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@WesleyanA


I really miss you. You are all grown up now. I remember when you were 16. I miss you.

@Londoner

I think it really depends on which type of person you are. I grew up wanting to live in America, but after spending months there and travelling around, it made me appreciate the UK. People from the UK tend to have their own minds and opinions. I find the average American to be like a zombie, they are told what to think and are waaaay too emotional for me.

I do think that America is definately the place for more opportunity whatever the field.

Interesting analysis, emotional and zombie like people are able to somehow cultivate a country full of opportunity, wow!  

I can't stand US TV though, they tend to talk down to the viewers which I find patronising. They don't promote thought or personal development, they are more interested in grooming simple minded consumers,

Another Interesting one, who would have ever thought that a place full of a lot of opportunity, would also be the place that is  full of simple minded consumers? Tell me this, Who are those patronizing, consumer, TV people, capitalizing on?

sorry I find Americans to be very dull where conversation is concerned and very insular, as they shun exposure to anything outside America and are proud of their ignorance. The quality conversations I had in America were not with Americans, but people from Europe/Asia etc.

And who would the Americans be?

Also, I think blind patriotism in the US stunts Americans, they never seriously question their leadership , in the UK we do this all the time, we see it as our right.

Has this guy ever been to America, let alone stayed in America?

I prefer the European way of life when it comes to family, I feel too many Americans are striving for the dream that they neglect family life, always trying to keep up with the Jones's whereas in the UK people tend to march to the beat of their own drum when it comes to home life, we prioritise family more.

Who would those UK home life people be? you have already stated that Asians and Europeans in America are not Americans.

I dislike the Uk weather and the fact that its too expensive and you have too work much harder to see what you are working for

The UK is more expensive yet they have no form of mind control or zombie like people to capitalize on? Who is questioning that? Unlike the Americans who do not question their leadership?

For me it would have to be a black man. I would like for him to be African American because we share the exact same struggles but a black man from any where on the map would do me good. I have dated a Nigerian, Malian, South African, Congolese and of Course many African American men. The only difference in my opinion is where all these men came from and how where they came from affects how they treat a woman. For the most part, they all felt as though I should be more obedient.

The Nigerians blatant altered ego was, I am king.

The Malians Altered ego was kind of twisted. One minute praying to Allah and then the next minute lying his azz off about everything.

The South Africans altered ego was co- dependency.

The Congolese mans altered ego was, to play innocent, and in distress while in- directly and attempting to co hearse the woman to do all those things to him he had heard American women do.

Last but not least, the AA mans altered ego was, to always be ahead. In other words keep a spare woman no matter what. Insecure.


The above is not a blanket statement it's just my opinion based on experience.

Leilahs entire post didn't make any sense at all. It sounded like one contradiction after contradiction.

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