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@Acidrop

No sweetheart, I am not Nigerian. Sorry if you are one of the people who thought I was but most people in Nairaland know who I am. I don't go out of my way to introduce my self as a proud African American but now you know. I am African American and proud to be.


I have a Diasporan attitude which is not realistic to some continent born Africans but oh well, I still keep that attitude.

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@Amerinaja

As u can see from my quote i tried to make AAs remember where they came from.

African Americans know who they are, they know their roots and they know where they came from. They don't need the likes of you to remind them. If they picked on you it is because they sense deep down that you are who you are, which is an African who swears up and down that Africans Americans are below you.

your following comments show that you are pissed off,

If you think that is pissed off, you don't know me at all. Compared to what Iam capable of, everything that I have said in this topic was pretty darn mild.

One really shouldn't be soo upset about bejarano coming here requesting Nigerian girls but if one is to be upset, I would expect that from a Nigerian!

I keep telling you I was not upset, you keep saying I was upset because that is your excuse to harp on the fact that I am not Nigerian. I am glad you are a proud Nigerien but be proud to be Nigerian and don't let your pride steep over into insulting me by accusing me of wanting to be a Nigerian. I am proud to be who I am, nothing more, nothing less. If the topic was about African American women, I would have had no problem with a Nigerian woman saying the same things I said, you know why? To me, in terms of ethnicity, no matter which part of the map a black woman of African descent is on, she is a black woman of African descent, nothing more, nothing less.

Your opinion is welcomed but not your animosity.

There was no animosity at all, just in your prideful mind. As I said before, this is just your way to harp on the fact that I am not a Nigerian woman.

Knowing that you are not Nigerian, what made you so upset at bejarano's offer? Was it that you weren't Nigerian yourself??

Please, you wish.

plus, i clarified that u were not Nigerian b/c many people thought u were and replied to your comments as so.

This really goes to show that you don't know you are talking about and as a matter a fact, I just tripped on the amount of times you have posted in nairaland. You rarely visit hear, if you did, you would know that most of the people besides you who have contributed to this topic, they know who I am. None of them thought I was a Nigerian, only you, which really shows that your beef with me is that I am not a Nigerian. You poor thing, you really need to hold onto something, don't worry, I am not trying to steal your nationality, not at all, I have my own.

So did bejarano I thought it was necc. to reveal u weren't.

You didn't reveal anything, if you had been paying attention which for your pride you were not, Mr Bejarano had already told me his self that I was not Nigerian so this subject had nothing to do with me, he even knew before you that I was not Nigerian. You are a late bloomer because you are a newbie hear who is trying to start some tribalism between the African American woman and the Nigerian women.

You are clearly the hypocrite questioning my name as "Amerinaija' while you call yourself an "african American.'
I am 100% Nigerian raised in America. I have every right to call myself AmerNaija.
And let me school you a bit. Many, if not all, Nigerians think of themselves as Nigerians FIRST then as an African. A Nigerian (or any other African for that matter) will never introduce themselves as being from Africa. They will tell you 'I'm Nigerian" or 'I'm Senegalese." The only time they will say "African' is if they think the person they are speaking to is ignorant enough not to care/or know what country they are talking about.

Whatever, do me a favor and shut the phuck up saying anything to me or about me. You sound so stupid and petty, like a child. You are really not worth my time. I said what I had to say and now I will suggest to you that you visit more often before you make your screwed up false claims about me or anyone else.


Take care

@AmeriNaja

i would biasley say that AAs are to blame. Growing up here as a first generation american, my family were made fun of. Calling me 'african booty scrather" and making fun of your name and please, let not your parents speak in their native language in front of them. they would either look at u in disgust or make fun. AAs did this.

When i proceeded to tell them they were african too, they would scream, 'no way!' Now all of the sudden they want to be african and know where they came from. No hate to my AA sisters and bros, but really, the cause of the divide started from the same prejudice they gave to us that was given to them by whites.

Judging by the above, I would say you are one of the biggest hypocrites around. You are angry with African Americans for being ignorant and picking on you as you say when you first came to America. You say they did this because they were exhibiting what was done to them by white people so you seem to understand why they were so ignorant. However, me as an African American who is in this topic giving my opinion, you say I am not entitled to that opinion because I am not Nigerian, you make me laugh. How hypocritical of you to come down on me for not seeing my self as different from Nigerians yet you say you told African Americans they were African just like you? Let me tell you, those African Americans you claim you told that to, , they already knew they are African, they were just having some fun at your expense which was pretty mean but it's no different from how Nigerians come down on African Americans like you have just done to me. You don't really want African Americans to have it both ways like you allow yourself to be American and African at the same time. When you told them they were African too, You were just talking a good game when it was time for you to play the intelligent one. Hypocrite you are. You are the kind of Nigerian that would deny African Americans any part of their African Ancestry because you yourself takes part in what the white man has deprived you of and exploited you out of in your own country, that is why you are here in America and don't tell me colonialism is a thing of the past.

@AmeriNaja

all i have to say is that 'Sista' is real pissed about this thread and she's not even Nigerian,

What makes you think I'm pissed off? This subject is not anything for me to be pissed off about. I was just having a little fun with the desperate man.

Also, what does my not being Nigerian have to do with anything? At least I know I am not Nigerian. You on the other hand seem to want to have it both ways. Your not American but you would like to think that you are by refering to yourself as AmeriNaja. I don't care if you like to call your self that name but don't go talking about I am not Nigerian and because of that I shouldn't be saying what I have been saying in this topic.

I keep telling everyone I don't think of Nigerians as Nigerians first, I think of Nigerians as Africans, black people an extension of me and I am an extension of them. Also, I am proud to be an African American and all that entails. I was born and bred here and I also have a bunch of loving family that is here with me and been here with me since I was born, I'm not trying to trade all of that in to become a Nigerian, nothing would be that serious for me to give up what has made me who I am.

uspry1 what is there to explain again he has explained more than once.
Sista are we all not desperate when it comes to matters of the heart?
Everyone has preferences not so?

Do you really think true or real love comes from desperateness?


And why are you only picking on me? I am not the only one who said this man is desperate. People always find it convenient to pick on me and not the other people who have said the same things I have said, why is that?

Yes, as I said, this man is desperate.



https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-43111.0.html

chai me and my big mouth

it's okay next time you will know what to do

please try and seduce this guy and find out the truth for all of us please i beg you on behalf of the whole of nairaland Grin

You should have emailed me asking me to do this, that would have been fun. It's to late now because you have let the right hand know what the left hand could be up to.

@acidrop

he just despreate 4 nigerian gurlz, but i wonder y he chosed nigerain gurlz though, abi he get plans

Now your getting somewhere. I have asked him to tell us over and over why he chose Nigerian women but he won't tell. Not only that, he says Nigerian people do not live where he lives so how does he get the chance to know if a Nigerian woman are really what he loves if not from hearsay, stereotypes in other words? I am sure some of his British friends have Nigerian wives and he probably envy's them. Now he comes to Nairaland in a desperate plea. Babiosisi says he is 100% Nigerian so maybe he is trying to pull some other type of scam outside of just plain old being desperate to fit in with the rest of his British fellowmen who have Nigerian wives.

Please, stop repulsing me and making my flesh crawl by trying to hook me with that desperate guy.

Also why do I love Nigerian women? None of your damn business! Why should I tell you, give me one reason why you should be party to the information?

I'm not the only one who wants to know. You have ignored the other people who have been suspicious of you to tend to dear sweet me. You have used me as your scape goat to redirect the attention away from false, lying, up to no good, desperate and hormonal bejarano, over to racist Sista which you conveniently refer to me as. The Redirection skills you have acquired must have come form the tricky little British you live amongst but you don't fool me at all and there are many more of us who you do not fool.

not all english people are white! they are all mixed up somehow somewhere

I don't need you to tell me this and I sure don't need you to tell me how to stick up for black people but thanks any way


Next time read fully before you jump in, what you think you have comprehended from your brief skimming of the last page is way off.

Below are two separate quotes of yours.

White ancestry.

Nowhere and I mean nowhere, can you say I claim full white ancestry!

I'm white, English, 35 years old. 6ft 2ins tall and in good shape!

Your words, not mine.



As for your hormonal rage, I understand how it is for a Hot man when it seems as though someone may default his on line game in his attempt to meet a Nigerian woman. As you can see, you have managed to win some of the people in hear over so I don't think I messed up your desperate chances, if you have any chances.

How about that, he read some of my history in Nairaland and now he has got on his clown suit.

Sista,

Why are you a hating, stupid, racist bigot? It is now the 21st century and I think most people have got to a point now that to hate someone because of their colour is pathetic, ignorant and sad. Yup you are all three. You seem to tell what colour I am judged on a black and white photo so that makes you stupid.

Hey dummy, if I was to judge by your photo, I would say you are not handsome at all, you look like you have a pot belly. Do you think Nigerian women like pot bellied, wish they were fully white, men? I forgot to add, fake British.

Being English.

You can be English and black, you can be English and mixed race. Yes, you can! When I say I'm English it means I was born and brought up there. It has nothing to do with my bloodline or my ancestry.

Yeah sure, only one thing, you made it a point to say you are English white, then you slipped in the British part, stop trying to play with words. You could have just said you were British or English but you made it a point to say you are white and you posted your picture, I guess to prove something. It wasn't until someone exposed your Latin roots that you told the whole truth.

I'm English and British and my mother is from Peru. Its a really simple concept to understand, even for a thick, racist bigot like you!

How about British and Peruvian, why do you keep leaving out your poor mummy who birthed you when it comes to claiming your racial status? White people have it good huh, you want the easy life so you will use your pass status? You may fool the British but you don't fool the people in this forum.

Being White.

As for being white, you have no idea till you see a photo or see me in real life what colour I am.

Hey slowpoke, you keep forgetting, it was you who said you are a white English, then you slipped in the British and you posted your black and white photo as so called proof.

Like Jade Goody, Cameron Diaz, Nicole Ritchie, Ryan Giggs
you can be white skinned and be of mixed race. I have dark skinned relatives who I'm proud of and who I love and I also have white realtives who I'm proud of and I love but they are all have one thing in common and thats our shared mixed race genes!

Yes, but for convenience, you only claim your British white ancestry. Again, you left out your mummy.

There is a big clue about if I'm proud of my Latin roots or not. My login name! It is Spanish and my mothers maiden name!

Yippee, you could have shared that story in the beginning when you stated that you are a British white. Mind you, you didn't say you were just British, you made it a point to say you are white. Do you think Nigerian women are hot for British white men or something?

I described myself as white whereas you used the word 'black' to errenously make an incorrect pre-judgement on the kind of women I like.

Bull shyt, and you know it. I used black to show you how you are only here desperately chasing Nigerian women. Why else would your topic be "I love Nigerian women" Then you turn around and say this is not a black only forum yet, if you were not a bigot your self or a racist your self, you would have just said "I love Women" [/b]You know this forum caters to Nigerians who happen to be black people, if you really feel this is not a Nigerian site only or black only site, [b]why are you specifically trying to get with Nigerian women in this forum? How come you don't just like women as opposed to Nigerian women. You think you are flattering Nigerian women, not a pot belly like you. Your up to something, maybe you want to see if the stereo types of Nigerian women are true. You don't even know Nigerian people, you say you have encountered them in your travels and Nigerians don't live where you live. In your short encounters, what has brought you to say these words
"I love Nigerian women" Did you think that would flatter them (Nigerian women) into considering you? You still have not shared with us what is so special about Nigerian women to you that you must come here to specifically request a Nigerian woman.

Is Nairaland a black forum only?

You compare me on here to a Nigerian going onto a 'white forum' where does this 'white forum' exist? Stormfront.org prehaps? The BNP website or maybe the KKK has a forum on their website? Are you trying to equate this site with some white supremacist site?

No but that is what you are trying to do. There are many white sites that are not geared towards racism but for your convenience in this matter, you would like to believe different. You sure have learned how to play with words and play with situations, the British tought you very well.

It is not what it says on the homepage it says Nairaland 'For Nigerians and Nigeria lovers' which could mean anyone of any race!

Nigerian lovers eh? So you love Nigerians yet you only occasionally see them when you travel and more than likely you are not seeing them for long periods of time. You still have not told us what you love so much about Nigerian women when you hardly ever encounter them. Please share with us, what do you love so much about Nigerian women? Forget your rants, tell us something that will convince us that you are not trying to pull a fast one. What do you know about Nigerians women that off sets them from other women to make you so attracted to them that you are in search for them in a forum that caters to Nigerians.

@Bejarano

As you well know Nigerian women are everywhere. Lots of them in the states and a lot of them in London but not the part of the country where I live!
As we all know Nigerians tend to live in London. I don't love Nigerian women over anybody.

Then why are you here at a Nigerian forum specifically looking for a Nigerian woman? What are you going to do, fly a Nigerian woman to your home town? You seem rather desperate.

Tell me where I said I prefer Nigerian women over Peruvian
women or women of any other nationality? I don't so stop making assumptions of what I mean. I like the ones I have met and I would like to meet one now!

You still have not told us what you like about Nigerian women? If you are not a bigot or a racist as you have called me, for you a women would just be a women right, no matter the color or nationality right? So why are you specifically looking for a Nigerian women, what is it about her that you like? What makes her any different from the women where you live?

And say I had a preference. So what? What the hell has it got to do with you? You may be a racist and a bigot as in regards mixed race relationships

Oh look, he went and read some of my other postings, Ha ha ha. That does not evade the fact that you think it will be easy for you to pick up a Nigerian women in this forum sense you obviously have not had any luck with the Nigerian women you claim that you have seen during your travels. Your so funny, ha, ha, ha. Not only are you funny, but you are also very desperate. I have seen it all, a Latin mixed claiming to be straight up British white until someone points out that he is not totally white.

but I have no problem with anyone dating anyone regardless of colour or where they are from. Where have I mentioned the world 'black' I haven't, you are the first person to bring up the skin colour as in regards my preference,

Sweet heart, if you can start your post with saying you are a British white, when you are clearly of mixed race, I can say the word black. What is good for the goos is good for the gander. Don't get mad and please come with something better than the desperate crap you are spouting.

there has been others calling me white boy but I don't care because a lot of you are showing yourselves up to be the racist, ignorant bigots that you are. We all like to think that racism is the white mans disease but if a Nigerian person did come onto a British forum and wanted an English lady and was referred to as black boy, called a liar and told to stick with their own kind they would be referred to as racist pricks.

Any Nigerian or black person period going into a white forum expressing that they want a white person to date is suffering with self hate just as you are. Hell, you couldn't even acknowledged your Latin roots from the start, your Latin roots had to be probed out of you. Don't you know, Nigerians were colonized by the British, they know a real British man or woman when they see one.

All I have done is metioned nationality. You then come out with your racist rhetoric about people sticking with their 'own kind' something I expect some ignorant KKK member or BNP member to come out with and I expected better from people on this forum.

I said it was strange that you were looking for someone of a different color and nationality because it was clear from what you said, that you don't see Nigerians where you are at so you are not used to their nationality and culture. Which brings us back to this, why have you not told us what you like so much about Nigerian women? I think you are just trying to be like the rest of the elite white British men who have Nigerian wives, you just want to fit in, [b]Mr. White British [/b]as you call your self.

This is a Nigerian website. Not a 'black' website,

Nigerian is black sweetheart, you can try to separate the two but it will never work. Take your separatism back to your British country where it is clear that you separate your self from your own people for the sake of acceptance. I feel sorry for your mum, you don't even claim her, that is a shame.

I live in a free country and if I decide to date Nigerian, Ghanaian or Icelandic women then thats my damn right as a free citizen, and if you don't like it then you know where to stick your racist, bigoted opinions!

Yes, you live in a free country where you can choose to be totally British and not Latino what so ever. You are a fraud and a desperate fake British man.

Babiosisi


Yes of course, he is a fake and not just because he is white, or thinks he is white,LOL

@Amerinaja

Sadly, it seems all the 'nail him to the cross' action has to do with the way some of u are viewing us as Nigerians. When men talk of their love for Asian girls, it understandable. When they say 'oooh, i like those indian girls', there's no suspecting. But someone comes here and say he digs Nigerian girls (not to say there aren't any 419ers), and we got the witch forks out. Are we not understanding of our own hotness, beauty, class, and aura?

Your argument does not make any sense being that Asian girls are spoken about as Asian girls, not Chinese girls or Japanese girls same thing with Indian girls and so forth. Nigerian women would fall into the category of black women so what this man is doing is no different from a white man claiming to exclusively like black women only. He is just trying to get next to the Nigerian black woman for what ever reason. He say's he passes for an English man in the eyes of other white people so maybe he knows many English men with Nigerian women and he wants to fully imitate them by getting a Nigerian woman for his self. In other words, he wants to get in on the same action as his fellow English white men who have Nigerian girlfriends or wives.

I don't see what I have put up thats hateful, My mother as fact has it was/is a nationally renowned beauty back in her home country of Peru.
Who is more like me? I have equal amounts of British and Hispanic blood. My mother and father have been married 37 years so your argument about having a partner representing your culture is hogwash as is your comment about my grandmothers because one was British and the other was from Peru and thus came from two greatly different cultures.

Because there isn't any Nigerian women where I live doesn't mean I haven't traveled all over the world and met them on my travels.

A Nigerian woman is not Peruvian, British or of Hispanic descent.

You say you have traveled all over the world, which part of the world did you travel to and meet with Nigerian women? If you met them as you claimed, you still have not told us what is so special about them that you prefer them over a British, Peruvian or Hispanic woman. Tell us, what have you learned in your travels about Nigerian women which has made you become so interested in them, to the point that would make you come and post that you want to meet Nigerian woman. I think it is very suspicious when a person who goes out of their way to meet up with a specific type of woman that is no where near what you are used to and no where near what your own people look like. Me as a black woman going over to a white website posting a picture of me saying I think white men are hot would be like I am exploiting my blackness, hoping that there are white men out there who will want me because I am black. After all, I would only be wanting them because they are white right? Other wise, i would not have gone to the white website to state that I think white men are hot and then posting my picture with my black face.

You did something worse than that, you came here and stated that you are white English, you forgot to add that your own mother is Latin until someone pointed out that you didn't look White English. You thought you could pass as pure white and you seemed to try and use that to your benefit. What, did you hear that Nigerian women really go for the English white men?

@Bejarano

I'm not a 419!!! Why on earth would a 419 scammer scam Nigerians?

No, I'm genuine. Whats with all the hate?

There are Nigerian commnunities in certain parts of London but not where I'm from.

I'm not Mexican, my old lady is from South America so you are on the right track.

Anyway, if any of you ladies are interested. Please get in touch

I don't know what you are but it is clear that you are not black. Why it is that non black people are quick to tell black people that they are acting hateful? Sounds like you are trying to make us black people in nairaland feel bad by turning things around.


From what it looks like, you are the one who is hateful, why do you want to get with Nigerian women particularly, what is it about them that intrigues you so much that you would prefer one of them over someone who is more like you? After all, you were raised by a woman who represents your culture and where you come from, aren't you proud of them? I am sure you have grandmas and aunts who loved you and they represent who you are, they were not Nigerian. So, what is it about Nigerian women that you crave? After all, you said you are in a location where you can't meet up with Nigerian women so how do you know anything about them if you rarely see them?

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