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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:56pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
siamia: At this age and stage in our lives we should be blunt and very outspoken, we seem to have seen it all, done it al, been there and back, its a lot more than just sex or companionship..its more about LIVING and enjoying it.. So quote me anywhere..LET'S HOOK UP.. Likes attracts likes, so if you are get hooked to a fake, then how real are you? |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:57pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Dosunmuoflagos: I honestly do not mind single mother of one at most no matter how young but she must be very hot o. I created a thread for unmarried unmarried single mothers and it will be nice for them to read it https://www.nairaland.com/2532999/8-words-advice-unmarried-single |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by pbs4real(m): 12:02am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Chibaby87:why not, feel free |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by pucci(m): 12:04am On Oct 02, 2015 |
siamia:Idoani is in ondo state 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 12:05am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Dosunmuoflagos: Very true All these forming and hypocrisy dey always vex me where you see people always try to paint a superlative picture of themselves. Igboro o rerin and many ladies you see out there don't know what they want but trust me, if a lady hooks up with you online for a date you can be more certain that she means business especially if she is 30 or above. You will hardly see decent ladies out there except maybe in theire work place where you cant disturb them and another place is in their homes where you cant barge into. The other option is online where they can be in their bedroom and hook up with you. It will amaze you the quality of friends i have on nairaland both male and female and i don't think i have ever met such friends offline.Decent and responsible set of ladies that any man will be proud of. Trust me, it can be frustrating wooing a lady offline because you dont even know the one that is married,engaged or not even searching but online you are most likely to get a decent single and searching lady just at a click. Look at the creator of this thread and observe her personality and tell me if she does not seem very responsible yet you will hardly even think of walking up to her one on one due to prejudice. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by JoelXclusive: 12:10am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Toks2008: Lmao! |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 12:13am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Toks2008: As in seriously, I have been on NL for a while, I had to go off for close to 3 yrs and get back again, its hard to know who is real and who just wanna have sex and go(trust me ladies also do that) cos most of the ladies you meet on the streets are just out on a revenge mission, and who bears the pain? Innocent men with genuine intentions, vice versa. Me am single and truly know what I want, how and when I want it. 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 12:15am On Oct 02, 2015 |
@toks Ok ooo. Uve won my heart ooo. Am seriously blushing. For those who asked for my pic to verify/authenticate/validate my 'realness' as OP (is that a word?) I have uploaded my pic in my profile. Since am a little shy, I'll remove it in the morning. 6 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 12:18am On Oct 02, 2015 |
siamia: Good night.... Nice picture...I adore that simplicity 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by pbs4real(m): 12:19am On Oct 02, 2015 |
onstelly:oya go and hide |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by pucci(m): 12:20am On Oct 02, 2015 |
siamia:You are actually pretty, flaunt it 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 12:22am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Dosunmuoflagos: This is why the thread is for 30plus so any lady of 30years and above who just wants to have sex with you is a confirmed LovePeddler and i will not advice you on what o do with a LovePeddler. 2 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 12:27am On Oct 02, 2015 |
siamia: You look calm and pretty but sorry to ask were you never married or probably divorced? you may feel uncomfortable with this question but its important to know so that we all can have a clue and learn something. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by pucci(m): 12:31am On Oct 02, 2015 |
I am actually 32, and single won't mind hooking up or being close friends with any lady on this thread. As long as she is matured. Maturity ain't age O 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tonychristopher: 12:33am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Toks2008: Your correct ...I am not single but I think your correct and I enjoy the calmness in this thread ...it shows that a lot of kids are on nairaland .one can't even make comment without been insulted and most time you get to know their age by writing style ...another matured thread is car section and real estate ...forget politics that place is whack I think there should be section as in age in nairaland Yes I hated seasame street but loved speed racer .. Just 36 with lively family I don't believe in age notion. To be frank cos I have seen 43 yr old man reason like 21 yr old so I do not respect people based on age but on reasoning. I expect people to respect me bases on the same The problem we seem to have in Africa is that we attach too much respect to age and that is what is drawing us back . A child that is well traveled is wiser than an old man that stayed at home all his life ...igbo adage I love this thread....I feel been single isn't a curse...ask us that have family ..at a point you just can't have your privacy ..your been marooned and dictated .today one in-law tomorrow tehy will say don't you know your married ...society expects you to behave certain way ...you have lost your privacy Been single is been akin to a bird very free...you can have cookies and crunchies for dinner and you don't owe anybody explainatiob why you won't eat her food....and the women ..hmmm they will come But happy independence 7 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 12:38am On Oct 02, 2015 |
tonychristopher: Quite hilarious,insightful and interesting. Thanks for dropping by. Got to sleep now guys. Remember that life is not designed to be fair to anyone but it is our responsibility to grab the best out of it. Oda ro 3 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 12:42am On Oct 02, 2015 |
@tony Hmmm.... Thanks for identifying urself as married. As for ur other statements abt the single life...a bird being free?...not owing anybody explanation I kind of like the idea of being accountable to someone, especially if ur married to ur friend. @toks Single, never married. Not divorced, not widowed. Not uncomfortable with ur questions. and yeah, single mom. 6 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Rexology: 12:42am On Oct 02, 2015 |
siamia:I was just smiling while reading this DOCUMENTARY. You really captured the past... so much fun. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tonychristopher: 12:42am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Toks2008: Take care Bro or sis How was the celebration |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 12:49am On Oct 02, 2015 |
siamia: WOW! See communication skill! I so much admire that in a woman(not lady or girl) I so much don't by the idea of being a free roving bird either, at a stage in ones life histroy must change form...#nopoliticalbruhaha... You seem to know what you want and not settling for less...hmmmm...fingers crossed sha |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tonychristopher: 12:50am On Oct 02, 2015 |
siamia: Yeah daerie...I am a man that loves been open ..anyway marriage to me or family life suits women more than men You know the nags The expectations The must do and must do not Must eat madam dinner or you will be accused of eating in her place You must be at the church on Sunday or you will be looked at unbeliever Must take your girl for a walk once in a week or you will be seen as not bonding Must know everything so that madam and baby will look up to you Must be strong so that the family must lean on you Must not show emotional softness so that the family can be strong MUST NOT LOOK AT THAT PRETTY LADY ARSE SO THAT YOU WILL NOT BE NAGGED MUST NOT HAVE LADIES IN WHATSAPP CHAT OR UNBURDEN TO ANY LADY FRIEND MUST NOT SLEEP ALONE IN YOUR OWN ROOM AND MADAM IN HER ROOM must always call madam when your on business and oversea trip So many must and must So you see been single is a good thing and it makes you free . you can even smoke in your living room and have fun..but when she is there ....you dare not Oh I forget must make madam upto date otherwise people will see that your not trying Missed my singlehood 7 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 12:55am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Ironing my clothes at this late hour while watching Colombia and trying to keep up with this thread. Catch you all later. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 12:57am On Oct 02, 2015 |
@tony Am sorry u feel the way u do. As I said earlier on,.. U shd marry Ur best friend. And if u didn't get the chance to marry a Bestie... Its not too late. Find a middle ground. @dosunmu.... Gotta sleep... |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by ariyebaba(m): 1:07am On Oct 02, 2015 |
What a good old aeon days/years ago. As addendum to what d OP stated on the home page : * Going to Kingsway and Leventis * Playing table soccer n table Tennis * Having fun under d rain * Using slate for studying * Carry metal box to school * Listening and dancing to musics from : Nigerian Artists/Musicians :Late Ayinla Omowura, Late Yusuf Olatunji, Late I.K dairo,Late Fela Anikulapo,Late Orlando Owoh, Sunny Ade, Onyeka Owenu, Evi edna Ogoli, Lisabi Sisters, Ebenezer Obey,Late Ayinde Barrister, Kollington Ayinla, Late Fatai Rolling Dollar, Sir Victor Uwaifo (with late PAGO d short guy who was a member of d band). Dauda Epo Akara, Sir Shina Peters, Dele Taiwo,Dizzy K. Falola, Adewale Ayuba,Abass Akande ( Obesere) , Pasuma, etc Foreign Artists : Late Bob Nestor Marley, late Micheal Jackson, Cool n d gang, d wailer,Milli Vanili, Lionel Richie, Chaka Demus & Pliers, Bobby Brown,MC Hammer,BBD,Heavy D, Kriss Kross, Tevin Campbell, Yvonne Chaka Chaka and many more. *Good old Days of gramophone n cassette player. *Good old dats when women,Ladies,girls do jerry curls,perming,suku, ko ju so ko, one step,two step, di di, ki ko, etc *Good old days when our LandLord used to use a tin of Geisha to eat Eba. Lol ! * Good old days when naming ceremony of a new born baby is alwats full of enjoyment. In the morning, you take rich tea with sliced of breads sandwiched with mixed fish n sauce for breakfast. At the close of work in the evening enough rice n amala with assorted meats. Loud music ............. *Using hurricane lantern to read books in the night. * Good old days when we watched entertainment shows/acts like Billy cosby, sesame street, Samanja,Mutu Adole, Clarus,Prince Jegede, Ovularia , Baba Sala ( King of Comedy) , I show Pepper, I thank God to be alive and to reminisce over the good old days. I look forward to meeting matured lady for serious relationship. If you want to contact me,kindly check my signature below. SMS ONLY ! Op and other members ot this thread let keep it going. I tried small, let me hit the sack. Good morning to you all. Xiexie BRB................ 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 1:15am On Oct 02, 2015 |
@ariyebaba I so enjoyed reading ur post! Hahahahaa I did all that and more! I did the slate...mc hammer, salt and pepa... The gramophone, the suku, the geisha and garri...the hole nine yards! Lol OMG.....am I old??!!!! |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Neverquit(f): 1:37am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Interesting thread I am not yet 30 (few years shy) nor single but I want to learn from my elders *I bow* Am I allowed? |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by 2dice(m): 1:53am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Well to all my Seniors in the House I say Welldone... Although am far from 30 i enjoy this thread I person Bought an acre of Land here Love this Thread like Kilode Got my Pen and Jotter Happi Friday Everyone |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by xtervaganza(m): 2:18am On Oct 02, 2015 |
siamia:I'm not 30 yer but I know more than half of these But wait ooooo how did you remember all of these? 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by erad(m): 2:19am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Hi guys, how are y'all doing? This is a great thread with the right intentions and hopefully will yield the desired results even though I'm in no way eligible to participate with you guys (I'm in my mid twenties). My reason for this comment is to get clarity and hopefully better knowledge a on couple of things. Firstly, is it everyone here that is single due to past/present relationship misfortunes or some are single by choice? Personally, I have a problem with the Nigerian interpretation of marriage, the pressure they exert on single people at particular ages and the fact that they think it is an achievement in life. I strongly feel Nigerians need a reorientation on the whole idea of marriage and need to understand that it isn't a 'do or die' affair. Over time, I've noticed that most marriages in Nigeria fail because most participants of the concerned union were not ready but pressurized into making the ultimate decision. Most of them don't even spend enough time to know their partners before tying the knot due to said parental and community pressure and stigmatization. Secondly, I really understand where you are coming from with the age restriction but I still strongly believe a lot of semi-indomie kids (e.g. Myself) might also have a thing or two to contribute. Some of us are actually way ahead of our ages. I also suggest you guys find a way to contact Seun and pitch the idea of him giving OPs reasonable control over their threads, such as hiding comments. That way nobody will need to start making reports to MODs and waiting till eternity for them to take action. Every OP will have the responsibility of keeping his/her thread tidy and relevant. With such a system, Miss Siamia won't need to bother herself launching and relaunching warnings, she can always get rid of irrelevant and immature comments herself. Thirdly, I don't think anybody that is desperate to either find love or get married should be here. He/She will only end up worsening their case. Desperation is a destructive disease, it makes everyone see your vulnerability and play on it. Nobody wants to be stuck to a desperate partner. So if you are at that stage, take time to rediscover yourself. Find your values and reasons you are worth it. Believe in yourself because if you don't, nobody else will. That said, I'll like to make friends here if you guys won't mind the age difference. I wish everyone the very best, happy mingling and remember that honesty is key. Nothing built on a foundation of lie(s) can ever stand, let alone last. CIAO! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Omotayor123(f): 5:44am On Oct 02, 2015 |
siamia:Sorry to ask madam, but @40 you have never been married *just curious* |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Omotayor123(f): 5:46am On Oct 02, 2015 |
pbs4real:You nko Don't tell me you are still Single at 40 |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by ariyebaba(m): 5:58am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Beautiful pix.................... You look 28 siamia: 1 Like |
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