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MALIGNANTGuest:
You sound too bitter.
U can avoid all these by staying alone.
It's not a crime to stay alone.
No one will disrespect u 4such. However,
I just have a question 4u b4 concluding.
U said you are a product of polygamous marriage & it's nothing comparable to monogamous.
Now, how did you know so much about Monogamous too when you are a product of polygamous? You can't be a product of 2 different marriage systems at the same time.
Someone from monogamous may also prefer yours. U may be shocked when you start hearing ugly stories of those who were in terrible monogamous marriages. The Late Osinachi of Blessed memory was also a product of such.
So, what matters is, " Are you getting the desired love from your Father"? That's is number one.

Mark me no mother will ever tell her kids interesting things about their father in a polygamous setting even if the man is over representing. WOMEN hate competition.
That's their greatest enemy.
That's the only certified way a man can punish a stubborn & disrespect wife.
WOMEN are territorialistic.
The moment a woman is married, she starts making plans of barring her in-laws.

I have men who never had plans of doing such but because of what they went through in the hands of their wives they decided to destroy their marriages further by bringing in many women.
Fortunately, that made these men have peace of mind while they watched their wives transfer quarrels & nagging to other co-wives.

I am not bitter, you all hate naked truth because it pierces your heart . First bolden is very wrong. My mother NEVER said bad/terrible things about my dad or implanted any hatred in us towards my father, even as the man no dey try. She is the definition of the "Nigerian virtuous woman" that worships her husband. I don't wish to be her in all aspects because "e no pay her".

Second bolden. Oh, so you know it is destructive for a home when the man brings in many women. Yea, it made HIM have peace of mind but did the others have peace of mind? Are the wives and children happy? Does that not make his decision selfish? Or it is only him that matter? Abeg park well

If marriage no work, leave the marriage. I'm not against divorce with a strong reason.

Kriss216:
YUL Ezedike Edochie should win Times Man of the Year. He's a true African man.


God bless and preserve him.

Yea, A TRUE African man only thinks with his dick.

Ya'll are so selfish. You only think about yourselves. Because deep down, the only reason why a man wants to have many wives is the availability of "plenty sex". No other reason. Speaks alot about true African men.

I am from a polygamous home and I can tell you it is incomparable with a monogamous one. What I went through, I don't ever wish for my kids to go through same.

Same way babymama crew are selfish. They want to eat their cake and have it. They want the child but not a good and stable home to train him or her in. Do you even think about these kids at all? Never, only yourselves. You only think of how you will be free to put your dirty prick in all available pussi. If you don't want to marry, no problem. Sha don't birth half trained kids. Ever wonder why single people are not qualified to adopt kids?

God forbid I marry A TRUE AFRICAN MAN.

Very ugly woman looking like hippo.

moneyissweet:
And that rugged jean you are putting on in your dp, whoever design it for you need to be mercilessly beaten into coma

I know you are looking for attention.
Fortunately for you, I have time today. How do you want us to drag ourselves?, In the mud or gutter?

Neatly used Samsung a50 for sale. (Face id working but no fingerprint). 4gb ram/128gb rom. 65k only. Location is Benin.

Queen Nwokoye's stylist(Tailor) need to be flogged with peppered koboko on her bare ass

Shameless women.

God bless you Collegenews, Maynation and others involved in the good health "aya Oba" now has. Such great news!!!

Apo yin o ni gbe. Thank you all very much

Thank God for your lives sir CN.

May God finish the rest of the work. You will definitely walk again.

I'm so sorry for all you went through sir.

Wow. Some men just do things that melts your heart . He must have a soft heart.

Mothers are just so strong. I can relate to growing up with my siblings and mother in a single room too. May God bless our mothers.

Jennyclay:
Aunty, I won't support you on this, Infact I totally disagree with you.

Work for your money and be independent. I'm currently using iPhone XS max, and NO MAN gave me a dime I bought it all by myself.

Ladies wake up, we can do better. Whether the man loves or not, don't make it a priority or his responsibility to buy you a phone. You're relegating and degrading yourself.

EXCEPT he's gifting you a phone willingly, from the depth of his heart.

Point of correction: Some Android phones are lovely and worth using. Android Phones like Samsung and Huawei.

See epistle combined with format . Calm down the lady was obviously catching cruise.

Romantic man. Always praising his wife.


But I don't trust yoruba men

minks:
Congratulations to you.
But why did you do it on your knees?
If I ever propose to a woman, I'll do it sitting like I king on his throne.

Eleribu. Atleast finish reading the post before jumping to conclusion. Anything wey concern woman matter, una madness go activate.

Igbo Amaka.

If I no marry Igbo man, make I know wetin cause am.

My dreams is very simple; Have a stable income, be an Igbo wife . Lobatan

We thank God for the new development. May we hear only good news from now.

Luvinghrt4:
No. It wouldn't be for him. With the situation at hand, I'm on my own and I need to fight for myself. If I were fianancially ok, I would have gotten a new apartment and move out since he started this behavior

Yinmu. Naso una dey talk

We don't have money for you madam. Carry your cross.

Clinghton:
Instead of being revengeful why not leave him and move on or forgive him and move on or forgive him and continue the relationship, at least he knows that the relationship with the married lady won't lead him to marriage, but yours has a greater chance to marriage.

You are senseless for this comment sir.

It is good you know and have defined what you want. There are men out there who want same thing as you do..

My only concern is that you bring up your children up in a decent and good way.

Most single parents preaches hate to their kids, We don't want more nusaince in this country.

I came from a broken home too and my mum did a good job with us. We were raised right. But I don't ever wish for my kids not to experience that "oneness" and "peaceful" home.

Please raise good kids, that's all I have to say.

Medianna:
Now my own interpretation of broke is not the same as poor but a temporal lack which may end at anytime
Brokenness as a man or woman is not the issue, afterall a broke woman can marry a well to do man.. And the people will tag her 'lucky' but when a broke guy marries a well to do woman people rise eye brow..
My own is look for someone who can compliment you!!
So to your question broke guys are also entitled to marriage after all no condition is permanent

Thanks for clarification.

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Why will I get married to a broke man at the first place?

Love won't pay the bills, money will. Ya'll stop deceiving yourselves.

Orente21:
Thank for this motivation.
I am a private school teacher, but I ll try my best.i appreciate. He must find favor by fire by force.

So you need motivation to stay faithful to your husband?

Baba never talk true


All these occultic people sef, tueh!!

Pathetic.

What's the catch with people and celebrities?

TemitopeJnr:
They are getting better.
Auntie Pinky and Lastie are fine.
Just waiting for a miracle with Sir CN and CNjnr.

That miracle will happen in Jesus name. Let's all keep praying for them.

Ammishaddai:
Bros, those girls do not have the full details of what actually transpired between that girl and the mystery man . And the way I look at it , her "angel-investor" probabaly exchanged numbers with her under the auspices of being a "friend ", but you and I both know that more will unfold in the coming days . So stay tuned .

And if my sister were to get something like this , na better beating she go get . Thank God my sisters know the kind of person my papa be . Even if all of us don grow up mature , we know say Okra no dey grow tall pass the owner

Nigerian men and their poor thinking. Smh.

Just seeing this

Rapid healing is what I pray for oh Lord.

Nothing will happen to any of them in Jesus name.

Like Queen said, this too shall pass. In Jesus name, Amen.