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[quote author=**osisi link=topic=253062.msg3641249#msg3641249 date=1237994371]Let me educate you little brother.
Any time any man forces himself on a woman without her consent,it is called rape.
period.
You cannot excuse it
You cannot condone it
There is absolutely no justification in this world for a man to touch, grope or have carnal knowledge of any woman uninvited.
I won't bother addressing provocative dressing because it didn't start today.
Our forefathers and their wives ran around covered in palm fronds.

Rape is not a crime of passion.
It is a saddistic,selfish crime of power and subjucation.
It has absolutely nothing to do with love.
It's impossible to claim to love someone and inflict them with untold pain that could last them a lifetime.

Do you know that women have committed suicides,ended up in mental institutions because of rape?
Do you also know that some have gone on and lived in shame with poor self esteem the rest of their lives for being violated in such a way
do you know what poor self esteem can do to a woman?
Statistics tell us that most prostitutes and women who settle in abusive relationships were raped as some point in their growing lives.
This is no subject to be trivialized my brother.
one in three women at some point are victims of rape or sexual assault
That's a huge number.
One out of every 3 female responding on nairaland could be a victim.
Think about that
Do you have a mother,sisters,aunts, female cousins,daughters?
One in three,I say
This is no laughing matter

If you forget everything I said,please always remember this phrase,I used prior and I repeat

There is absolutely no justification in this world for a man to touch, grope or have carnal knowledge of any woman uninvited.[/quote]very well said

lol

My president is black ~ young jeezy ft nas

nothing oo. me like ma body so very much. so no changing anything for me.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]What does 'wrap' mean?[/color]

it's used to preserve the hair the next day. so no messy hair


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[quote author=na2day? link=topic=271905.msg4020610#msg4020610 date=1244841448]we are forbidden in our dna to do any kind of house work [/quote]thats more reason why you men should give allowance to those who do it

chamotex:
After you embezzled NL fortunes, you decided to resign.
Mismanagement of Funds right?

where have u been since

really miss ya

welcome back jare, hope all is well

MrCrackles:

your own crackles is bitter jor. ma crackles biscuit is very yummy

shortbread, digestive and crackles

they store it in a swiss bank

that thing is ugly abeg

@ poster

i remember you on that thread. listen dear, dieing will not and will never solve any of your problems, so just get of your mind off that. you should consider yourself lucky and blessed even when things are worse for you. because there are many people who you are 100 times better than even with your burns. do you know that there are many people who have burns allover their body, who cant talk, walk or do anything but just stare in into the white ceilings? there are many in your condition who were never able to experience what it means to love and be loved by someone. there many people who are very lonely that they would want someone just to hi to them? but you, even though you had the burns you are still able to love, walk, talk, and do some many things other people find every hard to do, so instead of focusing on your burns and bad lucks count your blessings and be strong for yourself.

i know it hurts when a relationship goes sour it's never easy either is it the end of the world. it's all part of that learning process in life. your bf wasn't there in my opinion to love and appreciate you for who you are, but he was there for some other reasons unbeknown to you and once he got, he checked out. sad, but it's not the end of the world. and this breakup really took a toll of your self esteem and self worth. which is what you need to work on right now.

building up your self worth and self esteem is your next step. forget about your burns, and your lost bf and focus on rebuilding your self worth up. it's not going to be easy but it's not impossible. every woman is beautiful and you are too and don't let your burns hinder you from seeing your true beauty. they are many people without legs and hands still they love every part of their body and their confidence shines through.

where there is breath, there is hope. never give up. have confidence in yourself and stop thinking about what your life would have been with the burns and start thinking and acting on what your life needs to be now. a nice man who truly loves you and appreciate you will come by if only you have confidence in yourself and your ability.

@ MC

honestly, i would do the both. first i would limit the time they spend together and see if anything changes and if not, i will frankly but in a subtle way tell my best friend/close family i don't quite like the way her child is behaving especially around my child. my child is always my first priority and wouldn't sacrifice that. if the best friend is actually a good person, i would think she wouldn't get annoyed but instead take into consideration my observations concerning her child and possibly work on it. actually i have being in similar a situation before.

no they are not. albeit, society makes them believe they are.

I'd love to play piano and a guitar

you guys are taking this too serious now

ciao y'all

OgidiBoy:
Can we at least see her picture so we ascertain were you got your beauty from.

blessed are those who have not seen but yet believed

FL Gators:
@Acid
Love oshi wo?
Ogbadun at all.
Yes, I'm very jealous. Okpurete

lol !

lol

@ C2 and OgidiBoy

i look like ma great great grand grand mother. and she's sexy too