CorGier:


Meninists, I think.

pocohantas:
Menist have overtaken the thread. Women are the problem, men are near perfect. Women change o!!!

Rukkydelta:
It's so funny that most guys here just put the blame solely on the opposite gender like all guys are saints

pocohantas:


Menist

ubunja:

people dont understand how hard it is for men to control the urge to simp.simping is a very real temptation.when a gal fvcks up and looks at you with that innocent-guilty face it takes a man of real character to look at her and tell her, straight-faced : "fix your mistake."
most men will just hold the gal close and assure her its all OK and blah blah.meanwhile inside the guy is pissed. then the guy goes out to his buddies to hangout; only for him to snap at the first guy that makes a joke at him.that sh!t needs to stop. vent your anger to the one who provoked you.if your woman drops your phone and crack its screen dont tell her its OK only to explode all over some poor soul on the street who shoves you a little by mistake.its wrong.
hold women to account.it makes you High Value. coz you set a standard that women then feel challanged to meet.women also love to impress a guy. it turns them on.

if u watch movies a lot u have heard women many times repeat one sentence over and over again:
PUNISH ME DADDY; I'VE BEEN A BAD GIRL.
yes.women love it when a man holds them to a set of rules.its very masculine.and alpha.

CorGier:


yeah right, but they will never admit to this openly mind. Not that we expect them to, though. Their actions speaks louder.

Ex once told me I made her do some crazy kinky stuffs she never thought she would (meaning, even if she enjoyed it - prolly more than me even - that she takes zero responsibility in acts which questions her idea of herself)
I, in turn, told her she brought them out of me.

ubunja:

.u see it when a gal comes to Nairaland and ask: "My boss wana fvck me, is it OK? ". now she knows already she wants her boss' dick;

CorGier:


Its the society dear. By manipulating and feminizing men they can control us easily can't you see? That's why they will happily separate kids from their fathers, leaving young boys to grow up without a father figure.
They would eventually turn to drugs, booze and weed. And there you have it - a population of effeminate men too drunk and high to challenge authority.

On your last point, we can agree. At first I thought it wise to ignore you when you said I perceived all girls as hoes, when in fact I was advocating for men to never take you lots too seriously in relationships, cos y'all can't just help yourselves in always falling below our expectations.

But I feel you though, a relationship is most fulfilling when each significant other perceives the other as an equal. Though we both know a man and a woman can never be equals, but you get my point.

CorGier:


yeah right, but they will never admit to this openly mind. Not that we expect them to, though. Their actions speaks louder.

Ex once told me I made her do some crazy kinky stuffs she never thought she would (meaning, even if she enjoyed it - prolly more than me even - that she takes zero responsibility in acts which questions her idea of herself)
I, in turn, told her she brought them out of me.

kelechiMarie:
Relationships don't last long because we are selfish, irresponsible and very much unwilling to take the blames for our mistakes. On nairaland here, no matter what happens it is usually the fault of the woman , in some other places it's vice versa. This generation has unrealistic expectations, we want our lives to be some sort of reality show. Many guys are superficial, they want to be playboys; have women at their beck and call and at the same time want that special woman who will love them unconditionally. Many girls want the money and all that but are still looking for true love or whatever. This new generation ignites quickly and also burns out as easy, nobody wants to be friends first. We have invented terms like the friendzone, to slyly imply that if you don't get down to action quickly you're a loser of some sorts.
It's always funny to me when someone gives the excuse being heartbroken to break other hearts, honey it is a vicious cycle; the person who broke your heart was probably a nice girl too once upon a time and you are also going to break a nice person's heart and turn them to a monster. I have been broken , I have been assaulted but I refuse to let that cloud my judgement because I know good people still exist. That's the problem with us, we allow our experience to determine our default settings, I say we're all fuckin.g cowards who are too afraid to love or commit.
Let us keep on with the blame games and take no responsibility and let's clink glasses to more "broken" hearts

ubunja:

thats like saying a husband and wife must not be called husband and wife coz any moment they can divorce.

sirBLUNT:
if been "selective" is term as been a perfectionist then am afriad am guilty too but unfortunately there is a big disparity so am not guilty..but dont you think you're been hard on guys?mayb you should try and be a little bit soft...and give a chance to a "perfect gentleman" and nt a "perfect man"

MissJoy29:

First, @a population of effeminate men too high and drunk to challenge authority. Is it authority you want the men to challenge or the ladies who are manipulating them?

MissJoy29:



Second, from your earlier write up sir, one can deduce that you perceived men as hoes. Even though I didn't call it that directly but the point was that you said & are still saying that women shouldn't be taken too seriously. Why is what I don't know. And what are those your expectations we always fall below? Just curious.

MissJoy29:

Lol....I don't know if I'm selective or a perfectionist. Maybe I'm both or one of the two but definitely, not none

How do you know I'm being hard on guys? I'm not. I'm actually softer than you'd think

I actually want a perfect gentleman. You know where I can find him?

CorGier:

Well, you asked who were the people putting women on pedestals, hence my reply and why.


If you recall, I stated earlier that in dealing with women, they best be treated as kids. That way you get to accept them the way they are and not get stuck in the "anger phase", perpetually blaming and hating on women after every heartbreak.
All women are biologically and evolutionarily wired to behave/act in a certain way under certain circumstances.
Once a man realises this; beefing some ex-lover over what she did or failed to do years ago, becomes futile. I'm not saying being hurt by that special should hurt any less though, no, but you get to realize that she's first of all a woman, then your soulmate.
I think I've tried, Ma.

sirBLUNT:
of course i know where you can find him he is everywhere just look arround joy...he is probably thinking about you right now...

MissJoy29:
Ah! Holy Spirit! Show him to me please

sirBLUNT:
you're trying me oo go away joor!

MissJoy29:

I agree with all you said on the condition that everything you wrote up there is also true when reversed. ie vice versa. Agreed?

I think I have tried too sir

CorGier:


nah, men ain't driven by emotions. I like the way you think tho, maybe I should start pushing this sapiosexual thingy about too.

MissJoy29:

CorGier:


nah, men ain't driven by emotions. I like the way you think tho, maybe I should start pushing this sapiosexual thingy about too.

sirBLUNT:
hahaha...you better take a deep breath..it takes two to tango you know

MissJoy29:

Yeah it does. And I'm waiting for him for us to tango. Please tell him.

sirBLUNT:
how do i tell him when you dont even know what you want?

WHAT DO YOU WANT?

MissJoy29:

Haba! Just tell him first. We will discuss in private

sirBLUNT:
hahaha..you're damn crazy...

MissJoy29:

Oh, I am!