₦airaland Forum

Hmmm, He that feels it knows it. Every one has spoken and has spoken well. I am this kind of guy that try to be friendly with my exs' even if the reason we went our separate ways was as a result of their faults.Am not a perfect person too.

It happened that after her disappearance, she came back feeling sorry abt her actions. She messed up real good. She took my preg. to live with another guy after our misunderstanding. Gave birth to a baby girl, unknown to me cuz I could not trace her whereabouts and she never contacted me or any of my family. Her close friend and her mum will not tell me her whereabouts when I went looking for her.

When she lost the baby before her first birthday she came looking for me to confess and free her conscience. I 4gave her. I have relocated since then. But she is constantly calling me to the extent that I have to let my fiancee into the whole story.

She was hell bent on seeing me, proclaiming love and all dat. Recently she came to a neighboring state and ask if she could visit me for an important discussion. I agreed. She came and one thing led to another and I must point out I was careful. The moment she refused condom I resorted to withdrawal, but she encouraged that I go all d way.

I never failed to tell her about my fiancee and my forthcoming wedding. see why am confused abt her intentions and I don't even know how to let my fiancee into this

Marriage is simply fucking legalised. Gone are the days when marriage is considered glorious and beautiful. Pls tell me what new things u do when u get married that u haven't done with each other b4 marriage. Marriage is just formality and nothing more

It's such a dicey situation,do not blame me too much. It's a long story, this same lady has my baby when we were dating. I was just fresh out of school then and mum doesn't help the situation then. This lady went into thin air after we had a misunderstanding over terminating the preg. cuz of the tight family and financial situation then

I looked for her months after that and I could not locate her. That was when I got in another relationship with the lady I am about marrying now. I got a call from a strange number yrs after and she was the one. The first thing I wanted to know was what she did with the preg. Infact u wouldn't want to know her reaction

She knew am getting married and now she is telling me she is pregnant. See gbege o

Some pple are just so addicted to watching home videos that they hardly can tell when an occurence is real and painful. The lady in question is my cousin.We grew up together.
She came to tell me and I felt for her. Her mum is now asking her for giveness and she is not sure if she could ever forgive her. It is the advise she seeks.
So if nollywood has done so much damage to ur senses and reasoning facaulties, pls just skip this post and get going
I don't know why I will want to impress any one with cooked up stories, as if I do not have a job.

Her life has been an embodiment of pains, hardship and insults. She got married and never had an issue for close to 8 yrs now. Circumstances surrounding her birth has been that of controversy. The man her mother said is her father vehemently rejected her and warned his families never to have any thing to do with the girl because he is not her father as claimed by her mother. The mother has continuously maintained that the man is her father. The woman has spoken and so the whole family believed her beacause it's the woman that usually knows the paternity of a child.

Hardship and problems that besieged the innocent lady in her matrimony and her life generally has driven her to the houses of alfas, pastors, wali etc seeking for solutions. All has told her that there is nothing wrong with her and gynaecologists has also told her there is nothing wrong with her medically.

Someone recently revealed to her that she should go and ask her mother to tell her about a secrete that exists btn her and her father. She did and the mother denied vehemently.Reporting back to the man of God what the mum said, the man of God gave her prayers and fasting to do.

The secret got revealed to her from her childhood friend who finally summoned courage after 15 yrs to tell her about who the villagers said her real father was. she was tongue tied and devastated at the startling revelation. She conjured the picture 0f this man in her heart and for the first time in her life she saw her image, a carbon copy of the man that was just mentioned to be her father.

She hits the road to her mum's place. 'I am here on a fact finding mission and I want you to tell me nothing but the truth or else, ' The mother was bewildered and said I will tell you anything u wants to know. Who is Lagbaja to u? she asked and she said they used to be school mate and that was how their frienship started.She said that she and Lagbaja will always go to school 2geda and closed 2geda. Both of them will visits each others home and eat 2geda as friends. She said one day Lagbaja invited her to his house and that was hw he slept with her. She said she was not happy with that cuz it was not with her consent, She claimed. She started avoiding the guy since then because she has another guy in her liife. Months rolled by and pregnancy became visible. The lady named the other guy in her life as responsible for the pregnancy. It was this man who denied being responsible for the preg.

The daughter now asked the mother if she still sees Lagbaja after she was born and she said yes, but she kept avoiding him and that she never speaks to him again after that incident.

Meanwhile Lagbaja has made efforts at letting who cares to know that that little girl belongs to him. He got drunk one day and went to see the elder sister of the supposed mother of his child to tell her that her younger sister is carrying his daughter. But it was dismissed as a drunkard's claims. He did not stopped at that, as he went ahead to inform his mum of the incident and even his wife when he eventually got married. It was said that Lagbaja felt cheated and will always said, that 'whether he is alive or not that someday something will leads his daughter to come looking for him' .Unfortunately Lagbaja is no more but his mother and his wife are still alive.

Investigation done at the village has confirmed that Lagbaja is the true father of the innocent child who has come of age.
The mother is now asking her for forgiveness . Pls ur candid advise nairalanders.

A proof that most pple do not just see why they should read the holy books and understand it teachings untill some body else spoon feed them.That is why lots of pple got misled.
Its a shame that learned pple behave like they are stark illiterate

May Almighty Allah forgive u your shortcomings and make the grave  a place of comfort for you and grant u Aljanah Firdaus. Ameeeeen

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The Holy Quran is an all encompassing book that addresses not only the act of worship, the way of life but also security and protection of humanity by proffering solutions to spiritual problems that may go beyond the understanding of an average individuals.

I do not know it all, and I believe some people has a better understanding of issues than others.

A young lady that had a dream in the course of the night that an abortion was carried out on her signifies what ?
The same individual saw herself bleeding so intensely that she woke up to a nagging stomach pains.

Pls help,if any body here can understand these and possibly proffer solution.

She had D& C , she bled lightly for weeks.The bleeding has since stopped but for over 3 months now her flow has stopped altogether.
Pls advise as this has become worrisome.

She is still living in the husband's house.They both quarrel over sex nowadays as fear and guilt has wrecked her.

She is been married for a while now without child.The relationship get heated up from time to time and she was considering opting out.She met a man who showed interest in her.She got pregnant the very first time she laid with him.she told the guy about it and he accepted it.He is now looking for a comfortable accommodation.However,the husband got suspicious and took her for a scan.He found out she is preg. and was excited.

He has informed his mum and other family member abt his joy.The lady is now confused on what to do.She doesn't want to have an abortion.

Kpafuka u will say.Pls advise her.

Thanks to the NHIS who has made this possible through the help of HMOS of which Healthstone HMO is a major player.Healthstone HMO Ltd has aggressively embarked on sensitization programmes to create awareness about the scheme to corp members,they no longer have to spend their meagre allowee on hospital bills.

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Thanks pals, there has been a reasonable improvement.

AFTER D& C SHE STILL EXPERIENCE BLOOD DROPS EVERYDAY.PLS WAT MIGHT BE CAUSING DIS.IT WAS 3 MONTHS PREG.

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amyliajane,

Ehen, wat abt dat.Are u telling me there is no WC in ur office ?.
u only need to be careful not to splash water all over ur clothes.

and besides do u wear G Strings ?

Water remains the best thing to use after visiting the gents.It leaves ur ass- hole spick n span.Unlike tissue paper where u are not guaranteed a total clean up of the hole, cuz remnants will always remain which dries up later and starts falling off like a dry chaff when the bum bum rubs off on each other in the process of movt. .

It will always emit odour.Note when after a long activities during the day and u gets home and pull off ur undies,it will ooze out hummm .

Ladies dat use caterpault, I mean G- string pants dat goes right inside the anus, let them observe it after they pull it off; shit stain  

Dirty dirty .Pls use water oooooooooo

onehouse,u are not far from the truth.
Thanks for ur candid advise

Secrets,she 's done dat many times before,dat was y I was angry this time arround.I was not just gonna start pleading with her cuz am not ready for any emotional stress right now which I told her.She is asking how we will see.

' said I should hve called to ask her y she sent such texts and n dat my failure to do dat means I was just waiting for her to mention it so I can capitalise on it.

I tire ooooooooo

Secretz, u realy got wat d situation was like.After I got her text I just kept to myself, did not called or flash or text. just now my phone rang and It was her asking y I haven't called.She is driving me nuts,got pissed off