₦airaland Forum

Samusu:
Some people can decide to be mad just like that

hahahhahaha

JuanDeDios:
So many assumptions. You have no idea what boredom (which isn't necessarily the absence of love) does to people. Do you have a friend who is a divorce lawyer? You should listen to him or her talk about these things.

That dude has serious Ish. Calling his fellow man deluded and miserable because he wants his wife back. Seems he loves that a white woman is dating an African man and ditching a white man. See d white woman sef tufia.

Some guys too dey fall hand sha. See wetin person dey defend. Which normal person abandons their family for someone they've never met.

NigerDeltan:
Nice one! HML

He who findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord

Some ladies here are writing "no pms pls" on their profile, day go soon break and by then Shiloh will deny una access to the centre

Probably they are taken already. There is life outside nairaland

kennygee:
Black people are the mist attractive people in the world. I am not being racist. Its the truth.

I think so too but sadly some blacks don't agree

Igbo people on social media are a very sad bunch and struggle with self esteem. Why must they tribalise everything. Some other ethnic groups are guilty of this too.

There are a good number of things to talk about here and improve on our Iqs but somehow we just refuse to look beyond bigotry

pesinfada:
Was d guy rejectd by a Nigerian company?
Wetin Nigeria do now

Abeg help me ask the okpo

khiaa:
1. I repeat, how is she productive by marrying a white boy?

Except the bride told us she was marrying him for gain the question is very unnecessary. Basing of your opinion from another's opinion is a poor way to reason.

2. It's a fact in America, white men aren't stealing African women, African women are attracted to white men in AMERICA and are seeking them out.

If you observed most African interracial marriages are between Africans and Europeans hardly btw Americans.
Another observation which you are unwilling to have is that African immigrants in America both men and women prefer to hang out with whites to black Americans. Some have narrated their ugly experiences with African Americans, "the stagnant and never-do-well who for reasons distance themselves from Africans" group in America. Surely it was a choice btw which group was the lesser evil.

And yet another observation, most African immigrants hang out a lot with one another.

There is nothing wrong with seeking out other races of people to date, absolutely nothing except in black American community where it is a taboo esp for women. So it is understandable when an African American likens any type of white-African relationship to white ass licking.

3. In my opinion he isn't handsome and in America they behave like they have a trophy. *FACT*

That's because you are black American. Some of you are no friends of logic. Most of your conclusions are emotional-based and ridden with sentiments and malice. Whites are the forbidden race/subhumans and somehow still manage to be superior to blacks according to your pepper soup logic because hell no they can't "stoop low" to date a black. The black person must have forced him/her self on them.

4. Stop being a hypocrite.

Am I?

5. You have to be really mentally messed up to think that I am pained because your sisters date/marry white guys, how would that affect me?

How did that not affect you when it made you narrate white and black "history"? even when no one was interested.

lefulefu:
my brother dey never get caught.for my state sef na wetin a number of young guys dey do na.dem use this come and marry yahoo scam take hook up one old ugly whitey.even wen married to the whitey dem go secretly come home come marry their girlfriend and settle her well.or dey can divorce their oyibo wife and send for their babe here and marry her.na the racket wey sharp boys dey play now.i know a man in my home wey marry one old Dutch lady for Holland.the guy come back marry a naija woman then set up an eatery then place im naija in charge of it.not only the dutch lady and naija lady this guy marry oo.he also get another wife for Canada.this man ehn pepper rest for im side.naija no dey carry last.

I tire for some naija guys even one wife fit give u problem, u come add 2 on top. Na real wa

lefulefu:
nigerian guys who get hooked up with white ladies based on what i have seen around here do so for green card or papers.u need to see some of these ladies.many of them are fugly,overweight and very old.what would attract a young man in dat?.its mainly for the papers....nothing more.

hahhahaha those ones get their own wahala. Their own na to disgrace the whole continent. Everyday for the thief one day go be for owner.

@khiaa I don't care whether you think white people are part animals bla bla like you said in other posts I didn't bother to capture. That's what you believe and your problem. And neither did I care what you thought of the groom's appearance. (unless u are trying to call me a gay or something I do not know what you are driving at) What got my attention was the post about him being a trophy husband to her. And you were by implication saying she had an inferior complex. Like I said earlier you know nada about that bride neither do I except what we saw on that thread. You would have acted civil and maybe composed your posts better than speak with so much certainty about African women and the whole African people in general.

I created this thread about an abnormally that I noticed among few African men who are obsessed with bringing down Nigerian women in their quest for white love. I have no problem with interracial relationships as far as that is what some people want. Painting a whole group bad because you want an exit is what I am against. That bride did not rubbish African men because she was going for a white one except you have proofs that she did and hence does not deserve to be roped in that trophy/inferiority garbage you spewed.

I responded harshly I admit and I apologize but this was because I wanted you to taste same bitter pill of generalising without proofs.

khiaa:
You are a liar, I never said that African woman (the bride ) had a inferiority complex I said YOU have a INFERIORTY COMPLEX and YOU are a BUFFOON. How did you shut me up when you were the one who got clowned on your buffoonery. Again you are a liar, what disgusting things did I say about African women? Also I didn't run into that thread I was called in.

Besides being a liar you are also a HYPOCRITE, telling me not to demonise a whole group of people when YOU are the one who demonised the whole group of Black American women in your re.tarded childish rant.

You didn't come to African women defense because I never said anything about them. What pissed you off is when I said the white boy wasn't handsome and that statement for some odd reason hurt your feelings and you got extremely emotional and started your rant.

I don't know you but I'm very sure that you need to see a therapist before things deteriorate further because you sound like someone on the verge of suicide.

I don't care how you came in to the thread but however you came in it you sounded scorned and defeated from the go(I know because those smilies couldn't hide your bitterness). I would have probably ignored you and never commented on that thread if you had stopped at your third or fourth posts. But you were all over people's mentions telling them the bride threw herself at him because that's what African women in America do.

Here are the ones that bother on this discussion.

khiaa:
You are a liar, I never said that African woman (the bride ) had a inferiority complex I said YOU have a INFERIORTY COMPLEX and YOU are a BUFFOON. How did you shut me up when you were the one who got clowned on your buffoonery. Again you are a liar, what disgusting things did I say about African women? Also I didn't run into that thread I was called in.

Besides being a liar you are also a HYPOCRITE, telling me not to demonise a whole group of people when YOU are the one who demonised the whole group of Black American women in your re.tarded childish rant.

You didn't come to African women defense because I never said anything about them. What pissed you off is when I said the white boy wasn't handsome and that statement for some odd reason hurt your feelings and you got extremely emotional and started your rant.

I just got the thread now Let me post screen shots

Topgainer:
Pastorpreneurs are writing a new Bible that will answer all of the questions. Excerpts from the proposed Book of tithe to be included in the revised new testament.
Verse 1. If it is not your field you dare not put mouth. Daddy Freeze should shut up and allow the ordained Levites collect and manage that money.

2. You dare not ask the Daddy Papa how he used the money.
Verse 3. you shall allow God to judge the usuage because it doesn't concern you.
Verse 4. If you are not paying you shall get divine curses from Jesus
Verse 5. If you are not paying, you shall not dissuade those obeying the command afterall it is not your money.
Verse 6. I tithe, come and beat me.
Verse 7. Unto you Christians it is given this law to bring all the money tithe to the Pastor and his Church Center.
Verse 8. The Pastor is hereby commanded to use it to build Universities, estates, businesses and corporations for the Lord.
Verse 9. The Pastor must ensure that tithe cards and registers are printed and issued out to all Christians. Defaulters shall not be allowed to wed, be buried or have the Church attend to them.
Verse 10. Anybody who questions the status quo shall die.

hahahahahhah

He said rubbish.

Beating around the bush without tackling the salient points. That's how you know someone is not saying the truth.

She might be beautiful inside but outside a no sure

They will dump it too.

I may not agree with some of your points but I understand you

jaheymezz:
see what am saying......some one posted on your thread that you need cane.... and that's right you surely do

Get sense bro

jaheymezz:
why are most Nigerian girls not beautiful naturally self?........ na Asian sure pass

You see what I'm saying! Check my latest thread guy and see how hmm you sound

Another man's property. She looks sweet sha

khiaa:
What a hypocrite you are, you were giving praise to a Nigerian woman for marrying a white man.

Madam can you show me the posts where I was praising a Nigerian woman for marrying a white man? You were the one that ran into an interracial marriage thread accusing the bride you don't know zilch about of inferiority complex. And I immediately had to shut you up. I went overboard I know but it was because of the disgusting things you said about African women.

Clearly, I am not against interracial relationships. Just don't demonise a whole group because you want someone from another group. I've not found Nigerian women wanting here, when I do, I will say it.

MrBrownJay1:
at the above in bold...
yet, you wanna judge ALL men due to the actions of a few?!?!?!
yet, you want ALL black men to settle for any woman, just because she is black?!?!?

Get my message clear. It is not about that gentle black man that quietly marries a woman that happens to be white it is for guys that denounce the whole Nigerian women because they met the ones
that look silly or sound silly and praise white women because they met the ones that seemed good or nice from a distance. Heck, most have probably never come in close contact with any but they have a long list of how better they are than Nigerian women?

How come this comparison is never questioned? Who compares a nationality to a race. Shouldn't it be nationality vs nationality, race by race?

so are you saying that ALL Nigerian women are great, and should be viewed as the dream woman for ALL Nigerian men (regardless of their actions, their "possible" foul attitude, their "possible" goldigging antics, their "possible" ashi tendencies or even their "possible" high sense of self)?!?

It's obvious that not all Nigerian women are great, it's obvious that not all British women are great or American or South African. It's obvious that in all nations of the world there consist a large proportion of women who are every shades of a rotten personality. I have a problem when malicious negropeans make this a Nigerian problem alone when the facts are in your faces. They should not waste people's times with these laughable reasons and come out of their closet and get to see that no one cares if they prefer purple or green women. There is a problem if they would not go to their fantasies in peace.

and whats wrong with white women?! so a person shouldnt have preferences?! in your world, a black man MUST date/prefer to be with a black woman AT ALL COST?! here we can clearly see that YOU have an issue with white (or non black) women.

Nothing is wrong with moving on with white women. Can people just move on without bringing others down?

and what's wrong with that?! are you saying that because a man is surrounded by a certain king/type of women, he should AUTOMATICALLY long for these women, whether they are good or bad, attractive or not, or simply NOT HIS PREFERENCE.

I won't say expressly if I think it's wrong or not. It may or may not be and this depends on the circumstances surrounding such preference. However, why do they have to hide the very reason they find fault in Nigerian women? Cowardice. Naff said.

you are willing to be with a black woman,at all cost, whether they give you triple the trouble a white woman would give you (or not), yet you are here looking down on men who do exactly the same with white women?! what an hypcrite...

I am willing to be with black women. And I am willing to not wail over the deficiencies of white women because I want black women. This is a healthy mindset that everyone should have but Negropeans won't stop being negropeans.

so if a man finds white/latina/asian etc women more pleasing, why should he settle for what he finds NOT so pleasing?!? the issue here is that , a man who has never tasted chicken, will never know that its better than bred..... many settle for less due to NO CHOICE, while other have tasted chicken and know HOW a woman should act in any union. the minute you find such woman, you will NEVER think of going back to deluded broke woman who have no idea how to A) please a man, B) act/think right or C) is real (fake hair, skin tone etc)

Guy you like other races of women. Fine! No problem. Go to them and leave black women out of your struggle for white love. Some wear fake hair, so do other races of women. Some tone their skins so do some Asian women, while some white women tan their skins.

Lots of white women are getting full lips now, butt enhancement and what have you but we never see you show disgust for them. Why? because you are negropean, in your eyes white women and others can do no wrong.

the above has NOTHING to do with race, but all to do with ATTITUDE and environment, and sadly, many of our broke and hungry sista in Africa have lost the plot (in their aim to become the next Kim K slay garbage).

You
are a joke. And that's why the most unstable relationships are in western countries? With all that "angelic" attitude, only few white women should be having problems with men and many be home keepers. But the reverse is the case?

the important issue here would be, why woukd anybody care what black men desire?! if a woman has the right CHARACTER, the right MINDSET, the right WAY OF LIFE, then they wouldnt worry about what men prefer... it is all them broke and deluded women that would/should worry, they are the one who are oftenly left behind. there are many broken and "liability" women out there, and thinking that men should settle for them (at all cost), simply because of the color of their skin, is the joke of the week!

If you have found a good woman who happens to be white, go for her and leave black women alone. Black people have gone through a lot in this world. Black women have to face racism, sexism, societal pressure, poverty, the worst conditions yet they still stand with us? Do we deserve them for all that we put them through and what they go through in the world? Are we not supposed to show more empathy since we face racism/oppression in this world too? We are supposed to understand our women more instead of standing on the roof top announcing their weaknesses. What tangible thing have we black men contributed to this world that makes some of you so puffed up against our women?

the reason why many men go/live abroad and come back to marry in Nigeria is because they want a SUBMISSIVE woman who will be their slave in every possible way. a woman that cant/ shouldnt think for herself and instead be dependent of these men (aka a zombie). are you saying that there are NO black Nigerian/African women abroad?! are you saying that these men couldnt find ablack wife abroad?! if thats the case then what kind of broken men are these?! why dont these deluded men marry the sistas abroad then, if it was only about skin color?! these men you are talking about are the worst of their kind, and sadly, because they know so many deluded women are desperate to go abroad, they will have easy picking to find a wife/slave in these deluded bunch of desperate women.

What is wrong with a submissive woman? Isn't that the natural order of things that men should head women. No don't redefine submissiveness. It is not slavery like you lots like to console yourself.

American, western culture is shit culture. There is nothing to be desired from it. Thanks to you guys, used yourselves as social experiments. Now the whole world can see the fastest way to loose it is to be westernised

a good man can find a woman anywhere in this world, whether black white or even purple... it is only these broken deluded men, that want a slave servant (as a wife) that will obey them like they were emperor, that go back home to pick a wife (usually in the deepest part of the village/forrest).

***spit on floor and leave this thread***

Assuming things! Don't be pained.

You want white woman, oya go and get her.
Don't Make Nigerian women look bad to others because you are afraid that if you go one white man would come whisk them away. So you have to make them appear worse than the devil so no one would come close. And it would be a win win for you.

Negropeans

Cc Lalasticlala, mynd44

I'm a guy so I know whatsupp with these guys who come hear to decry Nigerian ladies. Don't over think it. It's not that you are worse than other ladies. It's not that you smell as they say or are gold diggers as they claim or boring and all that. Do you believe that nonsense? We are individuals with varying personalities. There are interesting and boring people in all corners of this world.

The only reason these few misfits in our society have a problem with Nigerian women is because they secretly lust after white skin. This is the truth and I'll take few more words to buttress this.

Have you observed the moment they are done wailing about Nigerian women, their next words are followed with their preference for white women. Why not Ghanaian women? Senegalese women? Kenyan women? Why white women?

Yep, Nigerian women may be a secondary cause of this abnormally but the primary cause of their outbursts is their under cover hatred for black skin. They are negropeans who have found themselves in an African man's body and wish by all means they were surrounded by other races.

Even if white women gave them double of the troubles they claim they are going through in the hands of Nigerian women, they would not complain.
I will explain further. People are generally patient and more tolerable when they are with people they find more aethestically pleasing than otherwise.

Nigerian women this is my advice. This men are a minority and a lot more conditioned to find other races of women more attractive. They are the hardcore team foreign women members. They won't tell you this but I am telling you. Now, don't waste your time advising this men to search more for "good" women. You are just wasting your time.

Continue being yourselves, get busy with your lives and worry about what the majority of us think. Why do you think many Nigerian men who go to western countries to work their asses off still come back to wife you?

Lol it's simple. They have seen what these negropeans in our midst have not seen in white skin. And trust me it's not pleasing to the eyes, ears or soul.

drizzymadbet:
[b]Chai this is a reflection of some of our naija girl[/b]s, most of em would never want you to give em a surprise visit.


Dirty and unkempt girls is an instant turn off

Even when the topic isn't about our naija girls you just had to bring them in.
For those of u that derive joy insulting Nigerian women because you secretly lust for white skin, u na don see sey dirty knows no race or nationality. Hahahhaha frustrated guys everywhere.

pdpisGONE:
BAD most nigerian ladies are like this this is why they smell #disgusting

See frustration. Na naija guys dey smell wella. Talk true for once.

Thank God for seeing you through.

Dem never talk wetin dey happen

Attention seeker

She is pretty but needs to watch her weight.

mumu guy sense fall on your brain