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Really don't know when I would be bold enough to do this...

No job at my age(quote: don't tell me to go learn a skill cos na money go still end am ,at least I need to have funds no matter how small before I learn a skill)

Bro me self wan work from home oo

If possible seriously ...link me please

Just be strong darling, sometimes we are saved spiritually by God which affects us physically...i believe there is a reason this happened but let me ask

Don't you know his intentions during the 5 years of dating?

Lastly age doesn't really matter when it comes to getting the happiness, sincere love you deserved,your man is coming and remember don't do anything stupid okay...love u (encouraging you)

That heart of yours deserves better ...it his lost

I am so sorry to say these ..

Why is it difficult for most people to read before saying rubbish?

The OP said the wife is working for crying out loud,she is working,we all know things are difficult,so the man should kill himself?

What is the wife doing with her salary?

Where is the support system in marriage?

We should learn to manage ,they are some men who does not have a job with family of 5 ..no noise no abuse because there is what we call understanding in marriage...marry ur friend or better still marry who understands you

Marriage this days dey fear man

Well my gf of 2 years left me for a friend of mine (he is in Dubai we both met him online), simply cos he promised her marriage that I am not good for her cos I lost my job during covid 19...


Not up to 3 months she left she is back begging and crying that I should forgive her,failed marriage online proposal gone wrong....


She lost me ( genuine love) and lost her online proposer


Na to make money and pray for success that's all a guy needs now

Relationships and marriage hmmm

Do you know that most of us don't actually know what we have till loose them?y cos we think they are not our type (impatient)

Do you know that most of us don't build relationships,instead we let what we are looking for deceive us into what what we have already?beside us

Selfishness and self centeredness, comparisons,lack of trust,miss communication communication and desperation ...we keep blaming our partners he or she is that and that without looking for solution INSTEAD we wanna quite the relationship thinking the next one will be perfect and bed of roses without considering where the next partner is coming or what they have been through in their previous relationship

What do we want?

Personally I have experienced betrayal from a close friend and a gal I thought was mine ,all the name marriage promise you left a guy u dated for 2 years, now tell me how is that going to be a successful marriage?


This generation needs alot before we can go back to the days of our forefathers when love is pure and natural

I am same age (30) with you bro though I studied mass communication at a polytechnic in delta state.

Loosing a substantial job of 80k that I thought was something before the pandemic (only worked for 2 months) then the pandemic came,now I haven't been able to get a job of 30k( I don't have nothing in my account balance) why am I saying this...bro you have 2 million naira (don't put ur mind there while u plane on the tech path).. thing's are difficult in this country,if you ask most people no one is happy at what they do not to talk of us who don't have anything

You are not old enough to change carrier path.. just keep pushing

I keep fighting and hoping to get something at my age ( I wanna learn ,do other things but it all requires money)

Gos help us

I will follow you

To join a naughty WhatsApp group (strictly matured mind) WhatsApp me on 08079321092

[quote author=cherryCola post=110596597]Same reason I go around with stun shirt and
slippers, despite all the money in my wallet.

Abeg share small give me or teach me how to catch fish bruh

After nysc na case o

[quote author=scotz101 post=108203458]I believe it starts with self investment. Learn skills that can earn you some extra money[/quote


Not a bad idea..it all requires money

NaijaOlosho:
Creative writers needed pls drop your WhatsApp lets work

08079321092

scotz101:
The 3 reasons why YOU are always broke


1. You're saving money instead of investing.

Saving money doesn't make anyone rich, in short the only people who get rich from your savings are the banks.

This is why they charge you for pulling money out and also charge you for saving with them.

The right thing to do is invest. When you have little money, invest in yourself. Take courses and programs that will boost your skills, knowledge and mental prowess.

Education never stops.

When you have a lot of money invest in opportunities as well such as cryptocurrency, stocks and bonds.

Real estate is a surefire way to go. But always start with self investment.

2.You buy liabilities instead of assets.

In Ibadan where I stay a lot of people spend money partying. It's the culture.

People spend money on clothes, shoes and different stuff that they don't really need.

To achieve a life of financial freedom some part of your money should be spent on buying assets instead of liabilities.

Assets are what will fund your dreams. Liabilities make you feel good but they do not in any way contribute to your dreams.

Make it a habit to spend more on assets.


3. You have only one source of Income

This is the biggest reason why most people are broke.

They rely on only one source of money and when that source dries up they already in deep problem.

It is said that the average millionaire has about 7 streams of income. While this isn't true for everyone,

Most millionaires will have between 3 to 5.

If you want to have financial freedom, learn to develop other sources of income.

No job how can I save?

The hustle we do,we use it to feed

After so many years after graduating,so many interviews gone and nothing comes out

U want to learn a trade,or programing with wat Money?

Nice write up bro,but not for now till I get there

Hanibbal:
But lots of 30yr old and over 30 that are marrying are marrying any available men not the men they would have choosen in their prime.

When the desirable is not available the available becomes desirable. Many women of that age marry one who is ready not whom they love. Even at that age a lady has to start making compromises and start swallowing her pride.

Exactly what am going through at the moment bro,my gal of 2 years all of a sudden Is desperate to get married telling me she can't wait anymore


Guess what bro,she wants to do so to our friend who Is in Dubai hustling,we both haven't seen him in our life ...we met online

I never chop once in a day self,work no dey even after school,I go come dey think of marriage

NwaAmaikpe:



Because I don't believe he did not know who his passengers were, I'd say he apparently died because he was stupid.

He was helping thieves escape and had the boldness to stop the journey to ask why their getaway vehicle was being rammed by their pursuers.

Even if he didn't know who they were, I still believe he died because he was stupid.
A wiser person would have sensed the urge to flee on his passengers or noticed the uproar around them.

If he was one of dem,he would have ran with Dem...

Kingcalls:
Women don't have conscience....they are never considerate and are the most selfish beings on earth

I second this bro


Presently passing through a similar stuff

Will share to NAIRALAND wen am ready

No be lie ..