You very correct. Many are chasing after the wind and are not ready for the reality that follows

Divoc19:
Commitment is underated most times.

Lust is mistaken for Love most times.

Desperation is disguised as opportunity.

When all these things Clear/Phase Out,
Reality becomes a monster

Tread carefully young ones

Lol

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Start to de SMOKE WEED...



amabobi u go de alright...



u no go even de REASON BANIS again..



try de BLA like 4 or 5 WEED per day since u never too sabi... dat way ur EYES go de close Everytime...


u EYES go de b like pesin wey sleep de CATCH




WTF MAN

Lol... You right bruhhh!

yuping:
with all this DNA wahala stick to what hmmm our parent to engage in what they want other to see them doing, they we're very plain and honest to the core. One Shawama fit scatter relationship you have been building for years.
Anyone that don't want to be come along should be push away.

Thank you

Debest4u:
Good

So many guys look for the wrong signs in a babe and that's why they keep getting the wrong woman.

Choosing a life partner is big choice that can affect your destiny in unexplainable ways.

Hence the reason there has to be depth to making a choice beyond how hot she look, how thick she is, how slim she is, how pretty and all that.

In a world full of uncertainties, betrayal, pretence and fake love... How do you know she's the one?

Here are 15 Green Flags that your babe should exhibit that shows you she's a "forever person" material.

PS: Notice I said a "Forever person" material and not a wife material.

1. She has a great relationship with her parents

�� She truly respect her parents and she's obedient to them.
�� She honours the concept of family.
�� She helps at home with chores.

2. She's interested in the real you and not what you have or don't have.

3. She's positive and have a way of helping you see the positive side to things.

4. She makes you laugh... Especially on days you feel down.

5. She is more interested in your goals and vision than SEX and MONEY.

6. She doesn't play stupid mind games

she's a grown ass adult who's clear about why she's in a relationship with you. She doesn't trigger you to be jealous intentionally, mess around with your emotions and all.

She seeks a leader and for you to end up as her husband not as her mere fuckboy or cash cow that's kinda like the synonym for boyfriend these days.

7. She'll stick around when things aren't pretty.

Long term potential means long term commitment.

She loves, respect and sees you as her man especially when the cards are down.

She doesn't jump ship when business is bad, you can't afford the lavish gifts and lifestyle, you gat health issues or you lost your job etc.

8. She has the attitude of a true partner.
She supports you in your decisions, but doesn’t try to take over and CONTROL you.

“She’s the cheerleader, not the coach”.

9. She's capable of healthy disagreements
She ain't the type you'd have a slight disagreement with, the next thing you be hearing is "I'm breaking up with you".

10. She's physically affectionate

I'm not talking about sex but stuff like hugging you, holding hands in public, playing with your hair, beards, patting you on the back etc.

11. Despises drama and gossips.

12. She has goals that are aligned with yours.

13. She's politically and spiritually aligned with you

14. She spends her money on you.

The hallmark of a 9ja babe love for you is spending her money on you.

She ain't the only one receiving. She doesn't wait for special occasions to give you gifts. She's a giver... Always planning surprises for you, take you out, plan dates etc.

15. She's financially independent.

She makes her own money. She doesn't put her whole financial burden on you all in the name of being her partner.

She's is more about you both growing wealth together rather than lavishing it.

She's not a member of the Beggi Beggi Ministry, Give me money by fire by force Int'l �, look at your mate ministry and if you can't give me.... You're not man enough Ministry.

You have a babe that show these signs? Don't mess around with her or be unfaithful her. She's a Keeper and I wish you both a happy home.

Victor Adebiyi

Lmao

Jamesbond19:
virgin ko.olosho ni.what i am i typing sef.

Can you just swear to yourself to stay focused and not even consider leaving your partner irrespective of the good and bad times the relationship is gonna face?

Hey... This is the REAL Commitment.

Commitment will test you.

And most people will certainly fail the test.

Why?

�� You want the Glory but never the Pain that comes with it.

Most of our parents marriage still standing rock firm ain't all that sweet sweet experience... There are the Bitter Sweet... Sweet Bitter... Bitter Bitter days.

But their COMMITMENT to each other saw them through the dark, gloomy and rainy days.

If you lack the virtue of Commitment... No matter how perfect the new relationship seem you'll surely find a fault to leave to move on to the next.

Commitment puts your gear In Park and not in Drive... then Pulls up the Handbrake.

If you in a relationship and your gear is always in Drive.

You lack the virtue of commitment.

How do you develop this virtue?
�� It comes by choice.
Choose to be focused no matter how you feel, what you see or what you hear.

It's that simple.

Thank you

Godada:


Interesting.

Who no like better thing. But better thing for the wrong reason dey purge belle

Havesomesense:
Make up sex is very passionate. I like it.

Thank you

Polynek:
Nice write-up

Lol... Sex shouldn't be used wrongly

Dollarremix:
With dis hardship,na advice on how to stop makeup sex you fine.you are not serious.

Thank you

bukky1994:
Nice piece

Conflicts are bound to happen in every healthy relationship. And your choice of action when they occur can either come off as Green Flag or Red flag or Yellow Flag.

Before the whole "I'm tired of you... You nag a lot blah blah blah" then you start exchanging words. And in the blink of an eye, you've grabbed her neck, pinned her to the wall and you've started kissing furiously... Before we say "Jack", you both are naked having a steamy hot sex... Infact it was so rough that you enjoyed it in weird ways.

I'd like you to know that what seem like a supposedly harmless action can be detrimental to the health of the relationship in the long run. B'cos...

issues you refuse to iron out would always come back to hunt you.

In a relationship/marriage, you don't wish issues away you deal with them. That's only how they go away for good or when they resurface they tend to do insignificant damages.

You might be the type of partner that loves avoiding issues at all cost or pretend that it didn't happen or you the type that enjoys conflict whichever one you are, using make up sex to practice what I call "Sweeping issues under the rug syndrome" would eventually hurt you.

I know you like sex. This fine. It shows you're human. But sex used wrongly can turn from a Green flag to a Yellow flag then to a Red flag.

Alright for those reading my post for the first time I'd briefly explain the flags.

Red flags are actions or behaviours that are negative and violate trust e.g. Lying.

Yellow flags are actions or behaviours that highlight your differences from your partner that can be an issue in the long run e.g. Differences in interest/preferences.

Green flags are actions or behaviours that are positive and means you can proceed with the relationship e.g. You can be yourself around your partner, empathy.

Lol... Some people are of the opinion that after the sex, both couples will discuss the issue and iron it out.

But sadly it doesn't play out like this most times. After the sex your brain forgets the issue and it's basking in the euphoria of what just happened. The issue that brought about the sex would most likely not cross you both minds.

Hence using make up sex to deal with issues ain't the best way to go. So let's look at the alternatives to handling conflicts other than using make up sex.

The Alternatives include:

�� Be always ready to have those tough conversions by dealing with issues as they come

Most times it ain't that small quarrel that break up the relationship rather it's the bottled up quarrels you shy away from talking about. You keep bottling them up by sweeping it under the rug. Here you are hurting and you just a walking bomb waiting to explode.In order to prevent this, deal with issues as they occur.

�� Developed a habit of not letting any issue exceed a duration of 24 hours.

�� Practice active listening. Be opened to allowing your partner vent in a healthy way. Stop invalidating your partner's feelings by Gaslighting or downplaying how much it hurt them.

�� Be ready to take responsibility, make changes when necessary and provide clarity when needed. There would be less sweeping issues under the rug incidents if your partner feels heard and understood.

So next time a negative situation or issue arises and you’re tempted to sweep it under the rug using make up sex, stop!

Don’t brush it under the rug where it’s stays hidden and accumulates into a bigger problem. Brush it into the trash and then take the trash out. �

So using hot sex to manipulate your partner inorder not to take responsibility or to avoid dealing with issues is obviously a RED FLAG.

Lol

siofra:
Please I'm a virgin. I don't understand this stuff you're writing

Exactly bruhhh

Vinnie2000:


OP, dat ur Number 3 is Correct Sha!

It's when the Gbola is Erect dat we can truly Judge its Length and Firmness!

An average Nigerian man is mostly insecured about his bedroom performance and dick size.

The kind of bitter concotion some guys drink just to last 100 hours is dreadful to behold. Some take tramadol, Viagra, Agbo Jebi, Hausa Bazooka and all sort.

All in a bid to be called Beastilo in bed. And to protect their ego. Ain't surprising when you hear stuff like "He died when performing marathon sex". Aside underlying health issues, most of these concotions and drugs are responsible for it.

Aside men issues, I've also observed that so many ladies are misinformed about stuff like a man's bedroom prowess and dick size.

I'd be focusing on dick size myths for tonight.

Before we dive deeper, lemme share a story a roommate of mine shared with me...

He was like there's this babe he was seeing. He said the babe was telling him why she broke up with her previous boyfriend. She was like she peeped on him while he was showering and discovered he had a small dick.

Lol... She broke up with him b'cos of that. She was looking for a machine gun not a toy gun.

I have no right to judge her choice but do you know that she could have been wrong about his real size?

Also, there's this common believe that so many ladies are looking for HORSeS wearing trousers �.

But do you know that you could also be wrong about this?

Furthermore, there is this wrong believe that only big dicks can give orgasm

Do you know that this totally false?
Alright not to put you in suspense, let's look at common myths about dick size.

Myth 1.
The average penis is at least 7 inches long when erect.

According to Paul Turek , MD, FACS, the worldwide average penis length is 5.2 inches, and about 90% of men fall within an inch of this average on either side.

So if you the type expecting a IndecentStar size please read the above scientific fact again.Also, there's this common believe that so many ladies are looking for HORSeS wearing trousers �.

But do you know that you could also be wrong about this?

Furthermore, there is this wrong believe that only big dicks can give orgasm

Do you know that this totally false?

Also, there's this common believe that so many ladies are looking for HORSeS wearing trousers �.

But do you know that you could also be wrong about this?

Furthermore, there is this wrong believe that only big dicks can give orgasm

Do you know that this totally false?

A normal dick size when erected should be at least 5.2 inches.

So this whole 7 inches pressure so many men subject themselves to shouldn't be. So many men in bid to get bigger size settle for Penis Enlargement Creams. And these things are detrimental to your health in the long run.

Back to the lady, why I said she was wrong was because she can only call his dick small if when it was erected it was below 5.2 inches. Take note of the keyword "ERECTED".

Myth 2.
You can't satisfy your partner unless you have a large penis.

Studies have found that most women are indifferent to penis size, as clitoral stimulation and pre-intimacy are considered more important.

Read the study here
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12429149/

It ain't about pounding someone's daughter like yam that gets the work done.

Most women orgasm more from clitoral stimulation than penetrative sex

Hey... Remember the dwarf from Game of Thrones. One of the lady was like he got a small penis but he's good with his tongue.

Myth 3.
If you're small when you're soft, you'll be small when you're hard.

The truth is that most men real size can be known only when erected.

So if you the type that go to the pool to check out men sizes that's a biased way to find out.

B'cos his dick when he's swimming or not erected is in a flaccid state and that ain't his real size.

Myth 4.
The ideal penis is absolutely straight.

joysticks come in different shapes and sizes, and that's fine.

Some can be as curved as Banana... Some can be as straight as cucumber.

Some can bend upwards, downwards or sideways and this perfectly normal.

Myth 5.
Your shoe size is indicative of your penis size.

My dear, there is no correlation between a man's shoe size and his penis size.

You'll be disappointed if you assumed that b'cos he's using a size 45 shoe his dick gonna be like 8 inches.

Penis size is determined by a combination of genetics and environmental factors, mostly in utero.

Myth 6.
You can take pills, herbs or use pumps to increase your penis size.

The only thing that can increase your penis size is surgery, and that's what Pornstars do.

Take note of this before you go about wasting money to get pills, herbs and enlargement creams.

Myth 7.
Every girl wants the big dick

I've spoken with some of my female friends about this and most are scared of big dicks b'cos it hurts them.

They'll prefer the average dick. That's what they desire to have their womb shifted.

So I hope this allay your fears and worries about your dick size.

If she's a virgin like she was probably caught her off guard by the sudden kissing and smooching. And she wasn't just comfortable with the whole thing. Reaching out to her is great but in this case a friend that's close to her will be helpful in getting across to her. The friend would help you break the icy emotions from her end and help you put in a good word. Then you can talk to her and win her trust back.

DominionGreat:
I will be brief and precise as possible.


So there is this girl I want to marry. Though we met not too long and from all our conversations she seem to be the one for me..
I traveled for Christmas to my state and she happens to be living there.. she came to visit me and as I was about seeing her off I requested for a hug which later resulted in deep kissing and small caressing which she begged me to stop and I did and after seeing her off she doesn't take my calls, nor reply my messages.. I have been apologizing she won't even say a word to me.. Truth is she is very angry cos she said she is a virgin and doesn't want any of that till marriage.


Now I am confused. Pls what do I do?
Please I need any advice I can get cos I truly love this lady and I have been restless ever since..

Thank you

Lala pls do the needful biko

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What a waste! It's utterly disheartening...

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But no one was buying. No even a single enquiry. It was that bad.

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This how I felt months backs when I launched a tour package. Everything was awesome about it: the price, benefits and discounts.

But no one was buying. No even a single enquiry. It was that bad.

A month after launch, still no sales.

"There is fire on the mountain," I said while narrating my ordeal to my friend.

I had to go back through what I was selling with the question "where did I miss it? "

After two weeks of research, I came to one conclusion. That what I was selling was just a product and not an offer.

Check this out...

A single product is Eba.

An offer is Eba plus egusi soup with stockfish, pomo, goat meat, and a glass of Hollandia Yoghurt to wash it down.

Spot the difference?

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It's an art known to few. An irresistible offer makes your customers beg you to collect their money.

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This how I felt months backs when I launched a tour package. Everything was awesome about it: the price, benefits and discounts.

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"There is fire on the mountain," I said while narrating my ordeal to my friend.

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After two weeks of research, I came to one conclusion. That what I was selling was just a product and not an offer.

Check this out...

A single product is Eba.

An offer is Eba plus egusi soup with stockfish, pomo, goat meat, and a glass of Hollandia Yoghurt to wash it down.

Spot the difference?

This knowledge was the game changer for me. I relaunched the tour package not as a product but as an offer. The next day I got a call from California, USA. A family of 5 was interested and ready to pay for it. The interesting part was that they were chasing me with calls. The offer indeed was juicy.

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Have you ever wondered why your business isn't making sales?

You struggle to make one sale in a week or a month?

You waste your precious resources on generating paid traffic only to record abysmal conversion rates.

What a waste! It's utterly disheartening...

This how I felt months backs when I launched a tour package. Everything was awesome about it: the price, benefits and discounts.

But no one was buying. No even a single enquiry. It was that bad.

A month after launch, still no sales.

"There is fire on the mountain," I said while narrating my ordeal to my friend.

I had to go back through what I was selling with the question "where did I miss it? "

After two weeks of research, I came to one conclusion. That what I was selling was just a product and not an offer.

Check this out...

A single product is Eba.

An offer is Eba plus egusi soup with stockfish, pomo, goat meat, and a glass of Hollandia Yoghurt to wash it down.

Spot the difference?

This knowledge was the game changer for me. I relaunched the tour package not as a product but as an offer. The next day I got a call from California, USA. A family of 5 was interested and ready to pay for it. The interesting part was that they were chasing me with calls. The offer indeed was juicy.

The secret cure to your dwindling conversion rate is an irresistible offer.

It's an art known to few. An irresistible offer makes your customers beg you to collect their money.

These are secrets and proven strategies that professional marketers pay thousands of dollars to learn.

But you're getting it for free!

I and my business partner would be sharing these secrets in an exclusive Irresistible Offer Masterclass.

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Join the Masterclass now https:///2348068017380

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Have you ever wondered why your business isn't making sales?

You struggle to make one sale in a week or a month?

You waste your precious resources on generating paid traffic only to record abysmal conversion rates.

What a waste! It's utterly disheartening...

This how I felt months backs when I launched a tour package. Everything was awesome about it: the price, benefits and discounts.

But no one was buying. No even a single enquiry. It was that bad.

A month after launch, still no sales.

"There is fire on the mountain," I said while narrating my ordeal to my friend.

I had to go back through what I was selling with the question "where did I miss it? "

After two weeks of research, I came to one conclusion. That what I was selling was just a product and not an offer.

Check this out...

A single product is Eba.

An offer is Eba plus egusi soup with stockfish, pomo, goat meat, and a glass of Hollandia Yoghurt to wash it down.

Spot the difference?

This knowledge was the game changer for me. I relaunched the tour package not as a product but as an offer. The next day I got a call from California, USA. A family of 5 was interested and ready to pay for it. The interesting part was that they were chasing me with calls. The offer indeed was juicy.

The secret cure to your dwindling conversion rate is an irresistible offer.

It's an art known to few. An irresistible offer makes your customers beg you to collect their money.

These are secrets and proven strategies that professional marketers pay thousands of dollars to learn.

But you're getting it for free!

I and my business partner would be sharing these secrets in an exclusive Irresistible Offer Masterclass.

Interested in learning more about this?

Join the Masterclass now https:///2348068017380

Limited spaces are available.