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Richochett:
You don't have any legal right to lock her out of her personal belongings (e.g clothes). If you're not comfortable with her attitude simply tell her to start looking for accommodation.

Moreover, from your narratives I can't see anywhere the girl has wronged you. You're are just acting bossy because its your house

Allow her to enter the house.

Ok let her go rent her own house cos two bos can't stay in one house

daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!

U did a great job, since she has now become ur senior, or she is now a big girl and u don't have control over her again, let her go and get her own house and start living on her own, she be big girl

Melodyui:
Ok

Sure kill u there

Hmmm

Ok

k2fresh:
who is Oladimeji or oladamajiri?Senseless idiot. You gay partner done fvck sense comot for your head. Don't you know when you engage in such disgusting act it makes you lose some brain cells. Continue, very soon you will run mad on the street.

Ur papa madness nai kill am, u day igbo go kill u

k2fresh:
Why can't this bloody gay just keep quiet for once.You done finally see person when go fvck your anus or anus when you wan fvck.Foolish gay proliferating the entire internet with your senseless.Anyways you are in luck, you are your fellow colleague Amajiri VicM6 can come to terms. That one own na to dey carry plate all over the internet. You dey look for anus,him dey look for money.Both of you can come to terms. You can offer your anus to him or he offers his to you.Bloody foolish gay with a leaky yansh. 14 years await you.

Mumu go kill u oh. Gay dey call person gay, na I know how mumu u be, too much igbo go nock ur brain, talking about bet here u talking about gay,
Well na so igbo smokers dey talk, always talk offkeyy

k2fresh:
Why can't this bloody gay just keep quiet for once.You done finally see person when go fvck your anus or anus when you wan fvck.Foolish gay proliferating the entire internet with your senseless.Anyways you are in luck, you are your fellow colleague Amajiri VicM6 can come to terms. That one own na to dey carry plate all over the internet. You dey look for anus,him dey look for money.Both of you can come to terms. You can offer your anus to him or he offers his to you.Bloody foolish gay with a leaky yansh. 14 years await you.

He pain am


@Oladimeji or oladamajiri
Ur name even tells us u be amajiri so can't bant with u.
Go school u will not make such error in ur life again, cos the next error go kill u

For k2fresh, na swear kill ur papa cos of thief thief, hope u nor go die follow am

VicM6:
bringing gay into sport betting..... truly you are highly foolish and daft.... Bro, go and gather some brain and stop being childish for once.... slowpoke.

Don't mind him, you know children when they talk

dejavusayso:
@SIRRITE, it is dunce like u that give organisations like them leverage to reap people off constantly and continue to get away with it.

You can always keep ur stupidity private, it doesn't have to be public.

You are quick to point out my own fault! Like i have asked severaly, if i have flouted their T&C, why was i paid the first time ?. Why was i paid a refund of 100,300 naira ?

They have to stop contradicting themselves!

@dejavusayso before u can submit ur own I'd card, bank statement for another bet9ja account that is not ur own, I think u are the most foolish person have seen,
Now see wat ur foolishness as cost u now, to be foolish cost alot ok.
And some foolish people like k2fresh, still telling u to go to bet9ja office to go make noise.

VicM6:
If he takes them to court, he is gonna loose bcus there is always a disclaimer on every betting site stating that the bet company can pay you or not on their own peril. The reason why his acct wasn't blocked was bcus he hasn't made a withdrawal above 250k. He made a very big withdrawal and they demanded for his verification and he bleeped up by sending his own instead of his sister's own..... whose fault is it now...... just like sending your brother to sch then on the day of exam, you came out to sit for his exam's....... That's fraud okay. As if he sent his sis verification, all this wouldn't av happened and his acct would av been credited.... let's learn from mistake and that's all.

I even wonder how he received his previous small winning he said he pays out, cos bet9ja stated during registration that ur name must match with ur bank name to enable them process ur withdrawal

dejavusayso:
If they are restricting an account for withdrawal, shouldn't it apply for depositing too ?


Cos it was the same bank account i was using for withdrawal and deposit in my old account.

If it was 1xbet aswear chi chi u for nor see. Just type 1xbet on search collum on nairaland u will see where many accounts are blocks cos of term and condition defaulted.

VicM6:
If he takes them to court, he is gonna loose bcus there is always a disclaimer on every betting site stating that the bet company can pay you or not on their own peril. The reason why his acct wasn't blocked was bcus he hasn't made a withdrawal above 250k. He made a very big withdrawal and they demanded for his verification and he bleeped up by sending his own instead of his sister's own..... whose fault is it now...... just like sending your brother to sch then on the day of exam, you came out to sit for his exam's....... That's fraud okay. As if he sent his sis verification, all this wouldn't av happened and his acct would av been credited.... let's learn from mistake and that's all.

This is wat am pointing at for them, one idiot call k2fresh calling him papa thief,

Now bet9ja even return his total stake to his own personal account not his own sister own oh, that tells u bet9ja knows u are operating double account

VicM6:
i tire for this ur matter o, how can he open his bet9ja acct with his own details and withdraw via his sis acct.... that can never be possible bro..... pls stop arguing bcus it seems u are the fool here.

Don't mind that mumu man he just showing everyone that he is an illiterate

k2fresh:
Is it that you are blind, can't read or can't comprehend.He said that the account was opened with his own name and details. He just use his sister account number to withdraw his winnings. Blind fool can you read at all. He has said this over and over again.is he suppose to send his sister's id and details when the account is in his own name.Blind man!!!And you are the first grade mumu.Commenting on a topic you don't even know the details.Big fool. Foolish criminal, pray you foolishness don't get you killed. Ole-buruku. Now run along to your pay master.

U be mumu, don't worry u will be cought soon, 500yr for u, mumu idiot,
How can Mr A withdraw fund into his or her with different account number, and different account name?? Ur mumu na grade 1, u think all this ur criminal life can't be cought, idiot!!

Still disgracing ur stupid self, keep talking the more u open ur smelling mouth the more every know sey ur mouth dey smell idiot

k2fresh:
You are a big fool and you are a bigger fool if you are a fellow punter like himself but you are siding with the bookie even when it's very obvious he is been cheated.Even the bolded statement is even one of the reason I doubt you authenticity,what does he have to lose by emailing the lottery board.He broke the rule,like they didn't break the rule too. When he made his first withdrawal and it was approved, they have already broken the rule too.You cant come out with your rules now when you think you are at the losing end.If this case it's taken to the law court,he is going to win hands down. The first payment they made has already set a precedence that he can be paid with the state of his bet9ja account.The best bet9ja can do is to ask him to bring the relevant document to show that he is the owner of the account or come to their Lagos office physically to claim his wins not that they will just make an arbitrary decision to close down his account.Wetin come make them different from an average fraudster on the street.The close down of his account show an unwillingness to settle the dispute. They just want to go scot-free with his money.
You have made several stupid statement like the bolded in course of this discourse hence I very much doubt your credibility.Go and tell your pay master they have failed,thief!!!!na thief go kill you. Like say na warri you dey ,we for done put tire for your head since.

Ur mumu is always seen when u speak, so keep quite,so the whole world will not know sey u be mumu,just a kind advise.

I think u need to re-read this thread creator post,
He said he register bet9ja account for his sister and he as been using, but when bet9ja request for account verification he then said his own I'd card and bank statements for his sister bet9ja account verification. I know ur stupidity will make u not see that aspect as big fuckup from the guy.

kendrick93:
You could have withdrawn it bit by bit not all the full sum at once.
Let's say 150k withdrawals daily and this would have been avoided...
Well now the damage is done, take it up with a good lawyer...

This would have worked, like 100k, cos any withdrawal above 250k u must provide means of verification, betking did that to me.

k2fresh:
Guy why you dey dull.Shebi dey want bad publicity give it to them na.Go to all their social media handle and drag them there.Go to bet9ja twitter,instagram and facebook handle and drag them there.Go to all the popular Nigeria tipsters on facebook and twitter go there and post your story.Tell them they are proliferating the entire web space with a betslip they never paid for.Go to all the popular naija blog on instagram and post your story there.Go spam their recent topic with your story(an example is instablognaija). Go to all the popular naija groups on facebook and post your story there.Go to the length and breadth of the internet and post your story there. Since they want bad publicity, give it to them in full dose.Finally you can mail the Lagos state lottery board that's if they are not in cohoot with them.This pretty easy to do.Just copy your story in a notepad,then just be pasting everywhere from there.Just do what I posted ,You would get your money. Na them go call you to come collect your money make you carry your wahala go.

Ok bro this if they will pay, I think make use of the social media ideal, don't go to lottery board, cos u defaulted, so post everywhere, and drop the link here so we can shear, retweet am

k2fresh:
Bet9ja agent spotted.Thief!!!So you would chose to enact your t&c when it doesn't favours you but look the other way when it favours you.Pray you don't die of thievery. Na ppl like you them dey burn for warri so.Hand go touch you very soon.

Mumu nai u be, the thief work wey u and papa dey do nai go killllll una, idiottt

If u don't know am a bettor like him, am angry for the kind of ignorant mistake the guy did, how can u registered an account with Mr A information and send Me B documents for Mr A account verification.

dejavusayso:
How come their terms and conditions doesn't apply to walk-in customers ? Cos the last time i checked even a 14 year old can walk in and play.

My point still remains that they can't keep applying it only when they want to deprive people of their winnings.

Just like Nigeria police they will ignore u even if u keep using condemned motor to drive one way,cos they know u can forget that unvaluable motor with them, but immediately u used one good car with value to commit same crime they will hold u, and tell u, u commiting a crime
So is like that bro. Normally if any account want to withdraw above 250k from any bookies, that customer must verify his or her account, is a law by federal government to all bookies.

dejavusayso:
Their agent in disguise i see u!

A fraudulent organisation will always be a fraudulent one no matter how u try to spin it.

I won't trade insults with u!

No no no bro, am gambler like u, but have been dealing with these betting companies I know them well ok,
Last year I had issue with sportybet which I have to sue them cos I know have violated any term and condition, they voided my winnings and decided my lost, I played two tickets on same event, but voided my winning and decided my lost, so told them to void both ticket or decide both tickets, but they later void both ticket and return my whole stake

dejavusayso:
But it doesn't get checked when you placing a bet ?

Bet9ja system ?

If u register on a dating app for instance and u delete ur profile, do u still need to call them to further delete ur profile from their system ?

Then of what use is the delete option!

It is a trap and they are fully aware of what they are doing.

U can register 100 bet9ja account they will not stop u, but when u want to withdraw, then u will know they know their term and condition rules

dejavusayso:
Why was the account not shut down when i was playing and was paid when the winning was small ?

They can't set terms and conditions that they can enact when it pleases them. They should have prevented me from playing from onset.

Waiting for people to win big before you apply your term and conditions is the biggest fraud ever. It should be applicable for placing a bet and small wins. Unless they are saying their terms is not binding to them as an organisation and it is only applicable to customers only.

Oga u kill urself by urself.

dejavusayso:
So if i had not win i would have been allowed to continue playing and they would have kept making money, to them then no terms was broken. I have had the account for months and no single complaint from them as long as i kept playing and was losing and they were making money.

They are being fraudulent and smart at the same time.

Who won't want to pay 100k instead of 2.2m!

Account goes into check when u request for withdrawal ok

dejavusayso:
Update*
Got a new mail from them that says i broke the terms and conditions for multiple account due to the previous account i deleted.

The account were deleted via the option given on their mobile site.
What else was i suppose to do after deleting it ?.

U deleted it from bet9ja system or from ur phone? Cos am not understanding u saying u selected ur old account.

kenzysmith:
before u said what abouynow?

Bro signing a noone Black players into ur club as nothing to do with racism, cos u can't tell a club owner who to sign or not,

dejavusayso:
My name is Oladimeji, i placed a bet with bet9ja on the 20th of April 2021 and fortunately i won the sum of 2,210,150. It is important to note that i have had account with them before, which i had deleted all in the name of quitting due to lack of wins. My present account has my sister's account number on it as my withdrawal account, which i had received a win from before (no form of objection from them). When i won the 2.2m i placed a withdrawal via the same account and the account wasn't credited, immediately bet9ja suspended my account and sent me a mail to send a form of identification and prove of deposit, i immediately sent my voters card and statement of account, which they acknowledged they have received and they said it would be sent to the appopriate department for resolution. To my greatest dismay, i got an alert of 100,300 naira this afternoon from them and i started wandering what it was for! It prompted me to call their customer care and i was told that the money was the equivalent of all i have used to play bet9ja, that my account has been permanently closed and my win forfeited. They said i broke a third party rule and yet i have received payment via that very account number and i was notified all this while till a big win came in.
Funny enough, they had my wins displayed on all their social media handles.

Very very dum of u, how can u register with ur sisters names and banks details, and u send ur own I'd for and bank details for verification, now wao, u Bleep up,

Bet9ja even good to return all ur deposit, bro u scam urself not bet9ja.

Burley has several Black players in under23 team and even their senior team has blacks on their team before now

Been seeing many post's and comments about the unforgivingness attitude people have been saying about the prophet ODUMEJE toward the late ADA Jesus, was is not true,

Some wicked people only posted the part of the video where ODUMEJE is angry saying ADA Jesus cost him pains and she seeing the consequences, but after some few minutes the prophet later calm down and forgave her, and gifted ADA Jesus with her families 1million naira.
Link below to the video.

https://www.facebook.com/holyghostintervention/videos/364295638224117/

ThePrincipal:
It is well. Liquid metal, you messed up big time! You refused to forgive when you would have been the hero. Anyway, all mortal being must taste death.

He forgave her na, he (liquid metal)even gave her and families 1million

oloyedewaris:
No mind them jare, go girl

Who be them??
Failures always thinking someone is always behind their failures, @dj cubby go work on ur mind, and improve on ur skills, ur father money can't give u talent. Grammy is for the talented