₦airaland Forum

Jakarta:
Work on your low self esteem. If life was all about the color of your skin Olusegun Obasanjo will be working in the zoo attending to apes, and chimpanzees till now. Stella would have screamed blood of Jesus, I bind and rebuke on sighting him for the first time.

Ofunaofu:
Nobody’s asking for a handover...just wondering why the captain keeps leaving the ship during a storm.

shortgun:
She looked better before. I don’t understand why some people insist on selling the idea that looking good or healthy is only when someone is slim and skinny like bag of bones

Maybe the real truth is this:
Sex is only special when both people bring something to the table not just their body, but their energy, awareness, and effort.

lexyman:
I understand the building was constructed with brick, and brick is known for being highly fire-resistant. Before any decision is made to demolish it, the structure should be evaluated by qualified structural engineers to determine its true integrity after the fire. This isn’t like many modern buildings — it was built over 50 years ago by experienced professionals — so a proper structural assessment is essential before deciding its fate.


may the people that lost their means of livelihood recover from this great loss ... its sad !

SixSeven:
I am thinking along this line too. How did the committee quickly make this assessment to take the building down and why will a fire cause the building to be brought down? We need the media to look into this and let's hear what experts have to say. It does not make sense that the fire will cause a 25-storey building to be destroyed. Why is destruction and demolition our next line of action. What happened to reconstruction and repair. I don't want to believe that when they were building it, they did not think about fire. Also, there is no smoke without fire. If the building is brought down, the investigation is over. WHAT STARTED THE FIRE

Abroad that they like to copy, they will investigate this fire to rule out arson and someone trying to cash out from a fire.

Charly68:
Honestly it was a mistake. My take is his failure to stabilize the party while it's leaders were fighting..If he couldn't organize his party how would he able to organize Nigeria as a nation. Sincerely speaking he does not have the capacity that people assumed he carries

FarahAideed:
Getout with your meaningless diatribe 🤡🤡🤡

FarahAideed:
You can never have sense 🤡

realG101:
Each time I see people condemning persons who commit suicide, is see hypocrites.

Every human being was born with an innate drive for self preservation, meaning no one was born wanting to die.

For a person to reach a point where they decide to end it, it means they were in a state of great suffering and could no longer endure.

Who are we then to question their judgment when we are all selfish and would not have helped them if they cryied out for help.

Many people would rather leave Honorable than compound their problem by telling human beings who would not help anyway.

Suicide is a subject where I think nobody has the right to judge the victim. Only hypocrites will thing otherwise.

WhizdomXX:
In some schools it is 40. Also called loose them and let them go.

SixSeven:
It is not a sad reality. Although you have a lot of stories to tell for your age but this is the reality of life. Back then, mothers used to train their daughters to cook. You must know how to cook for your husband, the easiest way to get to a man's heart is is stomach etc. Women said that was patriarchy but today, women are free and they can see for themselves. They will call the man a d.o.g but the biology in him will activate. He will love that woman who can nurture, can care, can cook. When they tell women that men are not attracted by their money, position, strong independent woman and those things, they argue and sit with the simpletons who want to say the things they like to hear. What men say, women don't like to hear it at all. They like to argue to prove their point but real life is reality. Reality does not care about emotions. You gonna find out very soon, so I say to you, listen if you are wise, argue if you want to find out the hard way.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOCqAlmNQII


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sKNFj8GsTiI

Denko2721987:
Absolutely but at the end of the day, that may not stop one from dying horribly.. Life doesn't guarantee anything.. Take examples of Kobe Bryant, Wigwe, Pastor Myles, Abraham Lincoln, Anne Boyle, Pastor Bimbo and so many others who went through different phases of life, came out victorious but still died horrible deaths.. Life is deep, complex, strange and unpredictable and the more some people think about it the more it makes them see it in varying dimensions and perspective that may push them to such actions as suicide.

Denko2721987:
Oga some people just want to leave the world at the end of the day on their own terms iand not necessarily due to any burdens. I know it's difficult to understand but yeah, that's the reality and diversity of thought amongst different people. Not all suicide deaths are becos of depression.. Some people just probably figured within themselves that life has no meaning or that the are playing the chess games of divine beings who would just trash them in the dustin of the cosmos and decide to end that game after all none of us were invited before joining this game of life. Some people get fulfilled and then get bored and decide to end it. Some believe ending their current lives will reset them back into another via reincarnation and so forth. The proliferation of so many school of thought will give rise to deaths like this unfortunately.

DeepSight:
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You know nothing, Jon Snow.
I will not get into this subject with any closed minded person.

DeepSight:
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Shallow. You dont know anything about life.
Go and study the principles behind Euthanasia.

That said, everyone is perfectly entitled to decide they no longer wish to live.

grandstar:
That's a tough one.

I would most likely be in a nuthouse

I'm really serious.

grandstar:
It is best to leave a note. Loved ones will get closure.

If there should be a candidate for suicide, I should be no.1

I suffer from crippling social anxiety. I also suffer from trauma and depression. Many things stop me from taking my life iand one is the unbearable pain to your loved ones. It is also contagious. When another family member goes through difficult times, the next thing na sniper.

The prime reason why I stay alive is that the Bible assures us: "But God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear, but along with the temptation he will also make the way out so that you may be able to endure it." (1 Corinthians 10:13)

Since God will not allow us to be tempted beyond what we can bear, that means no suffering or temptation that I am presently facing is beyond what I can bear. So, why commit suicide? Taking one's life is equivalent of either calling Him a liar, or I lack faith.

He also assures us he will make a way out! That's the one I need to apply more.

For help with suicides, this article will help:https://www.jw.org/en/library/magazines/g201404/go-on-living-change/

Biodun1929:
In the end, the friends will forget about him and move on...but he is free now...free from the depression and all he was going through. If you dont want to be here anymore why he here and be miserable? If you feel his death will affect people, there will always be something that will make people sad in this world. But sadness is not permanent.

Vikto17:
You still speaking off topic,, if l have gotten what l wanted this post wouldn't have existed... you love younger girls l got u,, it is perfectly your choice,, by this time last year l was even more radical than u..
at 30yrs l don't date any girl above 23yrs ,, l pushed and insulted women in their 30s..
gradually the orientation is changing,, l want to get married and none of them met any of the standard on what l wanted...
l sat down make a good observation and come with my experience and the lie l have told myself instead countering it with a superior facts u are here turning everything upside down... using just one girl u met on nairaland ,,help this make sense to me?

LordReed:
May you never suffer what some of these people suffer because then you will understand that the struggle goes beyond finding a solution to external challenges. Do you think Robin Williams didn't overcome all the external challenges that came his way? Yet he faced a battle you will never understand if you don't suffer from the same or similar ailment. An ailment where you own body is fighting you every step of the way and not even in a way you can properly articulate to someone who is not suffering it.

I repeat, may you never suffer it.

dettolgel:
I once shared the same opinion, until I had the opportunity to live and work with people suffering from depression. Depression is not something you wish away, it is a brain disease and unfortunately if not handled properly will always lead to disastrous end.

Aside that, let me use your own logic - according to you "suicide is a selfish act..." So does guilting someone, who has taken stock of their own lives and come to the conclusion (I agree that it could be an erroneous conclusion) that there is nothing left for them. Isn't it selfish to force someone to live with such a mental agony for your own glorification? Let us not even go into the selfish act that surrounds the decision that brought the person into this world in the first place I would rather not tow the path of "selfishness" when describing the act of suicide, I would rather show more empathy for the victims and give hope to those in similar situation.

I would like to point out, that anyone suffering from depression or that have persistent suicidal thoughts, should seek professional help. It can be managed and you can once again live a fulfilled and pain free life.

Babalegba:
You don't have a clue,do you. How old are you really. Depression affects the brain directly and therefore the thinking process.
Somebody could lose all his wealth and family and still plug on because the cogitation apparatus is still intact but a man with family support and wealth could be a goner because of depression. When this is understood then workable plans could be implemented to help the victim.

dederocs:
If Africans love themselves and are communal, why so much political criminality, why so much embezzlement, why allow the poor workers suffer so much...stress of money can lead to self destructive acts. If we are good and care for one another, it will show in our nation, in equity and justice, welfare for the poor etc.

What I see is eye service and hypocrisy.

maasoap:
What are you ranting about, Mr? Why are you so enraged, yet lacking sympathy? Which one really concern you in all these?
He left message for his family, how did that become your burden because I don't understand? Oga go and rest