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olabrad:
Go and study Quran and bible before showcasing your ignorance here.

Compare the two with archeological and historical evidences; then ask yourself which one is truly abrahamic and which one is only pretending to be!

Until you study Quran and bible, please, keep quiet about Christiianity or Islam. It's not your turf

olabrad:
You accuse me of ignorance whole also showing your ignorance.

Since Jesus is in heaven, does it make any sense for anyone to say Peace be unto Jesus?! How can you pray for peace on someone who is already in heaven? Don't you lack knowledge yourself?!

If you properly investigate Islam, you'll see that it only claims to be abrahamic but it's far from being abrahamic
.Islam Only copied abrahamic religions, like Judaism and Christianity. A good research will show you that there is nothing abrahamic about Islam. Because I claim to be something doesn't mean I'm that thing.




I don't care what your religion or sect is. One certain thing is that you are too ignorant to discuss Christianity or Islam. Way too ignorant!!!

Gerhards:
I will advise you to stop crying on Nairaland everyday because of Iran terrorist government and please advise the coward uranium president to go and fight the United States military who has been waiting for him In the straight of Hormuz since 3 days ago😀😀😀

AMINDA:
Kogi is not Yoruba land but virtually all his appointment to the Northcentral have gone to the Yoruba speaking tribes of Kogi and Kwara only. No one have accused Tinubu of nepotism to the South as they did Buhari. They have only accused him of tribalism and cornering everything for himself and cronies.

Pastorsarynzay:
That's how you guys cheered iran into mess.
USA IS the world police. China and russia is aware of their position. Just last week putin point trump to Germany for preparing to produce nuke

olabrad:
A Muslim only depends a Christian when he wants to deceive people.


Islam plants hatred for Christianity and Christians in the hearts of Muslims.

He should keep his defending to himself

NairalandBishop:
Trump is not depicting himself as JESUS CHRIST, it's the fake news media. I know it's because of his beef with the pope and nothing more

OLOKOESHIN:
Trump wants to be worshipped like Jesus..OMG!!

codedguy1:
The US changed their minds from using military force to blocking any ship going to or coming from Iranian ports.

Its a better safer option.


Aa if , if they use mitary force Iran will not be the one to suffer more.


Ordinary 48hrs deadline they were sending citizens to go be human shield by their assets. Is that the best a superpower like Iran can do?

aydought:
Lagos government should find a way to sanitize that Ikeja Computer Village. Enough of duping innocent citizens in this Lagos city

Guestmale:
The problem with we parents of nowadays is that in attempt trying not to let our children pass through difficulties we their parents pass through while growing up,we are now overdoing it and also the western culture we are copying now make the situation even worse.

SixSeven:
@thrillionaire

Parents today think that giving their kids gadgets from an early age will make them smart but thank God there's AI now. We can now see that the old process of reading, writing and the traditional methods can never fail you. If I have any advice to a parent, it is to prevent their child from using smartphone and technology till they are 13. Parents today need to learn how to teach their children CONTROL. The dopamine is like hard drugs, we can't just see it. We are raising adults who will not be able to think critically anymore. You can see it here on Nairaland. Some people think it's cruise, it is not. A forum is a place to exchange ideas and thoughts. You can see those who read to understand and those who read to reply. They are rage baiting and want all the attention because the tech companies are controlling them, dangling tiger, dragon and other monetary benefits to them to CONTROL THEM.

The old parents back then controlled our TV. I miss those TVs in a box. Now, the smart TV is listening to you and curating what it wants to give you. Kids of that time are now parents today but they think they are going to parent differently by making the kids smart early through coding, gaming etc. Life is not a race, it is a journey. Give those kids the fundamentals of life before it hurts them in the future. A good example of why tech doesn't make you smart is the TikToker, I've forgotten his name. Pull out that channel and you'll see that there's nothing to offer anymore. But people are dangerously lured to the financial reward that they can't think long term.

SixSeven:
Parents are living vicariously through their children and it is becoming a menace. It is a lack of identity, a lack of self worth and an abuse on the innocent child who is not allowed to enjoy their childhood or youth with proper adult supervision. Don't take the attention away from the child, let the freaking child play in their own world and environment. Na agbaya de steal the show of pikin, letting these kids face unnecessary humiliation the following week when they have to compare their parents. Damn it! Small time nau, these parents will enter the changing rooms of the kids and we will start complaining about Sexual Abuse. Eediots

The phone is not helping matters but when you see a lot of adult behaviour in Nigeria, you can tell that many of them have unhealed trauma. It's not just a Nigerian thing, I know, but I can tell you that parents today have spent more time condemning their own parents' style of parenting more than they have done in the actual work of parenting their kids. I feel sorry for kids born today because in a few years, many of them will come on the internet and curse their parents for putting their lives on the internet without their permission, from the announcement of pregnancy to livestreaming their birth and opening a social media page for them before they had sense. The phone has really revealed the children in us. There is a time and place for everything.

SixSeven:
Money is good o but let me humor you a bit. You are planning for your children in Naira but they decide to pursue their future in Dhiram or Australia pound or let's say in 2065, the Sudanese pound is more than the British pound and your child goes there. Your child will not value all your hard work. What about children who do well than anyone in their generation has ever done?

The greatest gift to inherit from parents is not financial, but emotional and intangible, including unconditional love, presence, wisdom, and strong values. These lasting legacies shape a child's confidence and character, often considered more valuable than material wealth. Other key inheritances include a good reputation and a well-planned estate. Your plan is in estate but know that anything can happen to it.

Give your children intangible assets when you are available. During the Nigerian Civil War, the government made millionaires poor with a policy they passed. Some people have fled a country as rich people only to start their lives in a new country as refugees.

We tend to plan for life in the current image we have of it without realizing that we do not control the future we have a vision of


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7509956901187194118

Nobody serves a local dog with a golden plate, it will end up messing up the plate. I remember someone once said if you have children and none of them can say "my father used to say, my father said this, my father used to do this", then you have not lived yet.

Don't think I am a pessimist because generational wealth exists but I just want you to look at the larger picture. What are you living for?

SixSeven:
"The day the child realizes that all adults are imperfect, he becomes an adolescent; the day he forgives them, he becomes an adult; the day he forgives himself, he becomes wise."

While you are not responsible for the programming you received in childhood, as an adult, you are 100% responsible for fixing it, breaking dysfunctional cycles, and managing your own healing and growth. Though upbringing shapes initial behaviors, adulthood requires taking ownership to rewrite your narrative and consciously choose your actions. Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them, sometimes they forgive them." - Oscar Wilde. Don't take this trauma to your future relationships because you will continue to repeat the cycle instead of you learning from it and making your own life work. You will be trying to avenge your site your dad when he has a different personality, different state of mind, different age of love and marriage, different economy, different generation, and so on. You will be doing the work that wasn't given to you. You won't break free because you've made judgement on what you currently see.

"What an adult sees sitting, a child climbing on the tallest tree cannot see" - African Proverb. This means that a son may lack the life experience to see the true strength or wisdom behind his father’s choices.

SixSeven:
I also blamed the principal for not protecting their staff but if all that is reported is true, they said the principal recorded the video. That is one good thing I can commend the principal for. The thing with powerful people is that they get carried away by their might so maybe the principal is helpless (it is still wrong sha) and rather than do anything, they recorded it.

This is why people in the so-called abroad pick up the phone immediately. They record the incident because the person committing the crime go explain taya. That school needs to review their procedures. Disciplinary procedures, security and meeting procedures.


We still have a lot of baby parents from the comments I can read here. I read every page here and remembered that even though I was a good student, I got into trouble and absolved myself of blame then. So the people commenting about children are absolutely right, children do not usually accept responsibility because they don't have one yet. It is best to investigate what a child says as a parent instead of reacting emotionally. In your response as a parent, you have to remember that the kids are watching you too. I pity these parents because as they have done this, e fit be the boy uncle go chop beating tomorrow and the boy will expect the parents to defend him. Pikin wey de no train for inside, na for outside dem go teach am.

If the child was in Martial Arts, they will teach him the importance of discipline. It is not that you cannot react with your power but wisdom is more profitable to direct in situations of life. Wisdom is the teacher not responding to the beating but having the video as proof. Wisdom is the parent knowing they can beat the teacher but restraining themselves from that because of the child in front of them, the respect to the school, respect to the person and respect to the authorities. They could have spent that money suing the school after the incident but they chose the money miss road highway. Wisdom is the principal recording their behaviour and letting them know they are on camera. I heard when the parents were reminded and they replied like do your worst. Na the result of the worst be dis.

bolseas:
Yes.
But I will be the husband.

BlakKluKluxKlan:
But you were a terrible letdown for your ripple as governor.
It was a killing spree whilst you regularly went to Abuja to pay homage to Buhari while your people were being barbecued in their hundreds.

budaatum:
I am going to go to sleep like millions of Nigerians abroad will, and I am going to wake up in the morning, because one "Richmond Mensah, a father of one, went to sleep in preparation for a night shift and never woke up. He was just 33" does not in any way mean that I, at twice Richmond's age, and who has lived abroad longer that Richmond lived, would not wake up tomorrow because Richmond did not wake up, and any one who wants to scare me that I would not wake up would need to come kill me in my sleep themselves.

But quote me to see if I died please, because op has a point that you must:

Sleep! You need the rest wherever you may be.

Hangulsaram:
The number link to ur BVN can expire, how?

creativejagaban:
Poor boy!

How can phone number expire?

If your phone is lost, retrieve your phone number and life continues.

And you want a saner clime. Tueh.

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#CityBoyMovement

Status Quo Ante Bellum

♾️Tinubu till 2031.

SixSeven:
1. One-time phone number change

Under the new rules, customers can now change the phone number linked to their BVN only once in their lifetime. The policy targets rising cases of SIM-swap fraud, where criminals take over phone numbers to gain access to bank accounts.

Customers are therefore advised to link their BVN to a secure, long-term phone number—preferably one already tied to their National Identification Number (NIN).

This rule is nonsense. As much as it makes sense, it is not a long term thinking. We do not have permanent phone numbers. The number tied to my NIN can expire. People can and should have the right to change numbers any number of times they want. Nigeria should decide whether they are using NIN or not. A phone number should not be a personal identifiable number, it is even dangerous. The other time Minister of Interior under Buhari said no passport without NIN. Now, CBN wants to limit your BVN with NIN and OTPhone number. Let's stop making life more difficult for the average Nigerian.