (is that a word?) I have uploaded my pic in my profile.
Since am a little shy, I'll remove it in the morning.

@enigmatic
Hahahahaha

Ok. As una no wan sleep...and una no let me sleep...I go talk.
@everyone.
Its a thread for friendship, relationship and marriage (yes ooo. We all must chop ur rice nii) pls if ur married, identify urself ooo.

@roland. Thanks for getting more personal. I happen to be a single mom. I'll like to make friends here, and see what else happens. After all, rainy season is a season of love. Abi no be so

@graciousolo
Thanks for the compliment

@everyone.
Pls feel free to make friends, network, socialise, or hook up (to quote roland). If ur for real, fake people no go see u jam ooo. If ur fake, well....

@drmike
This thread falls under the romance/relationship section. I guess everyone is trying to test the waters before diving in. It started as a thread for 40 plus, but someone suggested it shd be 30s plus, to reach a wider audience.
Hopefully we shd all be single here, make good friends, and possibly find lasting love, or at least lasting friendship.
And now...its time for me to sleep. Really.

@joe
Real name is Liz.
@Amanze...ur welcome.
Well, I shd sleep now, so am saying gdnte to all the ladies and gents in the house.
May God, in this new month, favour u and settle u. May He sort out issues and challenges before u, and give u a testimony that will make men to envy u.
Bless u all.