@teeirl

Thanks for your well thoughtout and put together reply.

Your welcome

Firstly i described my daughter as STUNNING because it is exactly what she is and i highlighted black and white as it is the mix of the two races that has her so STUNNING looking,

As I said you were in fact saying.

She could not have been that Stunning and Gorgeous if her parents were not a white woman and a black man verses her being pure black. Thank you for making that even more so abundantly clear.

Its your government that has made Nigeria what it is as they are greedy and corrupt so don't be trying to point the finger of blame elsewhere.

It was the greedy white colonizers who stole from Nigeria for several as they practiced direct rule in the name of democracy and when they left they attached a financial debt to Nigeria that would never be able to be repaid. How you gonna give the people you stole from a debt to pay because now they are forced to try and keep up with the corrupt system(westernization) you yourself invented? It is easy to tell a child not to take candy from the candy jar but if you leave the candy jar unattended, that child is someday going to try and steal a piece of candy. Falling into temptation is normal especially if you have been robbed of everything. If you don't believe me, just ask your white ancestors, better yet, they left enough evidence behind in the history books of how they have gone around the world stealing and creating strife amongst the people they stole from.

You mentioned why did the Nigerian guy not marry me what makes you think i want to be married can't you co habit and live a good family life without been married HuhHuh?

You mean phuck? lets call it what it is. Deep down that is all you want is a good forbidden phuck and that is exactly what you get. You don't really love a black man, you just like the way he makes you feel. You will never be able to totally connect with a black man. Spiritually, Mentally and Emotionally, you will never connect and therefore, the sex is nothing but a fantasy for you and the black men you screw. I have talked with many African men who sya they enjoy sex with a white woman but when I ask them if they connect with the white women they screw, they always say no. Of course testosterone rules over the mans head so he will pleasing over something more fulfilling. Of course over the years he lives to regret such a choice.

Hey, you ever seen any elderly mixed couples?

MY personal preference is Black

I'll bet it is but love sees no color eh? Yet you only seek out relationships with a man who's skin color bares black or brown.

thats why i did not mention other races but i have family and friends that have married white and there is no problem

Why would it be? Your family members are white as well. White on white should be easy. It may be boring but it should be easy.

i have friends that date indians and there is no problem and then others that that Black so therefore Love see no colour.

Lust sees no color.

If your partner treats you good regardless of the colour of his skin well then what the hell is the problem dating outside of your own race.

Uh, I see you are not that good of a writer. A ? should have gone at the end of that question. You have many mistakes through your post. Mistakes that a white woman should no better than to make.

Dating is all fun, marriage and procreation is another.

I have had silly taunts thrown at me for dating black men but as i said it comes from uneducated and ignorant people (balck and white people, )

Including yourself.

But why should i change the perference of what i like because it bothers others NEVER,

Why do you prefer a black man? Just keep it real. Tell us what is it about a black man that you love so much?

You also said that balck men will prefer black women maybe but not all of them alot of my male black friends said the could never go back to a black woman after experiencing relationships with a white lady so as it is a matter of PERSONAL PREFERENCE,

Like I said, love sees what it wants to see and it can see the truth or a lie. If it sees a lie that can't be true love don't you think? The black men tell you what they know you want to hear. If they were truly happy with you and you are not insecure, why would a conversation about them never going back to a black woman ever come up?

@teeirl

Oh my god what the hell is wrong with all you people in here LOVE SEES NO COLOUR,

This is the most idiotic white propaganda that keeps being handed down. Does love see ugly? If the black men you date were ugly, poor and homeless, you wouldn't bother to look at their hearts. Maybe you would still consider their Di-- but you wouldn't defend them as you do in terms of interracial dating and marriage. The truth is, love sees what it wants to see and what it sees can be a lie or the truth. Also lust sees what it wants to see weather it is the truth or a lie.

As far as love between a man and a woman goes, it is a different degree of love, not the lame love you describe.

I'm a white girl and have been datin black guys for the past 10 years

Why is that not suprising? Bottom line, you white women love black men more than you do white men and the white man is your father, brother uncle etc. You white women gave birth to and raised the white men you now turn your back on. Don't misconstrue the love I mentioned for true love. Believe me, I understand, the white man is the most boring and unattractive man on earth so I understand what you are going through. However, you are the white mans counterpart so that makes you just as unimportant as he is.

Weather you realize it or not, you are not color blind. Your color blind theory is only a ridiculous, not well thought out, justification, for screwing and having a baby by a black man just because you think having his child will keep him around and let us not forget, you wanted you a brown baby you could not produce with out a black seed. If you were really color blind as you say claim you are, tell us about the white men you dated in the past ten years? Tell us about the Asian men you dated in the past ten years? Tell us about the Hispanic men you opened your self up to date in the past ten years? Why is it only the black man you mentioned in your ten year dating that makes you color blind to love? The love you express is lame, you don't know what love really is. I love my father as well as other men in my family but hell, I don't want to procreate with them.

ok some comments do be made but hey these comments come from uneducated and ignorant people which there seems to be a few on here.

I hope you are including your self?

Ive an absolutely GORGEOUS mixed race daughter who catches the eye of every person not because of her colour but how stunnin she is (who was made from a BLACK man and a WHITE woman) !

Stunnin and GORGEOUS! What a choice of words to be used in describing your daughter. What? She could not have been as stunning or GORGEOUS if she were made by a black man and black woman? Verses being made by a "BLACK man an a WHITE woman" as you made clear to state and put the colors in all caps.

I've been to Nigeria and got a very warm welcome there from people but then there is those silly uneducated women who think we are stealing their men but ladies they come to us because u are all too MATERIALISTIC and love to you is the things they can buy you and money they give you,

Come to us? Who, white women? What you just said was a racist thing to say and it was quite taunting and ignorant. You don't sound as if you are really with black men for any other reason outside of the fact that he can't do any better with his natural black counterpart and so you volunteer to become second to the best. What are exactly you trying to prove?

I understand, once you have had it black, you will never go back. Whatever it takes to get your point across, you don't care what you say.

[b]
Who could be more materialstic than the white women and the white man? You people stole everything you have to show for and you stole much of that from Africa and African people. [/b]Please, stop pretending to be ignorant to that fact. African people just want a quality of life just like any normal human being would want but as a white women who is competing to keep her self a black man, you have to put down the competition. Let me tell you something. The competition is false. One of the many reasons being due to the fact that everything about white people in history and present is a lie. If not for Africa, Europe and Europeans would be nothing and there would be no America but where do we read that truth at in our history books written by white people?

If a Nigerian woman wants to have what a white woman has, she is by right entitled to have it. After all, it was her land and people that was robbed by the people (White people) who now profit from past and present exploitation of Africa and African people.


If you knew your history and you were not as ignorant as you accused the people in this topic to be, you would acknowledge that it is your people who put Nigeria in the present state that it is currently in and this was done under the guise of "Democracy". Nigerian women would like for their men to provide for them, nothing is wrong with that. On the other hand, with your being white, your forefathers and your present fathers made sure that as long as you have white skin, at the expense of black people, you would always have your lively provisions for as long as you live. If the black men you date need a vacation from the struggles they have as a black man, you would be the perfect escape route. The love you think you experience with them is nothing but lust fueled by escapism. The love is not real. As one of the sista's said, why haven't any of those black men married you? I am sure you will come back with some BS to back that question up with.

Who cares the hell or trouble you will catch or meet LOVE can overcome all this.

This is the problem you white people have, you connect love to total sacrifice. True love to you is total sacrafice but not on your white behalf. For a black person to show he is not a racist towards white people, he has to be willing to sacrafice his life in the name of that evil word "Racism" He or she has to die to prove that he loves white people. I can't tell you how many black men were lynched for walking down the street with a white woman or so called "wreckless eyeballing" a white woman. Why would a woman who claims to love a man be caught walking down the street with a man who can be killed for being with her? Especially if she claims she loves him? White woman are so insecure that it makes them selfish. They don't have a problem with a man risking his life for them. Is that really love? Sounds sadist to me. Then again, who else would know better how to play the role of a sadist outside of white people? Just look at history and follow it up to the present.

Let me tell you something, I don't care how materialistic Nigerian women are, you will never as a white woman, have anything on a black woman accept for maybe your provisions and your willingness to cock your legs and mouth open at the site of a huge black ----!

Have you ever heard of settling for less? Deep down, a black man will always prefer a black woman.

@Sissimose

oh my goodness lmao sista Shocked two years? i don't think i can stretch that far sis. I most definitely will be doing it the natural way though Cheesy
I know who to come to for baby tips now lmao, you be expert mama Tongue Kiss bye

No problem, any advice about baby's that you need, I am hear for you. Although I breast fed for two years, I still made a lot of mistakes with my baby the first time around. Now that I run a daycare, I am sure that I don't make the same mistakes with the baby's I take care of. For instance, I make all baby foods at my daycare. I do not feed the baby's or any of the children who attend my daycare food from a can or a jar to much preserves and very difficult for the children to metabolize, not good for early health. The baby's get fresh juice I squeeze with my juicer and they get fresh vegetables I puree in my blender, the parents absolutely love it and so do the baby's. Any way, happy to hear about the new bun, you are so blessed. I know you are going to be a very good mother.

@Sissimose

SISTA
we seem to be on different time zones ''of course we are'' . I guess that's why you never on line when i am. oh well Cry Smiley
To answer your question,yes it is my first bun Grin yeah! and it is rising by the day ,so excited i am now officially ''a homebody'' any day now Smiley

see you later ,when next you and i happen to be on we should chat Kiss

A newborn bun or a bun on the way is always good news. I am so happy for you. Yes, that is to be expected, your turning into a home body and all, you haven't seen anything yet, wait till the fresh bun gets here. LOL

Don't be afraid of the change that will take place with your body as well as your emotions. A new bun is always the beginning of a new enhanced woman. As sweet and smart as you are, an enhanced you will be something to look forward to.

As far as the time zone goes, we have been on line at the same time before it's just that lately I don't get enough time to spend on line, I have a lot of work to do through the week and when the weekend gets hear, I just want to rest. I came on today though because I knew I would have some nice post waiting and I was right.


P.S, I hope you are going to breast feed for as long as possible. These formulas are not good for our little beautiful black buns. I breast fed for two years and I wish I had went longer.



@Babyosissi
@WsleyanA


Don't you just love love?

Thanks for your compliments, you two are very much so at the top of my love list.


I am so happy

I am just fine sweet heart and you?

I see you are still hanging in there with Nairaland and Nairalanders. It's a tough job but someone has got to do it, wouldn't you agree?

@Acidrop

@sista, i have been giving out that shout, and my throat wan tear, u never still notice me

I notice you baby, trust me I do. Don't tear up your throat, I hear you loud and clear and I got nothing but love for you


@Sisimose

hello sista mi.
we are here o! where have you been? anyway i too have been away from here, been busy , i got a bun in the oven
chat to you soon

Thanks for sharing the wonderful news.

I am so happy to hear about the bun in the oven. If the father of the bun is as beautiful as the mother, that bun is going to be gorgeous.

Will this be your first bun?

You guys know who you are, I love you all so much and I really miss you all.


Any of my nairaland friends out there? If so, please give a shout out and let me know you still exist.


Naija4eva, where are you?

African women can become and have become baby mamas as well.