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MissJoy29:
Lol....I don't know if I'm selective or a perfectionist. Maybe I'm both or one of the two but definitely, not none

How do you know I'm being hard on guys? I'm not. I'm actually softer than you'd think

I actually want a perfect gentleman. You know where I can find him?

of course i know where you can find him he is everywhere just look arround joy...he is probably thinking about you right now...

mhisbliss:
always try again instead of writting every girl off

i will and hey thanks alot you dont know how i feel talking to you..

mhisbliss:
you can't blame them you know? They're being cautious Past actions of most guys have made girls believe that when a guy spends on you he wants something in return, even when you make your intention clear they will still find it hard believing you, I won't believe it either, now your kind of guy is rare and that's why they tag you a maga, but personally I prefer being platonic friends with a guy, freebies or not, they're easy to talk to, no malice, gossip, envy and other girly BS

you have point i blame we the guys for giving that impression that has become a nightmare to guys like us..so what do u suggest i do..because am in my shell right now

Spaxon:
85% good

damn!...you must be good like garry kasparov i guess... have u got an account on chess dot com?

mhisbliss:
nothing is wrong with you, I know someone who's exactly like you, just that at a point you've really got to step out of your comfort zone, you can't exist indepently forever you know?

yea i knw bliss and am really trying i tried somtimes bt the gurls hav dis miscoception which realy piss me off..4 example am dat kind of guy who kul take a platonic friend out spent on her and al dat or jst sent her airtime without she asking bt wen i do dat they jst feel am som kind of maga or i want smtin bt trust me its a normal tin to me so wen i notice dat i jst ignor the gurl n move bak to my shell..its annoying thats one of my reasons

Spaxon:
I played chess yesterday

interesting...how good are u?

Spaxon:
you should have game consoles then.
I play them often.

that will be chess,scrabble and sometimes monopoly..i love chess that's my only consoles

Spaxon:
your Christmas should be awesome...

yea it should but not when am one reserve and withdrawn guy who only find solace online instead of hanging out with people

Spaxon:
Oh yes I went for the uyo carnival

wow that's cool i heard alot about the carnival i wish i attended..well christmas was just normal to me here..

Spaxon:
edit it please...
I don't want people thinking u r trolling me

i have done that even before you say it..i understand you..

Spaxon:

how was the christmast celebration hope you had a blast?

mhisbliss:
lol what's the fun in hanging out alone, and how well is it going for you @bolded

i think am much more happy wen am alone than with people..weird right? well maybe am so use to it that i dont even know what happiness means...

well so far i haven' done anything yet i know alot girls online but have not thought of going on a friendly date wit them we jst chat online and thats all..i dnt even wats rong wit me...

Spaxon:
you didn't have to do this...

am sorry!

MissJoy29:
Lol...don't mind me o...
And no, we can't have any fight at all. Let alone a serious one

Yes, I think I'm a perfectionist.

if been "selective" is term as been a perfectionist then am afriad am guilty too but unfortunately there is a big disparity so am not guilty..but dont you think you're been hard on guys?mayb you should try and be a little bit soft...and give a chance to a "perfect gentleman" and nt a "perfect man"

...

mhisbliss:
just like someone I know, so anti social and introverted, which is bad for you because you'll have difficulties connecting with people, highly solitary and boring

am not really anti social i just dont hangout with people i will go out alone..i go to the club and movies alone if i want to..am sapiosexual so to some extend i choose who i want to hangout with..but am trying to be more social to people esp the opposite sex...

MissJoy29:
Lol @not knowing what we want. Me sef, I don't know what I want

But seriously, we all need each other.

hmmm joy me and you will have a serious fight oo what do you mean by..you dont know what you want? oh you're a perfectionist right?

mhisbliss:
its because you're surrounded by boring people, mine started on 23rd and it hasn't stopped

the people are super active am just a very reserve guy that kind of guy that wil lock himself in the room that u wont even knw he is in the room i only find solace online..i knw alot of people online bt in reality its a far cry...

mhisbliss:
lol they'll never change, same bullsh!t different package

Ya had lots of fun, sadly its coming to an end

am such a boring guy..nothing special to me abt da christmas its like a normal day for me..

mhisbliss:
lol ok but refrain from watching any nollywood movie, they're jokers

funny enough i dont actually do nollywood but i thought they have upgrade and change bt they fall my hands big time...

merry christmas hope you had a blast?

MissJoy29:
Exactly dear! No human is an island. On the other hand, no human is more important than the other. Find that person who complements you. Simple!

that's what people dont understand the moment we beging to judge and criticize people instead of complementing their weakness is the day ego will set in and instead loving the right person we end up fallen for the wrong person for the wrong reasons because we dont even know what we want..

mhisbliss:
a red blooded guy watching nollywood movies, smh start watching telemundo too so it'll be complete, I just dey look you

lol..i dont do telemundo and am just been pragmatic here hun!

makydebbie:
Are you serious?
I found it funny.. Like you know the mistake proposal and stuff.
But yea, it was overrated and tooo predictable.

exactly my point too predictable..i think the fans actually push the director's to just continue with the movie and that is bad apart frm the mistake proposal and the comedy the movie has no storyline..it was just a gathering of celebrities am rating it 5/10...

lets be real here every woman need's a man likewise every man need's a man,no man is an island,i always tell guys that if the only thing a woman can offer you is sex then you have no right to be with that woman talk more of marrying her because every woman can give you sex likewise if the only thing a man can offer you is money then you have no right been with him except you're after his money..it's about finding someone who completes you, and complement you and someone who makes you happy!

makydebbie:
I just went to the cinema to watch the wedding party2.

i regret watching that overated movie..the money and the popcorn i bought is still paining me..

lalasticlala:
Lala isn't single o. As a matter of fact, Lala is wedding next year. With or without Pre-Wedding photos.

i hope it's with berlyn? abeg no go break that gurk heart oo

hmmm this baba neva knw anything som niggas go still bang and even spill their cum on the casket..as for the gurl na betta deek go reset her brain to 4get u immediately!

MissJoy29:
Oh no, he wasn't dear.

oh no wonder the moniker...

MissJoy29:
Please let him be.

ok..mayb he was been sarcastic!

fuckboys:
see this goat, leave my moniker out of this nonsense

whats wrong with you? are you sure you're ok? whats up with the insult?

MissJoy29:
It is because there are a lot of:

slay queens,
fuckboys/men,
prostitutes,
escorts,
gigolos,
hit & run men and ladies,
proud baby mamas/daddys,
demons (from all tribes)

who don't give a hoot about love & relationships. There are just so many of them that they outnumber the willing and ready ones.

My humble take though.

MissJoy29:
It
My humble take though.

seconded because in life if you dont define yourself for yourself you will be crunch into other's people fantassy of you eaten alive!

makydebbie:
Lol, okay.

ZA other room..gat me