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PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Warns Tinubu To Stop Reckless Borrowing by SixSeven: 9:53pm On Dec 14, 2025
Mr Peter Obi, you are speaking to the wrong person. Didn't you hear when he told you then that "na statistics we go chop"

Go and play propaganda games with them, that's where they don't like you to beat them. Also, here is free advice, start being sarcastic with them. Next time, tell him


Let’s go a-borrowing, now let’s see a-governing catch up.

PoliticsRe: I Have To Keep Supporting Tinubu - Wike by SixSeven: 9:38pm On Dec 14, 2025
In a statement by his Senior Special Assistant on Public Communications and Social Media, Lere Olayinka, the minister said his political decisions had always been “guided by the principles of character and integrity,”
Dictionary
Definitions from Oxford Languages ·
integrity
/ɪnˈtɛɡrɪti/
noun
1.
the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.
"a gentleman of complete integrity"

2.
the state of being whole and undivided.
"upholding territorial integrity and national sovereignty"


Your estranged bro, Amaechi worked for APC to destroy PDP in 2014-15. He was one of the nPDP governors that ganged up with ACN/CPC/APGA alliance to kick out your presidential candidate out of power. You have repeated the same thing in 2023. Who's surprised anymorehuh

RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Cut This Kind Of Friends Off Or Am I Being Entitled? by SixSeven: 9:23pm On Dec 14, 2025
Host78:
thank you so much sir.

Nairalanders, please help me to thank him. I wish I can show how grateful I am to you this evening.

Thank you. Thank you and thank you a million times sir. I'm grateful.

On the 16th again I'll update this thread. I'll not disappoint you sir.

Thank sir. Thank you and thank you and thank you again.

Thank you
Don't disappoint yourself. There's something I wanted to write but I'll not until you provide update.

CelebritiesRe: Peller Crashes His New Benz After Breakup With Jarvis by SixSeven: 8:49pm On Dec 14, 2025
pointblank247:
Money doesn't turn a kid to a man. A kid is a kid and nothing more. I wonder why he refused to continue with school.
A child is a child; only time can make an adult, and haste only breeds mistakes.

CelebritiesRe: Peller Crashes His New Benz After Breakup With Jarvis by SixSeven: 8:39pm On Dec 14, 2025
Time makes the adult; haste only makes mistakes.

A bigger Mercedes Benz does not make a greater driver.

RomanceRe: Does This Girl Actually Like Me Or Am I Overthinking? by SixSeven: 5:56pm On Dec 14, 2025
Kobojunkie:
In saner climes, many boys have ended up in prison for interpreting mere words like that as light for them to grope or stick their tongue inside of a woman's mouth. Go ask them to explain to you how that act got a sexual assault charge. They will be in a better position to explain to your arse. 🥱🥱
. Cut the cap please

Those kids that start to send suggestive messages as early as 11/12 is who you call saner? You must think everybody in NL isn't exposed to the so called saner climes
PoliticsRe: Bandits Arrested By Army Say They Got AK-47 Rifles From Kwara Govt Officials by SixSeven: 1:11am On Dec 14, 2025
bandit
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bandit
/ˈbandɪt/
noun
a robber or outlaw belonging to a gang and typically operating in an isolated or lawless area.
"the bandit produced a weapon and demanded money"
Similar:
robber
raider
mugger
brigand
freebooter
outlaw
desperado
hijacker
plunderer
pillager
looter
marauder
gangster
gunman
criminal
crook
thief
holdupper
rustler
highwayman
footpad
reaver
snaphance
cateran
mosstrooper
MILITARY SLANG
an enemy aircraft.

CelebritiesRe: Bonnie Blue: British Porn Star Who Slept With 1000 Men In 24 Hours Fined £9! by SixSeven: 10:33pm On Dec 13, 2025
Why are they giving this pro a lot of attention? Even in the oldest profession on earth, discrimination de because there's nothing special about her but she's British. Some mothers do have 'em

PoliticsRe: Governor Fubara celebrates Wike At 58 by SixSeven: 4:06pm On Dec 13, 2025
The future of Nigeria is bright if the likes of Wike are just in their 50s cry undecided lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: If America Blocks Me, I’m Heading To Nigeria For Jollof - Malema by SixSeven:
Where is that South African boy on this forumhuh grin Randy Digital abi what's that his name. Even Malena wan dance Detty December.

I like this renewed focus on Nigeria. We don de sleep and slip too much for world matter. Bring back Big Brother

RomanceRe: Does This Girl Actually Like Me Or Am I Overthinking? by SixSeven: 12:34am On Dec 13, 2025
AlphaBoy:
Nairaland, abeg help me judge this matter because I no wan deceive myself.
There’s this female friend of mine in school. We read together, buy snacks for each other, gist, and I usually walk her home after night class. Cool friendship, nothing serious… or so I thought.
But recently, she has been acting somehow:
One day she told me she feels blessed to have me and even called me her role model.
Anytime we finish reading late, she insists I must walk her home.
One night, she pointed at a bus stop and said she once saw a couple kissing there. Then she faced me and dropped this line: “It’s you that don’t want to love.”
If I ghost her small, na she go enter my DM first like, “You no wan talk to me again?”
And one day she directly asked me: “Why are you running from me?”
Make una no forget — I liked her initially but didn't want to push it yet , I don’t know if she’s catching feelings
So nairalanders, make una talk true:
This girl like me abi she just dey whine me?
Or na me dey overthink am?

RomanceRe: Does This Girl Actually Like Me Or Am I Overthinking? by SixSeven: 12:25am On Dec 13, 2025
The idea that unless a woman verbally admits she is interested, any man who approaches her is no different from a rapist or abuser is simply not true. Humans have never relied only on verbal communication to show interest. Attraction has always involved body language, eye contact, flirtation, tone, shared energy and mutual signals. People rarely open a romantic interaction by saying “I am interested in you,” and acting as if this is the only safe or moral way to communicate ignores how human relationships actually work.

Approaching someone, greeting them, asking them out or trying to get to know them is not assault. Those are normal social behaviors. Rape and abuse involve force, coercion, intimidation, ignoring clear refusal or exploiting power imbalances. These things are completely different from ordinary romantic interaction.

Consent needs to be clear, but it does not have to be verbal every single time. It can be verbal or non verbal as long as the willingness is obvious and the person feels free and safe to say no. The important thing is clarity, not compulsory spoken declarations.

Equating normal human behavior with rape is harmful. It dilutes the seriousness of rape, misrepresents the reality of sexual violence and unfairly paints ordinary social interaction as predatory. We absolutely should condemn coercion and force, but stretching the definition of abuse so far that it includes everyday communication helps no one.

In short, the claim is extreme because human communication is complex, consent is not limited to verbal statements alone and normal romantic behavior is not the same as violence or violation. Boundaries matter, but pretending every human interaction requires a formal verbal announcement is unrealistic and distorts what genuine consent truly is.
RomanceRe: Does This Girl Actually Like Me Or Am I Overthinking? by SixSeven: 12:16am On Dec 13, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Let me help you with the little advice! If any woman— irrespective of where she comes from or is going to on this planet— you are interested in DOES NOT with her mouth admit to being interested in you, take it that you would be no different from a rapist and an abuser if you took it on yourself in that situation to help yourself to her body and time without her consent. undecided

And yes, there are a lot of Nigerian men who think that forcing themselves on women, either through coercion or force, is some sort of birthright of theirs because of that extra piece of meat hanging between their legs. I can tell you without mincing words that such men are simply rapists and abusers allowed to roam free in Nigeria because of the lack of oversight in that country. undecided
Oga Madam, he is right. Communication is not universal and implied statement and action exist in law. Stop with the unnecessary overboard of law and rape as if that's what every man and woman wants to do. Na person like you go say make dem write agreement anytime they want to make love as husband and wife. Your theory is not reality please. You even sound like a teenager with this confirmation process you are writing here. As if we are not adults. You write like a child but I know why. Please do not reply me but I know say you no go hear. I go ignore you.

PoliticsRe: Pictures Of Barrister Festus Keyamo With Gov Fubara In PH by SixSeven: 9:54pm On Dec 12, 2025
Truths9ja:
Fubara is the most smartest governor in Rivers State history.
There's no need for most after qualifying the smart as smartest.

PoliticsRe: I’m 100% Behind Tinubu Administration, Says Lai Mohammed by SixSeven: 8:34pm On Dec 12, 2025
Please give it a rest sir. I can only imagine what he would have did to our senses if he was still minister and US threatened us.

APC
A
Propaganda
Convention

FamilyRe: Married Men In The House, Did You Cohabit Before Getting Married? by SixSeven: 8:22pm On Dec 12, 2025
zagorakis:
Well, my point is not whether or not people have sex during cohabitation but to make you understand other benefits therein.
I rest my case.
Thank you for stating your side.

My dear,
You speak of cohabitation as though it were a candle bright enough to expose every corner of a person’s character, the cleanliness, the resourcefulness, the small rituals of daily life. These things are important, yes. But let me remind you of something our elders have known long before modern arrangements arrived with their funny arguments.

A woman does not need to move into a man’s house to know his worth, and a man does not need to test a woman’s homeliness before honouring her with a bride price.
Our people established marriage rites viz:
1. introduction,
2. engagement and
3. blessings, not for decoration, but for protection. We have a process to checkmate all those things you said and it exists in different cultures in Nigeria and Africa and that's why families marry not the partners. It's oyinbo that brought the idea of the man finding his missing rib himself and the girl looking for her Prince in the shining armour herself without proper guidance. They fed us with individualism not communalism.
It is the process, not the proximity, that reveals the soul of a person.


And as for this idea that two adults in love can cohabit without sex grin Oga, let us not pretend. Even the yam and the knife know each other’s purpose. When a man and a woman who share affection begin to share a roof, the body will speak its own language no matter how disciplined the tongue is. The rhythm will do its raggae and all the blues will be covered under the bedsheets of the night. Thank God for Big Brother. Didn't they pretend that they could not have sex for 90 days when they first started ithuh Even married men and women were having affairs.

This is exactly why our traditions set boundaries.
It was not to punish desire, but to give it honour. It was not to suppress intimacy, but to house it within commitment.

Those “benefits” of cohabitation you listed are performances people display know they are being watched. They give you a new job with probationary period and you tell me you won't be the best for that 6 months?
Even masquerades adjust their steps when they dance before the council of elders.

Cohabitation does not unmask; it merely teaches people to rehearse.
Everyone behaves better during a trial period, but marriage is not theatre. Marriage is rooted, witnessed, supported, and blessed. That is why its consummation is announced and honor is brought to the man and the woman to be together in secret and in public. . We have welcomed them to society, as a new member of the family unit that makes up society.
It is the place where true character emerges, because the commitments have been spoken and the community stands as witness.



Cohabitation may mimic marriage, but it carries none of its protections. It offers intimacy without covenant, expectation without security, sacrifice without name.

Our mothers taught us with steady voices:
Do not carry the duties of a wife where you have no altar of protection. I am sure you have seen other commenters write the same thing. It's old age wisdom.

So my dear, let us be honest in the old, wise way. It is not cohabitation that reveals truth,
it is marriage that tests, refines, and anchors love. And where love sleeps under a lawful and protected roof whether you choose traditional marriage or court marriage. I rest my case sir. ⚖️
CelebritiesRe: Research By Harvard Highlight Income Loss And Structural Challenges For Afrobeat by SixSeven: 6:35pm On Dec 12, 2025
alfredilly:
What we popularly call Afrobeats today didn't start as Afrobeat. In fact, it has little element of Afro identity. They were all musical piece inspired by the ambition to identify with global music culture. Before their emergence, African musicians showcases various brand that is rooted in indigenous culture and tradition. There was Juju, Apala and many more in Yoruba land. A more nationwide song was highlife but that cut across west Africa.

Afrobeats as it's now called was inspired by modern singers who aspire for global appeal by imitating hip hop and other western style singers. American music was the biggest drive and several foreign song were adapt by local musican like Olu Maintain ( e g I catch cold). The Eddy Remedies comprising of Idris Abdulkareem, Toni Tetuila and Eddy incorporated raps with indigenous language modelled in foreign style. There were also the plantation boys of Tu face, face and black face.

The advent of social media popularize the music among global audience who struggled to find specific identity for it. Then came the coinage Afrobeats.

Before then, only Fela Kuti could be credited with anything called Afrobeat when he transformed his highlights by infusing it with Jazz. What we currently called Afrobeat is cheer opportunism. Nothing more.
I think what the Kutis are trying to let us know is to preserve OUR ORIGINALITY. Fela himself was in the US until his girlfriend there advised him about his music. They don't want these exploiters who will talk down at you to tell your own story. We should have our own respect and let us be equals at the table but money is easy to dangle to a man who does not know his history or has no ethics or legacy.

TIME will tell. The oyinbo man will group all our music into afrobeats the way they call Africa, a continent of diverse cultures and rich people a country. They know what they are doing. They want to tell the story the way they want it to be told. They want to tell the story as they told us one man came to discover River Niger and Benue. Our people too are mentally colonized so they are not proud of who they are and what they are.

I wrote some time ago about AI and music. That see what is happening with the capitalists. They would replace the musicians very soon by stealing their originality and using their machines to reproduce their works. Theft!!! It is only what humans can do originally that will survive. Any artiste that relies on technology is doomed for failure. Africa has rich original tunes, but they don't want to tell the story. They want to keep portraying us as only good for music and entertainment in front of their people and that they were the ones who sponsored us. That's why they still keep our work in their museums because they know the value of ORIGINALITY. God bless Mama Afrika
CelebritiesRe: Research By Harvard Highlight Income Loss And Structural Challenges For Afrobeat by SixSeven: 6:30pm On Dec 12, 2025
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CelebritiesRe: Research By Harvard Highlight Income Loss And Structural Challenges For Afrobeat by SixSeven: 5:44pm On Dec 12, 2025
ednut1:
the big countries control the world its not about slave mentality. at least our artists are able to buy cars/houses in billions vs in the past lol. Naso life be
They control the world through EXPLOITATION.

PoliticsRe: We Set Trap For A Frog, But Caught An Elephant - Keyamo On Fubara's Defection by SixSeven: 5:39pm On Dec 12, 2025
Keyamo is better off minding his aviation business at the plane bus stops and in the air. He should leave politics out of his mouth as minister. It's even wrong he talks about politics while serving the Federal Republic of Nigeria. We bashed Jonathan then but he had the honor to tell any of his ministers who wanted to do politics to first resign from office and face politics if interested.
CelebritiesRe: Research By Harvard Highlight Income Loss And Structural Challenges For Afrobeat by SixSeven: 5:27pm On Dec 12, 2025
ednut1:
na oyinbo package am, na them go still benefit most. they did it with reggae and dancehall too. they are done with afrobeat
Because our people are mentally colonized. They crave the white man's approval. And we are our worst enemy. The Detty December is an exploitation of ourselves. Just watch how the artitstes who were made with their original tunes will charge pounds and dollars in Nigeria. We don't value what we have. Poverty of the mind and poverty of the soul. We don't think of the future.
CelebritiesRe: Research By Harvard Highlight Income Loss And Structural Challenges For Afrobeat by SixSeven: 5:21pm On Dec 12, 2025
Here’s a message written with the assistance of AI. Africans must learn to tell their own story and be proud of it. Stop waiting for oyinbo to validate all you know. I see the OP mistake beat with beats too

🎶 AFROBEAT vs AFROBEATS — Seun Kuti Sets the Record Straight 🎶

A lot of people still mix these two up, so here’s what Seun Kuti recently said — and it’s eye-opening 👇🏾

According to Seun, “Afrobeats” is not a real genre.
It’s a title, a broad label created to group different styles of modern African music. Today’s Afrobeats artists can jump from amapiano to dancehall to pop — meaning there’s no single, consistent sound that defines it.

He even pointed out that Amapiano is now being called the new Afrobeats, which shows how fluid the label has become.

On the other hand, Afrobeat (no ‘s’) — the music pioneered by Fela Kuti — is a clearly defined genre with its own structure, instrumentation, and strong political message.

So in Seun Kuti’s words:
👉🏾 Afrobeats = a marketing label
👉🏾 Afrobeat = a real genre with roots, rules, and resistance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1x09tZBMhm4

Fela stops a performance here when his band man makes a mistake. How many of our afrobeats can play an instrument? They are just commercial papers for the people exploiting them. It will come out in a few years.

Jide Taiwo today on Nigeria Info helps to keep track of our own story for our AUTHENTIC MUSIC
https://www.youtube.com/live/d8TKd9SegFU
PoliticsRe: Failed Coup: Benin Opposition Party Knocks Macron, Nigeria by SixSeven: 5:08pm On Dec 12, 2025
L’Afrique est la pièce maîtresse de la politique étrangère du Nigeria. Vous êtes le bienvenu.

Africa is the centrepiece of Nigeria's foreign policy. You're welcome.

The master politician keeps exposing us with this new founded relationship with France when we are surrounded by our French speaking neighbours. Nigeria is now being hated more because we are seen as siding with the oppressor. To hide his fears, he doesn't mind to move with whoever accepts him. That acceptance is a sign of credibility. If e didn't de, e didn't de. But don't mind, na only Jagaban sabi lipsrsealed

Edit: before you attack me, I don't care who's there. Just do the damn job you were elected to do. I criticised PDP too but if these APC supporters who were so quick to act like democratic saints pretend that everyone is against them now, shame on them.

FamilyRe: Maximum Respect To Mothers – Happy 3rd Anniversary To Us! by SixSeven: 4:38pm On Dec 12, 2025
Happy marriage life, I just posted on Wizkid topic planning his marriage and the proverb that finding a wife is more important than finding money but you need that money to take care of the wife. To take care of the marriage, keep your affairs PRIVATE. Na man U be. Around year 5-7, most marriages go through a problem that their eyes never saw, that's why the average length of marriage before divorce is 8 years. So bro give it some time, and continue to improve yourself as a man. See finish will soon enter and women love something new so to remain new, you need to be in 5 years where you weren't 8 years ago wink Remember it's your vision she was attracted to 💯

CelebritiesRe: Asake Will Perform At My Wedding – Wizkid by SixSeven:
Wait, so Wizkid has a teenage son but he's not yet marriedhuh 🤡🤔😅

We think we are wiser than our forefathers shey? Una mus get sense by force. No bastards in our culture and I say that respectfully. If you wan be man, do the needful. Marry that woman, no born pikin without the rites. Nothing like baby daddy or baby mama in our culture. I spit 🤮

FamilyRe: Married Men In The House, Did You Cohabit Before Getting Married? by SixSeven: 4:15pm On Dec 12, 2025
zagorakis:
1. During cohabitation, you can have first hand knowledge of how clean and homely a person is, alot of people know how to look and dress neatly but home keeping is zero, houses and kitchens are a mess.
2. During cohabitation, you can have first hand knowledge of whether a person is resourceful or not, by the way she/he manages resources at home, especially when there is lack, whether he/she makes use of her initiative.
3. Cohabitation reveals a person's routines and habits, thought processes which you cannot througly observe just by talking over the phone.
4. Culinary skills.
5. Relationships with neighbours and others.
Good points. A simple question, do you think two adults in love can cohabit without sexhuh
TravelRe: Has Japa Finally Come To An End? by SixSeven: 4:14pm On Dec 12, 2025
nairalanda1:
Gold card visa is not for the likes of most of us, whites included. grin grin grin grin grin grin
Well, don't say that. I am just thinking about the Arabs for instance who can afford this. Yet the white racists think they are the enemies having too many kids and wives. Trump is like the average Nigerian politician, that's why they find it comfortable to use him as a comparison. He takes the attention away from himself and blames others for the problem. This gold card visa is an own goal if the rich Arabs corner it for example 🤡😀
TravelRe: Has Japa Finally Come To An End? by SixSeven: 3:43pm On Dec 12, 2025
nairalanda1:
I doubt. On the one hand there is rising anti-immigrant sentiment, on the other hand there is a tendency towards countries bringing in skilled immigrants, so japa may continue

Also, as much as the right may want to stop all immigration, the problem of demographic decline in many western nations still remains.
Trump just launched the gold card. Guess who can afford it grin


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pEf9qsB2TCc?

PoliticsRe: Residents Cry Out As Insecurity Spreads To South-west, Slam Tinubu’s Silence by SixSeven: 1:44pm On Dec 12, 2025
Where are the cowshuh

Where are the cowshuh

It's my turn. You reach there finish, na our turn to continue from Buhari legacy. Nigerians never suffer yet. Keep it up. Your emperors will continue to enjoy unless and until you hold them to their responsibilities. To whom much is given, much is expected.

SixSeven:
They are not there to serve, they are there to be served. Which one of them is calling themselves servant leaders anymore? Now it's leader of servants that are there and they are not shy anymore. When did this degenerate to this I don't care level? When APC took over in 2015. Things were bad with PDP but APC took governance and ethics to baddest level that even Davido can't imagine how bad it is to use in his lyrics.

There will come a time when you will push the people to the wall that they will push back against you. The one there now as number 1 wants to replace Awo's legacy but the cheapest Awo Legacy his predecessor at Lagos (LKJ) did without making noise was to invest in education and housing and the late LKJ never called himself the builder of Lagos. What they are doing now is to turn SW to the ranka dede system in the North where the feudal lords make sure the masses depend on them while they educate their own kids and take turns to rule us. They know the power of education and liberation that's why they want to make sure we are poor. A poor man is not only poor in his stomach, he can't think and he has been beaten mentally. APC is a disaster. Their only concern is to take power. Both Buhari and Tinubu were only interested in getting there, nothing more. For the Governors, theirs is worse. But one day Nigerians will wake up from their slumber because like Awo said, one day the children of the poor will have nothing to eat but the rich. Fayose preached his stomach infrastructure without shame, they abused him as *democrats*but guess who's practising stomach infrastructure shamelessly today in Nigeria?

I hope they learn from Romania but I know they never learn.

When Romania Executed Its Dictator Live on TV

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3eUjOV0ZlSQ

SportsRe: North Carolina Courage Sign Chioma Okafor by SixSeven: 11:45am On Dec 12, 2025
naptu2:
Chioma Okafor was born in Malawi to a Nigerian father and Malawian mother. She switched allegiance to Nigeria early this year and was part of the Super Falcons squad that won the Women's African Cup of Nations (although she didn't play because of injury).

She studied finance and computer science at the University of Connecticut and was one of the best footballers at collegiate level.
I like this message. We need our men learning from the girls. The girls are already preparing retirement planning before the end of their football career.

Michelle Alozie is also shining like this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--uRwQRbKGI


It's difficult to see men doing this. Though, it could be that men are well paid but guys are carried away by the allure of football wages they forget to plan for tomorrow. A Footballer's career is not more than 10-15 years and only a few goalies or Ronaldo/Messi have been able to play much longer. Injuries can happen anytime too. Wolves will surround you at your limelight but education will help you in planning your second career.

Only Fabregas I can use as an example for men



Before joining Arsenal, Cesc Fàbregas's education consisted of completing his formal schooling in Spain while simultaneously developing his talent and tactical awareness at FC Barcelona's La Masia academy. He moved to London shortly after his 16th birthday, having finished his academic requirements, and his subsequent time at Arsenal under Arsène Wenger became a practical "football university" where he gained invaluable professional experience. After retiring as a player with Italian club Como, Fàbregas immediately pursued formal coaching qualifications, successfully earning his UEFA Pro License while working as an assistant and youth coach. With this top-tier certification secured, he formally transitioned into his current role as the head coach of Como, demonstrating a lifelong commitment to learning and a seamless move from playing to managing.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wg85jFSRfg0

Education is no joke please. Invest in it.
TravelRe: Has Japa Finally Come To An End? by SixSeven: 11:24am On Dec 12, 2025
Gerrard59:
You are right about Trump, but the same South Korea has doled out over $200BN in the past ten years, yet fertility rates plummeted.


Simple:
- Women are more educated and financially independent. They have realised there is more to life than just being childbearers. In every country across cultures and religions, the more educated and financially empowered the women are, the lower their fertility rates. This has been observed in the Middle East and Asian countries.
- Birth control. The very fact that women can deliberately control the number of children they want means the fertility rate will hardly rise. Combine this with financial freedom. Women can now live their lives without ever needing a man. That is the new normal.
- Testosterone rates too have dropped due to toxic pollutants, sedentary diets and lifestyle choices.
- Humans have gotten selfish. They have new hobbies, they want to travel to new places, eat new dishes, buy items for themselves, aka self-care etc. These lifestyle choices clash with raising and taking care of children.
- and many more.

Some will say it is as a result of not offering women rights, yet Niger Republic has a higher fertility rate than South Korea. In fact, feminism leads to a declining fertility rate. Nordic countries are adjudged to be "gender equal", yet fertility rates there are low. The French have off-days yet fertility rates have dropped. They say a high cost of living, yet poorer countries have higher fertility rates than wealthier ones.
I see your points and I understand but I think it's culture. A culture that makes people understand that education is not a life of selfishness or ambitions. There's nothing wrong with educated women but if that same education makes them see the natural state of reproduction as an inconvenience, then there is a problem with that education. The paradox about the high cost of living is that in the poor countries, life is more than material wealth. In the rich countries, life is how much of material wealth you can achieve before giving birth. The first thing they will calculate is the cost of child care and it is damn expensive. Some Americans go and give birth outside the US because it's cheaper there while Nigerians travel to give birth there because of the card! Life is very interesting. Capitalism is very selfish, it has its benefits but its disadvantages is how it takes your soul away. Humanity is lost and the essence of living is lost. Elon can have any number of children he has because he can afford it and he can practise informal polygamy because he can afford it but a Nigerian man who does that is abused. See people today discouraging others from having children. It's a mindset thing. Human population has never been the problem especially for Nigeria. In fact, it is an asset as we have talented people. The greatest problem is mismanagement of the people and we then see it as a burden. Rich men online especially in the west want more children. They can afford it. They don't say they only want 1/2. They are talking legacy. wink



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=krLoCRF_0F0

The menonites have proven us wrong. If we practise something like that here, it is called poor man thinking. If it's a white man, we paint it with red wine and luxury. 🤡

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jMmpmBOXBwU
PoliticsRe: Sanusi: Nigerian Leaders See Public Office As Family Business by SixSeven: 10:33am On Dec 12, 2025
They are not there to serve, they are there to be served. Which one of them is calling themselves servant leaders anymore? Now it's leader of servants that are there and they are not shy anymore. When did this degenerate to this I don't care level? When APC took over in 2015. Things were bad with PDP but APC took governance and ethics to baddest level that even Davido can't imagine how bad it is to use in his lyrics.

There will come a time when you will push the people to the wall that they will push back against you. The one there now as number 1 wants to replace Awo's legacy but the cheapest Awo Legacy his predecessor at Lagos (LKJ) did without making noise was to invest in education and housing and the late LKJ never called himself the builder of Lagos. What they are doing now is to turn SW to the ranka dede system in the North where the feudal lords make sure the masses depend on them while they educate their own kids and take turns to rule us. They know the power of education and liberation that's why they want to make sure we are poor. A poor man is not only poor in his stomach, he can't think and he has been beaten mentally. APC is a disaster. Their only concern is to take power. Both Buhari and Tinubu were only interested in getting there, nothing more. For the Governors, theirs is worse. But one day Nigerians will wake up from their slumber because like Awo said, one day the children of the poor will have nothing to eat but the rich. Fayose preached his stomach infrastructure without shame, they abused him as *democrats*but guess who's practising stomach infrastructure shamelessly today in Nigeria?

I hope they learn from Romania but I know they never learn.

When Romania Executed Its Dictator Live on TV

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3eUjOV0ZlSQ

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