Bobugee:



Your words pierced my heart. Please, can you be my mentor? I need some one to speak in to my life.

Please?

Did I just blush ? I feel honored. Do me a PM. Thanks for making my morning.

fabulousfortune:
Okay

Funny you . Yes, that's all

ItsAnderson:
Might be fake

amicable09:

Lolz. Shuga we have suffered a lot in the hands of some unscrupulous men from your place o. Sometimes I think your men deliberately marry our women to punish them for the wars our fathers fought over land with your forefathers History has it that they were brothers. But that was in the past Na.

Wait!! Are you an AkwaIbomite? Abiriban? The only major war I was meant to understand that caused so much chaos was with the Ibomites. Funnily, I find it difficult telling the few I've known where I come from (I leave it at Abia State) as it still stirs up hatred with heated argument.. 'See me see hatred for wetin I no sabi ..'

Right now, I see no reason why it should be so. I attended a burial in my final year in Ohafia from school. I didn't tell my dad before embarking on that journey. Drove with friends to the place. Do you know that it was while we were driving into the babe's compound my dad called, when I told him where I was, he felt threatened. Lol. If he was in the village then, he would have come for me there and then. He kept calling until we left.

Trivial issues like this are extended into marriages. I think with the age we are in, walls are being pulled down. You travel out and meet yourselves, there's no talk about the communal clashes. Even though I recently met one calabar boy and the first thing that came to my mind as I teased him was that his people destroyed our farmlands and he accused us of always crossing boundaries. Lol

We are funny in Africa

amicable09:

Lol. You know your people well

We have their handbook in my community. You people have showed us shege so much that old women draw the ears of young ladies to warn them of Ohafia men.

I fear your men even though I have some cool headed friends who are exceptions from the 'norm'.

Hahahaha @ handbook. Let me catch you, Amy . My darling, I do. Thing is, yes, I have dated a few BUT I always confessed with my mouth that marrying from my place maybe a herculean task. When I met R, and things turned yet sour again, I jejely told myself, 'Nne, this is the LAST!!'

Parents (Ohafians) ain't helping us on the other hand. All in a bid to make themselves (not even us) happy, they preach how coming back home to marry still remains the best, and lots, just to make their parents happy end up in marriages they ain't cool with. This was my last argument with my dad, and he truly had to see reasons with me though it wasn't easy convincing him . This isn't the stone age biko. Parents in general should LEARN to allow kids make their CHOICES as they will be the ones to live with their success or mistakes..

Lastly, I'm happy you still have the exceptional ones. I try not to judge ALL with the mistake/life choice of another.

Vivly:
Sleekyshuga come o. I can bet my balls that the guy is from Ohafia. Those dudes like to play away match and still come back to look for an Ohafian to settle with

My dear, I'm not surprised. Nothing surprises me anymore as long as relationship is involved. What I still don't understand is how these set of humans still sleep, and wake up ..

True at Ohafians playing away match, and coming back to pledge allegiance, all in a bid to please parents.. Phewwwww!!!

PaperLace:
When my inlaws came to collect traditional marriage list, after we gave them our list _they gave us theirs. They said their son is not cheap. My dad shock !

We thought it was small something.
As we opened it, it was actually neatly typed and sealed.
Naso we see 1big male goat, 1 big bowl of fufu, kegs of palmwine. They kept on emphasising on the BIG.

LMAO . Hope you guys still make jokes with it?

On a second thought, how far? Your papa buy the items ?

Truckpusher:
I ain't paying nothing. Coman beat me ayamu in my house .

Where is karchisbarbie ?

Hahahahahaha.. Yeye!!

She is in her house .. Goan find her .

Truckpusher:
Jesu Christi le !! After you dun collect back and front money ,you carry me go see that your uncle wey dey talk saliva dey jump out from him mouth ? you come here say you never marry ?


I wee kee you today

Truck, lemme oo .. Goan pay complete. You still dey owe 'marching ground fee.'

jaksmillioniar:
God bless u bro I tink u are right sleekyshuga u are married let here wat u tink

I'm not married yet bro

MidasTouche01:



You are welcome...

You don't happen to have any leftover cake in your fridge, do you?

**In Tekno's voice** Na me get Shoprite . Go to any of their branch and pick up a cake. Send the bill over.