₦airaland Forum

When you elect leaders who have dodgy character and history, you get what you deserve.

Guyman02:
Advice to any man who wants peace of mind, avoid ladies still in their whoring stage when you want to settle down. Look at Regina Daniel smoking like mad just because she had issues with her husband, ladies who got married above 27 years won't behave that way even if she has issues with her husband

You are forgetting that her mother follows her to the club and is an older woman....

Guyman02:
Na this same statement led Peller to abandon his parents home to go and camp a girl that is his senior,
then we all saw him having a mental breakdown on camera while Anthony Joshua, Mbappe and Hakimi still have their mothers around them despite all their money and fame.
You can spot the difference, Peller should be in his parents house buying houses and cars and making money while doing hide and seek with girls until he gets of age,
that's why in many societies in Africa you are not considered as a man until you get to certain age and perfom some rituals.

Maturity most times comes with age don't be deceived by westerners who gave us this slang but won't give driving licence to a 15 year old in their countries no matter how big and matured he is

At the age Peller is, especially if you make reference to Africa, he is already a man. What is missing from what I see of him is that he lacks mentoring and guidance from MEN.

Where are the elders in his family? I ask the same question about Portable.

Children that are not cooked well become the bad food we smell on the internet. You can't hide your grounding. It will show in your behaviour offline and online.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=81JPj8BqBBQ

Gerrard59:
In most cases, it is. As people grow older and get more experienced, they become mature. The exceptions are those who have older siblings and were exposed to life very early. But that is why they are exceptions, not the norm.

People's experience and exposure ground them. Yes, exposure to older people can be a factor but what people get confused is that experiences are different. You can also be surrounded by moomoo adults when you are younger and you'll think that is our life is supposed to be. You keep going on with this mooomooo lessons until you are 40 years old and you can think for yourself. Some people start getting wise at 11 when life throws a curve ball at them and their mates are still under their mom's roof. That's why street kids have some life experience even though they were not refined through education. Some people read books that give them exposure. Life is never linear.

Vikto17:
were in the post did u see me make any generalization... u are desperately trying to drag an argument were there is none ,,, did l hold u on the throat and ask u not to marry them? why all this defense mechanism?
If you are a guy man u can't use one girl you met on nairaland to make a hasty generalization on a topic like this... date more ,, relate with more of them and then make ur assessment...and if you are not convince u can exist the topic to another one

I picked up on your word, guy man. A serious man knows what he wants. In fact, a man at this age already knows this is what I want in a woman. If he sees it, he doesn't waste his time looking for others. He's focused on building his own version of what he wants in life instead of looking here and there.

ManKnowThyself

noun
a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves.
"narcissists who think the world revolves around them"

🇳🇬 Nigeria and the Law on Attempted Suicide: What the Law Actually Says

Many Nigerians are surprised to learn that attempted suicide is still a criminal offence in Nigeria. This post explains the law clearly, without judgment or stigma.


📜 What the law says

Under Nigeria’s existing criminal laws:

Southern Nigeria (Criminal Code – Section 327):
Attempted suicide is classified as a misdemeanor, punishable by up to one year in prison.

Northern Nigeria (Penal Code – Section 231):
Attempted suicide is also an offence, punishable by imprisonment, a fine, or both.


In simple terms:
👉 Surviving a suicide attempt can still lead to arrest and prosecution under Nigerian law.
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⚠️ Aiding or encouraging suicide

The law is much harsher on anyone who:

Encourages,
Assists, or
Helps another person attempt suicide.

This is treated as a serious felony, and the punishment can be life imprisonment.

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🏥 Lagos State’s approach
Lagos State has taken a slightly more compassionate step:
Courts may order hospitalisation or treatment instead of prison for someone who attempted suicide.

This reflects a growing understanding that suicide attempts are often linked to mental health crises, not criminal intent.


🔄 Is the law changing?
Yes — there is strong national and professional pressure to reform this law.

Mental health professionals, lawyers, and civil society groups argue that criminalising attempted suicide is outdated and harmful.
There are ongoing efforts to decriminalise attempted suicide and replace punishment with care, counselling, and rehabilitation.
Proposed reforms aim to treat suicide attempts as a public health issue, not a crime.


🧠 The reality on the ground

Prosecutions for attempted suicide are rare, but arrests do happen. Fear of arrest can discourage people from seeking help. Many experts agree that punishment does not prevent suicide — support and treatment do.

✅ Key takeaway

Yes, attempted suicide is still a crime under Nigerian law. No, this approach is not supported by modern mental-health science.
Change is coming, but until the law is formally amended, the criminal provisions still exist.


💬 Final thought

A society is strongest when it responds to pain with understanding, care, and support — not fear and punishment. Legal reform, mental-health awareness, and compassion must go hand in hand.

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Is suicide “un-African”? The honest answer is both yes and no, and history matters here. Traditional African societies placed a very high value on life. Life was seen as sacred and deeply connected to the ancestors, the land, and the community. A person did not exist only for themselves; they belonged to a family, a lineage, and a people. Because of this worldview, taking one’s own life was strongly discouraged and often treated as a taboo, not out of cruelty, but because it was believed to disrupt social and spiritual balance.

However, saying suicide is completely un-African in the sense that it never happened is historically incorrect. Suicide did occur in pre-colonial Africa, especially during times of war, slavery, captivity, extreme shame, or total social collapse. Oral traditions, historical records, and anthropological studies all show that Africans, like all humans, experienced despair and breaking points.

The real difference was not that suicide did not exist, but how African societies responded to suffering. Traditional communities had strong social safety nets. Extended families, elders, and communal living meant distress was noticed early and carried collectively. Pain was shared, not privatized. Modern life, by contrast, has brought isolation, pressure, and the idea that individuals must struggle alone.

So the truth is this: suicide is not biologically or inherently “un-African,” but African cultures strongly opposed it and built systems to prevent it through community, care, and shared responsibility. Africa’s wisdom was never about denying pain; it was about refusing to let people face it alone. In many traditional African societies, people who died by suicide were often not buried in regular communal grounds. This wasn’t out of cruelty, but because life was seen as sacred and connected to ancestors, the land, and the community. Suicide was viewed as a spiritual disruption, so special burial rules applied. Families still grieved, but the act was strongly discouraged. Today, most communities no longer enforce these restrictions, but the memory reflects Africa’s focus on shared responsibility and respect for life.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGp688WtEWA

We need to go back to our ways. Western ways will never ever work for us.

Someone was thinking I was heartless to be hard on this person, that I don't know the battles, I don't know the things this person is going through, I don't know this and that and I said part of being a man is surviving trials of this world. I told the person to give me an alternative to willingly participating in your own death and the person could not. And then I said, finding solution is a much better part to taking your life. No matter what. I stand by my words. Life is tough. It will break you but sometimes I think Nigeria's law or punishment for attempting suicide is more of a logical one than the punishment itself. Nigeria's law is telling you, if you want to do it, just do it and go, make sure you do it.

You don't know the pain you cause those living when you selfishly consider yourself only. You're not living for yourself alone if you don't know. Especially when you have influence. I prefer you take more steps to help live than take the easy step to press the end button when you know we will all leave this world unalive!

Then like those boys who shoot in US, you now write a manifesto letter on your death. For what? Just go silently and don't disturb the world if you wanted us to not worry about you. It would have been easier for the loved ones to lie to us and tell us he died in his sleep. I am so disappointed and I have no nice words to say. This is where we have raised this generation to mental health everything. Spiritually ungrounded, digitally prosperous. Perhaps one day, we will realise our true reason for living. A person is a person because of another person (Umuntu ngumuntu ngabantu”: a person is a person because of other people). We will remember our purpose on earth, stay grounded and keep serving others because service to humanity is the price you pay for earth. Fall seven times, rise up 8th.

Seuns robots will ban me again for this comment

AlphaTaikun:
I don't have the luxury of time to start discussing in FULL about the legitimacy or not of the institutions that man attended over there in Nigeria before traveling to the United States. There are people who had broken educational backgrounds as kids and had to change school repeatedly due to the transfers of a parent from one location to another OR through being born to parents with low income which did NOT afford them the opportunity to go to school regularly.

Look, there are people who NEVER even attended secondary school back in the day such as the late Anambra Governor Chukwuemeka Ezeife who ONLY did his equivalent of what is now the GCE exams and passed to gain admission into the University after private studies. He NEVER attended a high school in Nigeria. [/b]There are those who did distance learning education from a UK university back in the 1940s and 1950s while in British Colonial Nigeria WITHOUT leaving the shores of Nigeria.


[b]Right BELOW are some of the Nigerian President 'Bola Tinubu's classmates at Chicago State University back from the 1970s who are incidentally Nigerians of Yoruba descent who affirmed that 'Bola Tinubu graduated in 1979 with high grades.

1] Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s College Classmate Confirms That He Graduated From CSU
https://www.nairaland.com/7840063/bola-ahmed-tinubus-college-classmate#125780026

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qZOiWFQIzx4


2] Durojaiye Ogunsanya: Tinubu Was My Classmate At Chicago University | We Mocked H
https://www.nairaland.com/7839196/durojaiye-ogunsanya-tinubu-classmate-chicago



3] Olajide Adeniji: Another Classmate Of Tinubu At CSU Surfaces
https://www.nairaland.com/7854217/olajide-adeniji-another-classmate-tinubu


I already told you in my last post about his investments in various financial assets in the financial markets. Stocks investments through your brokerage firm, mutual funds, derivatives, options, commodities, metals, etc. Those are some of the investments that investment savvy folks like Warren Buffett and more have invested in which bring in regular annual dividends for folks like Tinubu who has investments in financial markets assets in especially Nigeria, the United States. There's a whole load of Nigerian multimillionaires and billionaires who have investments and shares on the stock exchanges for the long-term such as the Forbes-listed USD billionaires, Aliko Dangote, to Otunba Mike Adenuga, Nigerian-Americans Bayo Ogunlesi and Tope Awotona, Femi Otedola, Folorunso Alakija, Abdulsamad Isiaku-Rabiu, etc.

We know that Warren Buffett doesn't have a lot of investments outside the U.S. stock markets which is his main investment vehicle for several decades now. He keeps compounding his ROI. That's the secret of highly intelligent investors worldwide.

Here’s a high-level list of Warren Buffett’s notable investments:

1. Apple Inc. (AAPL)


2. Bank of America (BAC)


3. Coca-Cola (KO)


4. American Express (AXP)


5. Chevron (CVX)


6. Occidental Petroleum (OXY)


7. Kraft Heinz (KHC)


8. Moody's (MCO)


9. GEICO (Private)


10. Burlington Northern Santa Fe (BNSF) Railway (Private)


11. Dairy Queen (Private)


12. Duracell (Private)


13. Precision Castparts (Private)


14. IBM (IBM)


15. Verizon Communications (VZ)


16. Wells Fargo (WFC)


17. The Kraft Heinz Company


18. Snowflake (SNOW)


19. Amazon (AMZN)


20. The Washington Post (Private)


21. Restaurant Brands International (QSR)



This list includes publicly traded stocks and private businesses owned by Berkshire Hathaway.

Yes, substantial research shows a strong link between heavy social media use and increased depressive symptoms, especially in teens and young adults, with higher usage often predicting more depression over time, though the exact cause-and-effect is complex and involves factors like comparison, cyberbullying, and displacement of real-world activities, highlighting the need for mindful use.

AlphaTaikun:
Go back to my original post again. I added some information to it before I saw your post. I'm responding again to you because you are very civil in your response. I told you that Tinubu has investments in the financial markets and through the principle of compounding. Even as far back as 1993, Tinubu had 1.8 million USD in 8 of his United States bank accounts and it was investigated at that time by the United States authorities and found to be LARGELY proceeds of his investments lodged in those 8 bank accounts. Millions of people around the world like the now President 'Bola Tinubu, Warren Buffett, and more global investors who have financial education know where to put their money and gain returns on their investments.

The wealthiest people on earth are international investors and business people who understand financial markets and education NOT employees. They keep growing there wealth through compounding and other multiple streams of income and this is why those who do NOT know these investment keep getting envious of those who have. That envy is global human thing or weakness even in the United States.

Chief Jeremiah Obafemi Awolowo, GCFR, SAN too was ahead of his time and from 1952 to 1959 when he was the Premier of the Old Western Region he and his team brought a lot of dynamic innovation into governance that the other 2 regions of North and East of Nigeria even started copying his development plans. The Industrial Estates in the North and Eastern regions came out of that healthy rivalry. The Ikeja Industrial Estate, Iganmu Industrial Estate, Ilupeju Industrial Estate, Oluyole Industrial Estate, etc, were his ideas for the industrial revolution in the Western region and Apapa was the point of export from those industrial estates. HID Awolowo too was an international business woman with strong tentacles in the textile industry and more. Same with Alhaji Abibatu Mogaji an powerful international business woman and mother of 'Bola Tinubu.

So, keep an open mind and learn how others have made legit money through hidden opportunities and time management.

Back in the early 1990s, I purchased and read a book entitled: "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. That book literally shows with emphasis the different historical perspectives on how anyone can become wealthy through identifying opportunities early, and investing in people and enterprise. I will stop here because of my limited time.

I won't bother responding to you. It's a good thing that investors details are not shrouded in secrecy and you can see who has what and how much because of stock market regulators. Thank you for the (HID) Awolowo story. I am happy with your detailed explanation of what he did and how you conveniently wrote 'same for Tinubu' and then went on lecturing me on compounding investments. Can you tell me one of the investments that Mr Tinubu invested in that is compounding his wealth into billions?

Can you also tell me about his early life. When he went to school, what schools did he attend and early career. I just want you to write his biography since you know him so well. Do you also know any of his classmates in high school? I hear Obasanjo, I hear Soyinka, I hear Buhari talk about their old school mates, I even hear Bode George too. Who were his contemporaries and where are they today? He was a class of 66 or 67? Was he a science student? Just tell me a good story. I want to learn.

President Buhari Hosts Classmates In Daura

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Tf65EGOAgo

SOYINKA VISITS GCI ALMA MATER

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I356Twu-Kj8

AlphaTaikun:
[i]Coincidentally, I have relatives and associates who worked with Mobil Nigeria (later renamed ExxonMobil) even at a time Tinubu worked there where he rose (as a Chartered Accountant and technocrat) to the senior rank of a Treasurer with Mobil Nigeria (now ExxonMobil). Do you know what it means to be a Treasurer in a multinational corporation like ExxonMobil?

Some of you think people online never see money. Treasurer in ExxonMobil and because of that he became wealthy? You forget that there are people who have worked in more senior positions that have not made this much noise or you want to tell us they were not wise enough to put their money to work? Thank God he wasn't a MD, we no go hear word. Okay for the sake of argument, let's say he made money from Mobil, what else did he do after he left there? What brings cash flow to him? What companies does he have registered? What is his profession? We heard Akintola Deloitte, we heard Arthur Mbanefo who just died, they no make noise reach una. They have/had well established firms to claim their wealth. You just think you can bamboozle everyone you see online and assume they are children or don't understand how the world works. Everyone who worked in Mobil is now a billionaire! Tada! Oyel workers, Oyel de your head. Billionaires everywhere you go...

It's quite an irony that his deputy's name as Governor was KOFOROWOLA

Elusive001:
They said that he was accountant at ExxonMobil and we asked how long did he work there and how much was all his monetary remuneration. They ran away. As a mobil staff allegedly, so he didn't touch his pay? Even if he didn't, so the money still dey?

His deputy in 1999 said that he had no vehicle pre-1999 ooooo: a whole rich man oooo


If you arw waiting for them acknowledge the truth about his source of wealth that everyone knows, then you will wait till eternity.

My bro, no worry. Lies always need patch updates

AlphaTaikun:
Let me school you here.

You're NOT well-informed because you are younger in age and you're even sounding like a broken record . As a man who voted during the June 12 1993 elections, I can confirm that Tinubu was very wealthy as of the time the June 12 struggle started. Everything those informed posters said about the now President 'Bola Tinubu's wealth is true.

Tinubu also purchased a private

Please tell me Tinubu's source of wealth. You think say na today dem born me. Tell me what work he did. Wealth can come in any form, I'll-gotten wealth can come in any form. Some people got wealthy in Nigeria through oil blocs even if that is wrong but you can say, this is what they did. Tell me with track record what Tinubu did and has been doing to get 'wealthy'. Then tell me what Pa Awolowo did and I will tell you the difference. Even KWAM 1 can tell us he has been singing for 40 years, Ó ní iṣẹ́ tó ń ṣe

Nigerian leaders find it difficult to explain their wealth because it is not built on enterprise. It's always wishy washy and when you question it, they want to intimidate you. No clear story.

Wealth without enterprise.

Last weekend, Nairaland members told me that Seyi Tinubu was born into wealth because his father was a billionaire. I asked them for the work his father did, they told me I was jealous, I should tell my dad to go and be a billionaire and all balablue explanations. They told me his father funded NADECO, one even said that if you know what his father made when he was in USA, the same man who told us he was a gypsy cab driver and he will never forget how a Naval officer slapped him Then they told us he worked for Deloitte as an auditor, he worked for Mobil, he was a Senator 🤡🤡😂😂😂😂

Bola Tinubu: My Life As A Cab Driver And Security Guard: PM News - Politics - Nairaland
https://www.nairaland.com/3022845/bola-tinubu-life-cab-driver

I told them Lateef Jakande was also a Governor for just one term. I also told them Fashola had gone back to practice. Abeg which industry Tinubu get. I won't look down on anyone who does honest work, so if you make your money from selling akara, I respect you but if you sell akara for morning and do blood work for night, I👟They abuse me tire but I no send their papa, anyone who has no credibility has no respect. If you like let him have trillion dollars, he ain't got any respect for me. Elon, Dangote, Cosmas Maduka, Abiola, even if you think they got favors, they all HAD COMPANIES you can trace. They never also got into public treasury. Keep defending your oppresors while they steal from your children's inheritance. You go explain taya

Did you notice that Makinde doesn't stand close to Wike?

Do not die in their war 🤡🤣🤣🤣

Sonnobax15:

Some people go say na Ai

But in reality,Dem go don dey enjoy their virgins by now

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Have you cared to ask what their names are or provide previous pictures of who these people are. Where is the before vs after? Where were they located? When were they last seen? Who saw their dead bodies or their burial? Do you know how many times Nigerian government had told us they had killed Shekau and he came back with videos? Don't believe everything you see online, question everything. Don't also get deceived because you hate or love something. Use your head, don't let them use your head for you

It's a Chinese man, a foreign man and we are told to MEET THE CHINESE MAN. An African man did the same thing and he is met with condemnation and stories of fear, poverty and all what not. Bloody hypocrites. These are the people some people want us to imitate for development. Machine babies (I mean no harm to those who have health challenges to conceive, that is understandable). But you see these people, God gave we Africans everything NATURALLY, free of charge but they want to convive us otherwise 🤡 Today in Nigeria because people think they have money, they believe they can use anyone as surrogate so as to keep their Kim Kardashian body while another man's daughter becomes your slave. Wicked people everywhere. You lose your soul to this material people who only care about money.

Despite growing his business in China, Xu is reportedly unwilling to pass his wealth to children born there.

The African is not material, they are grounded. The foreign people bring their weird ideas to pollute your mind and tell you to do things against your soul. The way you know is how they qualified the man, BILLIONAIRE. They needed to use a material identification to qualify his humanity. If you read the story, you hear nothing about the family or marrying the woman. There is nothing about family legacy other than the man's selfish desire to have HIGH QUALITY SONS. They are also not talking about the protection of the women here, they are just feeder for his political ambition. Meanwhile if they say men here should marry more than 1, they will raise bow and arrow to fight them but they are okay with side chicks. 🤡 African way that protects the families, communities and society is ancient, na this scam una like


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6kltztNcQUA

Nigeria: Former Muslim preacher with 130 wives dies at 93

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9P3-m6WJjh8

You know what annoys me the most that I am surprised my people never open eyes for? When Caucasians want to do it, they glorify it, they make it look nice. When it's Africans, oh no, they are giving birth like hernimals, they are this, they are that. They just don't like you guys and they are too haughty to admit that they copied us. The brainwashed Africans, instead of thinking for themselves have been chained with a foreign hard drive and memory that is regurgitating what the white man wants to tell him about yourself instead of what your mothers and fathers who lived here knew before the white man arrived. QED



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlWop3StRKI

The Northerners that allowed Boko Haram to fester this long are not people I respect. They let their people become material for USAID and all US agenda. They let the baby grow into a monster. How comfortable you have been for 16 years to have terrorism dining with us shows how wicked you are and this is nothing to do with religion.

Nigerian police execute sect leader


Thu 30 Jul 2009
Thursday 30 July 2009
A building which allegedly housed an Islamic sect in the Nigerian city of Maiduguri

Rooted out: A building allegedly used by the sect burns in the city of Maiduguri (AFP)
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The leader of a radical Islamic sect in northern Nigeria has been shot dead in police detention hours after being captured by the security forces, a police spokesman says.

Security forces captured radical preacher Mohammed Yusuf, the leader of a militant Islamic sect responsible for days of unrest which have killed more than 180 people and displaced thousands.

A Reuters reporter saw Yusuf at a military barracks in the northern city of Maiduguri after his capture. Yusuf had no visible injuries and was standing up. He was later transferred to the city's police headquarters, where he was killed.

"He has been killed. You can come and see his body at the state police command headquarters," said Isa Azare, spokesman for the police command in the northern city of Maiduguri.

Another policeman said Yusuf "pleaded for mercy and forgiveness before he was shot".

Footage of his bullet-riddled body was shown on state television.

Yusuf, whose Boko Haram sect wants a wider adoption of sharia (Islamic law) across Nigeria, was seized after a manhunt involving military helicopters and armed police.

Army and police earlier battled the remnants of his sect in Maiduguri after shelling his compound.

Bursts of gunfire rang out and helicopters hovered overhead as the security forces went from door to door hunting his followers.

The violence erupted when members of the group were arrested on Sunday in Bauchi state, 400 kilometres south-west of Maiduguri, on suspicion of plotting to attack a police station.

Yusuf's supporters, armed with machetes, knives, home-made hunting rifles and petrol bombs, then went on the rampage in several states across northern Nigeria, attacking churches, police stations, prisons and government buildings.

President Umaru Yar'Adua, on an official visit to Brazil, spoke by telephone with northern governors and urged traditional and religious leaders to use Friday prayers to warn people about the dangers of such sects.

"The president stated that religious groups such as Boko Haram, which seeks to disrupt the peace and security of the Nigerian state, should not be the bride of any true Muslim individual or group," his spokesman Olusegun Adeniyi said.

Nigeria's Muslim umbrella group Jama'atu Nasril Islam has already condemned the violence and backed the security forces.

Boko Haram - which means "Western education is sinful" - is loosely modelled on the Taliban movement in Afghanistan.

Its members wear long beards and consider anyone not following their strict ideology, whether Christian or Muslim, as infidels.

Its views are not espoused by the majority of Nigeria's Muslim population, the largest in sub-Saharan Africa.



National defence spokesman Colonel Mohammed Yerima said there would be a military "show of force" on Friday to reassure civilians they would be protected.

Maiduguri has borne the brunt of the fighting. Local residents said they were still too afraid to venture out despite assurances from the authorities.

"This city is like a battlefield," said Muhammed Yakubu, a local journalist and a resident of Maiduguri.

Yar'Adua has said intelligence agencies had been tracking the group for years and that its members were procuring arms and learning to make bombs to force their views on Nigerians.

He ordered the security forces to take all necessary action to "contain them once and for all".

Police in Maiduguri said the security forces had killed 90 sect members on Monday alone. Eight police officers, three prison officials and two soldiers were also killed.

In neighbouring Yobe state, police said they had recovered the bodies of 33 sect members after a gun battle near the town of Potiskum on Wednesday.

More than 50 people were killed in the initial fighting in Bauchi on Sunday.

Police said they freed 95 women and children on Wednesday being held by the sect in Maiduguri.

Its members believe their wives should not be seen by other men and their children should receive only a Koranic education.

The violence in the north is not connected to unrest in the Niger Delta in the south, where militant attacks have prevented Nigeria from pumping much above two-thirds of its oil capacity. The delta's main militant group has condemned the violence.
- Reuters

Do you know when you were young and you heard someone said, your daddy is stoopppeeed, what do you do?

If dem born you well, come and say it to me

Or you say

If dem born your papa well, come and say it in my front.


Someone was very smart to go abroad to keep talking from their base there. Tell them to come home.
Ladies and gentlemen, that's the situation we have now. If you don't get it, forget about it

This man sha. When the water is getting hot for the frog, it doesn't know it's time to jump out.

WATCH: Wike Reveals What He Will Do To Tinubu If PDP Zones Presidency To South In 2027

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SI9dqZ7dAF0

People like to major on the minor. Just keep it clean. One of the jobs I can't do is toilet cleaner. I give credit to those who do this job. It's one of the worst jobs to do. You know why?

It's where you see the nasty things human beings do, whether they are wearing suit and tie or babariga or heels. If they don't have home training, they are a trash to society because you have to pick up their stuff.

When I visit companies, I know how sane they are if I visit their toilets without any cleaner being there. Because if you have home training, your brain will be able to teach you that if you use it, you clean it, if you open it, you close it, if you dump it, you flush it, if you spill it, you dry it. It's not so difficult to take care of yourself. You don't need anyone else to do this for you if you have a brain that is caring and responsible. Anything else is wickedness and I mean it. Adults don't need someone else to tidy up their mess. It means they are still children in adult bodies.

Sorry, I just woke up from my dream. I am going to the Murtala Muhammed Airport terminal toilet and this guy asked me to show him love before I use the toilet. What should I do?

I need Trump beside him. Trump too is tall but bullies are often intimidated by height.

Hhh4444:
we are saying the same thing.... it's about human behaviour when certain harsh conditions are triggered and not about race. You will agree with me that they still have a higher standard of living than us,so there are certain dark behaviours you would rarely see over there compared to here. You will understand better when you watch that movie.

You still surprise me with your second paragraph. People are people. People are what they are. I understand that certain things make people behave in a certain way but watch what the people of Amazon do. Just because they don't live like the rest of us, we think they are barbaric but when you understand how they live, you see how organized they are. Watch more travel bloggers to see how real people live. The irony of life is that those who have little are more happy than those who have more and keep looking for what is lost. Haven't you heard those who come from the place that is so developed but just love the human connection we have here? Have you ever wondered why they leave all the good things they have there to come here? What's so special here? You will then understand that human beings are like Nokia, people connecting to each other is more than the things around us.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGp688WtEWA

everythingtall3:
Unnecessarily cold lady, attitude issues, low libido. Lesbianism, some of them are not even decent, they are just virgin because they don't like dick penetration, they will sock you dick and do all sort with you but when it's time to penetrate they run away(I don't know what medical case this is but I know about two ladies like this, and they are still virgin till date)...

Don't even argue with me, I'm one those few that had firsthand experience with these set of people.

Virgins normally run away from penetration, it's a normal ritual of being disvirgined. I don't need to argue with you. What you define here aren't virgins. Abstinence from sex is who a Virgin is.

What I see is that society is running from the truth. I also notice that this is more of a southern problem than the north. It does not seem that they have been able to balance biology with real life. I don't expect the extremeties of the North but it will be 🤡 for me to say a teenager or youth with all those things on their body ready to explore should wait. Meanwhile if you had a goal you were looking up to as a woman or man, it was much easier to be disciplined and wait till it was time to pop the balloon than all these experiments.

Most people of the past married at a young age. Women married young, men married young. They were not fully independent but they had family support. The human race must have thought they were making progress if 60 years later, they don't know how to solve the simple problem of sexual discovery and putting themselves through so much trial and error just to figure things out. You are now waiting till 30-40 for what exactly? We don't want to till the ground, we want the fruits only.

The more we want to downplay the marriage institution, which is where you are free to explore your sexual desires, the more it is playing us IRL. You want a bae at 25 - 30 but you want them virgins. Let's assume they are virgins, you still complain that they are not experienced, they are afraid simply because you lack discipline. The bridegroom grooms his bride. I don't like western culture but that's the easiest explanation to give you. You are the bridegroom, she's the bride. You guide her, she follows you.
You don't eat your cake and have it. You want virgin women but you yourself are not disciplined enough to hold body from watering anyhow hole 🤡 You are mature enough for the marriage institution because it's a school that teaches you gradually. You need to be committed to that school first. And let it knock some sense into your head. School of Hard Knocks.

Hhh4444:
it has nothing to do with living abroad...the movie I recommended will teach you about human behaviour when faced with extreme hardship and scarcity.

I said LIVE ABROAD. Movie does not mean anything sir. I can recommend you movies from western eyes that show you their dangerous behaviour. You seem to forget that human instinct for survival will be triggered regardless of race so when faced with extreme hardship and scarcity, humans will be humans
I don't think you read about wars


Europe is even worse.

Stay off movies. Read real life stories that are documented. Live there. Because when you live there you will know their real stories. Go to their museums or read them online. One thing about them is that they guard their media well, we here just splash everything, thinking the internet is where you publish all the bad things that happen to you. Don't be deceived sir, better still, ask someone who lived there and is conscious. They will tell you the difference. Living is an experience different from being told. Don't go too far, start with chatgpt if you cannot read history for long. Leopold is still honored in his country. Tell me how many times you see Africans killing people in their millions and celebrate it. How many times Africans see other people as pets to be taunted in public or use as Guinea pig? You'll thank God for your African ancestry later in life because your blood was not built with wickedness.

I also want to challenge you to read an European newspaper for 1 month and tell me what you think about it. It's a good thing the internet is free, use it well. Nigerian or African crime is still playing where they are.

everythingtall3:
Its funny how they are not even few, there are many virgins at 25 to 27 ... I know more than 3 but they are usually weird ladies , some are very cool but about 40 percent of virgin in this age brackets are usually weired.

Define weird here.

Gerrard59:
But this is what I've been preaching about notwithstanding the social media rhetoric that it's better to marry very young ladies. Unless you're well to do, it costs more to marry a girl within the age of 18-25 as most are either in school, way too naive about how a family should be run, are unemployed or yet to be employed etc.

It's why you see some men lament that after marrying such a lass, they're compelled to set up a business or sponsor her to learn a trade. In today's world, unless you're a well established man (which takes years to accomplish or from a wealthy home), you need to marry a woman who knows how money works and earns a livelihood - which should be sustainable, legitimate and consistent.

I believe every woman, just as every man, should earn an income. It's an integral part of adulthood, so expecting an 18 or 20 year old to be an income earner so quickly is very unrealistic. For the that reason, as a man in his 30s, your best bet is ladies above the age of 27. At that age, she earns an income from a business or job and knows how to take proper care of herself as an adult before you come into her life.

Stop listening to social media illiterates who are largely unexposed, uneducated, embittered and frustrated. Real life is different o


Actually, it's social media rhetoric. Societal norms have changed to expect the woman to contribute to the household except the man is well established or they live in deep rural areas. Social media rhetoric tells you as a man in his mid-30s to marry an 18 year old, whereas the teen is yet to be employed or earns a consistent, sustainable and legitimate income. How many men are like Pa Ned who can singlehandedly take care of their household and even in-law expenses?

I've told you people many times - stop listening to illiterates who now have access to the Internet. Obasanjo caused it sha.

18-20 fallacy:
There are undergraduates at this age who are in trade while in school. Some of them pay for their school fees through income from their trade.

There are women who are selling in shops at this age. There was someone who brought his problem here asking us if he should marry this woman who was assisting him in his shop, she did not go to school but she was very good and well mannered.

There are 27-35 yo that are so entitled despite working for years.

The message that people must earn income to know how to make a home is a fallacy. It's even worse if you have a woman who, because she is earning money will buy you meals from outside because she has money.

I agree with you to get off the internet and meet real people because that is where you will see the properly brought up child. The internet is just a forest where unknown gunmen and women post. Some people think they will never find Virgins at a certain age. The Internet keeps misleading them

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Hhh4444:
you are right on this....I want to recommend a movie for you to see why it's worse in Africa. The movie is The platform.

When you live abroad, you'll know the difference between movie and real life. In fact, you will now appreciate the humanity in your African brothers. Whether it's western Europe or America, or why una think say true crime get genre?