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Investment / I Want To Buy 30 Dollars Worth Of Bitcoin. by slayminder(m): 10:22pm On Nov 06, 2017
I will like to buy 30 dollar worth of bitcoin. I have 7k, and u will send the bitcoin to me first b4 I pay u because have been scammed once
Health / How Can I Get Death Certificate Of Someone Who Died At Home by slayminder(m): 6:10pm On Oct 30, 2017
I lost my mom 14 year back. now I need her dead certificate how can I get it
Phones / Re: What Are The Craziest Wi-fi Names/passwords You've Ever Heard?? by slayminder(m): 2:23pm On Oct 17, 2017
Click and die
Computers / I Need External Hard Drive. Within Lagos by slayminder(m): 10:50pm On Sep 30, 2017
I need external hard drive within Lagos 500gb
Computers / Laptop For Sale 35k Last by slayminder(m): 3:00pm On Sep 30, 2017
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Romance / Am I Wrong? by slayminder(m): 4:53pm On Sep 26, 2017
Good day everyone. I'm really tired about life and all. I have a Muslim girl that have been dating for two years and all seems well until last month. Her family told me we are not compatible because I'm a Christian and she is a Muslim. I love her like that, am thinking of breaking up with her but I don't want to hurt. And something is telling me that I'm wasting my time because what if we don't end up getting married. I hate wasting my time for something I know it won't work, but yesterday I told her to Pls give me 2week off to let me think about my life and let me think maybe I can still continue with the relationship, seriously I really love her and I don't wish to loose her, Am I wrong telling her to give me 2 weeks to think.
Romance / Am I Suppose To Consider My Family When Chosen A Wife by slayminder(m): 2:53pm On Sep 18, 2017
have heard a lot of people saying their parents doesn't like their partner. I'm not always happy with dat. because I have the right to marry anybody I want because is my life and whether the marriage is sweet or bitter its my problem and not anyone's own. I don't think parent should have a say when chosen ur partner they only have the right to advise you. not controlling u and telling who to marry.
Romance / Is Religion A Factor When Chosen A Wife? by slayminder(m): 12:30pm On Sep 13, 2017
I know that Quran preach against interfaith marriage. it says

[… Nor marry (your girls) to unbelievers until they believe: A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever, even though he allures you. Unbelievers do (but) beckon you to the Fire. But Allah beckons by His Grace to the Garden (of bliss) and forgiveness, and makes His Signs clear to mankind: That they may celebrate His praise ] (Al-Baqarah 2: 221).

I'm a proud Christian and have been dating my Muslim girlfriend for two years now. I wish to marry her because she has everything I want in a woman, I received a text message from her that we need to see. I took my shirt and I went to her house, when I got to her house she told me that her sister is complaining of our religion that we are not compatible, I was so broken because I don't want to loose her. her family knows me very well but I don't think they know I'm a Christian. I don't know what to do, i have been thinking about all this too, like 1)WHAT RELIGIOUS WILL THE CHILDREN PRACTICE, 2) WHICH RELIGIOUS NAME WILL THEY ANSWER.
I just want to wait for the time to come first, have been asking my self since yesterday is religion a factor in marriage and how can I keep her, I really love her

N:B. my family is not against us, once I'm happy with her dey are also happy.

2) I promise her if we get married she won't convert to Christian because I believe we are both serving the same God

Pls advise
Webmasters / Is Their Any Where I Can Create A Free Blog Site by slayminder(m): 9:16pm On Sep 07, 2017
hello everyone, how can I create a free blog site, I just want to make my self busy. before ASUU call off strike
Education / ASUU To Call Off Strike Next Week by slayminder(m): 7:17pm On Sep 07, 2017
ASUU’ll call off strike next week, we’ll release N53bn — FG
Meanwhile, Minister of Education, Adamu Adamu, said yesterday, that the on-going strike by ASUU would be called off next week, adding that N53 billion would be released to the union.
Speaking before the Senate Committee on Tertiary Institutions and TETFUND, led by Senator Jibrin Barau APC, Kano North, the Minister disclosed that the executive arm of government had commenced plans to ensure that it honoured the agreement with ASUU.
The Minister, who noted that he had written to the Minister of Finance, Mrs. Kemi Adeosun, for the money, disclosed that she had already approved the money, adding that the money would be paid on Monday when the striking lecturers would receive the cheque.
He said: “ASUU asked for N23billion to be paid, but we said the condition for getting the N23billion was for them to account for the N30billion they had taken and they were not able to account for it.
“The Minister of Finance undertook to do the audit from the ministry and we agreed that the result will be known in six months. During that six months, government undertook to be paying ASUU N1.5billion each month during the time they were waiting for this.
‘’However, their grouse was that the forensic audit promised by the Minister of Finance had not been done and the money promised not paid.
“So, at our meeting two days ago, the agreement was to pay them all and do forensic audit on the entire N53billion.
“That was what I tried to do yesterday (Wednesday). I wrote to the Minister of Finance and she has already approved and this money will be paid. Probably, by Monday, they will be able to receive the cheque.
“We didn’t agree with ASUU on their request that TSA should be taken out. I told them that it is not possible because it is a new policy and government is not going to change it for anyone.
“Concerning their salary short fall, we said the reason springs from universities employing people without proper authority.
“For instance, a university can just decide to go and recruit 50 people without notifying IPPIS. So, what they are going to get is the money they got last month, which will not be sufficient for them. We have told them that institutions should, henceforth, stop doing that and they accepted.
“There is the issue of registration of their pension commission. I think they have one or two issues to iron out with PENCOM and I believe they will also be able to solve the problem within a week.
“The issue of renegotiation is already ongoing, which will not affect what we have said. I have already written a letter formalizing the meeting and all the agreements we had with ASUU and gave them the letter yesterday.
“From the way they received it, I think it is possible that the strike will be called off within a week maximum.”
Chairman of the Committee, Senator Jibrin Barau, commended the Minister for his efforts towards ensuring that the situation was resolved and the strike called off.


sources:http://www.gist9aw.com.ng/2017/09/breakinggood-news-for-universities.html?m=1
Education / We’ve Not Received Fg’s Invitation For Negotiations –ASUU by slayminder(m): 10:01am On Sep 04, 2017
The Academic Staff Union of Universities said it had yet to get invitation for negotiations with the Federal Government on its demands.
ASUU President , Prof . Biodun Ogunyemi , said on Sunday that they were ready for talks and would attend any meeting called by the government to resolve the lingering strike which has paralysed academic activities in the universities .
“ We have not received any invitation from the government , but we are ready for talks anytime they call us for negotiations , ” he said on the telephone .
Asked if he believed the government was delaying the negotiation by not fixing a definite date for talks , Ogunyemi said the holidays might have been responsible for the lack of communication , adding that the government would likely schedule a meeting after the Sallah break .
The News Agency of Nigeria had reported that the Minister of Labour and Employment , Chris Ngige , had said that negotiations between the FG would resume after the Eid- el - Kabir holiday .
In a statement issued by Mr . Samuel Olowookere , Deputy Director ( Press) in the ministry , Ngige said the meeting would hold shortly after the holiday as requested by the leadership of ASUU .

http://punchng.com/weve-not-received-fgs-invitation-for-negotiations-ASUU/
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Romance / Re: How Can I Deal With This My Girlfriend? by slayminder(m): 10:23pm On Sep 01, 2017
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Romance / How Can I Deal With This My Girlfriend? by slayminder(m): 10:04pm On Sep 01, 2017
Hello Nairalander,I think I'm too cool for girlfriend, I have a girl that I really love but I think this love has taken over me dat is making me to loose my worth in her face, she doesn't obey me there is nothing I will tell Her dat she will do. and I obey her I always listen to everything she tells me, what is making me angry now is dat, I went to her house to give her meat for sallah. when I got to her house I called her to come outside her house. because am always going inside their apartment any time am there but I trying to limit that because I don't want to loose the opportunity her mom gave me, dat I can come inside their house anytime I want, so when I got to her house I called her to come outside but she refused to come outside , I was so angry, she always feel I should be submissive to her she never listen to me, please how can I deal with her, how can I make to be submissive (not control)because I love her and I don't want her to make me get tired of her
Religion / Can A Christian Eat Sallah Meat? by slayminder(m): 6:48pm On Sep 01, 2017
Barka d sallah to all Muslim.

so today I was told to give some meat to some of our neighbors, but one of them refused to take the meat she said "sallah meat is a sacrifice" and it's not acceptable for christian to eat it.
Education / Four Injured As Cult Attacks LASPOTECH Students’ Hostel by slayminder(m): 7:10am On Aug 30, 2017
No fewer than four students of the Lagos State Polytechnic, Ikorodu, were injured on Monday in an attack unleashed by suspected cult members on a private students ’ hostel .
PUNCH Metro learnt that the attackers stormed the hostel under the pretext of searching for a stolen laptop.
They were, however , repelled by some occupants, who doubted their claim .
They reportedly returned afterwards in large numbers , calling out the name of a National Diploma student .
In the ensuing confusion , four students were said to have been injured and taken to a hospital for treatment .
Our correspondent , during a visit to the hostel on Lasunwon Lambe Estate on Tuesday , gathered that the injured students attempted to defend the ND student , who had earlier complained of threats from some cult members who wanted to initiate him into their group .
A witness , who identified himself only as Bayo , said , “ When they first came in the afternoon , they said they were searching for a missing item . They said the person that stole it passed through the estate . We engaged them and they failed in their attempt to gain entrance.
“ Suddenly, around a few minutes past 9 pm , a larger group came and started calling the name of one of us in the hostel to come out . Immediately they called his name , we remembered that he once told us that some people were disturbing him to join a cult . Some of us went out and we asked others to stay with him in the hostel . Four of us were injured after confronting the cult members . ”
The President of the Muslim Students ’ Society of Nigeria in Lagos State , Dr Saheed Ashafa , lamented that the hostel attacked was predominantly occupied by male Muslim students of the institution .
He noted that the report sent to the MSSN in Lagos State by its LASPOTECH branch indicated that the attackers targeted a Muslim student in the hostel for initiation .
He said , “ Our members in Ikorodu were attacked by cult members in their hostel last night ( Monday ) . According to the report sent to me early this morning ( Tuesday ) , they were trying to initiate a Muslim student , so they wanted to intimidate students in the hostel where he resides to get their way .
“ I was informed that they had been threatening him in the school with the support of a lecturer. They had access to the hostel at first by claiming that they were searching for their missing laptop. They later went there in a large number . Some students sustained injuries, but have been treated and discharged . ”
Ashafa said the incident had been reported to the school management and the police authorities .


source :http://punchng.com/four-injured-as-cult-attacks-laspotech-students-hostel-2/
Education / FG Decides On ASUU’s Demands Today As Union Shuns Meeting by slayminder(m): 7:02am On Aug 30, 2017
Former President of the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU), Prof. Nasir Isa; President of ASUU, Biodun Ogunyemi; and the Vice President, Prof. Emmanuel Osodeke, at a news conference on the state of the nation in Abuja on Monday (14/8/17). Albert otu/JAU/NAN
John Alechenu , Fidelis Soriwei , Friday Olokor , Folashade Adebayo and Adelani Adepegba
There are strong indications that the Federal Executive Council will, at its meeting on Wednesday (today ) decide on the demands of the Academic Staff Union of Universities.
The Minister of Labour and Employment, Dr . Chris Ngige , who gave this indication in an interview with journalists on Tuesday , said the university lecturers had deliberated on the offers made to them by the government at a meeting on August 17 .
Also , the union , in a statement on Tuesday , said it would call off its strike after receiving a positive response to its demands from the Federal Government.
The lecturers boycotted a meeting which was scheduled to hold between the government and the union on Tuesday .
ASUU , on August 13 , began a nationwide strike over the failure of the Federal Government to implement an agreement it reached with the union in 2009 .
The union also alleged that the Federal Government did not implement the Memorandum of Understanding the two sides signed in 2013 .
Based on the 2009 agreement , the demands of ASUU include funding for the revitalisation of public universities ; payment of earned academic allowances ; and the registration of the Nigerian Universities Pension Management Company and pension matters.
At the meeting on August 17 , it was learnt the Federal Government offered to pay the union N23 bn and carry out an audit of N30 bn earlier given to the university lecturers .
It was also gathered that government rejected a request by ASUU that universities should be exempted from the Treasury Single Account, but agreed to set up an interest - bearing account for university endowments .
Ngige , in the interview with journalists explained why ASUU did not attend a meeting it was scheduled to hold with the government on Tuesday .
He said the union , in a letter dated August 28 , stated that it had considered offers made by the government and made its counter -offer .
The minister said the Federal Government would deliberate on the union ’ s counter - offer .
“ Tomorrow ( today , Wednesday ) is Federal Executive Council meeting and there are aspects that we will need FEC approval to go on with . Thereafter , we will meet with the ASUU team either tomorrow evening or Thursday morning , whichever will be more convenient , ” Ngige added .
The labour minister explained that the government side was expected to discuss the ASUU ’ s counter - offer in order to hold a meeting with the lecturers ’ body to resolve the areas of disagreement .
He stated , “The government , as you know , has made an offer to ASUU through the ministry of education and late yesterday (Monday ) ASUU got back to us with their counter - offer .
“ By then , this meeting had been scheduled and the government side needed to deliberate on their counter -offer before we can have a reconciliation meeting to further discuss areas of disagreement . That is the position right now .
“ We are holding a government side meeting , while the Minister of Education is also holding meeting and we will meet later today ( Tuesday ) and formalise our position. ”
We ’ re awaiting FG’s response , says ASUU
But in the statement on Tuesday , the union explained why it boycotted the Tuesday ’ s meeting with the Federal Government.
It stated that government ’ s positive response to its demand would bring the strike to an end.
The union , in a statement by its President , Prof . Biodun Ogunyemi , referred the government to its letter dated August 28 , 2017 , where it expressed its demands.
The government had, in a statement on Monday night , announced that Ngige would meet with the president and executive members of ASUU in Abuja .
In its statement on Tuesday , ASUU said it was awaiting a positive response to its demands, thanking Nigerians for their understanding .
It read , “ Following due consultation , we have collated the views of our members on the offers from government in dispute in the letter dated August 16 . These views were submitted to FG vide our letter dated August 28 .
“ As we await the Federal Government’ s action on our letter , we hope that it would not be long before we receive a positive response which will bring an end to the dispute . ”
When asked why his team failed to show up for the meeting with the government , Ogunyemi declined comment , referring one of our correspondents to his statement .
Ogunyemi also refused to disclose the contents of ASUU ’ s counter - offer to the government in a telephone interview with The PUNCH on Tuesday .
He stated , “ We submitted our report to the FG yesterday ( Monday ) but we can ’ t discuss that with the press now . What they have promised us is that they were going to get back to us as soon as possible . ’’
However , a source told one of our correspondents that what the union presented to the FG on Monday was not new .
“ Our demands are not new and they include the revitalisation fund that we have been asking for , the retirement of academics with the full complement of their salaries and others. Nothing is new , ’’ said the source .
Senate calls for patience, continuous dialogue
Meanwhile , the Chairman , Senate Committee on Media and Public Affairs , Sabi Abdullahi , has called for patience as the Federal Government and ASUU seek an amicable solution to the strike embarked upon by the lecturers .
Sabi said this in a telephone interview with The PUNCH in Abuja on Tuesday .
He said the Senate , being a responsible institution , was concerned about the crisis and was intervening in the dispute to assist in bringing about a lasting solution to the crisis in the education sector.
He stated , “ If you remember, Senator Barau Jibrin has been on this matter despite the fact that we are on recess . This issue is about continuous engagement but as you know , the bulk of the issue is not with us (The Senate) .
“ I will just call on Nigerians to be patient with us because of this holiday . I am sure after Sallah , when we are all on the ground, things will begin to take shape . ”
NANS summons emergency meeting
Also , the National Association of Nigerian Students has summoned an emergency meeting to deliberate on its next line of action on the ongoing strike by ASUU .
The meeting , it was learnt , would deliberate on the strike and other issues of critical national importance and take a position on the way forward .
The students also called on the Federal Government and ASUU to engage in constructive discussion to resolve the lingering issues that led to the declaration of the strike.
It called on the parties to “ save the education sector and the future of Nigerian students in the interest of the nation. ”
The President of NANS , Chinonso Obasi , said this in an interview with
The PUNCH on Tuesday .
Obasi stated that NANS would await the outcome of the meeting between government and ASUU to determine its next line of action .
He said , “ We have fixed an emergency meeting of NANS , which will give approval to the action of NANS upon the expiration of the 21 days ultimatum given for the ASUU strike to be called off.
“ The meeting is scheduled to hold on September 7 in Ilorin, the Kwara State capital . ”
NANS decried the incessant and prolonged strikes as one of the factors responsible for the falling standard of education in Nigeria apart from the attendant untold hardship on the students , parents and guardians.
Obasi said , “ Incessant strikes and stoppage of academic activities as a result of lack of agreements or lack of adherence and implementation of duly - executed memorandum of agreement between the Federal Government and ASUU do not reflect and demonstrate commitment to the sustainable development of the nation’ s education sector and the development of the nation’ s human capital .
“ We are calling on the government and ASUU to demonstrate sensitivity and a great sense of patriotism in resolving the issues at the earliest convenience to save education in the nation and avert unfortunate developments associated with the idleness of young people. ”



source: http://punchng.com/fg-decides-on-asuus-demands-today-as-union-shuns-meeting/
Education / Schools Admitted Candidates Who Didn’t Sit For UTME —JAMB by slayminder(m): 7:10am On Aug 29, 2017
The Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board has said that its 120 cut - off mark will put an end to back - door admission and other unwholesome practices associated with gaining admission into higher institutions of learning.
It added that it had introduced a Central Admissions and Processing System to monitor compliance with the minimum prescribed cut - off mark and other admission guidelines, as well as empower candidates to track the process of admission .
The Head of Public Affairs , JAMB , Mr . Fabian Benjamin , said this in a statement made available to our correspondent on Monday .
According to the statement , high cut -off mark is responsible for the flight of many Nigerians to “ glorified secondary schools called universities ” in neighbouring countries and an increased pressure on the naira to pay school fees in foreign currencies .
The statement added , “ The cut - off marks previously brandished to the public were never strictly followed by most institutions. Some were going behind to admit candidates with far less scores , while others admitted candidates who never sat for the Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination .
“ This act , to say the least , is very distasteful and damaging to our national data and identity . Unfortunately , the public has been kept away from this fact for such a long time and now that we are saying it the way it is and working to address it, the public is criticising us and using non - existing parameters that only announced and not followed . ’’
Adding that the JAMB would not relent in “supporting policies that would bring our education system out of the woods’’ , the statement said that it would pursue the quest to ensure realistic benchmarks for national development.
“ It is necessary to explain that the 120 cut - off mark does not in any way suggest that if you score 120 admission is guaranteed. Institutions will admit from the top to the least mark . It’ s also a known fact that for you to study a course , say Hausa , in Nigerian universities , you will need a credit in Mathematics . However in London , all you will need is a credit in Hausa and English . This and many other poorly thought - out policies have pushed frustrated candidates out of Nigeria to the developed and neighbouring African nations for education , which they could not get at home .
“ The issue that all of us should be concerned about is how to address the flight of Nigerians to glorified secondary schools called universities in Ghana , Uganda, even in The Gambia and other countries . How do we ensure that whatever we do has positive multiplier effects on other sectors of the economy , if we deny our candidates the opportunity to school in Nigeria ? , ’’ it added .


source:http://punchng.com/schools-admitted-candidates-who-didnt-sit-for-utme-jamb/

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Education / ASUU To Meet FG Again On Strike by slayminder(m): 6:29am On Aug 28, 2017
There are indications that the Academic Staff Union of Universities may meet with the Federal Government this week over the ongoing strike by the union .
The ASUU strike which started on Sunday , August 13 , 2017 was announced by its National President , Prof . Biodun Ogunyemi , at a meeting of the National Executive Council of the union in Abuja.
It was learnt on Sunday that the union would present its position to the government on the offers made by the Minister of Labour and Employment, Dr Chris Ngige , during their meeting on August 17 , 2017 in Abuja .
A source explained that the ASUU meeting , which held on Saturday at the University of Abuja , discussed whether to suspend the strike on the basis of the offers made by the government .
The FG had during the meeting with ASUU leadership in Abuja offered to pay N23 bn and a monthly payment of N1 . 5 bn pending the outcome of the forensic audit being carried out by the Ministry of Finance .
It could not be immediately ascertained if the money had been paid as promised by the government .
Our correspondent gathered that over 80 per cent of the union members across the country voted that the strike should continue until the government fulfilled its part of the bargain.
The source said , “ The ASUU meeting which held last Saturday at UniAbuja discussed the offers made by the government and whether the strike should be called off on the basis of the offers made by the government .
“ It was decided that ASUU might seek an audience with the government this week to negotiate further concessions before the strike is called off. ”
The ASUU President , Prof . Biodun Ogunyemi , could not be reached for comment as he did not respond to calls and SMS to his phone.
Meanwhile , The PUNCH gathered on Sunday that university lecturers who were employed after 2010 would not benefit from the N23 bn Earned Academic Allowances released by the Federal Government.
A source in ASUU in the South- West, who did not his name in print , said that lecturers engaged after 2010 would not be beneficiaries .
The source said , “ There was an ASUU NEC meeting held on Friday in Abuja . Our zonal chairmen would be briefed on the outcome of deliberations on the NEC meeting particularly on the N23 bn which was offered by the Federal Government.
“ The about nine zones of ASUU will be meeting on Monday ( today ) to brief their members on the outcome of their deliberations concerning the ongoing strike over the 2009 agreement by the Federal Government.
“ Top on the agenda to be discussed includes the N23 bn which the government had recently agreed to pay . The N23 bn is the arrears of 2009 and 2010 . So , anybody that was employed after 2010 may not even benefit from it because that person did not earn it. The money is called Earned Academic Allowance, so you must have worked for the money and earned it.
“ The money is just like overtime and it is paid for somebody that had done that work , not the normal working hours . It is earned and (exclusively ) for 2009 and 2010 . The Federal Government made an offer and collected views from all branches as to what they will do concerning the N23 bn offer. ”


source:http://punchng.com/ASUU-to-meet-fg-again-on-strike/
Education / As At Now, What Is Your Take On ASUU by slayminder(m): 7:29pm On Aug 26, 2017
hopefully tomorrow we student will know our faith, whether we resuming or strike will continue



MY TAKE.

with everything I'm reading online, I think strike will continue.
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Jobs/Vacancies / I NEED A PART TIME HOUSE KEEPER JOB IN LAGOS by slayminder(m): 2:42pm On Aug 16, 2017
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Jobs/Vacancies / I Need A Contract Job Or Part Time Job! by slayminder(m): 1:01am On Aug 16, 2017
good day everyone. am really in need of a part time job or a contract job, we are on break + ASUU strike so I don't know when we will be resuming school. I will be really glad for any offer. I'm really good in house keeping washing and ironing of clothes plus little experience of cooking. but I'm ready for any offer ,
Romance / 15 Lessons I Learnt After Lossing My Virginity At 16 by slayminder(m): 12:08am On Aug 12, 2017
“I am sixteen and have already lost my virginity. I truly regret that my first time was with a guy that I didn’t care that much about. Since that first night he expects sex on every date. When I don’t feel like it, we end up in an argument. I don’t think this guy is in love with me, and I know deep down that I am not in love with him either. This makes me feel cheap. I realize now that this is a very big step in a girl’s life. After you have done it, things are never the same. It changes everything.” Since then I have been involved with other guys and I have learnt a few of lessons. Here are a some:
1. Many teenage girls sleep with guys because they are trying to find love, to find self-worth. But the catch is that the more guys they sleep with, the less self-worth they had.
2. Many girls think that if they really care about guys, sex will bring them closer together. Indeed, sex creates a bond. However, 80 percent of the time, the physical intimacy of first sexual relationship won’t last more than six months.
3. Couples who want what is best for their relationship or future marriage will have the patience to wait.
4. Most of the time, when a girl gives away her virginity, she assumes the relationship will last forever.But study of more than 10,000 women shows that when a girl loses her virginity at that age at 14, she’ll probably have about thirteen more lifetime sexual partners.
5. Teen sex frequently causes tension within families because of the dishonesty that usually accompanies the hidden intimacies. Relationships with friends are often strained, and when things turn sour, the gossip and social problems often become unbearable.
6. Everyone talks about how hard it is to say no to sex, but no one tells you how hard it is when you say yes.
7. It is dangerous for a teenage girl to be sexually active. Because a teenage girl’s reproductive system is still immature, she is very susceptible to sexually transmitted diseases
8. In fact, early sexual activity is the number one risk factor for cervical cancer, and the second is multiple sexual partners. A girl’s body, like her heart, is not designed to handle multiple sexual partners.
9.While a girl might plan on sleeping with only one guy, she could be exposing herself to the STDs of hundreds of people through a single act of intercourse. Here’s how: Scientists studied the sexual activity of a public high school of about one thousand students. About half (573) of the students had been sexually active, and most of them had only been with one partner. However, when the scientists tracked the web of sexual activity among the students, it was discovered that more than half of the sexually active teens—without knowing it—were linked together in a network of 288 partners within the school! So if a girl slept with a guy from this school, theoretically she could be in bed with one-fourth of the entire student body.
10.The emotional side effects of premarital sex are also damaging to a young woman. One of the most common consequences of teenage sexual activity is depression. Girls who are sexually active are more than three times as likely to be depressed as girls who are abstinent. In fact, the condition has become so predictable that the American Journal of Preventive Medicine recommends to doctors: “[Girls who are engaging in] sexual intercourse should be screened for depression, and provided with anticipatory guidance about the mental health risks of these behaviors.”Even if a girl experiments with sex once, research shows an increased risk of depression. Also, consider the fact that the rate of suicide attempts for sexually active girls (aged twelve to sixteen) is six times higher than the rate for virgins. Tragically, these girls do not realize the purity, hope, and forgiveness that they can find in Christ.
11. Unfortunately, many young women search for meaning only in relationships with guys, instead of with God. It is not uncommon for a girl to have sex in order to make a guy like her more or to encourage him to stay with her. She may compromise her standards because she is afraid of never being loved. Once he leaves her, though, an emotional divorce takes place. A person’s heart is not made to be that close to a person and then separated.
12. Since teenage sexual relationships rarely last, the girl’s sense of self-worth is often damaged. She may conclude that if she looked better, he would have stayed longer. This mentality can lead to harmful practices, such as eating disorders. Or the disappointment she feels may drive her into a state of self-hatred. Some young women even begin to hurt their own bodies in an attempt to numb the emotional pain. Such practices never solve the problems, though. If she wants to be loved, she needs to begin by loving herself.
13. In her heart, a girl who has been used knows it. However, she may immediately jump into another sexual relationship to escape the hurt. If she tries to boost her self-esteem by giving guys what they want, then her self-worth often ends up depending upon those kinds of relationships. Her development as a woman is stunted because without chastity she does not know how to express affection, appreciation, or attraction for a guy without implying something sexual. She may even conclude that a guy does not love her unless he makes sexual advances toward her. She knows that sex exists without intimacy, but she may forget that intimacy can exist without sex. A girl on this track usually feels accepted initially, but that acceptance lasts only as long as the physical pleasure.
14. Such a lifestyle will also take its toll on her ability to bond. Here’s why: Sharing the gift of sex is like putting a piece of tape on another person’s arm. The first bond is strong, and it hurts to remove it. Shift the tape to another person’s arm, and the bond will still work, but it will be easier to remove. Each time this is done, part of each person remains with the tape. Soon it is easy to remove because the residue from the various arms interferes with the tape’s ability to stick.
15. The same is true in relationships, because neurologists have discovered that previous sexual experiences can interfere with one’s ability to bond with future partners. This does not mean that if a person is not a virgin on the wedding night, he or she will be unable to bond with a spouse. It simply means that when we follow God’s plan, we have the most abundant life possible. But when we turn from his designs and break his commandments, often we are the ones who feel broken afterward.

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Romance / 18+ How To Give Head (MouthAction) by slayminder(m): 1:05pm On Jul 27, 2017
MouthAction is arguably an essential part of great pre-intimacy, but can be so much more than that – your tongue has the capacity to give a woman toe-curling orgasms.
It’s also a great way to prime your partner and raise her arousal levels, which then reduces the pressure on you to last for a long time when having sex.
In this article, I’ll be teaching you guys how to give a girl MouthAction properly, as well as helping you work out what your own partner likes and hopes you’ll do more of.
Everyone is different
It’s really important to remember that everyone is different – what pleases one woman might not tick the right boxes for another.
Perhaps the best piece of advice is to get down (literally) to some serious trial and error. Remember to communicate your desires and simply enjoy the process of getting to know each other.
We girls love receiving MouthAction, but you won’t know for sure if the techniques you read in a book or website will work unless you give them a go. Once you’ve read some advice about what women want, test it out and see if your partner enjoys it.
Whatever your partner finds pleasurable is exactly what you need to be doing. Don’t just repeat a trick or style you read, heard or found worked on someone else.
It’s fine to start out with movements you know work for some women, but if isn’t met by moaning or other signs of pleasure, abandon it and move onto the next.
Don’t skip or rush MouthAction
Many guys tend to skip past performing MouthAction for their partner, or only do it briefly in the hope of receiving some oral in return.
This a mistake though, and sexually selfish if you ask me – a skillful lover should be generous and show his partner that her pleasure is important to him.
And giving MouthAction is a key ingredient for turning a woman o n , bringing her arousal level up to yours, and therefore ensuring that she enjoys the sexual encounter as much as you do.
If you keep in mind my tips for giving a girl good MouthAction and take the time to get it right, you’ll bring some extra spice to the bedroom and satisfy her as much as she deserves.
Don’t rush in
Perhaps you don’t really enjoy giving MouthAction? Or maybe you’re just a little unsure about what to do exactly.
This can lead to the classic mistake of diving straight in, with your tongue flicking away like a cat with a fresh bowl of milk.
However, what we really want is for you to start nice and slowly, tease us and build up steadily.
Kiss her lips, neck and make your way down her body until you’re kissing her inner thighs. Try and make eye contact as much as possible, and position yourself in a comfortably position that allows you to caress her breasts, body and arms.
The idea is to turn her on before you even start the MouthAction and make her tingle all over. A bit of teasing works really well here. A lot of teasing can be magic.
Build up gradually
When you begin to kiss and lick during MouthAction, work your way in slowly from the outside. This will make the experience more intense and still feel like you’re teasing her. A slow build up creates a much better orgasm for us girls.
Most women are very sensitive to touch, including touch performed by the tongue, so start gently and see what your woman wants. The clitoris in particular is packed full of nerve endings so make sure you listen to her signals.
Try not to rush into licking the clitoris, and when you do be gentle – especially if she’s not fully aroused yet.
Get creative with your tongue
The key to giving a woman good MouthAction is to keep moving your tongue. If you’re not sure how, keep it flat and soft, and lick up from the bottom of the labia up to her clitoris.
You can do an up and down motion, side to side, or even better – a slow, lingering mixture of both at the start.
It’s important to use the flatter and softer top part of your tongue – especially at the start when she may not be fully aroused, and not ready for the additional pressure and speed that the tip can bring.
If you flick away as hard and fast as possible right from the start, it might just feel too sensitive and put her off.
Vary your movements
You can try spelling out the alphabet over different areas with your tongue – this keeps the tongue moving in different directions. And don’t forget to change the pace – get faster and more intense if she likes it.
The classic advice with the alphabet techniques is that if you find a ‘letter movement’ that she responds well to, then you can keep repeating that letter for a while.
You might occasionally want to gently suck her clitoris, as the suction can give a different sensation. Some women will love this, some won’t. And even a girl that likes it one day might not the next day.
You need to be ready to change, be creative, be flexible and keep working at finding what tongue movements, pressure and speed work on a particular girl, on a particular day in a particular setting!
And remember it’s not just the clitoris you need to focus on. Draw that alphabet large over the whole area, then medium and small around different parts. Women enjoy the whole area being licked, kissed and touched, so don’t get fixated just on the clitoris.
Don’t forget about your hands
When giving a woman MouthAction, try to get yourself into a position where your hands are free to add an extra element. If you’re able to caress her body and breasts while giving oral, she’ll enjoy it so much more.
If you can gently caress her thighs, stomach, chest and arms with your finger tips while giving her MouthAction, you’ll be able to tap into multiple erogenous zones all at the same time and send sparks flying in her body.
You can also use one hand to slightly lift up the ‘hood’ of the clitoris and reveal the more sensitive part for your tongue to stimulate. Make sure you learn where this is.
If you’re good at multitasking, why not add your fingers into the action and try to stimulate her center of gravity? Most women enjoy the build up, so try to learn when she’s ready for you to use your fingers as well to intensify the pleasure to the next level.
If you go straight in with the fingers at the start then you might ruin the potential for an orgasm that a steady build up brings. If in doubt, don’t insert a finger until she’s naturally already wet and moaning with pleasure.
Romance / Easy Tip To Make Her Hot Or Ask For More by slayminder(m): 12:54pm On Jul 27, 2017
What (really) turns women on?
The answer to that question has been the subject of countless books and articles offering strategies and seduction techniques on how to bed a woman — and keep her coming back for more.
However, I am going to let you in on a little secret.
It’s this: There is no secret.
The truth is, it’s pretty simple. If you want a woman to crave sex with you, you just need become an amazing lover.
In fact, once you know how to satisfy a woman sexually, you’ll probably have more of a problem getting her to not want to sleep with you. Women love incredible sex just as much as men do. Yet many men don’t know how to really pleasure a woman sexually. And plain old boring sex — as opposed to mind-blowing sex — just isn’t very enticing to us.
Of course, you should respect the fact that some women may just not want to have sex with you — ever. But sexual dysfunction and psychological issues notwithstanding, if a woman is less than enthusiastic about having sex with you more than once, there is a good chance that your bedroom skills could use a little fine-tuning.
One reason why? Basic anatomy.
You might not realize it, but only about 25% of women achieve orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. Yes, you read that right: only a quarter of women. And this stat doesn’t stem from just a study or two. It is based on research spanning more than 80 years and an extensive analysis of 33 studies, documented in Elisabeth Lloyd’s book, The Case of the Female Orgasm . And that 25% doesn’t fluctuate based on the length of intercourse or the size or shape of a man’s penis.
The numbers don’t lie: It is not a man’s stamina — or size — that makes him a great lover. So, guys, it’s time to stop worrying about the size of your package — and start focusing on the most important factor in great sex: the woman.
If you want to become the man that women are trying to get into bed , I’m going to tell you how. Many of the tips in this article come from my good friend, Seattle-based board-certified sex therapist Dr. Diana Wiley. It can take a little bit of time and patience, but the payoff will be so worth it. So let’s get started.
1. Pay Attention
First things first: Desire starts in the mind. There’s a reason women buy romance novels by the millions. We love the dream of a white knight who will sweep us off our feet in a whirlwind of romance. The thrill of getting a man’s complete and undivided attention is a
huge turn-on for most women . So pay attention to us — in and out of the bedroom. Look us in the eyes and really listen when we share our thoughts, feelings, desires, or just tell you about our day.
2. Take Your Time
There’s no need for gimmicky aphrodisiacs. In fact, when touched, our bodies release their very own cuddle chemical: a hormone called oxytocin that fosters feelings of love, comfort, and relaxation. And that means that the more we’re touched, the more we want to be touched.
That doesn’t mean you should just jump into things, though. Remember: Women take longer than men do to warm up. Sex, for us, begins long before the clothes come off. We don’t want you to feel bad about rushing sex, so we might not admit that it wasn’t so great for us. Truth is, we’d rather be reading a good book. When a guy slows down and focuses on what’s happening, it doesn’t just make for better sex — it’s more intimate and creates a stronger bond. So caress, handle, stroke, and embrace us to get that oxytocin flowing.
3. Be Tongue Tied
Remember those 25% of women who can achieve orgasm through intercourse alone? With odds like that, it’s quite possible that your partner isn’t one of them. The good news? MouthAction — when performed skillfully — can be a surefire route to ecstasy for lots of us. Notice I said “skillfully”. There’s an art and a science to cunnilingus, so make sure you’re qualified in both.
First, the science. A woman’s clitoris has about 6,000 to 8,000 nerve endings – and its only purpose is pleasure! Only about a quarter of the clitoris is visible outside the body. There is an internal female erectile network, all comprised of erectile tissue. The clitoral shaft has “legs” that extend and under the outer labia are two big wads of engorgable erogenous tissue called the paired vestibular bulbs. All of this means that a woman’s body is primed for pleasure — if you know what you’re doing.
That’s where the art comes in. Dr. Wiley recommends starting out by placing one pillow under your partner’s hips and another under your chest. Her lower back will be more relaxed, and it’ll be easier for her to adjust her knees and legs, allowing for more sensation. Next, spread her vaginal lips using your fingertips to expose her clitoris. Explore the sensitive folds of skin. When she arches her back or moans, slide a finger or two inside her (here you can use a small amount of lube, if necessary). Play with her a bit; then extend your tongue to meet her clitoris — darting it in and out. Press firmly. Lick gently. Throw in some longer, flatter strokes over the length of her vulva, as if you were licking an ice cream cone. Blow lightly across the focus of your attention. Tell her how good she tastes, how much you like licking her. Draw her clitoris gently between your lips and flick it or massage it with your tongue. Rest your chin on your fist, with your pinkie down, and use a finger to put pressure on the bottom of the opening of her vagina to heighten the sensation. Stop. Lick. Kiss. Finger. Repeat. What you're after is a combination of rhythm and intrigue: She can't guess what's, um, coming next — but once it does, she won't want you to stop!
4. Get To Know Her center of gravity
The center of gravity is a dime-sized area of ultra-sensitive erectile-like tissue about two-thirds up a woman’s front vaginal wall that can trigger powerful orgasms when stimulated. The center of gravity can be difficult for men (and women) to find, especially when she’s not turned on. But when this erogenous zone is aroused, it hardens, gets rougher, and doubles in size, making it easier to locate.
You can stimulate her center of gravity by inserting a lubricated finger or two and gently stroking it or with your penis during rear-entry intercourse. Another good position is to get her on top of you and have her lean back slightly, sliding up and down with slow, steady strokes. Or slide your fingers inside her during MouthAction to stimulate both her center of gravity and clitoris for a mind-blowing orgasm.
5. Sync Up
A skilled lover plugs into a woman’s breath and her pelvic thrusts to follow her lead. Listen to her vocalizations because there may be a pattern — and you can match your movements to that rhythm. Rather than the old in-and-out, try rotating your hips: It’ll make for a different kind of clitoral stimulation, and the absence of thrusting will help you last longer.
6. Try Some Toys
intimacy gadgets are fun! They add excitement and variety, expanding your sexual repertoire. Plus, they can be great erotic tools that help get her orgasm while taking some of the pressure off your own performance. Use a vibrator to stimulate her, or hold, caress, and watch her as she uses it on herself. Relax, keep your sense of humor, and enjoy the results. Don't try to do it perfectly, just do it! Remember, erotic toys are a way for grown-ups to play. Using props adds extra zing to sex, and also deepens the sense of trust and intimacy between lovers.
7. Add Some Spice
The key to an exciting sex life is novelty: We all crave new and different experiences. Start small if she’s skittish. Take sex out of the bedroom and start pre-intimacy someplace new, whether that’s your kitchen or your car (don’t get caught!). Be spontaneous and try a quickie. Talk about your fantasies. If you’re worried about rejection, try making it into a game: Divide 10 index cards between the two of you and each write down five sexual fantasies . Put them into three piles: “yes,” “maybe someday,” and “not on your life.” Save the possibilities and choose one to try once a month or so.
8. Make It A Habit
“Female sexual desire is especially connected to being relaxed and having fun,” explains Dr. Wiley. “As a therapist, I favor action, not introspection. Identify what you want your relationship to look like, then list the actions you can take to get there, such as having dinner out once a week, sex on the calendar, or playing tennis or golf together.” Putting sex on your calendar like any other appointment might seem anything but erotic. Yet it often works because, especially for women, desire doesn’t always come before arousal. In other words, she may heat up once things get started. And don’t be afraid to ask for help. If her libido doesn’t match yours — or vice versa — seeing a qualified sex therapist can benefit you both.

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Romance / 45 Best Sex Position by slayminder(m): 5:23pm On Jul 26, 2017
I will not be explaining them, u can click on source to read more
1)The cat 2)water fall 3)the cowgirl 4)one up 5) the hot sit 6) spin cycle 7) stairway to heaven cool reverse cowgirl 9)pole position 10) face off 11) lazy man 12) David Copperfield 13) lazy girl 14) close for business 15) the pretzel 16) the G-whiz 17) the doggy style 18) the downward doggy 19) butter churner 20) get a leg up
check the link below for the remaining and the benefit and picture

source: http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/45-sex-positions-guys-should-know
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