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FRANCISTOWN:
Is Nairaland a dating app?
I understand that there are men like you who lack self esteem and don't have the courage to ask ladies out in real life so, they hide behind in the internet. Anyways there are other social media for you.

Women may be the salt of your own Nairaland, but the level of intelligence about the philosophy of life and economy is the tastiest salt I find on NL.

Let ladies speak for themselves. When did you become ladies' spokeperson slave?

Women are the salt. My ass.

Ogbeni sharrap jare

Just dey talk trash

How will you have a balanced view in this section if women are not involved?

If truly this is what you believe "the level of intelligence about the philosophy of life and economy is the tastiest salt I find on NL " you will not be a sexist. E dey your body

Wainey:
Hehe, forget about ladies.
There is no more important discussion on NL again, everyone behaving unruly and recalcitrant just because they claim to have swallowed a pill.

If you want a better forum to express your emotions, just go to Reddit.

I missed the old days when mature people are on NL, seun isn't doing anything about this misogynists

He needs to nip these guys. Bloody misogynists, bloody losers. Ruined something beautiful and promising

FRANCISTOWN:
If people are not creating intelligent threads anymore, then in your almighty intelligence, you should create one yourself.



You have a problem with misogynism but you don't have a problem with misandrism. What the hell is that?

If you worshipped women, and your whole life revolves around putting women on pedestals. Should everyone be like you?

And who are you by the way or by the bush to tell people who to hate and who not to hate?



For your reference.

Misandrist are not a threat because there are only few of them, you bloody misogynist and weaklings have ruined this section.

Seun needs to sue redpillers, misogynist and Tribalists for ruining his forum

drimzsmoke:
It's true o, I did a blood test on Saturday and the test says I'm gay positive!!!☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️

Keep hiding here, let's not catch you!

Cos wtf!

You bloody misogynists chased the salt of the Romance Section which is, women. How do you think you can have a romance section without women? How do you think you can have a meaningful relationship with the opposite sex by being extremists?

You are not accepted in the real world, you are seen as vagabonds. The internet is the only place you feel important cos outside of here you as useless as the p in 'psychology' No one wants you!

Well, since this is the life you all have chosen, hope you are enjoying your gay bromance. No more woman to interfere kwo? The "useless gender" is out. All your obstacles to Obiora's privates are removed. Should we expect Romancelanders first gay meet and greet soon?

Continue o but let us not catch you with our naked eyes. Your sodomy should not spill out from your online crevices, else!!!

BigIyanga:
You want a better life provided and paid for by your bf?? Lol. You’re mad that your bf cant provide…. but OK that your parents are broke and cant provide those good things ?? Lol

opo-Nu. The only thing is that I'm the providing boyfriend and potential husband who gets girls you can never get even if you come to this world a million times.

I'm happy, you are a sad troll. Big difference

luminouz:
I checked your profile. Simping will get you no pussy. It's a life of loneliness and bitterness.

Happy simp day, mudafucker!!!

I'm getting good ones and laughing at online miscreants like you. Your girl(If you can get any) will leave you for me in a heart beat. There are levels to these things, loser!!

BigIyanga:
You’re mistaken…most Naija women want guys to provide a better life for them… which their biological parents cant provide.

And what's wrong with this? They want a better life, who doesn't? You don't want a better life from what your parents gave you? You don't want pretty/prettier kids?

A typical Naija girl with street BF wants her man to buy 50k-100k phone based on her class . A lagos mainland girl wants her bf to buy N100k-200k phone based on her class. A VI girl wants 300k-500k from her bf based on class…To them, relationship is a poverty alleviation

Rubbish talk

BigIyanga:
Sound like one of them.

Most of them are demanding for gifts, treats and lifestyle their biological parents cannot afford to give them.. it’s pure greed.

Many women are not asking for these things. You are just attracted to the few doing this. Since they are your spec, give them what they want so they can give you what you want, which your biological parents cannot give you.

Magnoliaa:
Thank you.

People that accuse women of hiding prostitution behind petty trading. They know these things. It is when they need to insult women in another narrative that they'll remember.

Yes that's what they do. They just want to malign women whichever way. How do we have a progressive society with this kind of mentality from the male group!

I have numerous vendors on my contact list. Students o, not to talk of actual full-time employed women. The ones that are not entrepreneurs are content writers. The one that have physical endowment are modelling for cloth and make-up lines.

Exactly. My gf is a model and earning good money from it. She even sponsored herself through school with it before we met. And I can tell you that she is a very decent girl. If these lame guys see her, they won't waste time in calling her a prostitute, which is far from the truth. But do I blame them

Same people who've reduced every single job women do to prostitution.

Instead of learning, they prefer to condemn and tie every woman's success to the male gender. I've a lot going on for me to be that Insecure

You're a corporate 9-5 babe, you're sleeping with your bosses.
You're a content creator on social media, you have clients that you're servicing sexually.
You're idle, they'll still call you a leech. The only thing that will actually satisfy men like these is for women to stop existing.

It's sexism. It's like racism. People in a group feel they are more important than others in another group. Instead of unlearning this ugly behavior they glory in it.

People that if they actually meet the kind of woman who is not a leech, they'll start feeling useless and emasculated. Everyday they shame educated, career and independent women for being this and that. When they are done, they'll turn to women in the same social class as they are to continue.

Women can't win on nairaland. That's why I thank God for the kind of family I'm from. We respect everybody because everyone is significant. No crab mentality. I'm always speaking up for women here because someone needs to. Sexism is ugly. I'd rather be a valuable male to my society than trying to be on the good side of a weak male.

Weak men are always congregating against women. That's how I see them. They are weak. Our society needs a lot of help, where are the men? On the internet calling women names. We have to be men and salvage our society.

Look, you have finished talk. They are only lashing out of their own inadequacies.

This

You stay and build with them, and at the end of the day, they say you're not entitled to any wealth they've built.

Only a foolish woman would stay and build with a man. He should build himself first before other things. I feel more masculine being this way. Stability before relationship always

You don't stay and build with them, they call you a gold-digger.

I have two sisters. I'll rather they are gold diggers than build with any man.

The same gold-diggers that they promise to go after the very moment they become rich. Like, exactly. Symbiotic is the word. "The society does not have the right to tell a rich man who to go for if they've told him that he's not deserving of a woman as a poor man," or so they believe.

Men love women who appreciate their resources. I like to spend on women who like to be spent on. It's that simple. They complain when they don't have the resources or are confused by some woke nonsense on the internet. But biology never lies

But let us even assume that is true, does it not logically hold then that there will be materialistic baddies to make their desire come true?

Like if you want to be a playboy, there has to be other women who are into that lifestyle, but no. They will condemn the very same kind of women they want. All the while still saying stuff like "I am an ass man. I am a breast man. Men are moved by what they see."

They are just confused and contradictory. What happens when you start fighting nature

A neurologist really need to undertake a research into the neural workings of the brains* of 9ja men.

The findings would be interesting but not far from what some of us can see. May God help the Alphakiriris

realG101:
I'm sure the category of women you have worked with are in the minority.

Majority of women out there are engaged in something, be it business or as employees. Nigerian women are working their asses off. You will hardly see them idling away. Stop painting a false picture online.

It is the regular nigerian woman that is under reference here not the few of them doing exploits in their fields.

Again, many Nigerian women are working. You see them everywhere. Whether they are doing exploits is upto them, but they are not lazying or begging around.

Your reference to biology is out of context as society has changed since the primitive times.

Then why are you not open to women being different from our mothers. Why do people like you complain of everything women do or are becoming, IF SOCIETY HAS CHANGED. Are you only open to the change that benefits you!

And speaking of the African man's responsibilities. Be reminded that societies progress by learning and assimilating from other more advanced cultures.

So why do so many men here berate women who are embracing modern western lifestyles.
Is change only good for us but not for women? If women must adapt to our change, why are many men on nairaland refusing to adapt to the current women.

A tribe in Africa was know to kill twins before the whites told them better. And that tribe has eradicated the practice since then if not we will not be enjoying psquare today.

What's your point again?

And if you thing majority of nigeria women don't bother their men will bills, you are living under a rock.

I'm living in reality. You are the one living away from the real world. No Nigerian woman bothers her man with bills. If you don't know your relevance in a relationship, she can remind you from time to time. And that's not bothering you! I'm sure you will dump her if she is not benefiting you any more in kind. It's a symbiotic thing. If you can't cope, stay out.

Even south africans woman know that nigerian men are overly generous. And that generosity is a result of the entitlement mentality from nigerian women.

Your thought process is twisted. The common denominator is Nigerian men. How is it Nigerian women's fault that South African women love you because you are throwing your money at them. It's simply your own doing! Stop blaming anyone!

You guys only complain because you don't have the resources to get the kind of girls you want. Work towards it and stop crying everywhere

luminouz:
Simp mudafucker!!!

Alphakiriri. Happy bitter and lonely old age

So the summary of your lamentation is that women should reduce their standards. And why should they? Have you reduced your own standards?

You want your 100 yards wife material but want women to size down their own to 50yards husband material

To be honest many of you on this space are just hypocrites.

You are sternly against women emulating their western counterparts but you want them to give you a pass to copy from western males that share responsibilities. Not happening dude.

If they must remain African women, you too must remain an African man. You cannot eat your cake and have it.

Being an African man is not a walk in the park. It comes with responsibilities. Likewise being an African woman.

And this claims that women are bombarding their partners with financial needs are just lies. I've worked with lots of women and I can tell you that many are very reasonable. Only very few women are out of character

Leave the internet, go outside and date women. Stop forming opinions from guys who can't look a woman in the eye. They have escaped from reality and now live on the internet, wasting away their lives, and justifying being irresponsible.


No woman is placing outrageous demands on you. It's biology at work in you. Stop fighting your instincts. They are just reminding you of what you are, the Man.

Let women breathe

You want to lay a curse on yourself? Here

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Heal

Nonexisting1:
Always trying to be logical but end up fooling themselves. Oya continue judging men by their appearances until it happens. Shebi your mouth dey run now. You go soon enter one chance like the others.

Keep deceiving yourselves.

KingCold:
No no no< I have not seen white worship from African Americans in the way I see it in Nigerians bro, and how is their culture "shitty btw"?

A few black celebrities marrying white women is not indicative of how their society functions or behaves

Nigerians place little value and currency in blackness than they do in all things white, that's not realitly, it's an ingrained inferiority

Okay you are South African.

You think Nigerians have massive inferiority complex. Well, I can't say you are lying because the culture here is very materialistic, so of course my people would tend more to whites than blacks. Even a Nigerian like myself would likely be sidelined by another Nigerian if a white person is in the picture.

If you look at this behavior, it's bad and irritating but it's the human reaction to the World placement.

One black may try to act brash towards whites, another may act shy but when you closely examine both behaviors you will see they all stem from an inferior complex which is the normal complex for anyone occupying the bottom position.

KingCold:
Bro, nobody licks the a$$es of white people quite like Nigerians, we're also aware of the power status of whites but the way you guys put them on the pedestal is quite unhealthy...even African Amricans have become aware of that, it is not human nature but an inferiority complex

African Americans are just noise makers. They asslick whites too. They hate themselves a lot too that's why they are self destruct.

Forget all that black pride nonsense from black Americans, they are not proud of themselves that's why their culture is shity and the men love marrying white passing women. It's all for the status man.

You might term it inferiority complex but I'll term it reality complex. Which other complex you wan get as a black man.

You are just fighting yourself. When the black race picks up, you won't struggle to prove anything

Aammee77:
Yet she dated him sake of acc balance
I'm sure he took care of all her bills hair, nails, clothes, school fees, feeding.
She didn't know he was prepping her for slaughter.

She dated him for acc balance yen yen yen. Does that guy up there look rich to you? Was he not trying to use her to get rich?

Are the majority of guys doing rituals not poor? Is the ritual not for them to get rich?

KingCold:
Wait for the coons, they'll be defending the white English players before even understanding the context...tick, tock. tick.....

Human beings are social climbers and opportunists. Racism and all other forms of isms all stem from who has the highest social status and who has not.

People asslick white people because of their power/status in the world. Take away that, and white people would become mere albino irritants.

It's human nature to asslick the wealthy and despise the poor, to forgive and tolerate the powerful and condemn the pauper,to preserve the rich man's things and waste away the poor man's.

People know this thing instinctively but prefer to address it from a shallow point.

No one likes or dislikes white or black skin, what they are looking at is the "Who has" and "Who doesn't have"

All these races you think hate black people, would do a 360 degree turn around if by miracle the black race catapults to the top. You will hear things (lies) like how they've always admired black people bla bla bla.

So don't blame anyone for supporting the white guys, it's in human nature

Wishing death on the white race because you can't rise?

PoliteActivist:
But how can you focus on what you can't see? If you see a man in rags you'd be looking for what he has in him?

They sell their generation for pretty babes but want women not to judge them by appearance. Kilo ment

Bloody hypocrites!!!! Remove the tree on your eye first!

You prefer girls with fine face and curves But they should look beyond your appearance as per spirit wey dem be

Great. But no be you write this thing

Nice2023:
I just laugh here.

U guys are very funny. To think that this topic was meant to talk about why some isome folks refused to marry early and now,many of them have turned it against women.

Before u come for me,I am a man with three chdren and for all of u waiting to make big money before marriage. Don't worry I wish u guys the best in ur pursuits.

But stop disparaging and embarrassing women just because u don't have confident in ur yourself nor respect ur sisters at home and u come up here to embarrass them online.

Marriage is not for broke men who can't feed themselves,even gamblers and cashless men will also come to talk about marriage. If u think u are a smart guy without money,first enter marriage and see how useless u will be in just a matter months.

Whether u want to marry later and u think age is just a number...no wahala but one thing is sure,u will always regret not marrying early...whether u are a macho man or flat chested man,u will see the consequences.

U can't marry at 50 and expect anyone to eulogise u. At that age,u will be buying pampers,carrying a new born when ur mates are nearing retirements(with due respect to those had children late as a result delay in birth? and seeing their children graduating.

Last advice.

Allow men who matters dabble into marriage and leave out the chaff men to keep bragging about not marrying early as, time waits for no one.

They think they would be young forever so they stay on the internet idling away and the devil is using their jobless asses to break down the society. You want to get married and you are saying you have all the time. Keep deceiving yourself. The time you waste on the internet saying trash instead of being productive, you will never get it back.

If they like they should not double their hustle and start a family they can cater for. Marriage seems to be losing its appeal with the days, so I wonder who will marry an old bitter chauvinist. I hope they are planning to relocate to countries where there are functional systems for old people cos it's going to be a terrible experience here

Little21:
Just let them keep dreaming... They can never get married too the woman they are dreaming about. Cuz no woman of such attributes, will get married to the man that has no moral whatsoever.
Always insulting women wherever they are, yet they are looking for a woman. Pathetic lots!

It's a shame really. When I see them, I wonder if I'm living in the wrong century because these are not men. Men build and repair their societies not tear down. How would insulting women day and night make them change? It would even harden them and at some point they won't care anymore.

Women are part of our society, and our home makers. What do we gain from emotionally abusing them forever. It's just a matter of time. And I'll be here to remind them of their actions.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Marriage keh?

I still get 7-8 years before I marry. As age no dey rob man, I go jejely take my time to choose the right woman. Marriage is not an accomplishment for men.

As a girl here, my advice to you, forget all this feminist shit or stup'id attitude women do to men. No woman, I repeat no woman can be complete without a family. No matter how rich or how many guys you sleep with to fulfill your sexual desires, that void will still be in there. Forget ladies like Tonto dike, they are empty sad loners displaying the charade strong women, we can still do kt

As a girl please respect men. Don't look down on men, be kind with your words and your dealings with men. You want to marry a man today be kind to all men. I pray as grow into this, you will not experience evil men that will want to destroy you!

Too many disrespectful Nigerian men on the internet space today. I see them insulting women on Fb, Instagram, Twitter, Nairaland. Let's wait for the consequences of these careless utterances in a while. You want women to submit to this level of vileness. Always counseling women yet you are the most immoral.

I wash my hand off the nemesis coming upon most of you. God should see that I'm not part of this.

Many men want to marry. Speak for yourself only

Guest2008:
Lol..

You should not totally trust them

You see their true nature when they're doing well

Some can deny even their family just to get in between a woman's legs

When they truly love you, you'd feel it without them even saying it

Stop commenting on this section madam. Have some self respect. I don't expect ladies to still be commenting here, that's giving cheap vibes.

Many guys here have disrespected you ladies a lot. Noticed other women have left the romance section for the gay redpillers? You are not wiser than them

AlphaNugget:
The personn that said "Go into the world and multiply" was obviously not referring to you and some people that reason like you.

But the command to multiply is fulfilled. We are the multiplication of Adam and Eve. Is it until we are packed up like sardines before you know we have multiplied.

ItisWell22:
Why do the supposed family members surrounding the table look funny, like aliens or zombies?

They look dead too