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Basic123:
Kindly by sense,its not expensive

THE SIGNS OF GASLIGHTING

Gaslighting is a form of manipulation and abuse concentrated on making someone doubt reality.

Blatant lying or constant coverups.

Actions contradict words. Broken promises.

Feeling like you have to defend reality.

Your self- esteem slowly erodes away & you begin to question what is real. You start to think you are bad or crazy.

Denying conversations or events ever happened.

Manipulating others to see you differently.

zed7:
Trust people to call money recklessly. We're talking weed o, not the white substance.

Has this dude seen 200m in his lifetime? Next please.

The craving of a heedless person grows like a creeping vine.

He runs from life to life, like a monkey seeking fruit in the forest.

Muyiwaipere:
Lol....we Sabi una type, as una don fight am tire, una go dey find people to bring down with you.

SixSeven:
Some see it as the lesser evil because the alternative is worse. Fornication or adultery. The masturbator is only restricting the sin to himself or herself - a private sin. Now the problem where it becomes sinful is that to arouse oneself, the person will likely imagine someone else or watch portn or other ways. However, once the body starts to produce wet dream, biology is doing its work. That means nature is at work and if God created us, he designed us in a special way. I read a piece recently on why masturbation does not fulfil a man/woman compared to actual sex. I think it's something about the way the body orgasms when it is sex or self service. The way it orgasms in self service is what makes the body behave like that. This also includes intimacy gadget use for both men and women but the truth is that the body needs sex. The problem with too much masturbation is that it kills the desire to have sex normally because you have trained your brain how to respond, this means you cannot have intimacy with your partner, they are just another intimacy gadget. A man that is used to masturbation cannot be patient enough for his partner and a woman that uses a intimacy gadget cannot be patient enough for the fragility of real skin. Man is not a machine, a woman is not a toy!

How the body satisfies its sexual desires is where religion, morality and culture intersect but if you ask these people if their kids should marry early, they will all say no yet they want them to hold body and abstain. Now I see why old generations had sense.
They married early because they understood nature. From puberty, you start to have changes to your body and they were strict about protecting family so you couldn't just sleep with anyone's wife like that and if you did and you are found out, they punish you. That's how society checks itself. If you wanted to marry, they already started preparing you from young because they know how the body works but today we want them to go to the world and finish all the education, wait for some years to fight the economy before they can 'settle down' but we know the reality of that illusion. We the woke generation na our ITK plenty. We keep deceiving ourselves while the old generation attuned themselves with reality of nature 📌

SixSeven:
I watched Obi speaking to Kayode before I saw Abdullahi's interview. One thing I can tell you for free is that Obi is more measured in talking about ADC and Bolaji, Amaechi etc should learn from this. He never abuses, he was still thanking David Mark for his maturity. He knows he may still need the ADC. ADC on the other hand, from Okonkwo to Momodu keep talking down on Obi. I don't think they have learned anything from how Obi speaks about his former principals. You will never hear him abuse Atiku, even to criticize Tinubu, the interviewer had to ask him if he was afraid of calling Tinubu's name.

SixSeven:
He said: “You mean that APC would be worried about ADC, NDC? I saw Atiku, he is now our best campaign manager because he is attacking Obi, and I see Obi attacking Amaechi.”


Did you read that well? Obi is the main threat to them. Unfortunately, Obi won't attack Amaechi. One of the things Obi had said in the last campaign was that he won't respond to unequals in the campaign, which when you look at it is what all the candidates did. He didn't bother responding to Omokri who was an aide, he said I will talk to your boss. He also does not respond to insults. Soludo tried to demarket him and he called him Professor who knows better can help him fix the problems he did not know how to fix. He call am brother


Tinubu tried to demarket him by saying he won't even call his name but he didn't respond to him at tall so if you are expecting Obi to be attacking Amaechi, sorry is your boyfriend's name.

Last time, it was Gbaja saying the ADC guy should scatter them. Tinubu said he will send Akpabio to opposition and now Oshiomole wants them to fight. If the opposition should take any notes from APC's playbook, it's that they don't want Nigerians to demand accountability from them. If you all focus and press APC's neck, e go choke. They've been in power for 12 years, they have 31+ governors, opposition should be their least worry but we know why a man who can't perform on bed will blame his wife and her family for being barren. Let her family be fighting among themselves when he's the actual problem, at least it takes attention away from the elephant in the room🤡

HacheNoire:
“They shall stumble and make peace with each other, but at the end of the day, all shall taste defeat”

-His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR)

sleek214:
Atiku and his supporters will never support that fraud from Agulu

SixSeven:
Didn't they say he is a democrat? A builder of men? A visionary? That man is just a greedy old man. Who was it that said if you let Tinubu in, he will grab more than he can take? Think about being a landlord of Lagos and Rivers 🤡

The greedy can never be satisfied. What they condemned when they were in opposition, now they are doing it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DtjpjOPjuUk

Those who wanted to rewrite his story just made me chuckle. Guy didn't want Fashola serve a second term simply because he wanted to be President. He didn't want anyone to have a record to be compared to him or outshine him. They are just lucky Fashola did not show craze like Ambode did, someone they eventually sent away under the guise of GAC. They now claimed that he made Fashola, he built Lagos, Ambode did not follow master plan. You see how their stories are not consistent. They then called Osinbajo a betrayer. These ones are lords and serfs. Those who refuse to learn history are doomed to repeat it

Amaechi's Defection To APC Is Root Of Rivers State Crisis -- Wike Pt.1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWaYorTOuZc?si=KB-Qbb9SJ5X5AYK-

SixSeven:
Repost. I can see it here with the label Chinedu, a scare tactic used by those who aren't themselves Awọn ọmọ Eko🤡 They are full of propaganda, the earlier they start using propaganda to label their opponents, the easier for them to take your eyes away from the ball. Don't forget these same people used propaganda to clean Buhari's mess as a reformed democrat 🤣 I know they were embarrassed that GRV could trace his ancestry to Lagos. The same thing for Doherty. It's easy to pick on the Igbos but those of us who know what the people of Lagos themselves are saying know they want freedom from outsiders which is an irony. Those who lay claim to Lagos can't trace their ancestry. They can't tell you their history because it does not exist. It's not so bad that non indigenes can be who they want to be in Lagos but the hypocrisy stinks when they lay claim to a title that does not belong to them. These are pests.

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That man played the same game with AD so it's not a surprise to see it. Even PDP in Lagos could not be a good opposition because they kept using them as false flag. Look at the last guy who contested for Lagos Governor for PDP last time, he moved to APC and was not ashamed to let you know he worked as a mole. Mr Strategy has used this playbook many times and it works where there are hungry people who can sell their father's house for pittance. It's a Machiavellian type of politics that involves rub my back, I pat you and it's big money involved. Leave integrity for honest people. That one no consain dem.

You see this campaign they are running against Obi and GRV? They did it to Jimi Agbaje. In 2007, he made a good show in his first campaign with a relatively unknown party against Fashola, the next time he campaigned as a PDP man, they called him all manner of names and attached 'Ibo' to him. They already took care of PDP in 2007, they were not expecting an Agbaje to surprise them with organic votes under DPA, they took note from there and ever since then, he can't win their smear campaign. They are always using tribe to scare voters away but those who understand the game can see the fear. I wonder why people can't see this cheap pattern. APC pattern is familiar, that's why I have no pity for them when ipob or obidient give them the same medicine. They are half sides of a coin as far as I am concerned. It's giving them their own medicine. Propaganda must not be allowed to run unchallenged, if Obidients give them in the same coin, at least, it is fire for fire.

Mr Tinubu does not like competition, you are blocking his way. And we all knew this after Funso Williams was taken away from us by those who know themselves. If that man agrees to a debate this time, I will vote for him. But you can tell that he wasn't bothered about competition, that's why he appointed El Rufai and the gang to speak for him at Chatham House while the other contestants spoke for themselves. Mr Teamship does not bother to do presidential media chats, Mr Wike has done more media chats than the President The morning shows the day

SixSeven:
They are not there to serve, they are there to be served. Which one of them is calling themselves servant leaders anymore? Now it's leader of servants that are there and they are not shy anymore. When did this degenerate to this I don't care level? When APC took over in 2015. Things were bad with PDP but APC took governance and ethics to baddest level that even Davido can't imagine how bad it is to use in his lyrics.

There will come a time when you will push the people to the wall that they will push back against you. The one there now as number 1 wants to replace Awo's legacy but the cheapest Awo Legacy his predecessor at Lagos (LKJ) did without making noise was to invest in education and housing and the late LKJ never called himself the builder of Lagos. What they are doing now is to turn SW to the ranka dede system in the North where the feudal lords make sure the masses depend on them while they educate their own kids and take turns to rule us. They know the power of education and liberation that's why they want to make sure we are poor. A poor man is not only poor in his stomach, he can't think and he has been beaten mentally. APC is a disaster. Their only concern is to take power. Both Buhari and Tinubu were only interested in getting there, nothing more. For the Governors, theirs is worse. But one day Nigerians will wake up from their slumber because like Awo said, one day the children of the poor will have nothing to eat but the rich. Fayose preached his stomach infrastructure without shame, they abused him as *democrats*but guess who's practising stomach infrastructure shamelessly today in Nigeria?

I hope they learn from Romania but I know they never learn.

When Romania Executed Its Dictator Live on TV

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3eUjOV0ZlSQ

SixSeven:
Tinubu is a democrat, a true man of his words. 😅👇

June 12, 2013 by The Nation

PDP, Jonathan have failed Nigerians, says Tinubu

ACN leader lashes govt on economy, security
President Goodluck Jonathan’s administration is confused about how to tackle Nigeria’s challenges, especially poverty and insecurity, a leader of the newly-formed All Progressives Congress (APC), Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, has said.

He said the Federal Government promised peace and security, but under its “unwatchful eye” insecurity has grown and Boko Haram “has turned large tracts of northern Nigeria into no man’s land”.


But, a bright future, he said, is on the horizon as the APC, which he called “the government in-waiting”, would rescue Nigeria from its confused state.


“As leaders of the new party and government in-waiting, we intend to pursue dynamic, time-tested and bold policies that will liberate our people by making sure our wealth works for us,” Tinubu said.

Nigerians, said Tinubu, have become increasingly divided as a people because the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) government continues to take faulty steps in addressing poverty and injustice.

“They have ignored the cause and gone after the symptoms,” the former Lagos State Governor told a packed audience inside the Grand Committee Ballroom, Westminster Hall, House of Parliament, London on Monday. He identified failed policies on power, employment, economy and security as evidence of bad leadership.


Tinubu, the keynote speaker at the British African Diaspora Conference, spoke on “Leadership, national development and the people”.

He urged the Federal Government to apply a consistent policy of targeted law enforcement operations along with an active programme of economic development, negotiations and potential amnesty for penitent Boko Haram members.

He said rather than take this step, the nation has been treated to series of government inaction and indiscriminate use of force, which culminated in the declaration of a state of emergency in three states.


“The Jonathan government set up a special Committee on Boko Haram and Security matters, but sadly before they could perform, he declared State of Emergency in three Northern states: Yobe, Borno and Adamawa.

“This is symptomatic of a confused leadership. If there is security in this jumbled policy, neither I nor the majority of Nigerians can find it!”

To the fomer Lagos governor, if Nigeria is to mature as a democracy, its electoral system must be improved. He decried the fact that those who control the system manipulate elections with such impunity that they now see misconduct without sanction as a normal way of life.


Said he: “Look at the recent controversy surrounding election of the Nigerian Governors Forum (NGF) chairman… A group comprising all the nations’ governors could not even conduct a simple 35-person election without a disputed outcome.

“With this recent experience, I fear the length those in power would go and the means they would employ to manipulate results when the battleground is the entire nation and the stakes are the general elections in 2015.

“The NGF debacle symbolises a disdain for democracy and the popular will. If we are to save Nigeria, we must rescue the electoral process from its abusers,” Tinubu said.

In his view, a great philosophical gulf separates the government from the progressives. “This current Nigerian government is a retrogressive one. Much of what they claim as growth is but the harsh redistribution of wealth from the bottom to the top. The bottom gets squeezed while the top expands. They are serving us the salad of corruption.

“They consume our today and squander the nation’s tomorrow. For 14 years, the PDP-led government cannot turn anything around. A new leadership is required to put a stop to this.”

Tinubu criticised Nigeria’s economic policies, saying the economy is being reconstructed “as an oasis for a small few and a stark desert for the many” while the government pretends to endorse the same budget-cutting austerity policies as much of Europe.

“We are not Europe; we are a Third World economy. That these policies have failed in European nations with higher standards of living than Nigeria gives our leaders no concern.”

Tinubu said the people live in dire straits, yet the government would rather waste the money than spend it on public benefit because they do not believe the people deserve it.

He said the progressives would bring pragmatic solution to the country’s woes because in their approach to the political economy, they do not rely on textbook answers as they do not “live in textbooks.

He said: “We live in the real world and thus seek answers from real world experiences. Here is a real world fact: No large nation has ever attained sustained growth without government running budget deficits to build the required infrastructure and without other government policies promoting development of the key industries that would become the spine of national development.

“Here is another such fact: No populous nation ever attains prosperity solely by extracting its raw material to exchange them for the finished goods of other large nations. We must industrialise and diversify our economy

“It is for this reason – to save the nation from the stranglehold of permanent poverty and poor governance – that the members of the progressive opposition political parties have decided to put aside personal ambition (including my own ambition) to form a new party, the All Progressives Congress (APC). We do this because Nigeria has entered a critical state of economic depression.”

According to Tinubu, because of the unfair nature of the electoral processes and the gross imbalance of its political economy, the people have been props in a drama for which they should have been the main characters. “We must change this,” he said.

He said the progressives must move Nigeria away from a place where the whims and narrow wishes of self-centered reactionary elite dictate the fate of over 150 million people.

“On our side, we will take our chances with a free and fair election, for we shall offer the people an innovative programme consisting of a national industrial policy that includes radical infrastructural development and employment targets,” he said.

The former Lagos governor spoke of “the Glorious Nigerian Revolution”, which he said has nothing to do with force of arms.

His words: “The Revolution of which I speak has two major parts. First, is the peaceful conversion of our quasi-democracy into a full-fledged one. Second, is the implementation of policies turning the political economy away from its retrogressive, elitist bearings.

“We seek policies pointing in a progressive direction affording the average person a chance at a dignified life. This will be through the provision of gainful employment, quality education and essential social services for those who need the helping hand of government to survive.

“I see no shame in believing progressive government can improve the political economy and the lives of the people.”

SixSeven:
For Tinubu, it's always about politics and I hope it doesn't do him in. He is a shrewd politician but he is not equipped for governance. I hope this politics doesn't become his undoing. I had written in a previous post when this news first came out that:



But he has proven us wrong. He is soiling his presidency and personality with mud by HIMSELF.

Before this last election, I observed those who wanted him to be president. Most of them spoke about one favor or the other he did for them or their family. They did not talk about an institution or system that worked. It was what he did for my father, mother or whatever. That is transactional politics. Interestingly, this man wants to be like Awo but Awo ìs still remembered today, if not for anything, for just one single thing. FREE EDUCATION. That is legacy. To Tinubu, everyone has a price. How much is yours?

Yelwata went on Arise News bragging about 12m APC membership.
Who vetted their registered? When was their register last cleaned?

APC is a criminal organization pic.twitter.com/Ms6dTXWEGh

— Moni Ukpeya (@Ntob) May 26, 2026

NEIGHBOUR:
Sorry sir, you seem to be in pain having the time to write all these epistles.
All in all, do you like the way the opposition is fragmented?
Is it not utter selfishness for the leaders of opposition to find it difficult to make sacrifice if truly they want to rescue Nigeria?
In all honesty, the way they are fragmented today, can they in all honesty boast that they can defeat Tinubu?

JuanDeDios:
That one was delegate voting. The current one is direct primaries, all party members vote. Seems people don't know the difference.

Yelwata went on Arise News bragging about 12m APC membership.
Who vetted their registered? When was their register last cleaned?

APC is a criminal organization pic.twitter.com/Ms6dTXWEGh

— Moni Ukpeya (@Ntob) May 26, 2026

Following his loss in the May 2026 Oyo State APC gubernatorial primary election, Adelabu rejected the official results and vehemently disputed claims that the winning candidate, Senator Sharafadeen Alli, polled over 500,000 votes. Through his media aide, Comrade Femi Awogboro, Adelabu released a public statement clarifying his position on the party's database.

The former Minister of Power, Adebayo Adelabu, declared that the actual total number of registered members of the All Progressives Congress (APC) in Oyo State stands at exactly 153,640.

Yelwata went on Arise News bragging about 12m APC membership.
Who vetted their registered? When was their register last cleaned?

APC is a criminal organization pic.twitter.com/Ms6dTXWEGh

— Moni Ukpeya (@Ntob) May 26, 2026

cyril10:
Nigerian Politics is dirty, no iota of decency from most of them, Tinubu is the most dirtiest of them all.

Gentledove2001:
Obi is saying the truth, however, he has no moral justification to criticise Tinubu because talking about governance, Obi is a failure too. So we have two failures.

VenExchangee:
They won't guy, they won't regret anything

fitinwell:
If the one recording is not careful , he will be the one to loose is Job first.

because this looks like it's a chain of networks, not just the laboratory man making phone calls.

To make this moves Works and maintenance will be involve at least a representative from works.

Jman06:
Feminists can write anything and post online just to make themselves feel good. These things are what we see practically around us, so you don't need some cooked up lies to know the truth.

thesicilian:
When a man makes money, he plans a family. When a woman makes money, she plans to distance herself from men. Meanwhile she most likely got that money from men

I’m ready to have a child outside marriage, this year I wanted to have a baby, something happened and I had to choose between that and the baby. At this point, I think if I get pregnant now, I’m just going to have my baby. I have worked so hard, and I think I can take care of myself and three kids. I’m a goal-oriented person that always sets things ahead for myself.”

QuinQ:
One-word answer:
RiGGING!
Directly and indirectly

So it all boils down to number 4, even if opposition unites tghtly, and there is no tribalism!

MIKOLOWISKA:
why is the they
Is he a slave


so he like soft life yet choose vawulence we are why did he give Tom for fed to do emergency
That's on him