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PattyMike:
Don’t judge!
I gave them the best life, best school, drive to school in the morning n pick ‘em up at noon. I live in a 3 bed duplex, they sleep in aircon rooms. She is with her parents, they moved from ajah to Epe and I don’t know the new address. Yes I have the option to send money to the moms acct without communication as she hasn’t picked my call in 3 months. She petitioned me to human rights and didn’t bother showing up, I drove 4 hours and all ended in futility. How can I seek the help of the court if there’s no address to serve them a notice. This same woman brags around her brothers are rich and she is capable enough to take care of the kids. Just one month of handling bills she run go human rights, I provided steadily for 2 years plus. Before I remember buy boxers for myself I spend all I earn on my family, 60% of my boxers are torn. I hadn’t bought clothes in over a year yet I am working and earning 7 figures. She knows those kids are my life, the best way to punish me is to take them away.

Do u know I attempted suicide the second week they left, I cried everyday the first week without my children. I would’ve died if not for timely intervention of my bestfriend. Don’t be quick to judge my dear friend.

Do u know I have been battling depression n suicidal thoughts for the past 3 months, randomly burst into tears when I see other toddlers with thier dad going to school. The shame n stigma of a broken marriage especially when everyone knows I’m the cause. She made sure everyone knew this, both family n friends home & abroad. I lost friends n business associates and almost lost my sanity, I go waka for road dey talk to myself lol.

Unfortunately I don’t blame her, she has become a monster of my own creation. Leave the marriage if that’s your decision but don’t punish those kids for my mistake.

My biggest weakness na my children, she knows and her family knows. Unfortunately my innocent kids have become a pawn in this dangerous game they’re playing.

Attached is my first n second from 5 months ago.

You’re wasting your precious time responding to that entity. You must be new here, go through people’s post before according them replies. Anyone with a handful of brain cells understands what you’re going through. How many women do you see on this page? They know the truth and avoid it. The two women that said the truth are exceptional, the rest will prefer to stick to their so called narrative.

Sorry about your experience, I can relate. Women will always try to use your weaknesses against you, I would have said you should lock up but we’re not the same. Only the hard hearted men win in this scenario.

Society will whine you about old age or going to beg the children later when it’s their mother that obviously brainwashed them but don’t budge. Find someone else and move on if you can. Nobody cares about the men’s side of the story

For someone who claimed to have worked on 22 sites. What you posted here is very sketchy and scant.

Gone through your profile also, you never finish your threads, make me think you’re probably a middleman or someone that just signed up, got one or two gigs and is now claiming to be a guru.

By the way I have people on those sites, it’s very hard to get in as a newbie. Anyone who wants to sign up should find someone who’s already established in it and can tutor effectively .

Not all this half assed info marketers

Just be yourself. Don't talk too much. And depending on how much you know about them. Just Take some gifts along, don't show off

Be confident. That's the key.

The way you allow people to treat you is what will continue.

Maintain your lane, focus on your family, try and draw your siblings close and only call him once in a year.

Respect is reciprocal. Stop feeling subservient to him.

Agree it won’t solve your problems and find something to do immediately. We suffer more in imagination than reality

Leave all this talk, enter dating apps as a guy and set it to looking for males in your location. Most of you will shock.

onuku:
I rest my case. Feeding is less than $1K, compared to someone that spends thousands a month on mortgage, car notes, insurances, property tax, utility taxes.
The folks that live abroad will understand.

You’re wasting your time with most of those that quoted you. They don’t intend to see from your point of view and I don’t blame them, most can never shoulder those kinds of responsibilities without running amok.

Cut down your spending to the basics, focus on you and the kids. Let her spend her money on herself. If she doesn’t come around, you know she won’t change. Start planning in advance and put money aside for any eventuality in the future so you don’t end up empty handed.

Na so most of them be, Your own is to be prepared for anything that comes.

One step at a time. 2 hours a day.

There’s actually a free one I saw on twitter today by a less popular instructor. Just search for aws and check. I scanned through it and it has similar content.

Just have to find a way to combine this with the practicals

Richardomatic:
Perhaps, you were sleeping when I posted about the issue that happened for the $10k deal.

For now, for now, I will keep silent as I'm being instructed by my learned fellow.

That’s sarcasm. It’s their way of telling you to F off. If you have outbounded like craze like most here, you can easily tell which prospects are not interested.

And guy, that your marketing BS won’t work here, you’re not the first nor would be the last. You talk too much

BS that was years ago and she looked fine base on her previous pictures until she went ahead to turn to this.

Is the use of steroids included? Or those muscles also occured naturally

incogni2o:
The issue is money being the currency of evrything nowadays.

In the days where money isn't needed to get Tubers of Yam, Buckets of Rice, Tomatoes, Pepper, Firewood. Houses and Beds.

It made more sense.

True but imagine this

The wife and husband have strong minds of their own with a touch of foresight for the future.

They agree together on the arrangements and the requirements. The wife cautions her people, the guy does according to his pocket. E make sense?

Haven’t seen any of my circles that did expensive weddings. One’s wife made him just do sitting room introductions with her parents, another one did a 50 people invite only wedding. And another one small mini with less than 20 in attendance. And this are tech bros and ladies. They can afford it. They are still together and thriving.

The problem is mostly men who easily get swayed by public opinion, families and women. And marrying the wrong person who doesn’t think the same way you do about finances. Then come back later to cry wolf

He who pays the piper dictates the tune. This is what I have and I will stick to it. To hell with whatever anyone else thinks. A good woman will understand and support his decision.

That’s one of the measures of a man.

Maximus692:
Most people don't know the secret behind this traditions that's why you are speaking like this.
It was instituted to know the financially strength of the man or family a woman is getting married to once certified that she is marrying a wealthy family the parents don't need anything from their in-laws at least their daughter is automatically a wealthy woman if she knows her way.
Kumuyi is deceiving his followers because no family will demand for a kobo knowing fully well that the woman is getting married to a world class celebrity pastor all they need is returns after their daughter marry Kumuyi.
Abegi which sister, brother, cousin or close relative of this woman will like to travel or go to university but will find it difficult after she marry Kumuyi?
Make unah dey play!

Times have changed. Make everyone do accordingly to what they can afford. It doesn’t make sense to waste money on expensive weddings and burials for when you know somehow you will suffer the after effects later. And it’s the man I pity. The woman can easily walk out like the one that left her husband after he took loans to finance the expensive wedding she wanted. Laughed at him also.

Summary for those who missed it with some of my weekly earnings.

Moving on

GarkiAccessory:
Hello Boss
How is it going
I need your help in some aspects

Sorry, can’t help. Given you all you need. I dropped a free summary for a guy in one of my replies. Anyone can pick that up and run with it.

Any inquiries apart from that is a luxury I can’t afford.

When your finances starts to balance with your expenses. You’ll know it’s time to scale up and take more risks. Because this economy is not smiling at all.

I would be focusing on ads and affiliate marketing for two of my online hustles next month let me compare. Tik tok ads cost money but I heard it’s worth it. Then route back some of the proceeds into domaining. Increasingly getting tired of hustles that takes a lot of my time. I prefer passive incomes stuffs.

I’m tired, seems like the more money you make, the more the bills. I do have savings though.

Altschool project group is quiet, lol. Seems What an old student said about this was true. Wish I didn’t waste money on this.

I was lucky to join a personal cloud group though, we’ll go far with our own curriculum than what altschool is giving.

All this and one still has to study for certification, no wonder so many people give up.

GarkiAccessory:
Okay
Thanks alot Sir

Please can you guide me on how to go about it?

Just click register and follow the prompts.

The course shouldn’t take you a week. When you’re done going through it, Let me know here so I can fill you in on some aspects and bring you up to date.

Don’t skip the basics please.

GarkiAccessory Don’t have access to that mail. Nothing wrong with the link just remove the spaces & last dot

Been skipping my alt school classes, I know about ssh, user management etc already

Logged in yesterday to check and noticed something that finally caught my attention.

Ansible, Finally. Something worthy.

And we have been notified of our upcoming group project, Lol. I hope I get into a group of achievers else, hmmm. It’ll probably just die a quiet death like the HNG project for those that dropped out. Projects have a way of exposing the ones that can’t take the heat.

You want to do tech but give up easily at the first hurdle, Smh. Very annoying sets

ogyunging:
Pls could you guide me on how to land online survey gigs? Thanks

I’ve dropped the free summary for taking online surveys . Or you go for the intensive course. Choose one and go for it.

Jecci:
Can I get someone outside to register and set up a profile in their name and then I login with VPN to the survey sites to answer questions will it work like that?

Sure, it’s the best way sef

Nastydroid:
Hello Sorry to deviate your thread, were you able to get a UK/US paypal for yourself? if yes how did you go about it?

Use vpn

dahflemzy:
God bless you…this summary is a headway and I wouldn’t want to derail the purpose of this thread. Thanks boss. I’ll make my researchs and give you feedback hopefully soon.

Concerning tech, I’m thinking about moving away from databases to either AI/ML or solidity blockchain development. Do you have any resources or roadmap I can use?

You’re welcome.

Sorry, I have no idea for that line. Try roadmap. sh and search through twitter.

Omo, Tech isn’t easy if you don’t have other stable means of income. When it’s too stable or take your time, your zeal for learning will also reduce

I make roughly 200-300k from online surveys per month, among other hustles and guess what? Apart from the fact it takes a huge amount of my time, to read anything or follow classes dey hard me. Damn!

Can’t wait to get done with Alt school & get my certification.

But for now, we must survive. Inflation and responsibilities be making you feel like you’re making jack shit.

Jacktheripper:
Your comprehension naivety is not admirable. Your brain is powered by a single cell.

Lmao. Pele

The narrator in the attached screenshot kinds of support your narrative.

But personally I’m wary of people like you and her.

For you, you failed to consider men also do the same, propose to those who they know don’t like them , tie down women with pregnancies etc

For her, dismissing the other gender submissions with slurs, that’s common among the so called sensible feminists. Even those who most times relate & agree with men very well.

It points to a deeper problem, both of you have unresolved inner issues with the opposite sex and hide behind all this labels to dish out advice.

Make una heal first. Then deal from a place of neutrality especially as a guy. I’ve been there

Jacktheripper:
If you can send the Reddit link showing same story, I will send you 50K.

https://www.reddit.com/r/nosleep/s/grlEELZqFt

That’s just one link. There are other variants of that story flying around. I’m sure I can find the exact template you copied and rephrased.

By the way, you can ch o ke on your imaginary 50k, boy

Coming here to drop fake ass stories, same like that other guy manifesting ufos at will.

Lol, what’s with people lifting short fiction stories from reddit nowadays.

What you described is not new especially to people who have somehow entangled themselves with UFOs etc, I can recognise and accurately guess what some of the pictures are about but I doubt if it’s yours and you didn’t just lift it off reddit or 4chan paranormal thread.

It’s rare to see an african with natural highly developed abilities like that especially those connected with UFO’s. Most whites with those abilities have been experimented on & are watched like lab rates through generations.

If it’s real and you’re not a larper. Already mentioned 2 sites. Go there and meet like minds. Most here are still locked in survival mode leaving no space for higher brain activities or contemplation. It’s like throwing pearls before swine.

An average african doesn’t believe in astral travel and will not try even when given the steps due to their slave religious beliefs , those are not the kind of people you will introduce UFO / NHI lore to.