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nedekid:
Oga life does not work that way, no one is an island, only an ingrate will say they owe no one.

SixSeven:
What you are sharing sounds like you're getting exhausted with the help you are giving because it keeps returning. One of the things you learn as you grow is not to be bothered by people's reaction but be bothered by your own intention.

This will change the way you do things. You ask yourself why you do what you do. Why? Are you doing it for them or you are doing it for your purpose on earth? It's with that understanding that you will never bother about human beings and their reactions. You won't be distracted by their distraction too. Many people put too much reliance on gratefulness (which is a good thing to have) but sometimes I ask myself, ifManbeGod, do you know how the world would have ended since? How many times do I thank my Creator for my lungs, my eyes, my brain, my nerves, my blood, my lungs, my skin, my hair, my nose, my nails, my eyebrow, my tongue and so many things I took for granted but when you take time to study it, you see the perfection in which you were created and took for granted? If I don't do that and I can't be as merciful as God, then who am I to complain about man to man?



If you keep receipts of those you have "helped", it is not giving, it was business you were doing. I don't keep scores. I score my goal and go to the next match.
It is for this reason I don't bother about the games of the receiver because me I am playing a different champions league. And I know that my favor is not from them because in most religious books I have studied and in spiritual life, the givers never lack but the givers who put condition go slack. If you grew up with grandmas, grandpas and elderly, you'll understand the concept of giving more. They are not dumb when they give but they learned some things from African spirituality in giving. I also don't get carried away by all the money in the world because the concept of money is man made, so we continue In the endless pursuit of paper currency, expecting it to solve problems money will never solve!


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7564773023190945046?

Reverseng:
One should give what they can afford to lose. If they don't, they'll tie their expectations to that excess they gave and this attachment causes suffering

SixSeven:
Didn't they say he is a democrat? A builder of men? A visionary? That man is just a greedy old man. Who was it that said if you let Tinubu in, he will grab more than he can take? Think about being a landlord of Lagos and Rivers 🤡

The greedy can never be satisfied. What they condemned when they were in opposition, now they are doing it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DtjpjOPjuUk

Those who wanted to rewrite his story just made me chuckle. Guy didn't want Fashola serve a second term simply because he wanted to be President. He didn't want anyone to have a record to be compared to him or outshine him. They are just lucky Fashola did not show craze like Ambode did, someone they eventually sent away under the guise of GAC. They now claimed that he made Fashola, he built Lagos, Ambode did not follow master plan. You see how their stories are not consistent. They then called Osinbajo a betrayer. These ones are lords and serfs. Those who refuse to learn history are doomed to repeat it

Amaechi's Defection To APC Is Root Of Rivers State Crisis -- Wike Pt.1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWaYorTOuZc?si=KB-Qbb9SJ5X5AYK-

wehdone:
Congratulations to them


...but I'll never understand these publicity of pregnancy bumps. Same way I can't understand why someone will spend 200k for makeup, just to clean up everything at night when you get back home. Like wtf!!! What the actual f>ck!!!

SixSeven:
The thing about women and the camera is what the engineers of these apps knew about women and they designed it to keep them in it. That's why you see men behave like women today too. It's influence.


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7626437209582734614

I just saw a trend of mothers wearing the clothes of their daughters and what were the comments? Milfage!



The research 👇



You know what's the danger here? Women are also targeted online by desperate men who will then target them online.

This guy explains how easy it is for creepy internet people to figure out where you are. pic.twitter.com/Mep39GT7I6

— non aesthetic things (@PicturesFoIder) April 17, 2026

Edit: just saw this post on front page. It's always women's need to show these things. Attention is their hard drug👇

Kalulu44:
And so, what will you then do with it?

oloriooko:
In this age and time, small boys become fathers so easily

Biodun1929:
I'm a lagoasian, 4 decades and counting. Yeah, i know what happens in lagos politics. Some people even feel Jimi Agbaje was working secretly for tinubu. All that still makes sense, cos of the rational behind them...but with kwankwanso, what can he do for tinubu as a mole? He only has power in Kano, and Obi's fantase is unshakable like Iroko tree, so I don't know what kwankwanso can do if he was actually working for tinubu.

SixSeven:
Repost. I can see it here with the label Chinedu, a scare tactic used by those who aren't themselves Awọn ọmọ Eko🤡 They are full of propaganda, the earlier they start using propaganda to label their opponents, the easier for them to take your eyes away from the ball. Don't forget these same people used propaganda to clean Buhari's mess as a reformed democrat 🤣 I know they were embarrassed that GRV could trace his ancestry to Lagos. The same thing for Doherty. It's easy to pick on the Igbos but those of us who know what the people of Lagos themselves are saying know they want freedom from outsiders which is an irony. Those who lay claim to Lagos can't trace their ancestry. They can't tell you their history because it does not exist. It's not so bad that non indigenes can be who they want to be in Lagos but the hypocrisy stinks when they lay claim to a title that does not belong to them. These are pests.

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That man played the same game with AD so it's not a surprise to see it. Even PDP in Lagos could not be a good opposition because they kept using them as false flag. Look at the last guy who contested for Lagos Governor for PDP last time, he moved to APC and was not ashamed to let you know he worked as a mole. Mr Strategy has used this playbook many times and it works where there are hungry people who can sell their father's house for pittance. It's a Machiavellian type of politics that involves rub my back, I pat you and it's big money involved. Leave integrity for honest people. That one no consain dem.

You see this campaign they are running against Obi and GRV? They did it to Jimi Agbaje. In 2007, he made a good show in his first campaign with a relatively unknown party against Fashola, the next time he campaigned as a PDP man, they called him all manner of names and attached 'Ibo' to him. They already took care of PDP in 2007, they were not expecting an Agbaje to surprise them with organic votes under DPA, they took note from there and ever since then, he can't win their smear campaign. They are always using tribe to scare voters away but those who understand the game can see the fear. I wonder why people can't see this cheap pattern. APC pattern is familiar, that's why I have no pity for them when ipob or obidient give them the same medicine. They are half sides of a coin as far as I am concerned. It's giving them their own medicine. Propaganda must not be allowed to run unchallenged, if Obidients give them in the same coin, at least, it is fire for fire.

Mr Tinubu does not like competition, you are blocking his way. And we all knew this after Funso Williams was taken away from us by those who know themselves. If that man agrees to a debate this time, I will vote for him. But you can tell that he wasn't bothered about competition, that's why he appointed El Rufai and the gang to speak for him at Chatham House while the other contestants spoke for themselves. Mr Teamship does not bother to do presidential media chats, Mr Wike has done more media chats than the President The morning shows the day

SixSeven:
The first thing to teach children today is to not get attachment to this thing called internet or social media. Live the world like a normal person, without having internet relatives. The tech companies need you to feed their platforms with content, the advertisers need you to keep pushing content, the viewers keep watching content while their lives move on and you realize you are the CONTENT. Content creators my foot. It's okay. It brings in money but the day they realise that once you switch off the phone, they don't exist and the world has moved on to another content creator, that is when they know the purpose of their existence.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7554071973425335583

Research shows social media platforms use engineering and psychology to keep women engaged through picture-sharing. By understanding triggers like social validation, self-esteem, and social comparison, algorithms amplify image-centric usage. This exploits natural psychological desires for connectedness, but creates negative mental health loops like self-objectification and body dissatisfaction...

Social media's disproportionate impact on women is driven by a combination of platform design and distinct psychological vulnerabilities. A comprehensive study by Stanford University found that gender bias is significantly more prevalent in online images than in text, creating a powerful psychological effect because visual media is processed implicitly and retained much longer than written language. Because women more heavily adopt highly visual platforms like Instagram and TikTok, they are continuously exposed to idealized, algorithmically amplified imagery that triggers upward social comparison. This feedback loop severely disrupts self-esteem and body image; internal research cited by UNESCO revealed that 32% of teenage girls felt that Instagram directly worsened their body image anxieties.

This guy explains how easy it is for creepy internet people to figure out where you are. pic.twitter.com/Mep39GT7I6

— non aesthetic things (@PicturesFoIder) April 17, 2026

nlfpmod:
Pregnant Billionaire daughter, Temi Otedola and her husband, Mr Eazi have welcomed their first child together.

Sharing her maternity photos, Mrs Temiloluwa Ajibade wrote:



https://www.instagram.com/p/DYmvFAADNpB/?igsh=aDh0aWRpYXZkcnl3

BarrElChapo:
Go and bring me one celebrity jewels that were diamonds that’s has sold exceptionally higher than the price it was bought.

Go and do your research diamond doesn’t hold value. Only Gold does. Stop yapping about what you know absolutely nothing about 😂

oloriooko:
Too much money for a small boy, this is utter rubbish pure childish play

tonididdy:
They had better be cooking.
It's not easy to beat a thief to his craft.
They had better be cooking!
I really want a regime change in 2027 at least to weaken this APC stronghold on the country.
It's cult like and disturbing

Eriokanmi:
And that's a fact. Obi walks his talk. In late Buhari's words when he came to ayinke house at Lasuth to commission it after tinubu ran abroad ahead of time, NIGERIA IS BIGGER THAN ANY INDIVIDUAL. That statement will really make sense next year. Nigeria is too big than envisaged.

SixSeven:
He is. It is in this scenario that he can never be able to match Awolowo's legacy of free education. He was the first to raise the school fees of LASU to a high fee and they claimed that education wasn't cheap. That move made education out of reach. Now the same thing is playing out, after school fees have been increased due to his policies, they then give you a Greek gift called student loans. Not grant, a loan. So you are indebted to pay what they raised so high due to their policies.

What is being done in federal is no different than what he did as a Governor. You don't teach an old dog new tricks.



I like him though, he does not pretend to be what he is not. It's those who pretend that he is malevolent that surprise me. I am sure you watched his remarks at the African CEO Conference in Kenya. He has no mercy for the poor so whenever someone shows you who they are, believe them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SaBwOsHPUhA

tonididdy:
There's too much to do in such short time.
Defeating 🦇 Bat needs a long-term planning with a solid foundation that should have being existing since 2020 or a decade even.
That was the structure LP was building with Obi but tinibu knew this is the way to get to him and what happened to obi and LP after 2023?
Destruction! Confusion! Migrations!

Accordingly, the Commission has resolved as follows:

Presidential and National Assembly Elections will now hold on Saturday, 16th January 2027.

Governorship and State Houses of Assembly Elections will now hold on Saturday, 6th February 2027.

tonididdy:
Do you mean the obi threats ?

Charlie I doubt this Ok movement is anywhere near the obideient movement.
The momentum has died and the new party name is not even recognizable yet unlike when everyone knew LP

Well the rallies hopefully will correct that but I fear it's too short a notice

In December 2014, Bubari emerged as the presidential candidate of the All Progressives Congress party for the 2015 general election. Buhari won the election, defeating incumbent President Goodluck Jonathan. It was the first time in the history of Nigeria that an incumbent president lost a re-election bid.

SixSeven:
Aside Obi and Kwankwanso, no other politician has been able to prove themselves ALONE outside the establishment.

Repost👇

Obi has the brightest chance going by the last election result followed by Kwankwanso. I choose these two because they left PDP and did not have the structure of the regular party, which Atiku benefitted from using the PDP platform. You also have to look at the time they had to test themselves between the election primaries and election.

If you want to know what that means, Ribadu ran the Presidential election in 2011 under AC and failed with that party structure. Obi and Kwankwanso have been able to test their popularity as candidates outside the regular establishments and done well. Both had no Governors in their party before contesting and pulled a good number in the last election. Buhari used his CPC to bargain with AC to get the Presidential slot in APC. Buhari could say whether he used ANPP or CPC, he could gather votes. I'm not so sure Atiku can do that. He was a presidential candidate of the Action Congress in the 2007 presidential election coming in third to Umaru Yar'Adua of the PDP and Muhammadu Buhari of the ANPP. Atiku came a distant third in that election with less than 10% of the votes.


Obi and Saraki/Kwankwanso

A Saraki will be a difficult campaign for APC that has defaulted to using tribes against themselves. Saraki ticks two boxes of Yoruba/North Central who have been looking for relevance since Gowon.

Here is the stats of the declared winners since 1999. Mr Bola Ahmed tinubu was not a popular president elect

Here is the brief, factual list of Nigeria’s presidential election winners since 1999, including each winner’s name and the percentage of valid votes they received.

1999 – Olusegun Obasanjo: about 62.78% of valid votes.

2003 – Olusegun Obasanjo: about 61.94% of valid votes.

2007 – Umaru Musa Yar’Adua: about 69.60% of valid votes.

2011 – Goodluck Jonathan: about 58.87% of valid votes.

2015 – Muhammadu Buhari: about 53.96% of valid votes.

2019 – Muhammadu Buhari: about 55.60% of valid votes.

2023 – Bola Ahmed tinubu: about 36.6–37% of valid votes.


A United opposition will defeat tinubu before the election begins. With a wiiiiiiiiiiiiiide margin. There is no need to argue about that.

Fact: Tinubu remains the most unpopular president to have won the Presidential elections. He is the easiest to kick out. Back then, PDP told AC, CPC and opposition parties when they were reigning that to kick us out, you need to unite as opposition. That's what they learned in 2015.

tonididdy:
Atiku has never wanted to be president.
He's just a dividing and distraction tool.
When buhari needed power at all cost, he made a violent treat, what happened next?

So atiku is a mole, that's my stand personally.

SixSeven:
Akpabio today started in PDP. Served as a Governor for two terms. Promised to defend votes for GEJ but today is singing on your mandate.

Saraki was in the PDP. Dislodged his father and disrupted Tinubu's plan to select people to be the Senate President but destroyed his party and joined forces with APC. Now he's in ADC.

Atiku and Tinubu go far back as SDP but they went their ways in 1999, got a deal in 2003 to save Lagos, Tinubu worked with PDP to save his AD and joined Atiku once again in AC and eventually APC to dislodge Jonathan. Today they are friends, tomorrow they are contesting.

Kwankwaso was a Governor and minister. He was once in PDP. Went to NNPP. Now in NDC with OBI. Obi, Kwankwaso and Atiku were all once in PDP.

Nigerian politics has never been enemies at the top, it is a game for them. It's the followers who want to kill themselves because if you want to know how they don't fight themselves, watch any event diary show and see how they attend each other's weddings, birthdays and burial events. Obasanjo that fought Tinubu as governor was still at an event where Tinubu came there. Don't die in their game.

We don't really have strong party followers in Nigeria and even if we do, at least it's not do or die like how much the republicans don't want to hear anything from the democrats.

tonididdy:
Nothing's going to happen unless a military coup which in my opinion will be worse.

But say a revolution that will finally lead to a presidential execution ....not in this country.

tonididdy:
I have said it a 1000x and will say it 1001x again

tinibu is responsible for atikus lifestyle I won't be surprised if this kwankwaso aligation turns to be true because how does a nothern force like kwankwaso that is like a religion in the north succumb to become a VP and give up his multitude of worshippers under a new name

Just doesn't add up!

tonididdy:
The Nigerian masses do not have that romanaian mindset.
Everyone is suffering but yet afraid to die.
We will never get to that position of grabbing what is ours, never!

Na police officer wey threaten "record me and die" na one come dey on our side.

Unless there's an underground equipping and training of a large community of masses who want change violently, the average Nigerian mindset is built on fear.

Nobody wants to die.

Biodun1929:
That's true. What could be the rational behind him allegedly working for Tinubu? It makes no sense.

tonididdy:
But I don't think the force is great enough to defeat the BAT at aso rock.
It's very difficult to unseat and incumbent president in Nigeria unless the leader is a weak one and sadly tinibu is something else!

SixSeven:
Kwankwaso gave his interview on Sunday, then you come out to speak for him on Tuesday. Isn't God wonderful? Can't he speak for himself? This will then make Arise have another interview with Kwankwaso in the name of right to reply, this time, with better audio quality. Daily Trust, you ruined that interview with poor audio, you guys should have quality control before videos go out.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FzCJ2mQreiA

BarrElChapo:
He even posted a picture of the three of them 🤣🤣

In Buddhism, giving with the expectation of gratitude, praise, or a reward from the recipient is recognized as a common human impulse, but it is considered an inferior or impure form of giving.
While it still generates some positive karma, it does not lead to spiritual liberation because it is driven by ego and attachment.