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| Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by kingofcasting(m): 2:53pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Relationships are one of the best chapters in one's life. But, what if i told you that recent studies show that 90 per cent of the couples who are getting into a relationship have no ability to make the relationship last. Statistics show that nearly 70 per cent of the couples do not believe in the idea of long-term and the new lifestyle we're leading is the reason to blame. Due to the lack of patience, the fear of commitment and a busy life, couples these days don't want to invest in a relationship, unless they are pressurized into it by their parents. It is also seen that men who cross the age of 33 find no need to settle down with a partner, and this goes with the women too who are in their 30's. Relationship experts suggest that one should always find a partner, a companion or a special someone to love. The beautiful phase of love is tremendously marvelous and it has its bad and good points too. When you are in a relationship and when you make it work, there is endless happiness. But, with the life we all tend to lead today, most people resent going in for a relationship. Below are some of the reasons why relationships don't work out in the 21st century: 1) Couples Lack Patience: Most people we come across lack the patience to live life, so how would you expect them to be in a relationship, right? This is one of the many reasons why most men and women don't want to fall in love, as they don't have the patience to deal with each other in their life. 2)There Is Fear Of Commitment: The fear of committing to each other is so strong that it puts one in a place of solitude. The fear of commitment over powers a relationship and, therefore, making couples find the need of not falling in love. 3)Giving Up On Love Easily: Then again, there are some men and women who don't believe in the idea of love. Even if they are in a relationship, they find the necessity of moving out of it immediately and living alone. In some cases, those who have been in love and have been witnessed to a heartache or cheating find it difficult to fall in love again. no time to love. 4)Blame The Busy Life: The life we all lead also plays a strong role in relationships not working out. From the many people we have come across, the work life they are in doesn't give them an opportunity to fall in love in the first place. 5) Fear Of Losing That Special One: Another reason why couples have no time to love is because they feel that if they get too attached to that crush or a fling, there are chances of that relationship coming to an end. 6) Lack of mutual interest: Most times relationships tend to end mainly because the couples don’t have one mind. Sex comes to mind as an example. While one partner may have it in mind that there should be no sex before marriage, the other partner believes that relationship should be for the benefit of the pleasures of the flesh and this may cause turmoil in the relationship. Signed by your lovable psycho, Kingofcasting  Cc lalasticlala 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by bjt(m): 2:55pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Ok |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by Oxster(m): 2:58pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Dude is struggling to enter front page 1 Like |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by HeyCorleone(m): 3:43pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Relationships are starting to feel like a chore, but I really hope I'm not starting to bore. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by kingofcasting(m): 3:54pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
HeyCorleone:  i understand bro. |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by jbtobsyn(m): 6:44am On Dec 27, 2017 |
kingofcasting:U dey craze.So u fit open thread dumb ass.Dont ever come to derail other threads. |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by Nobody: 7:08am On Dec 27, 2017 |
They give up on love easily, they are ever ready to move on to the next person. 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by ubunja(m): 7:58am On Dec 27, 2017 |
sex is now free. no need to pay the price our fathers paid for it. |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by Belafonte(m): 8:12am On Dec 27, 2017 |
Our ancestors had a working formula; man provide for and protect your woman; woman cater to your man. But no, that's too difficult. Oh, well, it's not so bad |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by ubunja(m): 8:41am On Dec 27, 2017 |
Belafonte:fonte that was Feminism's biggest miscalculation. to assume Patriarchy and marriage was oppression for women their solution? remove both but marriage WAS the price men paid for sex. and that was a very high price. now a few dates gets u sex. if our ancestors lived today they would be wondering why so many guys are not getting sex daily. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by Belafonte(m): 9:01am On Dec 27, 2017 |
ubunja: Lol. If women knew how much feminism has robbed them of, they would kill anybody that mentioned that fraudulent word around them. I'm just so happy to be a man. I wake up everyday with a smile, knowing I can have my pick of nubility. My brother, it is good to be a man. 6 Likes |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:07am On Dec 27, 2017 |
Remove feminism and see relationships lasting. Once you ve two drivers driving a car at the same time,crash is inevitable. Ask ur parents. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by newslifeop: 9:12am On Dec 27, 2017 |
Blame the girls Most are rude and young immature and believe they are exposed.when they are 30 above and still single they will now blame God 12 Likes |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by Nobody: 9:37am On Dec 27, 2017 |
ubunja:"SINCE SEX BECAME SO EASY TO GET, LOVE BECAME HARDER TO FIND". An unpopular quote yet very apt when you sincerely observe today's societies, of meaningless SEX (casual). Saw that quote and thought its cool to share with those willing to grow in wisdom. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 27, 2017 |
ubunja: You are right bro, a major factor to the reason why relationship dont last long very well spelt out by you . You know moderns think they got some goody upstairs hence keep kicking against worthy traditional values since primordial. The results are manifesting today. VERY UGLY RESULTS! |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by Khonifer: 9:44am On Dec 27, 2017 |
Yawns.... |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by MissJoy29(f): 10:05am On Dec 27, 2017 |
It is because there are a lot of: slay queens, fuckboys/men, prostitutes, escorts, gigolos, hit & run men and ladies, proud baby mamas/daddys, demons (from all tribes) who don't give a hoot about love & relationships. There are just so many of them that they outnumber the willing and ready ones. My humble take though. 9 Likes |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by fuckboys: 10:09am On Dec 27, 2017 |
MissJoy29:
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| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:09am On Dec 27, 2017 |
WORDWORLD:. Oga me, pls permit me to copy this your quote.. Very funny but true. |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:12am On Dec 27, 2017 |
ubunja:. I dey feel you my man.Words 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by MissJoy29(f): 10:16am On Dec 27, 2017 |
[quote author=fuckboys post=63645849][/quote] 1 Like |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by ubunja(m): 10:16am On Dec 27, 2017 |
WORDWORLD:ugly for women and the men who still dream of love. i remember the first time i met a gal in town , chatted to her, had a snack with her and ended up fvcking her. that was the day life stopped having meaning for me. everything i had been taught about love and sex all my life just turned out to be one big lie.that was when i evolved into a player. but sometimes i regret that day.ignorance was bliss.now i look at my friends so happy in the matrix dream world,asleep happily like in Inception.enjoying the beautiful lie. i even regret that internet article i read that made me experiment in the first place.and i have seen that same article qouted in many websites. the biggest disappointment as a man you can come upon is to realise that the only woman who ever loved you unconditionally was your mother. the rest need a reason to love you. it hurts. but once you make peace with this heartbreaking truth, no woman will ever make you cry, or beg ever again in this life. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by sirBLUNT: 10:33am On Dec 27, 2017 |
MissJoy29:  MissJoy29:seconded because in life if you dont define yourself for yourself you will be crunch into other's people fantassy of you eaten alive! 1 Like |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by fuckboys: 10:36am On Dec 27, 2017 |
sirBLUNT:see this goat, leave my moniker out of this nonsense  |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by sirBLUNT: 10:44am On Dec 27, 2017 |
fuckboys:whats wrong with you? are you sure you're ok? whats up with the insult? |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by MissJoy29(f): 10:46am On Dec 27, 2017 |
sirBLUNT:True. |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by MissJoy29(f): 10:48am On Dec 27, 2017 |
sirBLUNT:Please let him be. |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by Nobody: 10:56am On Dec 27, 2017 |
ubunja: True. And I must add, a woman can never love you the way you feel you deserve. I see a lot of men stuck in the anger phase, still harbouring pains from the one(s) who got away. Its like hating on a child for pissing his pants, you know? it can't help it. Women have no loyalty, no sense of responsibility, every single woman who matters will fail you 99% of the time when you need them the most. Hence, we need to approach relationships with zero expectations of women. I'm a strong believer in living in the moment, and I treat people as they deserve. So every time love comes sure, I give my all. When it goes to shits, amma next that b!tch like she never meant much to me. And its true, they are nothing special (but never tell them that). 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by kingofcasting(m): 10:56am On Dec 27, 2017 |
jbtobsyn:
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| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by ubunja(m): 10:59am On Dec 27, 2017 |
MissJoy29:true to a point.that applies only to women.there are more hoes than good gals today.but its the opposite with men. only about 20% of men are getting regular sex. most men are celibate or using porn. gals dont realise they are only having sex with just 1/5 of the male population. and what adds to this blindness is that they see this 1/5 fvck everything with a skirt and so they think ALL the guys are manwhores! but they dont understand that 80% of men are in friendzones. everytime gals fight over one sexy guy it means another avarage guy out there is without a GF. everytime gals queue for that one hot guy that fvcks like a god,it means a bunch of avarage guys out there are forced to rely on porn. are women to blame? NO. thats nature at work.evolution.and its gonna get worse for future men.i advice all men never to have sons with ugly women.their sons will be doomed. get a gorgeous gal pregnant and your son will enjoy pvssy. 12 Likes |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by sirBLUNT: 11:00am On Dec 27, 2017 |
MissJoy29:ok..mayb he was been sarcastic! |
| Re: Why Relationships Don't Last Long In This Era by MissJoy29(f): 11:04am On Dec 27, 2017 |
sirBLUNT:Oh no, he wasn't dear. |
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